|
||
|
Title: Bummer Post by maffumatt on Jul 11th, 2006, 5:19pm The guy I grew up next door to was killed this morning. He was a year older than I and we lived next door to each other for 15 years. He came home early from work and found his wife in bed with another man. I am not sure if Timmy stabbed him and then the guy shot Timmy, or the otherway around, but the results are the same. He was about the best friend I have in this world. I may not make it to the convention, I'm not sure yet. |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Melissa on Jul 11th, 2006, 5:22pm Damn Matt, I'm really sorry. My condolences to you. Do what you gotta do with no regrets. HUGS, mel |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by maffumatt on Jul 11th, 2006, 5:27pm This really pisses me off, I can't believe Michele would do that to him. 4 kids without a daddy because she couldn't keep her damn pants on. I mean damn if your gona fuck around at least go somewhere else. |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by TxBasslady on Jul 11th, 2006, 5:32pm Oh sweetie.... I'm so sorry....I don't know what else to say. :'( Much love, Jean |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Charlie on Jul 11th, 2006, 5:47pm Horrible story, Matt. I don't get it either. Sorry you lost such a good friend too. That's really tough on anyone. Hope to see you though. Charlie |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by pattik on Jul 11th, 2006, 7:00pm :( Sad story, Matt. You have my condolences. I'll really miss meeting you if you cancel, but I understand. Patti |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by JeffB on Jul 11th, 2006, 7:05pm Sorry for your loss. I don't want to get down on marriage but I won't do it again. I remember when my wife told me she was pregnant with a second child, only she didn't think about the sex we didn't have the months before she told me. Why do people cheat??? |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by LeLimey on Jul 11th, 2006, 7:58pm Sheesh Jeff if we knew the answer to that we'd all be rich :-/ I'm sorry Matt, thats so tragic and what a terrible waste. ((HUG)) I'll be thinking of you whatever you decide to do love Helen xxx |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Jonny on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:03pm Sorry Matt, I lost my best friend to a gun shot 20 years ago........like any death, it never leaves but time does help. Sorry Bro!! |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Cathi04 on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:15pm Matt, I have been speechless since I read this. How many lives have been destroyed all because someone wasn't playing by the rules? Normal reaction when someone is widowed would be to offer support. I think I prefer to kill this woman! Wherever you are this weekend, there will be people who care and are available to talk to. I hope you will do that. Cathi-who is grateful for the husband she chose so many years ago!!!! |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Gena on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:15pm [smiley=hug.gif] |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by maffumatt on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:31pm My Dad called and said the funeral is going to be Thursday, there is no way way i would be able to make it because I am shorthanded at work and we have an interchange scheudaled that day. I will be seeing you guys Friday noonish.....Pop is looking forward to to the convention, bewarned he is in his own words 100% certified nuts so I guess he should fit in well. We have been planning and looking forward to this for a long time. I'm glad I am not going to miss it. Matt |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Bethany1 on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:32pm Wow Matt, sorry to hear this. :( :( :( :( |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Paul98 on Jul 11th, 2006, 8:53pm So sorry Matt. All the pain in so many lives for just a few moments of thoughtless and stupid fun. Time is good medicine Matt, take it slowly. -P. |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jul 11th, 2006, 9:23pm I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. Sometimes there just are no answers. :-/ Carol |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by broomhilda on Jul 11th, 2006, 9:25pm Matt, my condolences to you so tragic... :-/ Looking forward to meeting you on Friday, see you soon Andrea |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Summerbabe on Jul 11th, 2006, 11:00pm :'( So sorry about your friend .... [smiley=hug.gif]. My deepest condolences :-* Summer |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Donna_D. on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:42am Matt, I am so sorry to hear this about your friend. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. But I can tell you this, you will have a lot of friends waiting with open arms and hearts and good strong shoulders in Milwaukee....me being one of them. Take care and I cannot WAIT to meet Mr. Matlock (is it ok if I call him Dad? ;) ) DD |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by sandie99 on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:45am Matt, I'm so sorry for your loss... [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] My condolences. Best wishes, Sanna |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Richr8 on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:48am So sorry to hear Matt. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Rich |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by cootie on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:57am Well I guess he did what he wanted to do and it kind of went from there.......eye for an eye......tooth for a tooth......all is lost in love and war Pam Seems there could of been better options on this but what went down is what was ment to happen as sad or sick as that mite sound. Such tangled webs we weave...... |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by maffumatt on Jul 12th, 2006, 8:32am He was set up, 1 she knew when he was coming home, 2 the kids were gone, 3 she knew how he would react, 4 he was shot 4 times, once or twice wasn't enough? The guy is going to walk because it was self defence. Timmy did stab the guy. Timmy was well liked in that part of the country. He didn't have a mean bone in his body. He was always ready to help anyone in need. It's just not right. |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by thomas on Jul 12th, 2006, 9:59am If it was pre-meditated, and they can prove it, they should fry both of them. I'm so sorry you lost your friend. |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by LadyLuv on Jul 12th, 2006, 10:15am Matt... While I am so happy that you're going to make it ... I am sadden by the lost of your friend.. Nothing that I can do or say will undo what has been done to your friend... but we are there for you to help you through the healing process... Looking forward to meeting your father.. Love & [smiley=hug.gif] Lady Luv |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by rickyshot on Jul 12th, 2006, 10:23am Wow I am speechless. You read about this stuff all the time. Sadly cheating is extremely common. What is wrong with people anyways. And like you said couldn't at least rent a room. Skank ho........... |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by georgej on Jul 12th, 2006, 10:59am This is horrible stuff, Matt. Very sorry to hear about your loss. Best wishes, George |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by Gator on Jul 12th, 2006, 11:09am Very sorry to hear of your loss, Matt. Truly close friends like that are a rare thing to come by. Sorry you can't make it to the funeral to pay your last respects. I know how important that can be. See you in Milwaukee. Mike |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by maffumatt on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:07pm It wasn't Timmy's house it was the other guys. Its hard to get the story straight when you live 400 miles away and you only hear rumors. Timmy was a big man and he had a knife, so I can understand the shooting. It still sucks. The guy was family to me and my family. http://www.texarkanagazette.com/articles/2006/07/12/local_news/news/news02.txt |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by JenniferD on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:44pm Matt, I am so sorry for your loss of your friend. What a terrible tragedy for you and the family :( I am glad though that you'll have your cluster family around you soon. Thoughts and prayers, Jen |
||
|
Title: Re: Bummer Post by tanner on Jul 12th, 2006, 12:52pm My God Matt I am so sorry to read this >:( I'm glad you are going to the convention though. You need to be around good friends right now! I will be there in spirit :'(.....Tim |
||
|
Clusterheadaches.com Message Board » Powered by YaBB 1 Gold - SP 1.3.1! YaBB © 2000-2003. All Rights Reserved. |