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(Message started by: The mad viking on Aug 1st, 2007, 4:39am)

Title: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by The mad viking on Aug 1st, 2007, 4:39am
Bente and me met on september 21 in 1977.
Could need some help with ideas on what to do with my beautiful wife,and yess i am also aware that its on the weekend at the norwegian clustersymposium.

Will apreciate any help here my friends.

And yess i do love her just as much today as i did the very first day we met ;;D ;;D ;;D

Svenn

Title: Re: Ned help with some ideas friends
Post by LeLimey on Aug 1st, 2007, 5:37am
Svenn get her out of the house for a couple of hours and get Tony to knock up some strawberry shortcake and anise biscotti - she'll fall in love with you all over again I promise!

Maybe you could give a short talk on what our supporters mean to us - how they are worth more than any damn medicine and then as your premier supporter give her a bouquet of flowers. Actually - if you do that then that is something I'd love to send some money towards and I'm sure I wouldn't be the only one!

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Aug 1st, 2007, 6:15am
Helen has given you a great idea.  

Congrats on a long and wonderfully loving relationship.

Carol

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by barry_sword on Aug 1st, 2007, 7:16am
Svenn, congrats to you and Bente. That is so sweet. Many more to come.

  Barry

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Mosaicwench on Aug 1st, 2007, 7:58am
What a lovely idea - she'll appreciate anything you do, I'm sure.

My only suggestion is to please NOT revive the fashions of the day you met. . . . it just doesn't work 30 years later.


Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Lotus on Aug 1st, 2007, 9:47am

If my man after 30 years would tell me that he loves me as much then as when we first met, I would be too busy floating around in cloud 9 to worry about what else he was doing  :o  8)  ;;D  :)

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Rosybabe on Aug 1st, 2007, 11:01am
Congratulations Svenn!!!!

Hope you guys have a wonderful day!!  :)

Flowers, dinner at candlelight in a special place, poems, love letter, etc will work I am sure  ;)

                                                    Rosy.

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Edna on Aug 1st, 2007, 12:13pm
WHAT !!!!!!!


You LET Chuck come to visit at the same time as your 30th wedding anniversary ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

I'm appalled.


;)   ;;D   ;)   ;;D   ;)   ;;D



For starters, always know that just to REMEMBER and ACKNOWLEDGE  so goes a LONG way with us women. Not only for anniversaries, but holidays, birthdays.


I think Helen has a wonderful idea; if Bente is to accompany you to the symposium. If not, maybe you could ask her to come and then proceed with Helen's idea.


Now, as for other ideas:

well, first you would have to get rid of the visitors...............lol



No, seriously Svenn. Knowing Bente, and putting myself in her place, I think it would be WONDERFUL  to have her accompany you to the symposium and include Helen's idea. I bet that brings tears to her eyes.

If she can't come for some reason; I think a lovely dinner out for the two of you; ALONG with your guests and my two favorite boys of yours if they would want to tag along would be great. You could still present her with flowers for that too.

Flowers always work.             lol

And, I know, that given if I were in Bente's shoes; I would NOT mind in ANY way sharing my wedding anniversary with such honored guest and what they stand for. After all, she has always been there for you with Ch, so why should just a "date" change the way she would feel about supporting ???        :)


I applaud you for thinking ahead, and wanting to please Bente. She is a wonderful person and deserves that.


Now, if all that doesn't seem enough to celebrate. You can do like Danny and I always do when "dates" don't seem to work out for birthdays or celebration days.

Celebrate with Bente after the guest leave.........LOL



Now, there you go. I've answered your post.      lol

Hope my idea helps, and if not, let me know. Meanwhile, I'll keep the thinking cap on and if anything else comes to me I'll be sure to let you know.


love you,
EDNA

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by The mad viking on Aug 1st, 2007, 12:47pm
NOT NOT WEDDINGDAY EDNA MY FRIEND
its the very first day me and Bente met

Svenn

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by alienspacebabe on Aug 1st, 2007, 1:01pm
Tell her exactly how you feel.

Most women can't hear enough that they're loved.  The little things, the big things.... all of it. Tell her.


Congrats, Svenn, on the upcoming 30th anniversary of the day you met the love of your life!

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Jackie on Aug 1st, 2007, 1:14pm
How long since you've written her a love letter, Svenn?

Women adore hand written love letters....well, I do anyway... :)

CONGRATULATIONS...... :D

Love to you both,
Jackie

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by eddie on Aug 1st, 2007, 1:21pm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_anniversary

Year        British        American      Modern    <<<<<<
30th;      / Pearl      / Pearl           /Amethyst  <<<<<<


i hope you both are always happy in life.

 Congratulations

a thank you & a hug & love you baby is a must.


eddie

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Peppermint on Aug 1st, 2007, 3:06pm

on 08/01/07 at 13:14:39, Jackie wrote:
How long since you've written her a love letter, Svenn?

Women adore hand written love letters....well, I do anyway... :)

CONGRATULATIONS...... :D

Love to you both,
Jackie


For starters, I have to agree with Jackie - there is NOTHING like a love letter to make me blush and feel so.....so..... well...... the women know what i'm  talking about!!  ::)

Additionally -

on 08/01/07 at 13:21:07, eddie wrote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_anniversary

Year         British         American       Modern    <<<<<<
30th;       / Pearl       / Pearl            /Amethyst  <<<<<<

i hope you both are always happy in life.
 Congratulations
a thank you & a hug & love you baby is a must.

eddie


I'd go with the pearls. Beautiful pearls and a loveletter on the day of the symposium after you tell her how much she means to you.

*SIGH* [smiley=heart.gif]

Such a lovely idea you have Svenn,
Pepp  

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Edna on Aug 1st, 2007, 3:42pm
AW, sorry Svenn.


Hell, that changes EVERYTHING.....................



I mean REALLY



isn't Chuck gonna be around????




then you need no more; just show her HIM and tell her...."See what you could have ended up with? Aren't you glad you MET me?"


        ;)  ;)  ;) (lov ya Chuck)



Ideas still the same Svenn, and for the record.........it IS a 30 year anniversary.       :)



EDNA

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by tanner on Aug 1st, 2007, 3:51pm

Tickets to Houston?

just a thought ;).......Tim

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Charlie on Aug 1st, 2007, 10:07pm
Neat anniversary Svenn and believe me, when Bente gets word of this thread, you're half way home...

Make Chuck shell out for a nice dinner. Not sure where to dump him though.  8)

Have some fun Svenn.

Charlie

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Linda_Howell on Aug 1st, 2007, 10:23pm

Promise her in a love letter at the Symposium and with flowers that you will never never ever invite Chuck to your home again.  

   That ought to do it.   ;;D

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by stevegeebe on Aug 1st, 2007, 10:32pm
I've heard that different years are celebrated with different things....Silver, gold, etc.

I don't know what particular item corresponds with the number of years that you guys have been together.

Just fail safe and make a gift of wood.

Steve G


Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by AussieBrian on Aug 2nd, 2007, 2:33am
Thirty years??!!   You don't get that for murder here in Oz!

Title: Re: Need help with some ideas friends
Post by Callico on Aug 3rd, 2007, 1:29am
I think Helen has a great idea.  Letting the people at the symposium know the importance of a good supporter would also speak to the CH side of the relationship without demeaning it.  I think it actually strengthens it.  To many are not willing to stick it out.

Jerry



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