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(Message started by: 1stdonna on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:21pm)

Title: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:21pm

It's me, Donna Har. Couldn't get in without changing everything. The e-mail address is still dmh114@hotmail.com

I'm finally admitting to myself that I'm getting old, although I don't feel it. It's just that the body is showing age and there's no chance that any man would be interested anymore. I've always imagined walking down the street when I grow old with my man, holding hands, but it isn't going to happen.

I've also finally admitted to myself that if you don't have the money to bestow birthday gifts, special ocassion rememberances, etc., that you aren't going to count when people remember their favorite friends.

I guess the only thing that I have to offer is advice from past experience and a sincere caring attitude for people who can gain from my limited advice.

It doesn't really matter. I'm here because I want to be because I love you clusterheads. Answers to this post are not necessary nor helpful.

Tell me to get over myself........I'm not into myself so I don't really care.

Will I ever make a convention? Probably not. Unless it's in Florida.

I know I'll be sorry as soon as I hit "post". I'm just really down right now and don't give a crap.

Don't insult me by answering this post.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Jonny on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:28pm

STFU, Donna....and get back in the boat, theres a huge wave coming and we need everyone on the oars!!!

Now sit down and row! :-*

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:30pm

Go to hell, Jonny.........I love you.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Jonny on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:33pm

on 07/11/07 at 20:30:35, 1stdonna wrote:

Go to hell, Jonny.........I love you.

Your one of few......LOL ;;D

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by AussieBrian on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:34pm

The one true cluster-trait that I've ever come across is that all of our ladies are stunningly beautiful, become irresistable at the age of consent, and remain that way for the term of their natural life (longer here in Queensland where it's so warm).

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by jwelch on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:46pm

Quote:

Don't insult me by answering this post.

Insult coming on then:

You are loved no matter what age you are or how long it's been since your last hit. You are one of us and always will be no matter you say.

SO THERE!!!!!!!!!!

Linda Howell

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by JenniferD on Jul 11^th, 2007, 8:49pm

on 07/11/07 at 20:28:12, Jonny wrote:

STFU, Donna....and get back in the boat, theres a huge wave coming and we need everyone on the oars!!!

Now sit down and row! :-*

it couldn't have been said better.........'cept for what Brian said :P

Glad you're here Donna. Now stfu and [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by LeLimey on Jul 11^th, 2007, 10:14pm

I'm glad you're back Donna :)

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 11^th, 2007, 10:25pm

Helen.......thanks so much for all of your support. You are a charming and good friend. I'm lucky to know you!!

Aussie Brian......Jonny.......Jennifer........Linda....and all of you who sent me an IM........Thank you..thank you. I needed you and you were here for me.

These are truely dark times for me and you all have helped me realize that I am not alone. Sound familiar?....clusterheads are never alone!! I knew this, but didn't count myself in.....until now.

Edited to add: You guys just don't listen, do you? I told you not to respond to this wussy post, but you wouldn't listen, would you!! I'm not talking about my pity party any more. Goodnight.......I love you guys anyway.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Charlie on Jul 11^th, 2007, 11:54pm

Donna...Take my advice and pump yourself up. Nobody pays attention to me now that I'm 60 so I've decided to be even more ridiculous than before. Easy for me.

You sound good Donna. Glad you're back too.

Charlie

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by tanner on Jul 12^th, 2007, 12:04am

I am not responding to this post! I just feel the need to say...

XXXOOO to someone so whomever wants them there they are.

pssst....Donna :-* :-* :-*

phone# comin your way 8)

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by thebbz on Jul 12^th, 2007, 12:13am

I know, being 29 is a bitch! What thread is this? Where the helami? Donna who? hit post dummy. oh poop
What is in the water down there? Fountian of youth my butt. oh well.
all the best
Hope your doing better.
boy if I had a hammer
love ya dear
jb

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by sandie99 on Jul 12^th, 2007, 2:52am

Donna... [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Lots of happy feelings,
Sanna

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Lotus on Jul 12^th, 2007, 3:31am

Two things I have learned living with a clusterhead is stubborness can be a good thing and never takes no as an answer :)

I am sure glad you are back Donna, I have missed you :-*

Annette

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by sldrswyfe on Jul 12^th, 2007, 4:54am

I AM NOT RESPONDING OK? This is not a response!!!

You have me sitting here crying...I can't help it. I know nothing will make you feel better with the way you're feeling right now... but serioulsy...the body thing...are you entering a Hawaiin Tropic Bikini contest?? How often do you walk around naked? Or "keep the lights on" with your man?? It seems that's it's a universal request.."turn the lights off" when we're with our men.

I know, I know...you want the option. There is something called "'the eyes of love"... and there IS someone who does or will love you AS IS. And you more than likely don't even look HALF as bad as you're thinking.

Dont you dare give up your hopes and dreams of walking down the street with a man...you ARE still in the running by far!!! God has it all figured out...if that's what you want, really want...no doubt you will have it.

Donna, I admire your vulnerabilitly and honesty. That alone shows what an amazing and good person you are. Keep your chin up girl.

So jump on in the boat with all of us...we need you. Love, Sherri P.S. men don't look so hot either...they just don't take it as hard as we do or have the same perception it seems...sorry guys :-[

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by sldrswyfe on Jul 12^th, 2007, 5:32am

One more thing...the people that only consider you a "favorite friend" based on the gifts you can give them, etc....instead of based on your love, loyalty and support??? I say lose them!! They ARE NOT friends.

Obviously, from the posts you received...you are sure considered a "favorite friend" here...money means nothing when it comes to being a friend...if someone handed me a hundred dollar bill during my darkest hours...instead of putting their arms around me...well, it wouldn't do too much for me.

You are just fine....perfect the way you are.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by BarbaraD on Jul 12^th, 2007, 7:11am

From one old broad to another ;;D what the hell is wrong with sagging everything? We damn well worked for it! And gray hair ain't bad -- it's distinguished!

As for MEN! The old ones only want someone to wait on them anyhow -- we need YOUNG ones to lift things! (know any YOUNG ones?)

As for gifts -- it's the THOUGHT that counts -- THINK of them!

Now you know that everyone here loves you -- don't you feel better now.... Of course you do. And as Jonny said -- get back on here and start rowing.......

Hugs BD

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by sldrswyfe on Jul 12^th, 2007, 7:19am

Amen Barb.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by michael on Jul 12^th, 2007, 7:57am

Hi Donna

Love and hugs on their way to you from an almost bald man with only half his original teeth.

Mike

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by taraann on Jul 12^th, 2007, 8:33am

So glad you are back. I'm sorry you are in a dark time in your life and are feeling so hopeless about finding someone to share some time with.

(poo on you about being insulted if anyone replied!)

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by thomas on Jul 12^th, 2007, 9:22am

Welcome back, I don't know you "personally", but I interact with very few people here. But, I do enjoy your posts, you have a very good way of looking at things and are very helpful to a lot of people. I believe that you are a true asset to this site.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Margi on Jul 12^th, 2007, 9:48am

Miss Donna, you know you are loved here. I hope today has dawned brighter for you.

Get yourself out there into the world, lady - go do some volunteer work....cuddle babies, volunteer at the animal shelter, help out at the library. Distract yourself. And ask your doctor about depression if you think maybe you're headed down that road, ok?

Maybe go over to Barb's and help Rudy get around for a weekend or something.

Sometimes a lift only happens when we initiate it.

Yes, that's a butt kicking. Didja feel it? ;)

hugs and love to you, my friend.

Margi

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by artonio7 on Jul 12^th, 2007, 9:51am

Donna.....

Youth is over rated and wasted on youth. You have a treasure chest of wealth as far as I see in the enormous loving spirit that you share with all of us here.

You effect everyone here on the board in a positive way.

I'm glad that you're back.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by ClusterChuck on Jul 12^th, 2007, 10:14am

Oh, STFU, Donna, and get back to rowing! [smiley=laugh.gif]

Chuck

PS: SO glad you are back, where you belong, darlink!!!

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Melissa on Jul 12^th, 2007, 12:19pm

If it makes you feel any better, I am sitting here in my house all alone again and feel very sick after consuming my 5th Krispy Kreme glazed doughnut. :-[

:-*love you Donna

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Maffumatt on Jul 12^th, 2007, 1:20pm

Dang Mel, you could have shared...........

I'm glad you're back Donna.......

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by sldrswyfe on Jul 15^th, 2007, 3:36pm

I never heard of Krispy Kreme until I lived in Florida...

One night, after working a fourteen hour shift...waitressing no less...I walked almost a mile to the Krispy Kreme...ordered a large milk and five cream donuts...sat on the curb and ate all of them!!!

And didn't even feel sick...man were they good...I must've been pms'ing.

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Patrick_A on Jul 15^th, 2007, 7:29pm

Might be your standards keeping you from finding a man to love you. Loosen up, quit playing hard to get. ;) :D

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 16^th, 2007, 12:34am

Like Den always said....... squiggly black lines on a computor screen are hard to interperet. My meaning got lost somewhere, or maybe I didn't do a good job of explaining in the first place.

Anyway, today was a better day.

Title: squiggly black uns
Post by dennisoc on Jul 16^th, 2007, 2:51am

...and speaking of me. I have old man saggy balls ....the left one really hangs way lower than the right...i only bat base balls left handed...other than that i am right handed....i've been left-sided clustry mostly...every thing makes sense...butt i'm usually the last to see it.

I hereby hijack this thread to announce that the two clusterfucks are pregnant again...old is...just old.

Life goes on obla dee obla dah

wage peace ...are ya gettin it yet?

den

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Kirk on Jul 16^th, 2007, 5:50am

OK so I won't answer your post. But it sort of reminds me in a way of a song I heard a few times on the Doctor Demento show back in the late 60s, or maybe the early 70s. I forget which right at the moment. But the gist of it was. More or less. I think, was: "Knockers up girl!". Hell we still love ya around this house, even if you don't know it. Keep coming back.

[smiley=smokin.gif]

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Ray on Jul 16^th, 2007, 3:23pm

I don't even know you, but I like you already. WB!

Ray

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 16^th, 2007, 6:12pm

Den.....you know how we all love you and really enjoy your take on life. I know I'm very happy to savor even the shortest post and thank you for stopping by. Give Georgia and the boys our love. It would be great to hear from her too. She's another original thinker and a treat to hear from.

Congrats on the preg! More good thing on the way. Bless your hearts. We need more of those old fashioned photos!!

Sorry about your, um, old saggy what'chama'call'it's. I know how you feel. I've gone the route from 34 B to 34 long. Hell of a let down.....in more ways than one.

Ok! OK Jonny....I'm rowing. 8)

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Jonny on Jul 16^th, 2007, 7:49pm

on 07/16/07 at 18:12:56, 1stdonna wrote:

Ok! OK Jonny....I'm rowing. 8)

Now your talking, baby! :-*

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by Charlie on Jul 16^th, 2007, 9:20pm

Good to hear from you Den and congratulations to you and Georgia. Wow.

More posting and or pictures would be neat too.

Charlie

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by ShariRae on Jul 16^th, 2007, 11:27pm

Donna,
Although we have never met face to face.. I have always enjoyed your posts..heartfelt & intuitive :)
Now..for the getting old part...I have my own theory..
In my world..saggy boobs arent saggy...they are just looking down admiring my "badges of motherhood" otherwise known as stretch marks!And dammit I earned em by having 2 great kids! My ASSet is not drooping...my thighs as just larger & higher because I am a WOMAN..strong & wonderful!
And if some young thing thinks for 1 minute she has somethin on me...she is sadly mistaken!
As for a young guy...who can be bothered teachin em what an older...more appreciative man already knows?
That is how to treat & satisfy a REAL woman!
We are WOMEN....strong..wonderful...loving...capable..
Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: 'fess up time
Post by 1stdonna on Jul 16^th, 2007, 11:47pm

To the wonderful women who have answred this post:

40's are the best years for a confident, good looking woman. She knows she is at her height of attractivness.....she feels it......she knows. She is sexy and appreciates a good love life.

50's are still good, but the short skirts look a little silly at this stage of life. She feels sexy and appreciates a good love life.

60's.....you still don't feel old..just good looking mature. You feel sexy and appreciate a good love life.

70's are the pits. You look old and you start to feel old. Your elbows and knees pucker, your arms lose their elasticity and look wrinkled, etc., etc. You wish you still looked sexy and want a good love life. If you grew old with your partner, you both adjusted as you aged and accept the process. If you are single.....too bad.....it's over.

You'll all realize this when you get there, my sweets.