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(Message started by: Daddys_Devil on May 26^th, 2006, 7:29pm)

Title: Hit and Helpless
Post by Daddys_Devil on May 26^th, 2006, 7:29pm

I feel so helpless sometimes. :( One of my suffers is getting hit. :'( I know that I have no idea what the pain that you guys go through is like but just watching hurts. The thing that frightens me the most is when she stops moving. At least when she's moving I can tell some what of how bad it is but when she stops moving I have no idea how she is or even if she is still alive. For a second, I hope that she is for my own selfishness, but then I pray that she isn't so that the beast finally leaves her alone. I'm sad/glad to say that she is. Its hard as hell (as I'm sure many of you know) to watch but you know you have to so that you can figure out if the beast finally won or not. To watch them in that kind of pain is like watching someone you care about get dumped and know there is nothing you care do to make them feel better. I know I'm just a kid but I really try to understand what each of you live with (and pray that I won't turn out as messed up as you guys :D). I'd like to say that she is doing better but I don't like to lie. I'll let you know when things change.

Always,
Felicia 8)

P.S. Great now the other one's getting it too!

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Linda_Howell on May 26^th, 2006, 7:58pm

aww, Felicia...I feel for you hon. You are doing such a great job of hanging in there.

Would it be of any help to you if you had a number you could call(mine) at times like these and have someone to talk to or to ask questions of?

I could call you back on my dime.

Let me know and I will send you my number in a PM

Linda

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by tanner on May 26^th, 2006, 8:34pm

You hang in there doll !!

They need you....We need you... and you are going to grow up to be the best supporter ever!!!

You have just been the brightest spot in the day of someone you don't even know :)

....thanks, Tim

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Linda_Howell on May 26^th, 2006, 9:19pm

Quote:

You have just been the brightest spot in the day of someone you don't even know

Tanner, you got that right. :)

Linda

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Daddys_Devil on May 27^th, 2006, 9:15am

Thanks for all the support guys. My suffers read your replies and thought all of you very sweet. For the time being, they're doing much better.

Tanner, you said that I didn't know you and the others, but I feel like I sort of do. :)

Linda, thanks for the offer, my dad has told me so much about you and was really greatful. :-*

Always,
Felicia 8)

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by maffumatt on May 27^th, 2006, 2:19pm

on 05/26/06 at 19:29:25, Daddys_Devil wrote:

I know I'm just a kid but I really try to understand what each of you live with (and pray that I won't turn out as messed up as you guys :D).,
Felicia 8)

CH makes supporters grow up fast. I hope your mom finds relief soon. She is lucky to have a "kid" like you.
Matt

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Daddys_Devil on May 27^th, 2006, 9:45pm

on 05/27/06 at 14:19:01, maffumatt wrote:

I hope your mom finds relief soon. She is lucky to have a "kid" like you.
Matt

thank goodness it wasn't my mom. I'm not sure she could stand having CH. As many of you know, my dad suffers but I support for two. No, this was someone else, that wishes to remain privet, but is still very close to me. Thanks for the consern.

Always,
Felica 8)

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Leesa on May 28^th, 2006, 12:01am

Felicia, I know the feeling hun, just do what you need to do to keep your wits about ya gal if you need to talk tell your dad to call me ANYTIME. Im here for YOU too!! Your a GREAT supporter. Keep up the great work!!!
Love, Leesa

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by alienspacebabe on May 29^th, 2006, 12:25am

You are a fantastic supporter, Felicia!

Give them both hugs from me please....

Title: Re: Hit and Helpless
Post by Dragnlance on May 29^th, 2006, 8:58am

Felicia

You may not feel you are doing anything, and for the pain you are correct, nothing you do can help. BUT, just you being there helps. You have no idea just how much having a supporter in the room really does help. When getting hit, we become isolated in pain, but with a supporter, we are not alone.

Thank you for being a supporter, and I would add my hugs to you, for being brave enough to endure this too.

Lance