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Title: Some sad news Post by Sandy_C on Dec 21st, 2006, 4:49pm Sad. but not devastating. My daughter, Amanda (the one who was on Wheel of Fortune) had to go to the emergency room on Sunday morning with severe abdominal pains. Turns out she had an ectopic pregnancy and had to have emergency surgery to stop the internal bleeding, and lost one of her fallopian tubes, along with the baby (embryo). She and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for two years, she lost one fertilized egg because it just didn't adhere to her uterus two months ago, and now she has one that does adhere, but in the wrong place. She was six weeks along and had planned on spreading the good news with us at Christmas. This would have been our first grandchild. She has been taking Clomid for several months (can produce multiple babies), but now, they are going to go straight to in-vitro because she doesn't want to go through this again. They will still be with us at Christmas, but not quite as happy as they had planned. Sandy |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by The mad viking on Dec 21st, 2006, 4:50pm I am so sorry to hear this my friend :'( :'( :'( Svenn |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by brewcrew on Dec 21st, 2006, 4:53pm One that didn't adhere, one that adhered too soon. Next one's gonna be juuuuusssst right. I'm sorry for your loss, Sandy. Please tell Amanda and her husband that our hearts go out to them. Bill |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Dec 21st, 2006, 4:55pm Aw, Sandy - that's too bad for them and for you too. Wishing her the very best of luck with the next procedure. I agree with Bill - the next one will take just fine. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by LeLimey on Dec 21st, 2006, 5:08pm Sandy I'm sorry, give her an extra cuddle for me and a big big hug for you too my lovely, lovely friend [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Kevin_M on Dec 21st, 2006, 5:20pm The bells for next Christmas may ring the tune she'll want to hear. I've two small darling nieces and a nephew from invitro. Wishing best for Amanda and all the family, Sandy. |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by aprilbee on Dec 21st, 2006, 5:28pm My brother and wife miscarried this summer...it IS devastating! I'm so sorry for their loss... :'( |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by FramCire on Dec 21st, 2006, 5:56pm My boss from 4 years ago went through a ton of similar things that unfortunately everyone at work knew about. That year, a ton of people got pregnant in our office and she continued to struggle. Miscarrys are bad enough but to have fertility issues and then miscarry is horrible. Anyway, I went back to work this year (I used to visit every month anyway) and she and I swap stories about our kids. We both have 4 year olds. Anyway, as horrible as the situation was, she and her daughter have a very special bond because of what she went through. I pray for your daughter that this situation will be a distant memory in a few years as she holds her chiild or children and rocks him/her/them to sleep. |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by alchemy on Dec 21st, 2006, 6:08pm So sorry to hear the news. May they have goodluck in the future |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Mattrf on Dec 21st, 2006, 6:31pm I am so sorry as well, not a nice way to start out your Christmas, tell them we are all praying for them. Matt |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Charlie on Dec 21st, 2006, 7:59pm So sorry about this but things will work out for her. I promise. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Richr8 on Dec 21st, 2006, 8:06pm Oh. so sorry to hear Sandy. The wife and I tried for thirteen years. There were lots of disappointments and a miscarry befrore the twins popped up, so I now how you all must feel. On a positive not, they were worth the wait Hugs and vibes coming your way. |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Ree on Dec 21st, 2006, 11:00pm I'm so sorry Sandy... she must be heart broken... I lost two myself...She has to heal and grieve though she never held those babies. It is very hard to lose a pregnancy no matter how far along you are. Gods love to you. Hug her hard... and I will pray that she someday gets to hold and raise a baby. love ree |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by DonnaHar on Dec 21st, 2006, 11:02pm I really feel so sad for them and know fully well how they feel. I was pregnant 7 times and have three beautiful living children. It was rough....one was a 7 mo. preemie who lived 36 hours. But not giving up is the answer. It will happen eventually. Love and prayers, Donna Har. |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by sandie99 on Dec 22nd, 2006, 3:11am Sandy, my thoughts and prayers will be with your daughter. I'm so sorry. [smiley=hug.gif] best wishes, Sanna |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by nani on Dec 22nd, 2006, 9:15am :'( I'm so sorry, Sandy. BIG hugs to her, her hubby, Tarey and you. love ya, nani |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Ghost on Dec 22nd, 2006, 9:17am Da#* :'( :'( Mike |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by kimmiedawn81 on Dec 22nd, 2006, 9:20am Sorry to hear that Sandy. Hopefully "third time's a charm" will be true in this case. -Kim |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by pattik on Dec 22nd, 2006, 9:37am :( Sad news, Sandy. Take heart, though. There is still plenty of time and good medical advances to help her give you that grandchild. It's good that you will be able to spend time with Amanda and her husband at Christmas. patti |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by tanner on Dec 22nd, 2006, 9:56am :'( :-*....tim |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by seasonalboomer on Dec 22nd, 2006, 10:43am sorry to hear that Sandy. i hope that the holidays will still be filled with hope and love for your family and your daughter. scott |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by eddie on Dec 22nd, 2006, 10:48am :'( |
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Title: Re: Some sad news Post by Shedz on Dec 22nd, 2006, 11:41am Sorry for your families loss. Hugs and wishes from Deb's and myself. [smiley=hug.gif] |
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