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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Sean_C on Oct 13th, 2005, 9:45pm Whats the problem? I missed something I guess? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by unsolved1 on Oct 13th, 2005, 9:56pm I agree that there's alot of bitchin' that goes on here ... but there's alot of good goin' on here too! No need to shut anything down! UNsolved Anyone else besides KOP wanna see this place go under ? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Sean_C on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:01pm KOP can leave by himself if he wants, I'm stayin. Family's argue, this ain't Little House on the Prarie ya know, this is the Little House of Pain, people gets snitty now and then, no big deal, its all love believe me. Den said it best, "take what you need and leave the rest" Sean........................... |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Charlie on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:13pm I getcha. Not sure a guy like me, who gloms up so much space can, argue with you. From what I read in the archives, you have to go back to 1999 or so to find the kind of purity or focus DJ envisioned. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Mr. Happy on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:15pm on 10/13/05 at 21:44:26, KingOfPain wrote:
Well then, damnit, quit reading them threads. I, for one, am having the time of my life. Well worth the price of admission. RJ |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by minnie on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:19pm (( Steve)) Hey Steve it's good to see you,Sorry that you seem upset not sure what' going on.Your a great,caring and supportive person.I love your pics and poems and miss them.I hope everythings ok please IM me if you need to talk.I neither want to see this site go down or see you leave.This could be the day someone in our cH famly needs to talk,cry vent or some advice to fight the beast.I guess the best advise I've heard is Dens "take what you need and leave the rest.Like I said before I'm not sure what's going on but I wanna be here to lend my support to my CH family.I can't do much but I can listen,pray and sometimes try to make you laugh so I'm here................... Minnie |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by BobG on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:20pm 1999 was a very good year........... But I like today better. snitty? Good word Sean. You getting British on us? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by cootie on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:35pm Huh......I must be missing sumthin big goin on cuz most of the time I have no clue what everyone is mad about.....but then I stay out of the gossip end......snitty snitty Pam Pam Hi KOP.......nice to see ya 'gin !!!!!! |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Carl_D on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:36pm I'm gone a day and WTF did I miss? Steve, I totally respect you and love you brotherman, and I know where you are coming from. The thing is, like any town you live in CLUSTERVILLE has all types:Good folks, bad folks, proud folks, and half eaten insane folks like me who don't know WTF is going on half of the time...this is the point: Though there are some dickweeds among us, there is also a greater family and support system and without that, some folks suffering this shit have nothing else. If they are like me, single, live alone, not much local support. This is their only refuge. It is a LIFELINE! DJ does not need to shut this site down ever again. He does however reserve the right to shut a thread down that gets out of hand. Like a buddy of mine once told me long ago in church band "it all comes out in the wash." the truth always comes out, and there are enough people here who have dealt with the BS and know how to get to the meat and bones. As for me, to leave this place would be like to leave my fellow troops behind in the line of fire. Some people make me want to, but my war is not with them, it is with this fucking beast known as CLUSTER HEADACHE!!! Like you bro, alot of us have alot more than CH going on and some others don't understand. That is cool. Not everyone understands a typical clusterhead anyway. ;) BTW - You were the first person other than the attendees at OUCHfest, to approach me in Nashville and thank me for hosting the event. That meant alot to me, since the event flopped. Still, you know. Clusterville MUST remain, and you should stick around too bro, miss ya. Carl |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by cootie on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:49pm I never consider'd ouchfest a flop......we jus couldn't do a second road trip and think that was a biggie cuz we'd all just did the convention. For us and alot of people it's hard to just pick up and go.......but we'd of went IF WE COULD OF MANAGED. We love music men Pam |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by maffumatt on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:53pm Please don't DJ. I argue politics sometimes but that is what politics is for. Only the same few that go into the personal dings with very little positive to give. I give what I can to who I can. Even with the bickering here, it is my home and I love my family. I will never forget the good that I gleen from the people here. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Mr. Happy on Oct 13th, 2005, 11:23pm on 10/13/05 at 22:53:47, maffumatt wrote:
I'm hoping Zippy the Magnificent is knee deep in some of the finest Prairie Squid the central plains toilet seats have ever kissed good morning. Last thing that man needs is you whiney arsed sucks lookin for a mediator. Hopefully, he's *Busy* RJ |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Carl_D on Oct 13th, 2005, 11:29pm on 10/13/05 at 23:23:30, Mr. Happy wrote:
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by sandie99 on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:14am Little house of pain.... I kind a like that title. Maybe I write a novel one day with that title. :) I'm already planning The Devil Years and Clusterville... Seriously, I know I have not been here as much as I usually have been during the last 2 weeks, but I have no idea what I would do if I'd find this site gone... :( I can't get the similar wonderful support from anywhere else no matter the topic. This isn't about just ch, this is all about life. That's why all the colors of life must be shown: the gray boredom, black grief, blue sadness, red fury, pink joy, yellow happiness...etc. All I know is that I don't want to go back to dealing with ch alone. That would feel like "Clusterville: population - you". :( |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by sassy_lady on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:45am I don't know where Charlie & I would be today if it wasn't for this site & the wonderful family here!! There are new people coming in everyday & need this site, The people who are here need this site!! So What some people get into a tiff!! your going to fine that no matter where you go, some people just rub the wrong way some times!! & other times people just need to vent in other ways then sounding like they are whinning, after every thing is said & done, 99.99% of the people kiss & make up!! yes some times feeling get hurt or someone steps over the line!! but tomorrow is another day & yesterday is gone and forgotten!! I agree & don't agree with some of the things that was posted, but thats me!! thats everyone!! we are not alike, thats why we are us!! yet we have one thing in common, CH"S!! I think it would be a waste to shut this site down in may ways!! alot of people would go unhelpped, lost, get no info, no support, no true love & understanding !! KOP, I'm sorry you feel this site should be shut down & that you are upset over some things, but you need to look at the big picture here!! Sending you, Love, Prayers, Vibes, & many [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] Love Jolene |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Kate in Oz on Oct 14th, 2005, 6:38am NO NO NO [smiley=confused.gif] [smiley=nono.gif] [smiley=sayno.gif] I just got here! I've been doing this for far too long on my own. I have no support network other than this - shit who else would ever understand what it means to have ch ???? I have learnt more about this condition in the past month and half than in the 15 years I've had them, and all the doctors put together!! [smiley=thumb.gif] I have laughed and been shocked and laughed and cried and laughed I HAVE LAUGHED DURING A CYCLE !!! Come on, shutting this site can only do more harm than good. Kate |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by catlind on Oct 14th, 2005, 7:53am on 10/14/05 at 06:38:00, Kate in Oz wrote:
And that folks is exactly what another clusterhead and ONLY another clusterhead can do. I never would have believed ANYONE could laugh during an attack until the NY convention in '03, when in the back room of 'the' cabin, I watched too many times in horror as sufferer after sufferer used the O2, and then watched Linda Howell rocking in time with Roxy -- mask on her face, needle just having been injected, tears streaming down her face, and Linda had her laughing :) I've been around awhile, not as long as the real 'old timers' but long enough to know that this place gives something that nothing else can...no doctor, no supporter, no one..only another sufferer. Validation. And KOP, will you come clean my porch? I miss you :) Cat |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Bob P on Oct 14th, 2005, 9:08am Quote:
Ain't that the truth. An endless source of amuzement. BTW - I don't DeeJ likes anything that's "pure". |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by jcmquix on Oct 14th, 2005, 9:16am Well seeing how most have chimed in about what this site means to them and why it should not be shut down, I want in on this.... I am a newbie, being only here for like about 4 months at the most... When my last cycle started, in the beginning I was alone and in alot of pain, and at the end of the line, checking on insurance matters, cause I was going to end it all, leave everything to my wife, free and clear.... I could not take the pain anymore, I knew what was ahead for me, I did not want to go through another cycle, I had made up my mind that I was not going to keep living with this BEAST in my head... my family was falling apart, I was on the edge of losing my job, my home, cars & everything. I had one last thought about this place and decided to log on and see if someone was here to talk to, well that night I did not find anyone to talk to, but I sat in pain and just kept reading, and reading, and reading, as I read the post I realized that I was not the only one at the end of my rope, I was not alone. The very next day, I sat down and talked with my wife (Jolene) and I got her to come here, after a couple of days things started changing at home, she was getting an understanding of what I was really going through, I was able to talk to my boss, things started to get better.. and since that DARK day, it has only gotton better... I still have my bad days, me & My wife still have our disagreements, I still have some problems at work. What am I trying to say, well things are never going to be perfect, but this place is a lifeline and all I can think is someone like myself looking for this place in the middle of the night and ready to give up, and then you find new HOPE to keep going.... DJ if you take it Down thats cool, I understand... I just want to say THANK YOU for what you have given me & my Family... A LIFE.. KOP sorry you are scorned by what you read here Dude, I do not know you, but the best advise I have seen on any board is Den's "Take what you want and leave the rest".. I have respect for you, but I don't think its FAIR to the true ANGEL's here that really help people... Thanks to All for the Support & Friendship's God Bless You ALL & PFDAN's Charlie |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by maffumatt on Oct 14th, 2005, 10:01am on 10/13/05 at 23:23:30, Mr. Happy wrote:
Me? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Kevin_M on Oct 14th, 2005, 10:47am on 10/14/05 at 10:01:10, maffumatt wrote:
No Matt. He borrowed your words for the transitional picturesque eclipsing of the "sky is falling" pishposh. or just no, not you. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by AussieBrian on Oct 14th, 2005, 10:50am Remarkable that a thinking adult wants an entire site shut down while he/she is apparently incapable of the most effective form of censorship ever walked. Little darling, the mouse is in your hand. Don't blame the mouse. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Redd715 on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:00am I've come to see the pattern, that when there are no trolls to hunt the natives turn into canibals and begin to chew on each other. What we need is a visit from our friend Ali, or another Sinus-Buster pusher, or any other snake oil idiot for us to poke at... ;;D Just my opinion. I'll go back to my corner now. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Sean_C on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:08am on 10/14/05 at 11:00:04, Redd715 wrote:
Now thats sexy ;;D |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Jeepgun on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:15am Adds new meaning to, "Just bite me!!" [smiley=laugh.gif] |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Redd715 on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:16am on 10/14/05 at 11:08:03, Sean_C wrote:
[smiley=crackup.gif] This is why I love this place.... |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Sandy_C on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:58am DJ. please don't shut this site down. I was here in 1999, and left very quickly because I felt I was not welcomed to the "club". And in '99, I really thought it was a clubm because, being a newbie, and not "officially" diagnosed, I was ridiculed and made out to be someone who was following the newest "fad" illness - in other words, lookin for attention. I walked out this door vowing never to return. Over the next years of CH suffering, I still refused to return to this site. I battled the CH on my own until this year, and then decided just to come back in and lurk for awhile. Then I leaped in with both feet, because what I read made me feel that this was a good group of people, and that I might find help, information, and support here. Boy, did I! I have found a whole new family here, these people saved my life. Yes, we argue, yes we use foul language (at least some of us), we discuss politics (which I wish would be saved for some other forum), but we laugh, cry, vent with each other, just like a family of friends. I don't know what I would do without this site. I'm PF now but for some reason, I still pop in every day. Why is that? It's because I have found friends and family here, who are special to me, faults and all. Please keep it going. Sandy |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Kim Y. on Oct 14th, 2005, 12:02pm :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Please don't shut it down DJ. Am alone as it is don't need it to be any more. This site gives me a place to come when I don't think life is worth living anymore. :-/ |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by cootie on Oct 14th, 2005, 12:21pm I'd like an extra crispy leg please.........hanibal canibal Pam ;;D |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by john_d on Oct 14th, 2005, 12:25pm on 10/13/05 at 21:44:26, KingOfPain wrote:
I have not been around for a while either but it seems pretty mellow around here to me, get a grip bro |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Redd715 on Oct 14th, 2005, 12:31pm on 10/14/05 at 12:21:47, cootie wrote:
I'd be happy with a good (spicy) sausage... [smiley=laugh.gif] back to corner with me again |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Jimi on Oct 14th, 2005, 12:42pm Will Vienna do? :-/ |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by LeLimey on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:17pm on 10/14/05 at 12:02:08, Kim Y. wrote:
Kim I've had to swallow a couple of times before I could reply to this. I think this is the saddest thing I've ever seen on this site. You are NOT alone Kim, you have a whole family here and we care. You can email me or chat to me on msn, skype or yahoo anytime you like as you can with a hundred others here. If you have any of those then ADD ME NOW! Things happen, websites go down, OUCH UK is having awful website problems at the moment so get yourself a safety net of support "just in case" and you will never need it. IM me your phone number, if you are ever AWOL I'm phoning! You aren't alone okay YOU ARE NOT ALONE. You have us lots and lots of love Helen PS.. This goes for each and every one of you. I want us ALL to have a safety net, if you don't want to chat to me pick someone else but bloody well pick someone okay? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by rextangle on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:30pm I have no clue about what's going on... I read the threads, and if they bother me, I read another one. It's that easy... Like the newspaper. People argue, agree, fight and fuck. Everywhere, anywhere, all the time. What's new? :o Plus, in case none of you have noticed, we're a weird bunch! But we have a good excuse to be... My 2 Rex Cents... Let it be, Rex |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Donna_D. on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:38pm Hmmmmm....... In the midst of a "board fight" someone suggests shutting down the message board... Suddenly everyone appreciates this place and remembers why we are all here....and the we are all in this together.... Pretty clever, KOP. DD |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Jeepgun on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:38pm Bunch o' damned dain-bramaged one-eyed freaks... >:( [smiley=laugh.gif] |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Jonny on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:41pm on 10/14/05 at 13:38:16, Donna_D. wrote:
LMAO...I was just about to post the same thing, Donna |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by rextangle on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:43pm The only reason someone shouldn't be here is if they ask the following questions: -What's CH? -Who's Jonny? LMAO ;;D |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Donna_D. on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:53pm on 10/14/05 at 13:41:30, Jonny wrote:
Well, our mind DO run in the same rut!! DD |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Jonny on Oct 14th, 2005, 1:58pm on 10/14/05 at 13:53:09, Donna_D. wrote:
I think you mean "Gutter" ;;D |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Donna_D. on Oct 14th, 2005, 2:01pm on 10/14/05 at 13:58:17, Jonny wrote:
Shhhhh...don't give away ALL our secrets, Jonny. :-* DD |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Peppermint on Oct 14th, 2005, 2:34pm on 10/14/05 at 12:21:47, cootie wrote:
Hey - I dunno what everybody else is talking about...where's the cookout? ;;D |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by JenniferD on Oct 14th, 2005, 4:04pm ch.com gone? I remember back in '96 when I could find absolutely NOTHING online about cluster headaches... NOTHING. I remember finally finding this place in what, 98 or 99? and sitting at my puter staring in disbelief that there were OTHERS LIKE ME. I remember crying my eyes out the first posts of support, and the first times I could support someoen else. I would be lost without you all. I would be heartbroken. Even when the times come wehn I just can't come in for long periods of time, I am still "here". What was it that someone up tehre in teh thread said: something like, its worth the price of admission. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by JenniferD on Oct 14th, 2005, 4:07pm on 10/14/05 at 13:38:26, Jeepgun wrote:
I had to read that 3 times before i realized it was backwards! ROFLMAO |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by ghost62 on Oct 14th, 2005, 4:24pm I Like You ;;D http://www.webworksllc.com/I_Like_You.swf |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Gator on Oct 14th, 2005, 4:59pm on 10/14/05 at 12:42:51, Jimi wrote:
ROFLMAO!!! Damn, I love this place. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Redd715 on Oct 14th, 2005, 5:33pm Quote:
Kim I felt the way you do for some time even after I got here. No spouse, significant other abandoned me after the diagnosis because he wasn't able to deal with the fact there was no cure or easy treatment, came so far as to insinuate I was a flipping looney. I was going broker and broker by the day as I was not allowed to go to work (Dr. Orders) till we got some grip on the beast. (That was three months of no income at all.) I had no one here, kids live most of the time with Dad, and I was trying to protect them from this as much as I could. I too felt alone in the world even know there were others here who shared this plight. I envyed each and every person who had some sort of supporter they could turn to. Someone to pick them up when they began to fall. I still have no "supporter" on a daily basis. I DO have my children when they are here, I have this family, I have my Boss who now understands and has empathy for this, and Brother who will do anything to help me if I need it. Being alone was my state of mind, and I realized I have more support than I ever dreamed of. Helen said it best....add me to messenger too if you want. I'm usually around evenings and weekends but easiest to reach me at my yahoo messenger. Pegg |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Redd715 on Oct 14th, 2005, 5:34pm on 10/14/05 at 16:59:27, Gator wrote:
You are just twisted Mike....(just like the rest of us....) (back to my corner again) |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Charlie on Oct 14th, 2005, 8:18pm Aside from all the twisted, psychotic, devil-inspired malcontents that I've met here; I knew of almost none of the treatments/supposed cures or techniques for dealing with CH until clicking on OUCH and the board. I like it. http://www.kolobok.wrg.ru/smiles/light_skin/pardon.gif?SSImageQuality=Full Charlie |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Gena on Oct 15th, 2005, 1:31am on 10/13/05 at 22:01:57, Sean_C wrote:
That's the same guy who said "I believe Freedom is free." Just sayin......... Thomas |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by catlind on Oct 15th, 2005, 8:45am on 10/14/05 at 20:18:19, Charlie wrote:
I resemble that remark!!!!!!!! >:( :o :D Cat |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by rumplestiltskin on Oct 15th, 2005, 10:58am hey..i was just attacked by thomasgena. Someone help me...never mind...i'm leaving...and NEVER coming back! ...and i'm not gonna peek back on the board to see if anyone misses me....and says nice things about me...and begs me to stay i don't need anything or anyone here...except this "medication forum"...that's all i need...i don't need anything else...that's ALL i need...i need this smiley with sunglasses...I need that...this "medication forum" and this smiley with sunglasses...and that's all i need...i don't need anything else...and this shroom post....i need that...but that's it...that's all i need....a smiley with sunglasses, this "medication forum" and this shroom post...i don't need anything else... |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by AussieBrian on Oct 15th, 2005, 11:43am But Rumps, what if we needs you? If you go away we'll have to pick on Limey, and she's a girl. |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by don on Oct 15th, 2005, 11:58am Quote:
We are plumb out of membership cards to the Come & Go and Come Back Again After Sufficient Attention Has Been Recieved Club. They go fast. We have seedless watermelons left. Want one ? |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Gator on Oct 15th, 2005, 12:10pm on 10/15/05 at 11:58:09, don wrote:
http://bestsmileys.com/lol/18.gif Oh, geez! I'm rolling here. |
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Title: 8) Post by cootie on Oct 15th, 2005, 1:10pm How do you cultivate seedless watermelons ? Do you buy a bag of AIR SEEDS and sit and wish for one Pam |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by don on Oct 15th, 2005, 2:48pm Next months sign up bonus in the C&G Club is frozen: BONELESS CHICKEN |
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Title: Re: Hey DJ.......... Post by Sean_C on Oct 15th, 2005, 2:53pm LMAO ;;D |
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