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Title: Bad new...... Post by Jimi on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:34pm Well I have been debating on posting this for a little while. Helen and Langa know but that was it. But I need some support right now from my friends here. I have been diagnosed with prostate cancer. It is the aggressive type but my Urologist thinks it is still contained in the prostate. I am presently trying to get in to see a specialist that excels in a new procedure called the DaVinci Robotic Prostatectomy. There are not too many around. The nearest ones to me are At Vanderbilt in Nashville and Nortons Hospital in Louisville. My Urologist is working on trying to get me in as soon as she can. I notified Helen that we would be putting our trip to England on hold in June but if I can get in to see this guy in the next few weeks, I hope to still make Richmond. We shall see. This was a shock to say the least. No symtoms at all. Just a routine check. I feel like someone put a gate across the road I was travelling and opened a gate to a road I have never been down. I have no idea where this road will end but I got to travel it. I hesitated to post this because we have enough tragedy to deal with on here, but I am at the point of needing prayers and support to get me thru this. And....I feel that I will get thru this. Just have some trying times ahead. Pray for Ruthie as well. She is handling this worse than me. Thanks for the prayers. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by echo on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:39pm Damn Jimi, Sorry to read of this new challenge in your life. It does amaze me that this problem never reveals itself with symtoms. Hope you are able to get in for this new procedure soon. Hang tought brother. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Rosybabe on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:39pm Hi JImi! My prayers are with you! Be positive, My family had to go through the same road no too long ago with my grandfather having prostate cancer too. but Thanks God his treatment was succesful and he is cancer free right now. As long as it has not spread to other organs the better is the prognosis. Hang in there, be strong and have faith that everything will come around just fine for you. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Redd on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:40pm Jimi and Ruthie, My thoughts are with you both and you'll be in my daily meditations. Please let us know if there is anything else we can do to help. Love you Bro, and biggest hugs to Ruthie too. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Donna_D. on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:40pm Jimi, You are a strong man and you have an excellent attitude and outlook on life. Stay strong for yourself and for Ruthie. But on those days when you can't be strong, know that you have a family here that loves and cares for you and will hold you up when you need it the most. You and Ruthie are in my prayers and NEVER worry or hide from us how good/bad you are doing. We WANT to know and will be there to return the support you have shown all of us. Don't worry, that new road you are going to travel will be lined on both sides by the friends and family that you have here. DD |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by ClusterChuck on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:41pm OMG, Jimi!!! I don't know what to say. This is hitting me like a ton of bricks. Tears are running down my cheeks. You CAN beat this! Every single prayer, vibe, and good ju-ju, that I can dig up, beg, borrow, or steal, is heading towards you and dear Ruthie. I am ... ... ... ... I don't know what I am ... ... ... ... Chuck |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by JeffB on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:44pm Shit! My thoughts are with you Jimi. You can beat this. My pops had it years ago and sailed right through it. Do EVERYTHING the Doc tells ya to do! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by catlind on Apr 17th, 2007, 1:46pm All my thoughts and support are yours ... you have a great outlook, and I am confident you will beat this; Know that we are all here for you whenever you need anything. Cat |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by pattik on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:00pm Jimi, this is tough news to hear. But you have the attitude it takes to beat this, and there are new treatments coming on board all the time. Both you and Ruthie have all the vibes I can muster. Patti |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by artonio7 on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:03pm Jimi hang tough, you'll get through this. Thoughts and prayers are coming your way. with warm regards, Tony |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Gator on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:08pm Aw geez, man. I'm sorry to hear this. You and Ruthie are in Jane's and my thoughts and best hopes and wishes. We've all seen what the power of positive thoughts, prayers, vibes, etc from this family can do. Now all that is headed your way. Hang tough, my brother. Mike |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Mac_Muz on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:12pm Jim Sorry to hear of it, but you found it early which is good... You have good chances to beat it, so avoid dwelling on it as best you can... Cancers seem to know and act accordingly if you worry like the CH does ya know.. My father in law had this and the meds worked well for years, and something else got him in the end... |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Brewcrew on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:14pm Oh, goodness, my brother. Always know that when you need the positive thoughts and prayers, we will be here churnin' 'em out. Big hugs to you and Ruthie from the Brewster clan. As I did for Gage, when we play out next, on April 28, I will be dedicating Deep Purple's Highway Star to you, because that's where you need to be - rollin' down the highway, not in a hospital somewhere. Everything we got, bro. Bill |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Paul98 on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:31pm Sorry to hear the news Jimi. Man that sucks! I guess the bright side if there is one is the advances in prostate cancer treatment have come a long way. Thoughts are with you Bro. -P. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Mosaicwench on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:35pm Just damn . . . . We love you both and will be praying as hard as we can. I wish they were sending you to Madison or Milwaukee for treatment . . .at least we could physically be there for both of you. Take care my friend, and tell Ruthie to call if she needs ANYTHING! edited to add: I just read about the procedure (http://www.davinciprostatectomy.com/to_dvp.html) and it looks like a great advance over traditional surgery. Glad you're a candidate for it and that the recovery time will be less than normal. You're a tuff guy - you'll be great! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Kevin_M on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:40pm Jimi we're here for you. See what's out there for you. My very best for you and Ruthie. Big hopes for you buddy. on 04/17/07 at 13:34:20, Jimi wrote:
Out of nowhere tested a 6.5 PSA myself three years ago and prior to each of three biopsies in three years, that came back ok, benign prostatic hyperplasia I'm guessing and has been correctable recently. GET CHECKED! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by thomas on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:42pm [smiley=hug.gif] My best to you and Ruthie. I really hope they get you taken care of and that you have a fast and complete victory over this. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by The mad viking on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:48pm Jimi hang tough, you'll get through this. Our best to you and Ruthie. Svenn & Bente |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by minnie on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:50pm Jimi and Ruthie, You and your family will be in my prayers and I will be sending all the Vibes I got.Take care of yourselves and know we are here for vents or whatever you need.We will also be here for a celebration of the news your cancer free.I believe this will happen. to quote D.D. Quote:
Love and prayers to you, Minnie |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Karla on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:52pm Ted and I will be praying for you and your family for awhile. I will add you to our churches prayer chain also. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Jackie on Apr 17th, 2007, 2:55pm Well shit.... >:( I hate this for you. But here's the deal...you're gonna hang in there and we're all gonna hang with you. I know you, Jimi, and I know your stong will. Climb that gate, Sweetie....you and Miss Ruthie get right back on that planned road. I'll see you in Richmond....ya hear me! Much love to you and Ruthie.... Jackie |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by alienspacebabe on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:07pm Of course! My thoughts are with you and Ruthie, Jimi. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by George_J on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:24pm Jimi, I'm sorry to hear about this. This new procedure sounds as if it may work well, and involve a shorter recovery period than normal. Hoping for a quick and complete recovery for you. My best wishes to you and Ruthie. George |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by aprilbee on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:28pm All my prayers will be for you.... :-* |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by JDH on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:28pm Jimi, You're a strong guy and you'll get through this. You and Ruthie are in our thoughts and prayers. Jim & Sue |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Maffumatt on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:37pm Sorry Jimi, let us know if you need anything. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Turts on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:45pm Sorry to hear the bad news sending you prayers and vibes. Turts |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 17th, 2007, 3:45pm Jimi, I'm with Jackie. Climb over that gate. I know you and Ruthie are probably scared as hell right now, but you'll see....it will all turn out o.k. Do you remember that guy at the convention last year? I think his name is Jim. He is only 30 something and was diagnosed with this. He went through all the treatments and is just fine now. You will be too. I'll be saying prayers off and on every day, all day long, lighting candles and saying a rosary for you that this is justa short bump in the road. You are so loved around here Jimi and our thoughts, prayers and vibes have never failed anyone here yet. Linda |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Kingjames1 on Apr 17th, 2007, 4:17pm Damn. Sorry to hear it. Best wishes for a healty outcome. I'm hopeful you get that butt fixed so I can kick it in the football pool next year! :) |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by LadyElaine1 on Apr 17th, 2007, 4:41pm Jimi your one of the strongest and sweetest people I know. I am a weak person but I made it and survived cancer. Cancer is a scary thing, just the word is scary. I am glad to hear you are going for DaVinci Robotic Prostatectomy. I have hear a lot of good about this. If anyone can beat this you can. I know you believe in prayer, here is where you will get it, prayers work ! You will be on my prayer list. You have lots of love from your family and your friends. We are all here for you. If you and Ruth need to talk, you call me. I always have time for you. I do know about cancer and the feelings that come with it. Listen to Jackie, we won't let you do anything but fight The road your going down, might seem dark and scary at times. You know that all you have to do is reach out for one of us, you will find your not alone. I love ya you and Ruthy I hope you know that. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Langa on Apr 17th, 2007, 5:39pm My dearest Jimi, glad you shared with the family. Right now you need all the support you can have. Having been a cancer survivor myself, I know how scary this road ahead can seem, but you're surrounded by many who love you and you will get through this. And when those dark days come remember who it is that carries you. I love you. Langa |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by E-Double on Apr 17th, 2007, 5:46pm Love ya brother!!! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by M.R. on Apr 17th, 2007, 6:14pm Oh man, that sucks. You have my thoughts and prayers. Hang strong, dude. Mike |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by barry_sword on Apr 17th, 2007, 6:30pm Sorry Jimi. That is sad news. You and Ruthie will get through this! Healing vibes coming at ya! Hugs to Ruthie for us also. Barry&Angie Sword |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by kayarr on Apr 17th, 2007, 7:07pm All the love and positive outflowing that we can generate coming to you and your family. Jeff and Kimberly |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Jonny on Apr 17th, 2007, 7:13pm Get a second opinion, bro.....two years ago they said my liver was bad (Who me?)....so I had another test done and the first test was fuck up. Either way, we always have your back my brother!! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Teresa on Apr 17th, 2007, 7:26pm [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by broomhilda on Apr 17th, 2007, 8:51pm Jimi and Ruthie, sending tons of hugs and prayers from Canada on over your way. If you all need anything, especially a shoulder please don't ever hesitate to ask... All I have on over Andrea |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Sean_C on Apr 17th, 2007, 8:52pm I know I'm not the smartest guy on the block Jimmy, however my sister treats cancer at the Mass General and she says its VERY VERY VERY curable. Surround yourself with the best docs, best hospitals, and best care facilties Jimmy, its your life, its YOUR call. Don't do what seems right, do what IS right for you to get successful treatment. Keep us posted bud, prayers and all that other good stuff headed your way. Sean..................................... |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by eyes_afire on Apr 17th, 2007, 10:03pm Jimi, Sorry to hear the bad news. You got my support. You can beat it. --- Steve |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Yorky on Apr 17th, 2007, 10:48pm sorry to hear jimi when you open that gate.....to travel this new path you had better be, driving a coach... because we are,all with you. good luck buddy. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by nani on Apr 17th, 2007, 10:51pm Whoa. When I first read this I was going to post the crying smiley, and say what bad news this is, and of course, offer my prayers and support. But, you know what? I'm with Jackie, Linda and Elaine. Sweetie... you've got courage, you've got strength, you've got rock solid faith, and most of all...you've got Ruthie, your kids and the grandkids. That's a hell of an arsenal against this, isn't it? Now...add all of us, and our prayers and support... and I can't help but feel pretty optimistic. If you or Ruthie need anything... and I mean ANYTHING... just call, OK? hugs and lots of love to both of you, nani |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Cathi04 on Apr 17th, 2007, 11:35pm Jimi, What a cruel trick! Nothing but time for you and Ruthie to travel and enjoy life, and then, THIS! It IS, however, just a bump in the road! You are a CLUSTERHEAD! You know they don't roll over..they FIGHT! Furthermore, and I think this is soo important for people to hear....my mother had a mastectomy 23 years ago..........can I say it louder?? 23 years ago!!!! She's 82 right now, and doing quite well! Please hold onto that! It sounds like this procedure is one of many wonderful advancements in Cancer in our lifetime..and you will benefit from it! Push for the procedure, get yourself well, and call Helen to let her know the Yanks are comin! Follow the Dr's orders, be good to each other, and know, there are a whole lot of people here who are with you every single step of the way! EGBOK, Jimi........that means Everything's Gonna Be O....K! We're all counting on it! :-*Kisses for you BOTH! Cathi |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Charlie on Apr 18th, 2007, 1:46am Rats Jimi..... >:( It's a good thing that you found it out this way rather than from a bunch of symptoms. They can handle this thing better now and I bet with all the love here and there, you'll do well. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Mastifflvr28 on Apr 18th, 2007, 2:49am Over the last 8 or so years I've seen miracles happen on this board, from prayers and vibes. You got all ours, but you guys also got attitude (good attitude). You'll beat this no prob!! Can you believe Elaine said she was weak?? lmmfao :) Mast |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Yorky on Apr 18th, 2007, 4:41am http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbUgaS9Wjx0 imspitting on my hand jimi. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by zwibbs/Scott on Apr 18th, 2007, 5:20am Jimi , I will keep you and Ruth in my prayers and thoughts daily. Just remember to be positive, because you are going to beat this ! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by BarbaraD on Apr 18th, 2007, 7:30am You and Ruthie are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.... It's gonna be ok. You're a tuff old guy.... Hugs BD |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by deltadarlin on Apr 18th, 2007, 8:30am JImbo and I are thinking about you and Ruthie. ATTITUDE! 'darlin |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Lobster on Apr 18th, 2007, 9:25am Good thing you caught it early brother. Kicking its ass should be a piece of cake for you. Best of luck. |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by kimmiedawn81 on Apr 18th, 2007, 9:48am Jimi, you will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers! You and Ruthie will get through this!! Please take care! -Kim |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by gore2424 on Apr 18th, 2007, 9:59am Hi Jimi great good super vibes for you and yours Terry |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Peppermint on Apr 18th, 2007, 11:32am Jimi, I got word of this last night. If there's ever a time for you to lean on the people that love you, this is it. I love you my friend and I know you will beat this. I'm so glad you were pro-active about your health, and I hope you have the best docs, as much in medicine as in bedside manner. You will beat this. Our love to you and Ruthie, Patty and Ericka |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by sandie99 on Apr 18th, 2007, 12:16pm Jimi, I'm so sorry for the news. You, Ruthie and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers. You know a lot about fighting against illness already. Although this is a whole new game, I'm sure that you have the courage to fight it. I am so glad that you let all of us know about this. If there is something more I can do besides praying, let me know, alright? My father had cancer, so I know a bit about the emotional rollercoaster it brings with it. With healing thoughts & prayers, Sanna |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by wildhaus on Apr 18th, 2007, 12:19pm Jimi..... I just dont know what to say............... Michael |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Shedz on Apr 18th, 2007, 12:20pm You have the strengh and courage to get through this chap, and the support of us all [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by JenniferD on Apr 18th, 2007, 12:50pm on 04/17/07 at 13:40:46, Donna_D. wrote:
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by fubar on Apr 18th, 2007, 1:04pm Jimi, I remember when just hearing the 'C' word was virtually a death sentence. Now, thousands of men and women every year are diagnosed and treated. I am happy for you that this did not happen 20 years ago. You don't know me, but you are my brother and I'll give you my kidney if you need it. In other words, just ask for anything you need. You have a big family here. -Fu |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Jimi on Apr 18th, 2007, 2:04pm Thanks friends. Wow! I needed this. I think it will be ok. I will keep everyone posted on this journey I'm on. Thanks so much, each and every one of you for the support. I love you all. Uncle Jimi |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by eddie on Apr 18th, 2007, 2:59pm you are in my prayers |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by TxBasslady on Apr 18th, 2007, 6:10pm Jimi...my brother, my friend, my love... We survived through our career of dealing with crooks, and the bad guys. This is just a little bump in the road, baby. Now, I'm gonna send you all the vibes I got, but I just know that you're gonna make it just fine. Give my love to Ruthie, and remind her that we've survived through some real shit in the past, and this time is no different. I know that you know...how much you mean to me. I simply refuse to accept anything short of success with your treatment. This story will have a happy ending, I just feel it. I'm here...if you need me darlin. :-* I love you, Jean |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by UN solved on Apr 18th, 2007, 6:37pm Damn, I hate to hear that. But if anyone can beat this --> you can ! I was sitting here thinkin' to myself ... 'I wish there were something I could do' .... and it hit me ... maybe there is something I could do ..... If you do have to make a visit to Louisville, contact me ... I'm already here bro ;) . I could pick you up from the airport & get you to Norton's Hospital. ( you might even get me to buy ya some food or a beer or something ;) ) . I'm close to everything ... it wouldn't be a problem at all . Check your PM's Best Wishes Michael |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by kcopelin on Apr 19th, 2007, 6:17pm Jimi, you and Ruthie are in my prayers. Hang in there bro! (((hugs))) kathy |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Leesa on Apr 19th, 2007, 6:53pm Jimi, your family are in our prayers hun. Know that we love you and care about you. U better keep us posted or we may have come and kick your butt. ;) Just TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!! Love and prayers, Leesa :-* PS: give Ruthie BIG HUGS from me!!! |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by BB on Apr 20th, 2007, 4:27am Sorry to hear of the news Jimi, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Its a good thing that you have had no symptoms, sounds like it was detected early enough for a complete cure. Hang in there, we are all here for you and together we will shut that gate to the wrong path and get you two back to your life again pronto. Hugs and love from all of us. Annette |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Brewcrew on Apr 20th, 2007, 7:23am So far there's one good thing that has come of this, Jimi and Ruthie - I scheduled a physical, and I was thinking about you guys when I did it. Haven't had one in a couple of years, and you put it back in the forefront of my mind. My dad had prostate cancer and was successfully treated for it. May 11, 1:30 p.m. Can't say I'll be thinking of you when I get to that part of the exam, but I promise I will when I get the results. I'll be thinking something like, "I let him do THIS and I don't even get dinner and a movie?" ;;D |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by sldrswyfe on Apr 20th, 2007, 8:07am Jimi, I am very sorry for your news...you were very kind to me and one of the first to privately msg me and help me out here. You are in my prayers and I know you're going to do great. You're obviously very, very loved. Sherri |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by lionsound on Apr 20th, 2007, 3:49pm Hugs, support and love for you and Ruthie! -Rori |
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Title: Re: Bad new...... Post by Jayne on Apr 20th, 2007, 7:24pm Ok Jimi, This is a cheap shot to get me to post. ;) You see, I have to tell everyone what your really up to. When Ruthie and Jimi come to visit me, I always give them my bed (because it is bigger than my spare bed), with a strict rule of NO SHAGGING in it. So now when he comes to visit, he thinks I am going be all sympathetic and let that rule slide. Hell no, because your going to be well: there's STILL NO SHAGGIN' IN MY BED!!!!! If I were you I would be a little miffed at Donna, she called you "Old" in her post. ;) You know how much I love you both..............(No I didn't mean you Donna, I meant Jimi and Ruthie, so wind it in. :-* |
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