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(Message started by: kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:22pm)

Title: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:22pm

I always listen to other couple's problems, all the while thinking, "Thank God, I have such a wonderful and loving boyfriend." I no longer think that. :'(

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kissmyglass on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:23pm

gurls r dummer :)

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Mattrf on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:34pm

I am sorry but my wife got the last good one. [smiley=laugh.gif]

There are good guys out there, they are just a little hard to find but my wife said it was well worth the time spent looking.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Jonny on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:35pm

on 06/15/06 at 18:34:12, Mattrf wrote:

There are good guys out there, they are just a little hard to find but my wife said it was well worth the time spent looking.

Who did she find?....LOL ;;D

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:36pm

on 06/15/06 at 18:35:24, Jonny wrote:

Who did she find?....LOL ;;D

LOL [smiley=laugh.gif]
Thanks Jonny, I needed that!

My boyfriend didn't cheat on me (just FYI), just something else that was dumb!

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Mattrf on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:36pm

I'm still trying to find out, she wont tell me. [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by JeffB on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:54pm

We're not dumb, we're idiots. :P
Just ask my g'friend who doesn't work, spent money for bills and buys a crappy truck then runs down a guy on a motorcycle
(I never would have guessed the Rancho Cordova PD has so many cops on bikes). Runs up my electric bill, phone bill, gas bill, hangs out with my retired neighbor smoking the weed all day, drinks up all my crystal light after she drinks up her pepsi.
Never cooks, never shops, wants to go to concerts and movies on work nights, won't let me take a nap on weekends.
It's a good thing she has a great body, flat tummy great a$$, is kinky in the sack, looks good in daisy dukes , has a collection of thongs, can make a corn dog completely disapear, cleans the house, cleans the clothes, washes my van, keep ice cold rags for my attacks, holds and rubs my head and neck during my attacks, cleans the cats box.
Yeah, we're dumb but I think both sexes have their good and bad ways.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 6:57pm

All of you guys are awesome! Just very disappointed with my boyfriend right now. He's hurt me pretty bad.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by JeffB on Jun 15^th, 2006, 7:09pm

Just remember that you have those 2 things on your chest, they hold much power over us men. Use the force of boobs and he'll straiten up.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Jimi on Jun 15^th, 2006, 7:12pm

Quote:

It's a good thing she has a great body, flat tummy great a$$, is kinky in the sack, looks good in daisy dukes , has a collection of thongs, can make a corn dog completely disapear

PICS!

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Jonny on Jun 15^th, 2006, 7:14pm

on 06/15/06 at 19:09:46, JeffB wrote:

Use the force of boobs and he'll straiten up.

Err, fly me with boobs, Err ;;D

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by JeffB on Jun 15^th, 2006, 7:32pm

Jonny gave me a great idea for you, tell your dude that your going on the Stern show and mention something about balogna being thrown on your tush and you're going to learn something about bukaki. Or you're going to Vegas this weekend to meet a guy named Artie and see what a black out is like. Kidding!

You know what, my girlfriend must feel the same about me. Disapointed... ;;D

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Redd715 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 7:45pm

Sometimes hurt is a part of relationships, and they grow stronger during the healing process. Some hurts go too deep to heal from. I hope for your sake, this is one that will bring you two closer in the long run.

Here if you need.

Pegg

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Charlotte on Jun 15^th, 2006, 8:09pm

My husband read an article that men have more brain cells - they need them to think about sex.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 9:21pm

on 06/15/06 at 19:45:21, Redd715 wrote:

Thank you so much Pegg. I know you've been going through some things yourself. I hope that we can grow closer from this too, but right now I'm just really hurt.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Lizzie2 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 10:24pm

Hang in there Kimmie.....

My own hurts have led me to know that now is the time for me to be alone. I'd started dating a guy very very recently, but "broke it off" while I was in Florida.

I need to focus on myself for awhile....and that's okay too. I've done it before and I'll do it again... :)

Hugz..........
Carrie :)

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Barry_T_Coles on Jun 15^th, 2006, 10:38pm

Maybe this will explain. ;;D

A Spanish teacher was explaining to her

class that in Spanish, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine.

"House" for instance, is feminine: "la casa."

"Pencil," however! , is masculine: "el lapiz."

A student asked, "What gender is 'computer'?"

Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether "computer" should be a masculine or a feminine noun.

Each group was asked to give four reasons for its recommendation.

The men's group decided that "computer" should definitely be of the feminine gender ("la computadora"), because:

1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic;

2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else;

3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval; and

4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it.

(THIS GETS BETTER!)

The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be Masculine ! ("el computador"), because:

1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on;

2. They have a lot of data but still can't think for themselves;

3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem; and

4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model.
The women won.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by tanner on Jun 15^th, 2006, 10:47pm

I'm sorry to hear that you are hurting Kimmie, but I am glad for both of your sakes that he got stupid with his big brain instead of his little one.

Here's hoping you can patch things up and be better for it.

Take it from a man that has been stupid more times than my Linda can even remember.......Thank God.............Tim

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 15^th, 2006, 11:04pm

Thank you everybody for your well wishes. I hope that things work out between us, but right now my heart hurts pretty bad. I feel like I've lost my best friend.

Thanks again everybody!

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Jun 16^th, 2006, 1:10am

Kim, Hang tough---whatever it is that he did, he probably regrets it. I do dumb things everyday, I know this because my wife tells me, my kids hear her and they think---God, dad is dumb. The all important thing for your future with him is for you to convey to him your true feelings. Let him know it bothered you.

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Jun 16^th, 2006, 1:12am

It's a good thing she has a great body, flat tummy great a$$, is kinky in the sack, looks good in daisy dukes , has a collection of thongs, Jeffb-----Is she from Sacramento ?

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Cathi04 on Jun 16^th, 2006, 1:38am

>:(ZWIBBY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

.that's not us...we're old....

but we love your spirit.......... :-*

Linda.err, Cathi...... uhh, Kathy...well, Charlotte...the Sacto girls!!

PS- boys are, in fact, dumb.......but, after 33yrs together, mine is positively irreplaceable!! Kimmiedawn, I hope you'll be saying that in 33 yrs as well!

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by LeLimey on Jun 16^th, 2006, 3:58am

All I've learned about men is never to feel "safe" with one and never, ever trust one with your heart :-/
You'll get through Kimmie, you have all of us, but it isn't easy so don't feel bad about feeling bad okay?

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Jun 16^th, 2006, 6:34am

on 06/16/06 at 01:38:56, Cathi04 wrote:

>:(ZWIBBY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

.that's not us...we're old....

but we love your spirit.......... :-*

Linda.err, Cathi...... uhh, Kathy...well, Charlotte...the Sacto girls!!
PS- boys are, in fact, dumb.......but, after 33yrs together, mine is positively irreplaceable!! Kimmiedawn, I hope you'll be saying that in 33 yrs as well!

I'll be 30 years in November, but my wife robbed the craddle--and--thongs are for everyone !!!!!!! WE ARE NOT OLD

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by sandie99 on Jun 16^th, 2006, 6:55am

Kimmiedawn,

I am so sorry that you're hurting right now... [smiley=hug.gif]

I know that you said that you want to face the situation on your own and I respect that. That's what I do when I find myself in crisis.

I don't know what happened, but I do hope that things work out. (Personally I believe that what happends is meant to happen for a reason we'll find out later on.)

But, do let me know, if there's something I can do to make you feel better, okay? :)

Wishing you the best,
Sanna

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by imnotbub on Jun 16^th, 2006, 9:43am

Just keep in mind that no one is perfect. Make a check list. Good vs. bad. If the good beets the bad by 2 - 1, forgive and move on. If not, don't forgive, and MOVE ON. Advise my wifes aunt gave her about me when I pissed the wife off before we were married. (I wonder if she regrets it now?)

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by ShadowLord on Jun 16^th, 2006, 10:00am

Kick his arse!

PFDAN.................................................... ShadowLord

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Linda_Howell on Jun 16^th, 2006, 12:02pm

Quote:

-----Is she from Sacramento ?

Ya jest had to do it, didn't ya? ::)

Kimmie, I know you weren't asking for advice but it appears we all can't help ourselves when one of us is hurting. Ask yourself if you were better off before you met him or NOW.

Linda

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by thomas on Jun 16^th, 2006, 12:57pm

I feel bad that you are hurting, heart pain trumps CH pain in my book. I hope you two are able to resolve this and move forward. :-/

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jun 16^th, 2006, 3:04pm

Thank you guys for your advice and your challenges to me. Brian and I have been together for 3 years. I love him so much and I feel that every decision in my life somehow has something to do with him. I want to forgive him for his mistake, but I don't want to be a doormat and I don't want for history to repeat itself. And if history does repeat itself I want to have enough courage to break things off and move on. I am going to forgive him, I just need to get all of the crying out and such. Once again, thanks to all of you who have replied, you have no idea how much all of you mean to me.

-Kim

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by alchemy on Jun 16^th, 2006, 3:25pm

I hope it all works out for you Kim, sometimes these things make the relationship stronger. Keep your chin up

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by minnie on Jun 17^th, 2006, 3:04pm

on 06/16/06 at 03:58:22, LeLimey wrote:

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Time will help the pain go away....right?.....I know I'm trying hard not to feel this way but it's hard....and yes when you lose your best friend to the end of a relationship it is so hard :'( something i think you never quite get over.I don't think I'll ever have a best friend like that again........................
Minnie
it will get better,it will get better,it will get better........

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Ree on Jun 17^th, 2006, 4:06pm

Boys are dumb! Yes, and your point is....( see my honesty post in the supporters corner) welcome to our elite group.....lol love ree

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by brewcrew on Jun 17^th, 2006, 5:43pm

on 06/16/06 at 03:58:22, LeLimey wrote:

All I've learned about men is never to feel "safe" with one and never, ever trust one with your heart :-/

Wow - both barrels, unloaded!

Should I feel privileged to be a part of this despicable group just because I have testicles?

I fancy myself very much unlike what you describe, Helen. 24 years married (we've known each other since we were five), still head over heels in love with my bride, and still the ONLY one with whom she trusts her heart.

We're not ALL like that.... :)

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by brewcrew on Jun 19^th, 2006, 4:55pm

BTTT - To give Helen another chance. :o

Title: Re: Boys are dumb!
Post by Sandy_C on Jun 19^th, 2006, 5:41pm

Hang in there Kimmie. Maybe things will work out with him - maybe they won't. But, don't close your heart to love, because there is definitely someone out there for you. It might be this man who has hurt you, or it might be someone else. There is not one perfect relationship on this earth. It takes a lot of hard work and commitment on both sides to make a relationship last. Just keep your heart open, at all times. You never know when that little cupid arrow might just strike.

Sandy