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(Message started by: Sean_C on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:10pm)

Title: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Sean_C on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:10pm
He looked up at me with those big sad eyes tonight and told me he's leaking down there :'( :'( :'(

He wants me to fix it so it doesn't do that :'(

Life sucks and there ain't shit I can do about it.

No replies necessary, I'm just numb and needed to spit something out of my mouth.

Cheers

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:12pm
Sean - I'm so sorry to hear that.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Have you had him back to the hospital or the surgeon that did the original operation on him.

Poor little guy.  Give him a big hug from me.

Carol

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by lionsound on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:15pm
[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by thebbz on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:16pm
Here's a quote that I think would fit for you.
"I have no mouth and I must scream."
Prayers to you and yours
jb

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Sean_C on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:17pm
He's there all the time maa, he was doing great, some small kidney issues, but other than that everything was holding together till today :'(

He went through hell, none of its his fault to begin with, it just sucks :(

:)

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Redd on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:35pm
:'( [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by nani on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:47pm
Fuck.    :'(

[smiley=hug.gif]  for all of you.

love you, nani

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by JenniferD on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:53pm
Sean, I'm so sorry to hear that!

Hugs, prayers and vibes to all of you!


Jen

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by E-Double on Jul 21st, 2007, 9:53pm
http://www.clusterheadaches.com/public_html/yabbimages/smileys/hug.gif

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by BMoneeTheMoneeMan on Jul 21st, 2007, 10:23pm
Big hugs to your family, brother.


Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by chewy on Jul 21st, 2007, 10:32pm
Might be something thay can fix bud. Keep your chin up and get the little guy back in to the Doc.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by TxBasslady on Jul 21st, 2007, 10:36pm
We're pretty close, you and I....guess that's why my heart hurts when I hear your voice and feel the pain and disappointment.

I know I can't fix it.. :'(     All I can do is send you my love.  

I'm here if you need me, sweetie    :-*

My love to you and Barby....

Jean

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by cynjeep89 on Jul 21st, 2007, 11:03pm
Sean,

I'm sure your heart is breaking right now but please try to realize that you are going to one of the best hospitals in the country, you have a strong child and with such wonderful loving parents, he knows you will take good care of him.

I know all of us here will be keeping your son in our thoughts and hearts as usual...there is strength in numbers and we know it works.

You will probably be busy for a while but when you have a chance, drop a line and let us know how he is doing and give the little guy a hug from all of us, k?


Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Jimi on Jul 21st, 2007, 11:43pm
-All I can do from this far away is say a prayer for that little guy and I will. Keep us posted Sean.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 21st, 2007, 11:50pm
Sean:

Prayers and fasting for your little guy.

DonnaHar

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Charlie on Jul 21st, 2007, 11:59pm
http://www.clusterheadaches.com/public_html/yabbimages/smileys/hug.gif

Charlie

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by tanner on Jul 22nd, 2007, 12:14am
Sean

This is Linda Tanner's wife so sorry . I called Tim at work he said to tell you we are sending all our vibes and prayers hang in there Tim will post tomorrow. Love and Prayers Linda and Tim

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Jonny on Jul 22nd, 2007, 12:24am
Oh damn!.......all I have is going out to the little man, bro!!

let me know if theres anything I can do to help you!

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Lenny on Jul 22nd, 2007, 12:26am
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(.....my prayers and thoughts are with you and yours......with much sadness.............Lenny

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Lotus on Jul 22nd, 2007, 1:10am

Our family will be praying for your son and all of you every day.

Lots of love and a great big hug from Australia.


Annette

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jul 22nd, 2007, 2:48am
Aww Sean,
Huge vibes going up to you and your family.
Thinking of ya,
Mast

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by tanner on Jul 22nd, 2007, 4:16am
sean, iam home from my crazy (stupid) world and i am sending all the energy i can your way!!

Love and prayers Bro.......Tim

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by sldrswyfe on Jul 22nd, 2007, 4:30am
Aww Sean...try your best to hang up...that precious child needs to see his daddy strong, unaffected...at least in front of him.

Lots of prayers to your little angel...and to you. :'(

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by The mad viking on Jul 22nd, 2007, 4:33am
:'( [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]


Svenn & Bente

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Jul 22nd, 2007, 5:46am
Sean--keep your head up--never give up hope--I'm sure that the Doctor will know what to do. My prayers will be with you.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by DennisM1045 on Jul 22nd, 2007, 8:02am
I know that watching one of my kids hurt is way worse that my own CH.  Keep doing what you are doing.  Remember that the road is darkest before the dawn begins to break.  Stay strong for him even though you don’t feel it inside.  He needs that strength and faith to cling to.  Keep us posted.  Hugs, vibes and prayers are coming to all of you.

-Dennis-


Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by the_old_man on Jul 22nd, 2007, 8:18am
Sean, I'm so sorry to hear about the setback in your son's surgery.  Like Dennis said, there's no pain greater than that of a parent watching his child suffer.  Stay strong.  It's not his fault, but remember it's not your fault either.  Don't beat yourself up about it.  You may feel helpless but the situation is not hopeless.  Let the drs do their thing, and I'll be praying that everything comes up roses.
The Old Man

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by deltadarlin on Jul 22nd, 2007, 9:48am
All we have is coming to you.

Carolyn and Jimbo

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by ShariRae on Jul 22nd, 2007, 10:01am
Aww Sean I am so sorry to hear this.Hopefully the docs will be able to jump on this & do somethng to get it corrected.You will all be in my prayers.

Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Maffumatt on Jul 22nd, 2007, 10:08am
Oh man Sean, I don't know what to say. You and yours are in my prayers!

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by barry_sword on Jul 22nd, 2007, 10:49am
Prayers and vibes heading your way. Maybe the little guy can catch a break. Be strong for him.

  Barry&Angie

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by George_J on Jul 22nd, 2007, 10:58am
Let us know how things are going when you have the chance, Sean.  

You and your boy are both doing the very best that you can right now, and it sounds as if the doctors are as well.  Sometimes there are setbacks--but children are resilient, and far stronger than we give them credit for.  I'm sure that's the case with your son.

Hoping to hear better news soon.

Best wishes,

George

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Brewcrew on Jul 22nd, 2007, 11:39am

on 07/22/07 at 04:30:57, sldrswyfe wrote:
...that precious child needs to see his daddy strong, unaffected...at least in front of him.

Not all the time. It's important for a little guy to see that it's okay to be afraid sometimes. Courage in the face of adversity isn't about the absence of fear - it's about acknowledging the fear and moving forward anyhow.

Which is a ton more difficult.

Our best to you and your entire family, Sean.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Margi on Jul 22nd, 2007, 3:08pm
Sean, I am so sorry.  Our prayers are with you.

Hugs,
Margi

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by UN solved on Jul 22nd, 2007, 3:19pm
Sorry to hear this Sean. Our prayers are with you.

UNsolved

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Turts on Jul 22nd, 2007, 5:25pm
:'(

sending vibes and prayers for you matey


Turts

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by andrewjb on Jul 22nd, 2007, 6:11pm
:'(. andrew.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by broomhilda on Jul 22nd, 2007, 6:15pm
Hugs, love and tons of prayers headed your way from my family to yours...


Andrea

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Kevin_M on Jul 22nd, 2007, 6:39pm
More thoughts and compassion for Colin.  

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Gator on Jul 22nd, 2007, 6:56pm
Damn, Sean.  I am sorry to hear this. :'(  

Don't give up hope, bro.  Your little guy as well as the rest of you have my deepest hopes and best wishes for this to turn out okay.

[smiley=hug.gif]

Mike

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Melissa on Jul 22nd, 2007, 9:54pm
[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by BlueMeanie on Jul 23rd, 2007, 12:53pm
Sean,

Can't pretend to imagine how you feel. Hang in there bud. Doctors can do some amazing things nowdays. Vibes heading your way.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Sandy_C on Jul 23rd, 2007, 1:35pm
Oh Sean, I don't know what to say.  

I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending everything I've got, prayers, hugs, vibes your way.  

Sandy

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by LadyElaine1 on Jul 23rd, 2007, 1:54pm
I am hoping and praying they can fix it.
Its so hard when our children hurt and we can't fix it.
Children shouldn't have to go through so much. It don't seem right.
:'(

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by rickyshot on Jul 23rd, 2007, 2:36pm
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(I am so sorry.

Keep your faith. My oldest son had 3 real miracles when he was baby and very young. I have been there and where there is life there is really hope.

You have my prayers and ear.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Jackie on Jul 23rd, 2007, 5:14pm
Saying my prayers for you all, Sean.....
Positive thoughts and holding you close in my heart....

Love to you all,   [smiley=hug.gif]
Jackie

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Rosybabe on Jul 24th, 2007, 12:49pm
There is nothing that could make me more sad than knowing a little one is suffering  :'(. My most fervorous prayers go out for you little boy. May our sweet mother Mary hold his hand and the doctors will fix what has to be fix.

                 Love.
                                 Rosy.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by alienspacebabe on Jul 24th, 2007, 1:04pm
All the healing and fix-it vibes I have are on their way....

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by fubar on Jul 24th, 2007, 1:15pm
I wish I knew what to say... I am sad.  It's a long hard road, this life.  Somehow we do it anyway.  I've had a particularly hard month, and it wears a person down.  I wonder sometimes if I'll ever feel better.  Grief sucks.  :-[

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by alchemy on Jul 24th, 2007, 2:20pm
Sean my brother keep the faith, were sending all the vibes we got. [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by aprilbee on Jul 24th, 2007, 3:43pm
I've been away for a little while and I'm sorry for the slow response...but all my thoughts and prayers are headed your family's way... :-*

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by MR_FLOOR on Jul 24th, 2007, 4:28pm
One thing I know for sure is you have to be strong for your son,they look to you for reassurance if you look like everything OK so will he.Good luck bud LMK if theres anything my family or I can do to help.




Dave

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Sean_C on Jul 24th, 2007, 10:51pm
We went to Childrens and they did all kinds of tests on Colin and its a wait and see game for the time being. The doc didn't feel any immediate surgery was eminent, but wants us to follow up weekly. Thank you so much for the prayers and love to my family.

From all of my family, we love you all :)

Sean........................................


Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Jimi on Jul 24th, 2007, 11:06pm
So far, so good. Hang in there Sean.

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by George_J on Jul 24th, 2007, 11:43pm
One day at a time, Sean.  Hope the next few weeks brings more encouraging news.  

All the best from all of us.

George

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Bethany1 on Jul 25th, 2007, 12:45pm
[smiley=hug.gif] call me when u have a chance.  :-*

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Rosybabe on Jul 25th, 2007, 1:14pm
no inmediate surgery must be good news, hope little Colin keeps improving, We will be praying for him down in the Murphy's place.

You are always in our minds.

                 Love.
                             
                          Rosy.

                                       

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by LeLimey on Jul 28th, 2007, 1:15pm
Oh Sean and Barb - words fail me. I'm sorrier than I know how to say.
If there is anything I can do - you know.

Lots and lots of love
Helen xxx

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Dave_Emond on Jul 28th, 2007, 1:38pm
Sean,
Always hurts so much to know of a child hurting. Everyone here praying and sending love and vibes should give your family strength and encouragement and I'm adding my prayers as well.
God Bless your family in these times,
Dave

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Callico on Jul 28th, 2007, 11:56pm
Sean,

Our prayers are with you, and I will be asking prayer for him at church tomorrow as well.  Stay encouraged my friend.

Jerry

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by Ghost on Jul 30th, 2007, 12:50pm
I don't pray much anymore, but when I do it is for those that can use it the most. For you and little guy I will open my heart.

Mike

Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by seasonalboomer on Jul 30th, 2007, 1:09pm
Sorry I missed this thread last week. Sorry to hear the little fella's having a time of it. I hope that things are turning around for the better this week.

My prayers this week will include you and your family.

Scott


Title: Re: My little guys surgery is beginning to fail
Post by tanner on Jul 30th, 2007, 1:56pm

Sean, lots and lots of vibes and prayers still coming your way from us to all of you.

Love and prayers.....Tim and Linda



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