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(Message started by: Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 6:46pm)

Title: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 6:46pm

Sheesh...after all the times I've sat and listened to my brother piss and moan about his breakup with Barb (just 2 months ago mind you) and all the calls prior to this for a year when he suspected this or that, I put off other activities to be there for him when he needed me, and now, when I could really use his shoulder for a change, he's more worried about some chick off the internet he hopes to meet this weekend and doesn't have the time for me.

Great....men....can't shoot them and get away with it.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Jonny on Jun 30^th, 2006, 6:56pm

on 06/30/06 at 18:46:09, Redd715 wrote:

If your brother is a good looking guy, then he should be beat for not being there for you.

If he is an ugly ass dude and has to find fat chicks on the net, then cut him some slack....a dude like that has to take it when he can get it......LMMFAO ;;D

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Mattrf on Jun 30^th, 2006, 6:56pm

Hold it right there Redd, it is not a guy thing, my sister has been the same way to me, crying on my shoulder and pissing and wining about her relationship and when I needed her she was nowhere to be found and when I give her crap about it she acts like it is me that is being unreasonable. Maybe it is just a selfish thing, at least that’s what I think it is with my sister, she is just to rapped up in her life to be concerned with mine. I am sure if she started having problems she would come to me again but I think this time she would get a swift kick in the ass and told to deal with it just like I had to deal with my problems. Oops, I got off on a vent again didn’t I?
Well Redd I feel your pain it sucks to support someone when they need it, only to have them show no concern for you when you need the support.

Matt

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 6:57pm

OK..Ok...so it takes him a little bit of time to regain his sence of family...he just called and said he's on his way up....said he felt like a heal after he talked to me earlier.

My question...why do men think with their little heads 99.9% of the time?

He's in essance the only family I have left besides my kids and they are just that, kids.

Oh hell I should just STFU..

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by BlueMeanie on Jun 30^th, 2006, 7:02pm

See Redd, guys arn't all bad afterall. ;)

Glad he's coming.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 7:13pm

on 06/30/06 at 18:56:42, Jonny wrote:

I'm glad you find this funny...I'll be sure to return that shiney to you in Milwaukee.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Paul98 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 7:24pm

We are not all bad Redd. Just some of us are slow on the uptake.

Any guy that is "in tune" with a woman's thoughts and feelings 24.7.365 either has been married for a very long time or has the mind of a woman, in which case.......

-P.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 7:31pm

on 06/30/06 at 19:02:26, BlueMeanie wrote:

See Redd, guys arn't all bad afterall. ;)

Glad he's coming.

Actually he just called again, and "she" emailed him with her phone number, and he stated point blank, that if she is free that he'll have to resind and meet up with her.

I'm so glad, as family, that after all I've done to be there for him, I ring in last. I can't wait the find out what this phone call entails because I'll let him have it. In spades....

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Jonny on Jun 30^th, 2006, 7:33pm

on 06/30/06 at 19:13:24, Redd715 wrote:

I'm glad you find this funny...I'll be sure to return that shiney to you in Milwaukee.

Whatever!

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Redd715 on Jun 30^th, 2006, 8:42pm

on 06/30/06 at 19:33:39, Jonny wrote:

Whatever!

My sentiments exactly.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by pattik on Jun 30^th, 2006, 10:05pm

Sorry, Pegg. I don't get it either. I have a brother who has been back here to his home state to visit his 89 year-old mother and his sister (me) just twice in the last 15 years. Once when our dad died, and once when his wife's mom died and he was just passing through anyway. Of course he calls our mother every couple of weeks for ten minutes, and I get an occasional email. He can afford more frequent visits too, and there have been no big feuds, so I can't figure it out. Like they say, you can't pick your family, so appreciate your friends. Your brother obviously doesn't appreciate what he has. :-/

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by alchemy on Jul 1^st, 2006, 1:03am

Pegg, I'm sorry you're brother is such a heel. I know what it's like to do for family and then feel the burn when you need them. It's funny it never stops them from asking for more. go figure.
jim

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by Richr8 on Jul 1^st, 2006, 1:44am

on 06/30/06 at 18:57:15, Redd715 wrote:

My question...why do men think with their little heads 99.9% of the time?

It's hydraulics. Not enough blood, or blood pressure, to run both at the same time. ;;D

edited for punctuation. I know, I know. Prolly still screwed up.

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by BMoneeTheMoneeMan on Jul 1^st, 2006, 1:49am

Its not THAT little

:-[

Title: Re: Guess blood isn't important either.
Post by brewcrew on Jul 1^st, 2006, 2:07pm

It's not men that suck, it's brothers.