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(Message started by: thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 11:10am)

Title: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 11:10am
I will start this by saying that this is THE MOST optimistic I have ever been after leaving an OUCH function.  The research project that is in the works at Harvard has given us a lot of hope, I just hope the politicians don’t bollocks it up for us.  The dedication and perseverance of our BOD and officers is absolutely amazing.  And the work that the volunteers are doing is truly priceless.  Rori, you are a gem in every sense of the word.  You did an absolute bang-up job and I thank you.  I think the convention was a great success, because of the efforts OUCH and all of the members who attended.  The speakers were great, I was soaking in every word from all of them.  Aside from that perspective, getting to a more personal tone with my thoughts…… It was so great to see all of my old friends/family again, Jackie, Jean and Blake, you three will always have a very special place in my heart, from day one you have embraced me and accepted me and made me feel loved and welcomed into your hearts, I can never, EVER express how much you all mean to me.  I was really happy to get to spend more time with Jimi and Ruthie this time, I really enjoyed it, you two are just marvelous people, the love you two share for each other is very apparent and I think some of it spills out onto us clusterheads too, for that I thank you both.  It is always so good to see Bob (Bluemeanie) he has always been a great friend to me, and I’m so glad you brought Cindy with you she is such a sweetheart, but we missed Rae too!  Be sure to tell her we were thinking about her.  DJ and Stephanie, what can I say you two are just beautiful people, and so in love.  I can never thank DJ enough for all he means to so many of us.  And Stephanie is just an absolute perfect fit, she really cares about all of us too.  Ruthie (LadyLuv) you are such a dear, and my heart lifts every time I see you.  Liz (ASB), you worked yourself to death this weekend, you are such a tireless supporter for so many, and you have such a huge heart, and you should be very proud of your children.  Tina and Rrrrrrrrrrrrramon! ;) I love you guys so much, and to me you are both family, and you and your girls always bring a smile to my face.  Mel, I think you must be just one of the sweetest people ever born, you are just incredible.  Carol (Grandmasweetboy) You are incredible, it was sooooo good to finally get to meet you, the way you took Gena under your wing was just fantastic, I don’t even have to words to express how impressed I was by you and the way you take care of things, your daughter is a lovely lady as well, and it was a pleasure to meet her as well, I hope her flight home is uneventful.  Andrea (Broomie) it was such a great honor for me to meet you, you are so special, your compassion for others coupled with your great insight makes you an incredible lady, and I literally don’t have to words to express how great it was to actually get to meet you and hug you.  Donna D, take a damn nap and get some rest or I am gonna kick your butt!  You are just awesome.  Steve (Kop) you have a heart of gold, and are such a great guy.  Tom K, thanks for letting us meet your beautiful wife, and I do wish you two all the best.  UK Ben, WOW, what else can I say about some one who has done so much to improve life for so many of us, you are truly a gentleman.  Helen, you are an absolute doll, I love the twinkle in your eye and that devilish grin.  Your biting wit is only matched by the depth of your love and compassion.  Patti K, it was so great to finally meet you, I hope it isn’t that long before we can have coffee or lunch, since we are so close.  Pep, you are such a great supporter for us all, and I love your realism and dedication.  Plus you are a blast to hang out with.  It has been too long since Nashville.  Bill, you are a brother to me as surely if we shared parents, I don’t know what more else I can say.  Jonny, you are so special to so many people in so many different ways.  I for one always enjoy our camaraderie, you’ve always been a great friend and brother.  Jasmyn, you are one great lady, it was such a pleasure to sit and talk with you.  I’m so glad you made the long journey to be with all of us.  I hope the native here provided adequate entertainment for you. Lol.  Cat, you are my hero, I don’t like to think where any of us would be without all of your hard work, we  each owe you a debt of gratitude.  Linda, you are such a treasure and do so much for so many, I we all have a special place in our hearts for you.  Jim, wow, what can I say, I admire your insight and “get it done” attitude, I hope to learn much from you in the near future, you are such a great asset and have a wonderful way of explaining things to a layman, such as myself, thanks for all you have done.  Gator, man it was so good to finally meet you, you are such an inspiration, you picked up an oar from day one and haven’t put it down yet.  Your compassion and dedication is humbling.  

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 11:11am
Your wife is such a sweet lady and I’m so glad you both came I enjoyed every second I got to spend with both of you.  Svenn and Bente, you two are so special to me, I love Svenn like a brother, and Bente is just and absolute angel, I can never express the gratitude that I have for all of your hard work and support.  WildHaus, I truly enjoyed our many conversations, you are definitely a man of character, and that is something that speaks highly to me.  You left a very deep impression on me from this weekend, I admire how you refuse to give up in the struggle we all face.  Mat, it was so good to see you again, and your Dad was a lot of fun, I’m really glad you brought him with you.  You are both in my thoughts as you deal with the loss of your friend.  Ted and Karla, thank you so much for the use of the Tiger Balm, it helped immensely.  And I had a great time playing golf on Friday.  Speaking of golf, MR, it was awesome to finally get out and hit the links with you, we have been talking about it for years, and it finally happened, and I’m glad it did, because I didn’t get to see you much outside of it.  We will have to make this some kind of tradition.  Brew Crew, man I can’t think you and the dudes in the band enough, you put on a hell of a show, the music was OUTSTANDING, you are all very talented and we were blessed that you shared your music with us.  Plus it was great meeting you.  And a special thanks goes out to the UW band, I was completely surprised and impressed that you kids came out and entertained us.  Hope to see you all this fall, GO BUCKY!  

I know I didn’t mention everyone, and I’m sorry if any one feels slighted, but my head is still reeling with all that transpired this weekend.  I love you all, and you are all special to me.  Thank you to all who came, and those who weren’t able to attend, I hope to see you all real soon.

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 11:17am
I had some cut and paste problems, so if you read this and it didn't make any sense, I have corrected it some.  :-[

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 11:42am
I can't believe that I didn't mention Chuck........ you have always been a dear friend since our first meeting.  You are truly a soldier and the rest of us can learn from your perserverance.

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Gena on Jul 17th, 2006, 12:10pm

on 07/17/06 at 11:42:07, thomas wrote:
I can't believe that I didn't mention Chuck........ you have always been a dear friend since our first meeting.  You are truly a soldier and the rest of us can learn from your perserverance.


And gives a great Pedicure   ;) :-*

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Melissa on Jul 17th, 2006, 1:18pm
Oh Thomas, you have me in tears again!!!  You are an awesome man, don't EVER forget that!!!

:-*me

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Charlie on Jul 17th, 2006, 3:31pm
Nice post Thomas. It wouldn't be anywhere near as good without yuz.

It's always great to see you again and you do more than your share, shorty.

Charlie

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 3:45pm

on 07/17/06 at 15:31:59, Charlie wrote:
Nice post Thomas. It wouldn't be anywhere near as good without yuz.

It's always great to see you again and you do more than your share, shorty.

Charlie


Well Charlie, you know I love you too.  It's always great to spend time with you, I love your perspective on a lot of things.  You're ok for a religious zealot in my book.  ;)

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by brewcrew on Jul 17th, 2006, 4:22pm
Thomas,

You, sir, are a true mensch. You are as in touch with your feelings as I have ever witnessed in a man. I'm proud to call you my friend.

I will keep you and Gena posted as to the band's schedule. We would love to make a night of it. And thanks for your positive comments - I'll pass them along to the guys.

Having said all that, I must chastize you:

Paragraphs are our friends.  ;;D

Bill

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Gena on Jul 17th, 2006, 4:45pm

on 07/17/06 at 16:22:17, brewcrew wrote:
Having said all that, I must chastize you:

Paragraphs are our friends.  ;;D

Bill


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Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 4:47pm
Does mensch mean wussy?  ;)

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by brewcrew on Jul 17th, 2006, 4:51pm

on 07/17/06 at 16:47:32, thomas wrote:
Does mensch mean wussy?  ;)

Yes.

Not really. It means, "A person having admirable characteristics, such as fortitude and firmness of purpose."

And you can take that to the bank, pal.

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by TxBasslady on Jul 17th, 2006, 4:57pm

on 07/17/06 at 16:47:32, thomas wrote:
Does mensch mean wussy?  ;)


[smiley=spit.gif]

J

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by thomas on Jul 17th, 2006, 5:16pm

on 07/17/06 at 16:51:28, brewcrew wrote:
Yes.

Not really. It means, "A person having admirable characteristics, such as fortitude and firmness of purpose."

And you can take that to the bank, pal.



Now you're makin' me blush........ damnit! :-[

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by broomhilda on Jul 17th, 2006, 5:18pm
:'( Thomas, you got me crying...I am still in a daze that this all happened this weekend and at a loss for words really. My heart aches but each one of you left a larger footprint on it than was there before. It was an honour and a pleasure and I want to thank everyone for making me feel comfortable and welcome! The convention was a huge success and to each one of you at OUCH I applaud you and all your hard work!

Thank you, miss you guys...

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by maffumatt on Jul 17th, 2006, 5:47pm
Thomas as allways it was great to see you and Gena again. My dad really enjoyed himself, I want to thank everyone for making him feel welcome. He had more good things to say about all of you guys than I have ever heard him say about anyone. Up until now I don't really think he knew what we go through, now that he does I kinda feel bad. I have never talked that much about it to him.

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Jackie on Jul 17th, 2006, 7:01pm
Thomas....you are one big Huggie Bear and I love you dearly....

Hope to see you all again before a whole year passes....

Hugs & Kisses
Jackie


Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Tom K on Jul 17th, 2006, 7:16pm
Thomas, it's always great to see and speak with you.  I feel like you are the brother I never had.  

High 5!
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Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by pattik on Jul 18th, 2006, 9:29am
Awesome post, Thomas.  You said so many things I have been thinking.  As to the coffee/lunch....we'll make it happen ;;D

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by vig on Jul 18th, 2006, 9:38am
cool words Thomas
keep it up y'all

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by lashultz on Jul 18th, 2006, 10:46am
Tom,



You and Gena are great people. It was my pleasure to meet you both for the first, but definetly not the last.

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by LadyLuv on Jul 18th, 2006, 12:52pm
Thomas...

You are such a special guy... Sweet smile, Big heart and you can carry 4 Chairs -

God Bless you and Gena

                          HIGH-FIVE!!

Peace & Blessings
Lady Luv

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jul 19th, 2006, 12:23am
I feel slighted.

bwwaaa haaa haaaa.

Thomas I just LOVE you and Gena...you too are SO perfect for each other.  It just brings tears to my eyes when I see you lovingly take care of Gena when she gets hit, you just "KNOW"...that is so wonderful.
Love you both,
Mast

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by TxBasslady on Jul 19th, 2006, 2:35am

on 07/17/06 at 19:01:05, Jackie wrote:
Thomas....you are one big Huggie Bear and I love you dearly....



Yep...he's just a big ole baby   ;;D    He gives the best hugs.. :-*

J

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by ClusterChuck on Jul 19th, 2006, 3:00am
Thomas, ya big galoot, what can I say?  I was SO glad to see you and that chick ya been shacking up with, again!  You two are AWESOME individuals!

Damn, I think the smoke from my cigarette got into my eyes ...  They are getting all wet and dripping ...

Chuck

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by Peppermint on Jul 19th, 2006, 8:01am
[quote author=thomas link=board=general;num=1153149037;start=0#13 date=07/17/06 at 17:16:50]


Now you're makin' me blush........ damnit! :-[/quote]


Well that ought to be a sight alright!  But you know Thomas, I agree.  That word fits you perfectly and moreso than ever before.

And, you know I love you and Gena together, you guys complement eachother and I know you've heard me say that before.  

I'm so glad I got to see you both again, it had been too long - nothing like spending time with good-hearted, cool people.  

:) LYG,
Pep

Title: Re: Thoughts........reflections....
Post by LeLimey on Jul 19th, 2006, 10:42pm

on 07/17/06 at 11:10:37, thomas wrote:
I just hope the politicians don’t bollocks it up for us.   


Now where on God's green earth did you learn to talk like that you steamin great wassock?!  ;)
I've looked forward to meeting you and Gena for so long, since I've first joined the board in fact. You've always been a good and true friend and you far and away exceeded my expectations and THEY were high!
I'm so proud to call you my friend, I'm so safe in your hands on the BOD, I'm so very glad Gena has you as she is simply the best and deserves nothing less.
I'm glad to see she got it
love to you all, you know where I am
Helen xxx



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