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Title: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Melissa on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:26am You can read it in my blog, just click on the little house beneath my avatar. Things are sorta rocky right now. Here's a clip from the newspaper... http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v708/mfiltz/GrandmaMonasObituary.jpg (James was my biological father) I'm sorry you guys, I am sure this is nothing you need to know, but I just wanted you to know what was going on with me. :( mel Sorry, I should have stated that one of my Grandma's died on Tuesday. That's her above. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by medic1852 on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:33am Sorry Mel.... :-/...Your in my thoughts and prayers.. :-/ Rodger |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Goblin on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:34am :'( |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Mattrf on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:39am Melissa I am so sorry for your loss. She is with god and her husband now and I am sure they are watching over you right now. It is hard to deal with a loss such as this but try and think of the good memories and celebrate her life and remember that she is in a place free of pain and is reunited with the love of her life. Matt |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by chewy on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:49am Condolences Mel. Mean? You have never been mean a day in your life. You'd have to take courses in "Mean". And you'd flunk! |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by LeLimey on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:51am I'm sorry Mel [smiley=hug.gif] You and your family are in my thoughts lots and lots of love Helen xxx |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by tanner on Jun 22nd, 2006, 12:06pm I am so sorry Mel :'( She looks like she was a wonderful person and Grandmother! Remember the good times and hold onto those and you can never truly lose her. ....Tim |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Melissa on Jun 22nd, 2006, 12:06pm Thanks so much you guys. Once again, Eli's birthday will be nuts. He turns 3 tomorrow, and we can't have a party for him until July 9th due to Jesse's brothers wedding on Saturday, rehearsal tomorrow eve and now the funeral. It was also a year ago tomorrow that I lost the baby, so things are somewhat topsy turvy. :-/ I appreciate everyone's kindness, as this is hitting me a lot harder than I expected. love, mel |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Jackie on Jun 22nd, 2006, 12:07pm Deepest condolences......I'm so sorry, Sweetie... Love to you, Jacks 8) |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Cathi04 on Jun 22nd, 2006, 12:27pm That's quite a load you're bearing, Mel. Please take time to feel it. Begin the mourning, so the healing can begin. There is a lot of sadness tied into all of this, and I wish I knew how to help you. As for Eli, he's 3.... he will have a wonderful celebration...and many more to come. What he needs right now is to give YOU some comfort. Now, about the mean...........REALLY, Mel! Who are you kidding?? Be sad, be disconnected, be silent...but mean just isnt your style. Sending you hugs, Cathi |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Jimi on Jun 22nd, 2006, 12:34pm I am sorry about the loss of your grandmother. Why do they feel the way tey do. Because you are family. It is that way in my family as well. See you in a couple of weeks. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Melissa on Jun 22nd, 2006, 1:01pm on 06/22/06 at 12:34:02, Jimi wrote:
Yeah, I suppose you're right Jimi. I had no clue who they were (getting to know them wise), and for them to keep treating me like I was one of them, was difficult for me to understand and made me feel uncomfortable. I am just sad that it has taken this long for me to mature and understand the whole thing. It has only been in the past couple years that I've sent cards and pictures to them and invited them to our family functions. Grandma was already sick by then, and I wasn't sure if she knew what was going on or not. Now my Aunt Mary and Aunt Susan are alone. I am worried about them and want to include them as much as possible in mine and my kids lives. Is late better than never? I hope so. :'( :'( :'( |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Jimi on Jun 22nd, 2006, 1:15pm Late is always better than never. Maturity, in most instances, breeds wisdom. Hell, look how smart I am. :P |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by minnie on Jun 22nd, 2006, 1:22pm on 06/22/06 at 13:01:32, Melissa wrote:
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hon it is NEVER too late.Your two aunts will have the joy of knowing and spending time with you,Jessie and the kids and your Grandma will be watching smiling from heaven.About the anniversay of the Loss of your baby I will be praying for peace for you.April 15th is always a sad day for me.10 years ago we lost a baby to miscarage a week before our wedding.talk about an emotional roller coaster.It will get slightly easier but you will never forget the day you lose your baby.i just hug my girls tighter and thank God everyday that they are a part of my life and healthy.doesn't take away the longing feeling but does lessen it a little. hugs to you and the family... Minnie |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Jasmyn on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:07pm My condolences Mel. You hang in there Girl.[smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Redd715 on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:13pm Oh Mel, my heart really goes out to you. You know I'm close enough if you need anything right? Right? :) Love out to you and yours Hon, From me and mine. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by nani on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:18pm I'm so sorry for your loss, melly. :'( I'm sending prayers and my deepest condolences. hugs, nani |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by lionsound on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:42pm Mel, i'm so sorry.... [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Margi on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:46pm my prayers are with you, Melissa. No, I'm learning it's never too late to show someone that you care. You hang in there, girl - you WILL get through this. Eli's birthday, the wedding, the funeral, the anniversary of your loss.... one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. Stay strong, Mel - you can do this! hugs and love, Margi |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Paul98 on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:46pm Sorry for your loss Mel. Always sad to see friends loose loved ones. -P. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by cootie on Jun 22nd, 2006, 2:56pm http://bestsmileys.com/sad/1.gif |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jun 22nd, 2006, 3:23pm my deepest condolences Melly, try to take care sweety, Thinking of ya, Mast |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by ExplodingEyeBall on Jun 22nd, 2006, 3:50pm When I try to say something nice I just come off sounding stupid so here. These should say it. [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jun 22nd, 2006, 4:49pm Sorry, Mel. Just remember it's never too late when it's family. We all just do what we can as we can. Sending hugs your way. Carol |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by maffumatt on Jun 22nd, 2006, 4:52pm Best of wishes from me and mine to you and yours. Be well Mell. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by zwibbs/Scott on Jun 22nd, 2006, 5:10pm Sorry Melissa :'( |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Kevin_M on Jun 22nd, 2006, 5:37pm All big hugs, thoughts, and love to you Mel. We're close by. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Langa on Jun 22nd, 2006, 5:39pm I'm sorry Mel. :'( Lots of hugs, Langa |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Ree on Jun 22nd, 2006, 7:38pm sorry Melly... she died on the anniversary of my daddys death that is a sad day.....love ya honey ree |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Charlie on Jun 22nd, 2006, 9:10pm Sorry for you and yours. http://www.clusterheadaches.com/public_html/yabbimages/smileys/hug.gif I'm thinking of you Mel. Charlie |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by broomhilda on Jun 22nd, 2006, 9:22pm :'(Deepest condolences from my family to yours... Big huge hugs |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Melissa on Jun 22nd, 2006, 10:47pm Thank you so, so very much everyone. I love you all. hugs, mel |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by Sean_C on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:04pm I'm sorry for your loss Mel, we're thinking of you all :'( Sean.............................. |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by tanner on Jun 22nd, 2006, 11:34pm Mel, I asked a friend of mine to create this tag for you. It is yours to use however you like. I hope you and yours are ok, and doing the best you can.... http://dingo.care2.com/pictures/c2c/galleries/albums/124/640408828/TAGS_MADE_FOR_OTHERS/white%20tigers_Melissa.jpg Big Cat hugs....Tim |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by ShariRae on Jun 23rd, 2006, 12:44am Oh Mel...honey.. I am so sorry..Thoughts and Prayers to you & yours... Much Love Shari |
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Title: Re: If I seem mean, or quiet, there's a reason... Post by imnotbub on Jun 23rd, 2006, 2:35pm I am sorry for your loss Mellissa. Steve |
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