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(Message started by: Tiannia on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:26pm)

Title: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Tiannia on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:26pm
Well, I can use whatever vibes you have to spare....

My husband had a vasectomy on the 24th of August.  The reason is that I have been told that I will not survive another pregnancy.

The reason I am asking for your thoughts is that there is a chance that I am pregnant.  I saw the doctory last night.  I had to have my bloodwork done to check on my cholesterol.  We need to see if the medication has helped at all or it is it still over 450.  I had him add a pregnancy test to it.  

I am not sure how to feel anything right now.  I child is suppost to be a blessing, but if I am then I will most likely have to terminate it.  I cant take the chance of leaving my husband and kids without a mom.  I was told after I had my son that if I got pregnant again that there is less then a 5% chance that one of us would survive the pregnancy.  

To be extreemly honest, I am more scared then I think I have even been nefore in my life. The doctor is supposed to have my test results Friday.  

Right now it is completly in the Hands of the Goddess.  I have to believe that what is meant to happen will happen.  That this is yet another lesson that I am meant to face and end up stronger afterwards.  

Thank you  for reading this...  I needed to say it, rather then keeping it inside.

Tia

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by tanner on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:40pm


 Tia, You are always in my thoughts and prayers. As I told you on another post I feel that you are a good and blessed spirit. I know that you are strong but don't let that stop you from leaning! If you have lost my # and want to talk just PM me. My wife had to make a very similar choice many years ago which is why we have only 1 son. I'm sure she would be happy to speak to you about it.

Peace, Love and Light.......Tim

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by maffumatt on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:41pm
You got em, be well.
Matt

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Ghost on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:42pm
T any time you need it there are always enough prayers and vibes for ya here, ok! :'(

Stand strong and stay with us ok!

Mike

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Tiannia on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:48pm
Thank you all.

Tim I still have your number.  I need right now to get thru till Friday and know one way or the other.  If it is positive, then you just might get that phone call.  

I feel like I am walking around in a fog.  And am numb.  All I feel is sared. This is not a way to live.  I was not this bad even when I had to fight the beast everyday and never knew when he would come to visit.  

Blessed Be...

Tia.

PS. now you can understand the picture at the bottom of my posts.  

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Jonny on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:51pm
You got'em  :-*

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by The mad viking on Sep 6th, 2006, 4:55pm
You got em

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Tiannia on Sep 6th, 2006, 6:16pm
Thank you again.

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by JeffB on Sep 6th, 2006, 6:47pm
Nothing but good thoughts fro you and yours.

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by davyp on Sep 6th, 2006, 6:56pm
All my spare thoughts and vibes heading your way.

[smiley=hug.gif]  [smiley=hug.gif]

Dape

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by kissmyglass on Sep 6th, 2006, 6:58pm
vibes headed your way, Hoping for the best.  
Hang tough untill Friday, hopefully you will have been worried for nothing

Kev

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by LeLimey on Sep 6th, 2006, 7:04pm
Oh Tia, how awful for you
much love
Helen xxx

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by kayarr on Sep 6th, 2006, 7:31pm
I am praying for you.  What a hard choice to make.  Remember you are very much loved.

Warmth and Love heading your way.
Kimberly

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Sep 6th, 2006, 7:33pm
Oh my goodness.  You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.  Please keep us updated.

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Sep 6th, 2006, 8:49pm
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Tia.  

Hugs
Carol

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Tiannia on Sep 6th, 2006, 9:22pm
Thank you all so much.  You have made me feel a million times better.  

I think one of the harder things I had to do was tell Shaun.  I was debating waiting until I knew for sure one way or another, but I tried to see it from his side and how hurt he would be that I did not tell him sooner if it is positive.  

Last night was rough.  But we will get thru and what is meant to happen will happen.  

Each time I started to feel a bit over whelmed today, I would log in and read this thread. So thank you so much and yes I will keep you posted.

Love and Light, PF Nights and Days to you all.
Tia

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by broomhilda on Sep 6th, 2006, 10:26pm
(((((((((((Tia)))))))))))))))

Thinking of you...

Andrea

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by nani on Sep 6th, 2006, 10:56pm
Aw, sweetie...I'm sorry.  :'(
My thoughts and prayers are with you.  :-*
hugs and love, nani

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Charlotte on Sep 6th, 2006, 11:09pm
sorry, tia. Will be prayign for you.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by ShariRae on Sep 6th, 2006, 11:11pm
Tia,,,
I am so sorry to hear of this dilemma..and you are right..you will learn & gain strength..and what is meant to be will be...trust in The Goddess...
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by cootie on Sep 6th, 2006, 11:22pm
Wow.......that is a tough one........hopein it is just a false alarm and you don't have to make a dicision that will be painful. Take care of YOU Pam

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by sandie99 on Sep 7th, 2006, 10:32am
Tia,

I'm glad that you told us instead of keeping it all in. It's quite a situation... I do hope that it will work out for the best in the end.

My thoughts & prayers are with you. [smiley=hug.gif]

Best wishes,
Sanna

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Katherinecm on Sep 7th, 2006, 1:02pm
You're in my prayers as well.

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by Charlie on Sep 8th, 2006, 12:23am
So sorry Tiannia.

No matter what you may have do, you're loved by us all and your family. http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/head pat.gif

Hoping it's just a false alarm and a pile of vibes for you.

Charlie

Title: Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
Post by georgej on Sep 8th, 2006, 12:43am
Many vibes and heartfelt hopes for you, Tiannia.

Best always,

George



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