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(Message started by: sandie99 on Jun 29th, 2006, 11:30am)

Title: Thought of the day
Post by sandie99 on Jun 29th, 2006, 11:30am
"Everyone in your life has come to teach you something"
(unknown)

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Ghost on Jun 29th, 2006, 11:31am
How very true!
;)

Mike

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Mattrf on Jun 29th, 2006, 11:52am
Some of them to teach you how to restrain yourself from choke the living shit out of them. [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Guiseppi on Jun 29th, 2006, 12:23pm
The parallel to that is:

Everyone brings joy to my life, some when they arrive, and some when they leave!

Guiseppi

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Sandy_C on Jun 29th, 2006, 1:06pm

on 06/29/06 at 11:30:18, sandie99 wrote:
"Everyone in your life has come to teach you something"
(unknown)


Absolutely true.  You will learn something you never knew before, whether important or trivial, from every single person you meet in this life.  And you will be smart person if you really listen to everything that is said to you from anyone you meet.

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by JeffB on Jun 29th, 2006, 7:03pm
You can tune a piano but you can't tune a fish! ;)

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by cootie on Jun 29th, 2006, 11:01pm
How do ya deal with sumone that 'when ya bring up sumthin they do that bugs ya or irritates ya' (just corrective critisism that's all.....nothing serious) they have to take it TOTALLY personal and get flameing mad and turn it all ON YOU.....with all this stuff "you" do wrong which has nothing to do with what was brought up in the first place.....then it turns into a big hassle and YOUR the wierd one for 100 reasons ya didn't want to know about. Backfired Pam

What's the thought on the day for a good way to handle that besides keepin yer mouth shut ?? Me and my big mouth..........

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Jasmyn on Jun 30th, 2006, 3:51am

on 06/29/06 at 11:30:18, sandie99 wrote:
"Everyone in your life has come to teach you something"
(unknown)


To acquire knowledge, one must study, but to acquire wisdom, one must observe.
-Aristotle-

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Sandy_C on Jun 30th, 2006, 10:51am
See, Pam.  You learned something that day.  With that particular person, you learned you need to keep your mouth shut. ;;D  

Sandy

Title: Re: Thought of the day
Post by Richr8 on Jun 30th, 2006, 11:45am

on 06/29/06 at 23:01:24, cootie wrote:
How do ya deal with sumone that 'when ya bring up sumthin they do that bugs ya or irritates ya' (just corrective critisism that's all.....nothing serious) they have to take it TOTALLY personal and get flameing mad and turn it all ON YOU.....with all this stuff "you" do wrong which has nothing to do with what was brought up in the first place.....then it turns into a big hassle and YOUR the wierd one for 100 reasons ya didn't want to know about. Backfired Pam

What's the thought on the day for a good way to handle that besides keepin yer mouth shut ?? Me and my big mouth..........


Do you have an example to share?  Might start by realizing most people don't think they are doing anything wrong to begin with and probably won't agree with your assessment of their behaviour.  Make it about you and not them.  When people feel threatened or attacked they jump into a defensive mode and attack back.  Someone said it here.  I think it was Paul(Opus)"Hurt people hurt." I think there is a lot of insight there.



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