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Title: The tension HA from hell... Post by nani on Feb 9th, 2006, 2:21pm Yes, I'm actually whining about a tension HA. Don't get me wrong, it could be a CH...Crying triggered a 5 minute hit earlier. I just came from a funeral. For a 7 week old baby boy. The baby had been struggling from birth and already had 4 surgeries. He was his parent's first baby. The Mommy was mooshie's teacher earlier this year, so mooshie went too. She asked me "Why?" I had to say "I really don't know." Because, I really don't. :'( |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Guiseppi on Feb 9th, 2006, 2:24pm Pain is pain, whether it's triggered by tension or the beast, it still hurts. Sorry for you on both levels. It's never fair when the little babies check out. Hugs to ya. Guiseppi |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Melissa on Feb 9th, 2006, 2:31pm Nani, tension HA's are an absolute BITCH, so I understand the pain you're feeling. It's a kind that never goes away, but stays with you until either you take a pill or learn how to manage it with a lot of concentration. BIG HUGS to you hon!!! melly |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by LeLimey on Feb 9th, 2006, 3:02pm Sending all the love I can to you and the poor family of that new angel. I wish I had answers for you my sweet as to why bad things happen to good people but I don't. I know how crying hurts like a bitch too and I'm sorry you have to know. love you lots hon helen XXX |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Margi on Feb 9th, 2006, 3:19pm aw, Nani, that is tragic. Ours is not to know why, though - THAT's the rub here. For whatever reason, that little angel had already fulfilled his purpose here. Rejoice that he now has wings and that he has found peace in the place he needs to be. Pour yourself a hot bath and soothe that tension away. It really does help. So sorry. :'( |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by aprilbee on Feb 9th, 2006, 3:28pm :'( :'( :'( :'( I have NO problems...my life is blessed... sorry about your headaches... hope you feel no pain soon :-* |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by maffumatt on Feb 9th, 2006, 3:40pm Hope it gets better for ya Nani Matt |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by JenniferD on Feb 9th, 2006, 4:34pm Nani, I'm so sorry you are dealing with not only the loss of the little one, the stress of being a parent and having to try to explain the loss, but also the tension that stress brings with it. A nice hot shower or bath may help that HA, and a good glass of wine and soft music to calm you. sending you peace vibes, Jen |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Sandy_C on Feb 9th, 2006, 4:44pm I'm so sorry that Mooshie had to experience this. But she is lucky to have you there to console her, even if you can't explain why things like this happen. I know it's hard on you, but take comfort in knowing that you are there for Mooshie. As others said, lock yourself in the bathroom in a tub filled with hot water and bubble bath. Turn on your favorite music, take a good book, and just soak for at least 1 hour (personally, it takes me 2 hours). It won't make the hurt go away, but it will help the stress level. Love ya Sandy |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by LadyElaine on Feb 9th, 2006, 4:49pm Nani, Take some Excedrin Tension Headache geltabs they are GREAT FOR THAT! Take two. Sorry you had such a sad day. Big Hug Elaine |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Lizzie2 on Feb 9th, 2006, 5:14pm [[[[[Nani]]]]]]} So very sorry to hear this... :'( The first time I went to a funeral for a child was for my skating coach's 10 year old daughter on December 14, 2003...she'd died tragically from carbon monoxide poisoning. I can't remember crying so much in my life... There is nothing so very sad as the funeral of a child whose life was cut too short.... But I know you've told me to take comfort that my little ones find peace even though they've suffered so much. Take comfort from that same thing. It's never easy....not ever...no matter how much we know they're suffering, it's very hard to let them go... I'm so sorry for your friend and for what you and mooshie have gone through with this. My love to you and my shoulder to cry on, if you need to! Love, Carrie :) |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Feb 9th, 2006, 5:50pm Sending big hugs to Mooshie and to you! It's so hard to explain "life" to kids, isn't it? Hope by now your headache has settled down to something less than a dull roar. Carol |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by nani on Feb 9th, 2006, 7:03pm Thanks, all. :-* I did take 800 mgs of Advil and it helped the tension HA. I also got hit with a CH again. :-/ But... I'll be OK. At least all my kids are still here. My heart is still bleeding for the parents. You know, my faith is strong and I know all the right answers....they just rang hollow to me today. Mooshie and I will talk more in the coming days, and we'll get through it. There is a long bubblebath planned for this evening, and I'll be saying a few extra prayers. I'll include an extra one for my family here. Thank you. hugs and love, nani |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Kris_in_SJ on Feb 9th, 2006, 7:48pm xxoo - many of them - coming your way sweetie! Kris |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by thebbz on Feb 9th, 2006, 10:35pm AAWWW!! :'( Somehow I think you will be fine. ;)Working on a photo file for ya. I will be cool. Sorry for the delay it will be worth it. I hope the hits are light and brief. All the best jb 02 and alieve for the stress HA. works for me. |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by Charlie on Feb 9th, 2006, 11:33pm I don't blame you for getting a headache aftet that but I hope things have leveled out for you by now. Charlie http://www.kolobok.wrg.ru/smiles/standart/nea.gif?SSImageQuality=Full |
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Title: Re: The tension HA from hell... Post by sandie99 on Feb 10th, 2006, 3:49am Pain is pain, I'm so sorry you're hurting, Nani. [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] Wishing you PF time, Sanna |
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