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(Message started by: JeffB on May 11^th, 2007, 12:17am)

Title: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by JeffB on May 11^th, 2007, 12:17am

Just had to put my signature on my dads today as a witness.

Despite his nephews he grew up with as a boy in Hawaii being here for a few days and having a great time listening to these fools, I could be happier.

I fucking hate cancer.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by ClusterChuck on May 11^th, 2007, 12:24am

DAYUM, buddy! That has to be hard ... I am here for ya, buddy. Call me if you need a night out and away, or just need someone to keep you company. cuz I ain't far from ya.

Prayers headed your way, my friend.

Chuck

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Lotus on May 11^th, 2007, 12:27am

Big hugs to you and your dad.

Prayers and vibes and lots of love heading your way from all of us.

Annette

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Guiseppi on May 11^th, 2007, 12:27am

the big c sucks dude... >:( keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Guiseppi

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by artonio7 on May 11^th, 2007, 12:29am

Damn Jeff.... It's miserable to have to be going through that. You're in my prayers friend. Let me know if there's anything I can do.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by BMoneeTheMoneeMan on May 11^th, 2007, 12:29am

Thats sad Bro. I am so sorry for you and your family.
Be strong.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by George_J on May 11^th, 2007, 12:47am

Did that myself for my father almost four years ago, Jeff.

Not easy.

Best wishes to you, and to your father,

George

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Yorky on May 11^th, 2007, 12:59am

i hate the "c" word too buddy...(but it cant take away memories )

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by LeLimey on May 11^th, 2007, 1:14am

Jeff - I don't have anything I can say that will help but know that we do love you hon and we'll do all we can if there is anything we can do to help.

lots and lots of love
Helen xxx

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by sandie99 on May 11^th, 2007, 2:06am

Jeff... [smiley=hug.gif]

The c - thing took my dad 10 years ago... I'm so sorry for your loss.

Sanna

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Jackie on May 11^th, 2007, 5:08am

Not the easiest of days :(......

[smiley=hug.gif]

Jacks 8)

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Jonny on May 11^th, 2007, 7:29am

Really sorry, bro :'( :'( :'(

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Post by andrewjb on May 11^th, 2007, 7:38am

:'(, condolences jeff. andrew.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by DonnaHar on May 11^th, 2007, 7:47am

Praying for your dad and family, Jeff.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Brewcrew on May 11^th, 2007, 8:00am

Sux, bro. You are in my thoughts.

I still haven't figured out which is better - a drawn out death where the suffering is apparent, but everybody gets a chance to say what needs to be said, or the sudden, dead-before-they-hit-the-floor type, which is shocking to those left behind, but there's little to no suffering.

Doesn't matter - you're still in my thoughts and prayers.

Bill

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Jimi on May 11^th, 2007, 9:31am

You're in mine too bro.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Rosybabe on May 11^th, 2007, 10:37am

I am sorry Jeff, my prayers are for you and your Dad..

Sincerely

Rosy.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by echo on May 11^th, 2007, 10:49am

Sorry to read of this Jeff, my thoughts are with you. I too hate cancer, it took my dad from us 25 years ago.

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by nani on May 11^th, 2007, 10:56am

:-/ [smiley=hug.gif]

Sorry, sweetie. I'm sending hugs and love, nani

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by TxBasslady on May 11^th, 2007, 3:22pm

Aw, Jeff....my heart just breaks for you, sweetie.

This is such a tough road to travel.

I think about you every day...and I so wish you weren't having to go thru this.

Be as strong as you can...

Much love,

Jean

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by seasonalboomer on May 11^th, 2007, 3:37pm

sorry to hear that news Jeff. I'll include your family in the prayers of my family.

scott

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by tanner on May 11^th, 2007, 6:06pm

Jeff, I want you to know that our thoughts, prayers and best vibes are being sent to you and your Dad.

You are a very special guy and you have helped me and by extension Lind and my family ever since you showed up at this asylum. Anything we can do to help is yours for the asking.

I have found that it is impossible for me to begin naming the people on this board that are permanently on my list of "angels" because i will inevitably leave someone out. You are "there" in capitol letters as is everyone on this thread. Please don't hesitate to call or ask for anything that I can provide.

Don't ask me why but my Lin said a while back when we were constantly teasing each other that you, Zwibby and I seemed to have a (3 amigo type) bond and you know......

That was a hell of a compliment to me! Still is.

Hang tough Bro, but not too tough.

Love ya loads.......Tim

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Charlie on May 12^th, 2007, 10:26pm

That is hard to do Jeff.

So sorry and life just has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the butt. Damn.

You're in my thoughts Jeff.

Charlie

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by kayarr on May 12^th, 2007, 10:52pm

wow,
all our love to you. I feel your pain.
Kimberly

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by Ree on May 12^th, 2007, 11:37pm

So sorry Jeff... Cancer really does suck. Stay close and listen, we learn so much from our fathers if we are with them in the end of their earthly life. Your father is so brave.
Know that I think of you during this really hard time and I'm here if you want to chat. I have been in that chair.

Gods love to you
Ree

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by JeffB on May 13^th, 2007, 12:08am

I really love you guys and gals. Can't wait to squeeze the shit out of you all in Richmond.

I'll bring the mop! ;)

My thoughts are with you tonight, Tim! Hope all is well......p.s. fuck Dell computers, as I was writing this I had about 5 pop ups for updates that made me stop what I was doing so I could close those things. Then more pop up offers, well, popped up.

Thanks all! except for Dell Computers!

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by testy01 on May 13^th, 2007, 3:20pm

Hang in there. I know it's tough. I just did this for my wife a few months ago. Also cancer.

All the best.

Jack

Title: Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
Post by JeffB on May 13^th, 2007, 11:42pm

Thanks Testy!

You a pilot??