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(Message started by: Ree on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:09pm)

Title: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry~
Post by Ree on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:09pm

Hi its me.... another sad post~ it seems as if all I have for you lately is sadness. Definately not my fault. They say God only gives you what you can handle. Well I think God needs glasses because what He sees in me and what I have left is a speck of hope... a glimmer. I am not as strong as He thinks I am.
I am asking your prayer tonight for my sister in law Doreen who has over the past week been diagnosed with INOPERABLE TERMINAL LUNG CANCER. Tonight she was told that even with chemo at best she will have a 20% chance of living a year or two.
Doreen is my brother Kevins wife... they were and have been in love for about 32 years... she is only 50 so if you count those years up thats 3/4 of her life dedicated to my brother, their 2 kids, 2 cats, and all of lifes tribulations...
Please say a prayer that if God is taking my brother's wife in this way, that she not suffer. That Kevin finds the strength to endure the long road ahead. That I give up the thought that I have to take care of everyone and everything in my extended family...
And I will pray that those of you that still smoke will know that this is the cancer caused by smoking, and quit. Its called Otes cell cancer... Dave quit cold turkey a week ago and doesn't eve have the urge. This is way too close for comfort right now. Not ready to give up my sister in law after losing mom and dad less than a year ago... I love you all... Ree

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by maffumatt on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:14pm

You gotem Ree, all I have........

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Jonny on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:15pm

All I got, Ree....this is too sad :'(

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Sean_C on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:25pm

Lord, look upon Doreen with eyes of mercy, may your healing hand rest upon hers, may your lifegiving powers flow into every cell of her body and into the depths of her soul, cleansing, purifying, restoring her to wholeness and strength for service in your Kingdom, for the love she shares so deeply for you.

Amen.

Ree I know we talked and you know I'll pray for all of you bud. Make sure you tell Doreen we're thinking of her.

Huge hugs comin over [smiley=hug.gif]

Sean.................................

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Tom K on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:29pm

Sucks, Ree. Sending all I can spare. The karma train should be pulling into your station any day now! You don't deserve all the crap you have been though and it's time you get some relief!!!

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Redd715 on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:40pm

All there is to you my Dear sister.

Candle is lit as well....suffering is relitive as we all know, but my wish is for a calm and comfortable remainder of her life and passing.

to add:

Quote:

The karma train

For all Ree has given this family all will pray and send all the best of wished 1000 fold.

Karma gets what it begets...

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by DonnaHar on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:43pm

Oh Ree.....this is such sad news. You all are going to miss her so much....till you meet up again.

It's time to talk to Hospice now and keep them up to date on her condition. Her family needs this as well as she does.

God bless you all and keep you close.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by broomhilda on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:47pm

On their way from Canada Ree...

Big hugs

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by kimmiedawn81 on May 23^rd, 2006, 9:52pm

I'm so sorry to hear that Ree. All of my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Karla on May 23^rd, 2006, 10:18pm

Ree we will add Doreen to our churches prayer chain and we will be praying for you and your family. May the Almighty Comforter be with you at this time and thru to her passing.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by jimmers on May 23^rd, 2006, 10:50pm

You and your Family are in our prayers as always, but even more today. :'(

Jim and Barb

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by alchemy on May 23^rd, 2006, 10:52pm

so sorry Ree, sending all my prayers
jim

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by cootie on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:06pm

I quit the day after New Years Eve.......wish I could get Brad to quit too........so sorry Pam

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Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Melissa on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:08pm

It seems if life isn't coming at you, it's leaving you. :-/

I'm sorry Ree, I don't know what else to say other than I hope everyone can find peace in their hearts and minds during this time.

love,
mel

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by tanner on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:19pm

REE, I think you know how much you and Dave and the kids mean to me so I will simply offer this up to Doreen & Kevin

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May god please intervene on their behalf !

Peace, Love and Light from the Rambows

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by fubar on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:22pm

Doctor's aren't always right. I hope they all eat crow on this one.

Hang in there.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by nani on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:26pm

I'm so sorry, Ree. I'm sending all I've got. hugs, nani
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Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Dragnlance on May 23^rd, 2006, 11:27pm

You have all we can send Ree

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Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Charlie on May 24^th, 2006, 12:37am

So sorry to hear this. http://www.clusterheadaches.com/public_html/yabbimages/smileys/hug.gif

All my thoughts and vibes to you and yours.

Charlie

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Jasmyn on May 24^th, 2006, 3:04am

Sorry to hear Ree, may you and your family gain more strength for what lays ahead, vibes to you [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by sandie99 on May 24^th, 2006, 3:48am

Ree,

I'm so sorry... :'(

Doreen, Kevin & you are all in my prayers. I know very well how difficult it is to know that a closeone is suffering from cancer... [smiley=hug.gif]

I wish all of you strength. And I wish happy, joyful things your way, Ree. Don't lose hope...

Best wishes,
Sanna

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by LeLimey on May 24^th, 2006, 6:34am

Oh Ree I'm so sorry, sending all the love and positive thoughts I can
love to you all
Helen xx

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Bob P on May 24^th, 2006, 9:46am

Friend of my parents was diagnosed with the same. They gave her 3 months, she lived 12 years. Hoping the same for yours.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by kcopelin on May 24^th, 2006, 2:19pm

Ree,
Doreen, you and all the family will be in our prayers. God's grace and mercy and peace and comfort to you sweetie.
God never promised an easy life-just the strength and grace to face it. My heart breaks for you, hold on Ree!
love,
kathy

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Ghost on May 24^th, 2006, 2:42pm

Sending away!

Quote:

They say God only gives you what you can handle. Well I think God needs glasses because what He sees in me and what I have left is a speck of hope... a glimmer. I am not as strong as He thinks I am.

He knows you have more than a speck! And we all know how strong you really are.
:'(

Mike

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by The mad viking on May 24^th, 2006, 3:03pm

The bandwagon is filled with all the prayers and good hugs i can muster from this side of the pond

Svenn

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Charlotte on May 24^th, 2006, 3:06pm

I'll be praying for you and your family. There really is no comfort to give, but hopefully everyone will resolve all unaddressed issues and be ready for eternity. I'm sorry for your broken heart.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by minnie on May 24^th, 2006, 9:06pm

May Doreen and your family have the strength needed to get through the difficult times ahead.May your memories of her always be sweet and comforting.I pray you feel her Love with you always.
Minnie

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by ShariRae on May 24^th, 2006, 11:41pm

Awww Ree..I am so sorry...You & Yours are in my thoughts and prayers...
Take care of YOU as you deal with all of this.
Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Ree on May 25^th, 2006, 1:13pm

thanks all for your thoughtful sentiments. I appreciate every word. We are so lucky to have such a great shield of love here at CH.com attatched to a mighty warrior watching over us.
I truly love you all more than you can imagine...
Ree

ps quit smoking!

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Edna on May 26^th, 2006, 12:06am

Ree, God doesn't need glasses dear. Just stay close and know you have my prayers there with you and your entire family.

I pray for strength for you, and courage to seek help in others for yourself. I think I hear your message loud and clear, you CAN'T fix everyone.

hugs,
EDNA

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by Dave_Emond on May 26^th, 2006, 2:26am

on 05/25/06 at 13:13:33, Ree wrote:

We are so lucky to have such a great shield of love here at CH.com attatched to a mighty warrior watching over us. Ree

Father in Heaven,
We pray now for Ree, Kevin and Your child Doreen ...
Grace and peace be multiplied to them through their knowledge of God, and of Jesus Christ our Lord.
According to Your divine power You have given to us all the things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of You that hath called us to Your glory and virtue. May Your will be done and in peace to their whole family, but we earnestly pray for intervention and this burden be lifted for not only one, but for all this family, especially the children. If you call Doreen to You we pray You bring her to you softly and gently into Your Kingdom. In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ we ask these things.
Amen.
God Bless you and your all your family Ree.

Title: Re: Begging for prayers...another sad post...sorry
Post by taraann on May 26^th, 2006, 11:17am

Your sister and all who care for her are in my thoughts and prayers. Also prayers of strength.