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(Message started by: Mark C on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:03am)

Title: The pain...the pain..
Post by Mark C on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:03am

This seperation shit is rough....I aint got no meds to help with this one and should just walk through it but seeing my children suffer is just killing me....I do not feel strong today...I am sooo tired of this I just want to run away.

Thanks for the vent....

Mark :(

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by rickyshot on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:13am

Why haven't you got no meds? What is going on ?

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by Melissa on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:15am

Mark is hurting emotionally right now Ricky, and there are no meds for that.

I'm so sorry Mark, with time, it will get easier, but right now I know it just sucks.

hugs,
:-*mel

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by pattik on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:19am

That's the other side of loving your children. Seeing them hurting really sucks. They will get through this, and as you see them feeling better and adjusting, hopefully you will too. :-/

Patti

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by rickyshot on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:25am

Oh I am sorry. I though he did not have CH meds. I was getting ready to send my box of trex.......
I am sorry you are hurting...............Mark

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by LeLimey on Sep 19^th, 2006, 10:08am

Mark hon there isn't any meds that'll help as you know, I wish there was. Being a consistent figure in your kids lives, being the dad you are and always will be is the most important thing. So much change is happening that they need continuity. Show them all the love you can but don't be tempted to spoil them with material stuff. In years to come they'll remember the cuddles but not the power rangers! They need to know, over and over again that you love them, you always will and no matter what else changes that never will.
It sort of helps us too I promise, reiterating it to them is a mantra for us too.
Time will pass and this will heal.. and we'll be here for you every time you need us [smiley=hug.gif]
lots and lots of love
Helen xxx

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by TxBasslady on Sep 19^th, 2006, 11:34am

Running away would cause more pain.

Listen to Helen, Mark.

Now pick yourself up....and get busy with today....and life, sweetie. :-*

Don't let this drag you down.....look forward to the sunshine.....it'll come, I promise.

Vibes and love,

Jean

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by taraann on Sep 19^th, 2006, 12:35pm

I don't really knwo the details but regardless NOTHING compares to any pain that is related to caring for your children. Big BIG hugs Mark.

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by Gator on Sep 19^th, 2006, 12:43pm

Sorry you're having to go through this. Wish there was something I could say to make it easier for you.

Hang in there, bro.

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by cootie on Sep 19^th, 2006, 1:43pm

Plus it's a HURT or PAIN that won't go away to make matters worse.......nothing to treat it but good luck.......things happen for a reason as has been said on here before. Hopeing all your pain someday brings you some gain Pam

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by JeffB on Sep 19^th, 2006, 1:47pm

Sometimes change is needed brother. Hang in there, time will heal the pain. ;)

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by georgej on Sep 19^th, 2006, 5:05pm

Sometimes the only way through is straight ahead, Mark. There aren't any ways to escape or avoid some things--no meds for it. You just have to hang in there, and get through it.

I'm sorry for your kids' pain.

Vent all you want. You're certainly entitled to.

Best wishes,

George

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by Charlie on Sep 19^th, 2006, 8:00pm

Damn. Sorry you and the kids are having such a time.

A good idea is to come here and rant. How about some more? We'll be here.

Charlie

Title: Re: The pain...the pain..
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Sep 19^th, 2006, 9:15pm

One day at a time, my friend. One foot in front of the other. I promise you will come through this and at the end of it all when you look back, you'll be amazed at your own strength.

Hang in there buddy - remember kids are a whole lot more resilient than we give them credit for.

Hugs
Carol