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(Message started by: JenniferD on Apr 28^th, 2006, 11:34am)

Title: it didn't go well
Post by JenniferD on Apr 28^th, 2006, 11:34am

but on the bright side, at least they aren't filing criminal charges.

We are so screwed.

y'all take care.

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by Carl_D on Apr 28^th, 2006, 11:35am

Sending bigtime coping vibes, hugs and prayers.

Hang in there,
Carl D

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by ShariRae on Apr 28^th, 2006, 11:36am

Oh Jennifer.. I am so sorry...
Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by nani on Apr 28^th, 2006, 11:42am

Yuck. As I said before, I was in a similar situation a (long) while back. First thing I did was make him get a day job. The last thing he needed was to sit at home unsupervised all day. So he worked a 6 hour a day day job and went to night school. For him, the job paid for the lawyer he needed and the restitution the judge ordered him to pay. Having to cover that himself made him realize the good consequence/bad consequence theory. He never got in trouble with the law again.
Your biggest job here is to force him to take it all like a man (or a woman, LOL).
hugs and love to you, nani

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by sandie99 on Apr 28^th, 2006, 1:25pm

[smiley=hug.gif]

Best wishes,
Sanna

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by LeLimey on Apr 28^th, 2006, 3:49pm

Thinking of you Jen, we're here okay?
love
Helen

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by Jackie on Apr 28^th, 2006, 3:59pm

Well Shit.....sorry Jennifer.... >:(

Nani's advice looks good to me.....

Hang in there, Sweetie....

Jacks 8)

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by alchemy on Apr 28^th, 2006, 4:18pm

HANG IN THERE !!!!!

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by BarbaraD on Apr 28^th, 2006, 5:59pm

Hang in there kid -- and remember SOMEDAY - the kids will reproduce and they'll get it all back in spades!!

Hugs BD

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by Charlie on Apr 28^th, 2006, 6:51pm

Rats.

I'm with Jackie. http://www.kolobok.wrg.ru/smiles/he_and_she/girl_sigh.gif?SSImageQuality=Full

Says it all for me.

Charlie

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by maffumatt on Apr 28^th, 2006, 6:54pm

Sorry Jen..........

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by Jasmyn on Apr 29^th, 2006, 10:02am

[smiley=hug.gif]Vibes to you and your family, Jen.

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by deltadarlin on Apr 29^th, 2006, 11:06am

Don't they have an alternative school that is during the daytime? I know that a friend of my daughter's son attends alternative school and it's hours coincide with regular school hours and he rides the bus.

That not being feasible, have you thought about boot camp? Not all kids who go to boot camp are bad kids either, some just haven't found their niche yet. The National Guard runs one in Louisiana and it's a tough program, but it's a good one.

Carolyn

Title: Re: it didn't go well
Post by TomM on Apr 29^th, 2006, 12:10pm

on 04/28/06 at 17:59:36, BarbaraD wrote:

-- and remember SOMEDAY - the kids will reproduce and they'll get it all back in spades!!

Hugs BD

There is something completey wrong with this picture. [smiley=huh.gif]