Clusterheadaches.com Message Board


    
      
        Clusterheadaches.com Message Board
        (http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi)
      

        New Message Board Archives >> 2006 General Board Posts >> Am I doing the right thing???
        
(Message started by: sandie99 on Aug 8^th, 2006, 6:38am)

Title: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by sandie99 on Aug 8^th, 2006, 6:38am

I need your wisdom right now...

I'm going to introduce my boyfriend to my 4 dear friends this Saturday. I've been waiting for this day to come and so have my friends! They have been asking many times that when they'll meet him... :)

BUT, there is one thing which makes me wonder if I'm doing the right thing or not. You see, one of these women was supposed to get married on the very same day... but they called off the wedding and the relationship is over.

Now, because I've invited my friends over, it means that this friend doesn't need to be alone on this day - I know that it can be devasting. But am I doing, on the same time, disservice to her when I'm introducing my boyfriend to her on this particular day? You know, throwing love at her face when she's mouring the end of hers...

Perhaps I'm thinking about this too much... After all, she could have simply said that she cannot attend my party if she wanted to... But some advices would be great. I want to make Saturday a great day for us all. :)

Best wishes & PF days to all,
Sanna

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by LeLimey on Aug 8^th, 2006, 6:50am

I say invite her! She knows why she would be coming so if she wants to stay away its her choice but I think she would be hurt if you didn't give her the choice... I hope you all have a fantastic time and WE WANT PICS!! :)

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by sandie99 on Aug 8^th, 2006, 7:05am

Helen,

I've invited her and as far as I know, she's also coming. I did send all my friend confirmation email this morning, so we'll see.

What comes to pics... well, I'm taking my digi with me and I promise to do my best. My friends are bit camera shy, though. Maybe if I'll catch them when they're not expecting it... :D

Sanna

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by Bethany1 on Aug 8^th, 2006, 7:20am

Sanna, I think its fine because it will a group of you guys. If it were just you, your boyfriend and her it might be a little awkward. Its nice of you to think of that, means your compassionate. Your a good friend. ;;D Have a great time!

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by Charlotte on Aug 8^th, 2006, 9:01am

I think you're doing the right thing. Have a lovely time. Don't worry about pics. Your friend may be on an emotional roller coaster (or not) but from what I know of you, you can handle that.

Also, each relationship is different. I'm happy that you can have people you love meet each other.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by E-Double on Aug 8^th, 2006, 9:09am

Your thinking too much Sanna

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by seasonalboomer on Aug 8^th, 2006, 9:17am

Yes, go for it. But try to avoid having everyone getting sloppy drunk and melancholy.... :-X And no toasts like, "To lovers!", Or "Men, you can't live with'm, you can't drag them behind the car with a chain"
(just kidding Sanna)

Scott

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by LadyLuv on Aug 8^th, 2006, 6:14pm

Enjoy your self Sweetie...

This just might be what your friend need to once again see the positive side of love..

LL

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by cootie on Aug 8^th, 2006, 6:19pm

You cannot hide love or health from the sick or broken hearted........it's everywhere Pam

Have fun........ALL of you !!!

Title: Re: Am I doing the right thing???
Post by sandie99 on Aug 9^th, 2006, 5:36am

Thank you all for your thoughts. :)

on 08/08/06 at 09:17:48, seasonalboomer wrote:

But try to avoid having everyone getting sloppy drunk and melancholy.... :-X And no toasts like, "To lovers!", Or "Men, you can't live with'm, you can't drag them behind the car with a chain"
(just kidding Sanna)

Scott, that was just brilliant! Thanks... [smiley=laugh.gif]
Thanks for reminding me to hide the liquor cabinet and my Red Bulls... ;;D I don't think I could handle and punch of hyperactive drunks! [smiley=laugh.gif] (just kidding...)

Sanna