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(Message started by: Kim Y. on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:38am)
Title: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Kim Y. on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:38am
K you all this is just another vent of a different nature for me.  Frustrated with hubby right now.  I don't understand he is always calling in sick and he only works from 9:45-1pm.  He had Sunday and Monday off and just called in.  Tried to talk with him about it and needing the money and says I'll make it up Sat. [smiley=mad.gif]

Here I go to work with CH and work through it so I can ensure $ coming in the two days a week I work.  I am in school 4 days a week and on Friday am up at 430am and at clinicals by 630 and then go straight from clinicals at 3pm to work till 10pm.  Then study all Sat morning and back to work Sat. 2-10pm.  GRRRRRRRRR

Ok I am done don't mean to make him look bad but am quite disappointed at the moment and he knows it.

Thanks for listening
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by vig on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:41am
dude's gotta pull his own weight....
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by echo on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:41am
I can certainly understand your disappointment.

Reads like he needs to step it up at least a notch or two.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Kim Y. on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:43am
My head is killing me this morning and this is only adding to it.  Oh am so upset.  Oh well that is life if I push to much he get defensive so  :-X
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jimmy B. on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:50am
Kim...I feel for ya...I am not one to call in sick. I get 27 paid sick days and I still hate calling in cause I know...if I call out...someone is going to have to stay over or they'll have to call someone in on their day off. I work 2-full-time jobs...I always tell my wife...worrying about bills, that I'm unable to pay..will kill me quicker then too much work will. ;)

Anyway...maybe their's some unlying reason why he's calling out. Depression, probs at work...is he really sick, or does he just not feel like going in?
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jonny on Oct 18th, 2005, 3:30pm

on 10/18/05 at 09:38:08, Kim Y. wrote:
 I don't understand he is always calling in sick and he only works from 9:45-1pm.  


Thats not a job...thats a day at the damn park!

Face it...hes a slacker!!

You shouldnt put up with it, but, these are just MY opinions.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by ghost62 on Oct 18th, 2005, 4:13pm

on 10/18/05 at 09:50:02, Jimmy B. wrote:
Kim...I feel for ya...I am not one to call in sick. I get 27 paid sick days and I still hate calling in cause I know...if I call out...someone is going to have to stay over or they'll have to call someone in on their day off. I work 2-full-time jobs...I always tell my wife...worrying about bills, that I'm unable to pay..will kill me quicker then too much work will. ;)

Anyway...maybe their's some unlying reason why he's calling out. Depression, probs at work...is he really sick, or does he just not feel like going in?

That I do understand I too doing 2 and its rough but it needs to be done so I do it and stfu. :-X
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Sean_C on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:11pm
Is he depressed? Just a thought.

Sean.......................
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by don on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:38pm
He cany make it to work for 3 hours a day?

Slacker? Sounds like he's a slacker on a GOOD day.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by KMT on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:42pm
He hates his job and the management.  He would rather have a job in his field but none are available till he gets his degree and moves out of Manhattan KS.  I love him and do understand that but I look at things differently I guess.  I know he is depressed some.  We are in KS and he wants to be in TX where his parents are and all of his friends.  We will go there eventually once school is over.  Oh and he is tired of school... :-/
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Charlie on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:46pm
I dunno........ You're too nice

Making him look bad doesn't seem such a terrible thing for now.  http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/hair pull.gif

Hope you get a break.

Charlie
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by LeLimey on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:46pm
and YOU are tired of school.. and working.. and putting up with blasted CH on top of both.. and a whiny assed crybaby too.
Life's a bitch - er no wait! Thats me!  ::)
Life is HARD but you only get one shot at it. Tell him to get off his arse and get a second job and you can all move sooner can't you?
Rocket science is a speciality of mine  :-*
Love ya lots K and hate seeing you bear the brunt of all this
Helen X
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by LeLimey on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:49pm
Oh and just cos I'm on a roll now.. YOU aren't from Texas and YOU aren't from Kansas either.
Whats more is YOU aren't whining about either!
Stop facilitating him in his selfishness, you're bending over backwards to please him as it is. There has to be some take as well as give for you hon
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by KMT on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:52pm
No I'm the selfish one  :-/
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jonny on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:54pm
Um, can I ask a question?

For someone with 690 posts I have no idea who KMT is.

Was it made aware of a name chage that I missed?
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by alienspacebabe on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:56pm

on 10/18/05 at 17:54:28, Jonny wrote:
Um, can I ask a question?

For someone with 690 posts I have no idea who KMT is.

Was it made aware of a name chage that I missed?



KMT f.k.a. KimY

and there seems to be a lot of 'employment' situations going on - either people not working when they can, or people not able to get the work they want to do... too bad.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by KMT on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:00pm
KimY from Mt....  Sorry guys didn't mean to confuse you all can change it back if you so wish
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jonny on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:10pm

on 10/18/05 at 18:00:39, KMT wrote:
KimY from Mt....  Sorry guys didn't mean to confuse you all can change it back if you so wish


Nah, keep it....its just nice to know who your talkin to..:-*
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by stevegeebe on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:36pm
I want a job where I can get to work so late and leave so early that I'd run into myself on the way in.

Workin' on it.

Steve G
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by KMT on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:52pm
OK just a little confession when I typed earlier Maybe I was overly upset.  He is a good man and a very hard worker just doesn't like his job at the moment.  

I am really irritable lately and vented on here.  My head has been feeling like crap and 2mg doses not cutting it and having to do 4mg doses.  2-3 hits in a day and not sleeping well.  Heavy shadows getting worse each day. :-/ :-[ :-/

Thanks all for giving me the opportunity to vent.  
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jonny on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:59pm

on 10/18/05 at 18:52:52, KMT wrote:
 He is a good man and a very hard worker just doesn't like his job at the moment.  


When you cant work three hours a day EVEN at a job you dont like.....your a SLACKER and your letting your family down!!

Hard worker my ass....again, just my opinion.

You threw this out here so dont be pissed if you dont like the replies, Honey.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Kevin_M on Oct 18th, 2005, 7:00pm

on 10/18/05 at 17:42:58, KMT wrote:
He hates his job and the management.  He would rather have...

Sounds just like me, except some still do it anyway with clusters and haven't missed or used a sick day in over 8 years.

 

Quote:
Oh and he is tired of school... :-/

Then don't tell him how tough 4th grade will be next year.
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by KMT on Oct 18th, 2005, 7:09pm
Posted by: Jonny
Quote:
You threw this out here so dont be pissed if you dont like the replies, Honey.
Not Pissed not in my nature just trying to justify to myself I guess. :-/
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by Jonny on Oct 18th, 2005, 7:14pm

on 10/18/05 at 19:09:27, KMT wrote:
Posted by: Jonny
Not Pissed not in my nature just trying to justify to myself I guess. :-/


You are justified big time, but I am done here.

According to the mens code you can only bad mouth a dude only so many times unless he is here to defend himself......its a guy thing ;;D

Hope it works out for you, babe!
Title: Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
Post by cootie on Oct 18th, 2005, 8:51pm
And......he gets away with it........no one says come in or you are fired Pam


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