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(Message started by: Redd715 on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:06pm)

Title: It's over.....
Post by Redd715 on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:06pm
Mom died tonight....


Wish me strength to get threw the next week...

Waiting for Terry to get himself together and get up here....


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Post by Woobie on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:07pm
Oh Pegg....
I'm so sorry!!!!!!

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

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Post by vig on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:10pm
hugs Pegg,
:'(
the suffering is behind now

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Post by Sean_C on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:13pm
Moms in a better place Pegg, trust me  :'( :'( :'(

She's in our prayers

Hugs headed your way  [smiley=hug.gif]

Sean.....................................

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Post by rextangle on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:15pm
Pegg, so sad for you... may she rest in peace :'(
Rex

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Post by gMike on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:17pm
I'm very sorry for your loss.  I hope it was peaceful  and that you got to say everything that needed to be said.

Mike

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Post by unsolved1 on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:19pm
So sorry for your loss.


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Post by marlinsfan on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:20pm
Today she's at peace. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Post by nani on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:23pm
:'(   I'm so sorry, sweetie.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. hugs and love, nani  [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: It's over.....
Post by Redd715 on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:25pm

on 09/28/05 at 21:17:45, gMike wrote:
I'm very sorry for your loss.  I hope it was peaceful  and that you got to say everything that needed to be said.

Mike


Everything was said years ago before her mind went.  We were on good terms that way or she wouldn't have had me be her DPOA.  

Alright Terry Glenn where are you?  Are you on the road you damn well better be.  


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Post by broomhilda on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:31pm
:'( Pegg I am so sorry, may she rest in peace now, my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Hugs

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Post by Jill on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:32pm
Pegg,

I am so sorry for your loss - you and your family are in our prayers.

Remember, this helps me with my dad's death, that when you look into the stars in the evening that they are "not are just stars but rather holes in the floor of heaven so that our loved ones can look down on us and let us know that they are happy." Your mom will always be with you, watching over you and loving you - never forget that.

Wishing you strength and peace of mind through this troubled time.

Jill and Marty

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Post by sassy_lady on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:51pm
Oh Sweety I'm So Sorry, She has Graduated to heaven honey, she is without pain, without confusion, & dancing in heaven with the Good Lord & Loved ones!!
My Vibes, Love & Prayers to you & your Family!!
Lots of Love Jolene

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Post by Gator on Sep 28th, 2005, 9:58pm
Sorry to hear this, Pegg.  My deepest condolences on your loss.

Mike

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Post by Charlie on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:02pm
So sorry to hear.  

Hugs and best wishes to you and your clan.

http://www.smiley-sanctuary.com/smiley/amour/3/0079_G.gif?SSImageQuality=Full


Charlie

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Post by JDH on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:05pm
I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

Jim

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Post by alienspacebabe on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:05pm
My thoughts are with you, Pegg....

You can make it through this week. We are here to hold you up....  [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Jimi on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:10pm
    You were able to say goodbye a long time ago. And you were a good daughter and took care of her well these last few months. You did all you could. Love you little sister. [smiley=heart.gif]

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Post by eyes_afire on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:23pm
I'm sorry Pegg.  Best wishes to you and your family during this difficult time.

--- Steve

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Post by Kevin_M on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:28pm
Condolences to you and your family Pegg in your time through these days.

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Post by cootie on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:40pm
Your a good daughter........best wishes comein your way to get thru the rest of this. Wish wisher Pam

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Post by Mastifflvr28 on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:40pm
my deepest condolences Pegg,
Please try and take care,
Mast

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Post by don on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:42pm
My condolences to you and your family.

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Post by BlueMeanie on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:43pm
I'm very sorry for your loss Redd. Your post brought back memories of my mom. It's a tough feeling for you and your family, but I'm sure she is home free now.


Hugs to you. :-*

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Post by Redd715 on Sep 28th, 2005, 10:57pm
Terry called he's on his way....should be in my driving range in about 30 minutes....

Kevin and (nephew) Rex will be here too....this is going to be a hectic few days...


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Post by kimmeesue on Sep 28th, 2005, 11:20pm
You have been through a lot.  Make sure you take time to look after you.
Prayers for you and your family,

Kim

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Post by Cathi04 on Sep 28th, 2005, 11:39pm
Pegg, you're right...it's over. Her suffering, the pain, the  anguish you have been through-all of that is gone now.
Be good to yourself now. Take time to grieve, but remember, in so many ways, she was lost to you a long time ago.
Celebrate her love for you and your family, remember the great times, wrap yourself in them when you feel cold or lonely. It'll help. I know. And, one day, when you think of her, it will no longer be with sadness, but the warmth of a memory of your mom, still watching over you.
My sympathies,

Cathi

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Post by Svenn on Sep 28th, 2005, 11:55pm
I'm so sorry, sweetie.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family

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Post by Carl_D on Sep 29th, 2005, 12:25am
:'( :'( :'(
I'm so sorry Pegg for your loss and my sincerest condolences go out to you and your family at this time. I'll be sending out all the prayers and vibes I can for you all.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Peace,
Carl D

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Post by sandie99 on Sep 29th, 2005, 1:16am
Pegg....

:'(

I'm so, so sorry for you loss... My deepest condolences.
You and your family are on my thoughts. Vibes & prayers are on their way to you all. [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Sanna :'(

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Post by juvy on Sep 29th, 2005, 1:56am
So sorry to hear this.  I wish you strength and lots of happy memories to fill the ache in your heart.

Love and Light,
April

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Post by LeLimey on Sep 29th, 2005, 3:04am
Oh Pegg I'm so sorry for you but I'm glad she is finally at peace and that you were able to carry out her wishes as she knew you would.

"Every mortal loss is an immortal gain." ~William Blake

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Post by Redd715 on Sep 29th, 2005, 3:15am
Official call was 8:20pm central time....

I got there to say my last goodbye's, me and Terry and Kvin, (my brothers) reminised of how om would vieew all this and why she chose to let us get back to daily life before pasing...

We agreed it was because she knew inside and for years prior her wishes were that we went on... did what we need to do.  

I firmly beliee that Mom held on til we were back at normal life, to let go.   So not to feel a burdon on us.  

Mom was never a burdon to me....though I can se her side of the issue...

Push comes to shove....Mom wanted to pass,  free of any chains of burdon....

She chose me to fullfilll that desire.

Tonight, as I kissed the cold forehead and held the icey hand of her cold body I was in a small sence at peace.  Mom's wishes were fulfilled

She passed painfree and  at peace.

What more can a child wish for?

Mom I miss your counsel and your wisdom and your selfless giving.  But my heart rests knowing you are at peace.  I kissed your forehead one last time, and I held your hand. I Brushed your cheek.  Mom I'll mis you, I love you and safe journey to the other side..I'll meey you there.. I promise...

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Post by BobG on Sep 29th, 2005, 3:22am
:'(
Prayers being sent to help you through this tough time.

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Post by maffumatt on Sep 29th, 2005, 3:25am
we are thinking of you.....................................

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Post by Chillrmn1 on Sep 29th, 2005, 3:52am
My condolences and prayers your way.
Bob

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Post by BarbaraD on Sep 29th, 2005, 5:11am
Prayers and condolences to you at this time.

Hugs BD

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Post by giffy76 on Sep 29th, 2005, 5:24am
My condolences [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Sep 29th, 2005, 6:31am
So sorry to hear of your loss Pegg.  She fought the good fight and you carried out her wishes.  God bless you all.

Carol

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Post by lionsound on Sep 29th, 2005, 6:45am
Pegg, I'm so sorry.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Our deepest condolences to you and your loved ones.


love,
Rori

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Post by E-Double on Sep 29th, 2005, 7:13am
Pegg,

Our sincerest most heartfelt wishes to you and your family.


E

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Post by LadyElaine on Sep 29th, 2005, 7:27am
I did not want to open this tread. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my prayers.

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Post by ghost62 on Sep 29th, 2005, 7:39am
OMG Redd
:'(
Wish I could give you a big hug in person.
God Bless :'( :-*

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Post by ClusterChuck on Sep 29th, 2005, 7:44am
Well, I for one, am glad and sad at the same time.  I am glad that it is finally over.  I know you have been waiting for this.  I know how hard it has been for you, the waiting game.  Now it is over and done.  She is not suffering any more.  You will be able to get back to your life, fully.

But by the same token, I am so sorry for the loss.  She is your mother, and mothers can never be replaced.  I know how you will miss her, but you know it is for the best, for her.

My condolences, to you and your family.

Chuck

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Post by rickyshot on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:02am
My deepest sympathies.  :'(

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Post by ExplodingEyeBall on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:06am
[smiley=hug.gif] :'(

Hang in there. The rest of your family needs you now.

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Post by Jeepgun on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:09am
I agree with Chuck. It's bittersweet... You did a great job, Pegg. Be proud of yourself. My deepest condolences to you and your kids. How's Dylan holding up? Peace, strength, and love to you during the coming weeks. [smiley=hug.gif]

-Frank

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Post by aprilbee on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:20am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... :'(

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Post by Jackie on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:34am
Deepest condolences, Pegg.....to you and your entire family.

Jacks 8)

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Post by Gator on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:49am
As requested by our sister, this song is available for download.  This is the song that will be played for her mom's funeral.

http://www.brightok.net/~mnjday/IntoTheWest.mp3


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Post by ghost62 on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:54am
:'( That is Beautiful.  :'(

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Post by Langa on Sep 29th, 2005, 9:12am
I'm so sorry Pegg...my condolences and prayers for you and your family...

Stay strong...we love you...

Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again

Fly, fly precious one
Your endless Journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace all one word
But hold this mem'ry bittersweet
Until we meet.

Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget

Fly, fly little wing
Fly, where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light.

Langa  :'(

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Post by Bethany1 on Sep 29th, 2005, 9:41am
Oh Peg, I am so sorry.  Best wishes to you and your family during this time.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Beth

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Post by pattik on Sep 29th, 2005, 10:44am
Pegg, my very deepest condolences to you and your family.
Big changes are in store for you now after things settle a bit.
Your mother is at peace now, and your loving energies can be used in new ways.   [smiley=hug.gif] Pat

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Post by BMoneeTheMoneeMan on Sep 29th, 2005, 11:53am
So sorry for your loss.
The suffering is over now, and you Mom is resting in peace at last.
Vibes of strength being sent your way.
BMonee

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Post by Donna_D. on Sep 29th, 2005, 1:36pm
http://tinypic.com/e5mlbp.jpg

This has been a very long and hard road for you my dear sister.  We are all here for you, you just let us know what you need.  You have taken care of your mama for a long time now.  It is now time for you to take care of yourself.  

I am always just a phone call away.  You have my number, use it.

Hug your Children and tell them we are thinking of them and praying for you all.

I Love You Sis,

DD

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Post by Ronny on Sep 29th, 2005, 2:51pm
Peg, I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathy.  :'(

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Post by deltadarlin on Sep 29th, 2005, 4:24pm
Jimbo and I are thinking about you.  Take care of yourself now.

'darlin and redneck

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Post by Jonny on Sep 29th, 2005, 6:13pm
:'(

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Post by Ree on Sep 29th, 2005, 6:31pm
She can hear you now Pegg... Gods love to you honey and give you the strength to get through.... carry her in your pocket, she is with you always..... love ya ree

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Post by Redneck on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:18pm
thinking about you dear,
hugs, and know you are not alone.

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Post by minnie on Sep 29th, 2005, 8:19pm
 may she rest in peace.I pray for you and your family
to have the strength you'll  need.May your memories always be sweet and plentiful.
     Minnie

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Post by Karla on Sep 29th, 2005, 9:03pm
I am so sorry that your Mother died.  I will be praying that you will find confort and strength to get through this.  

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Post by Kim Y. on Sep 29th, 2005, 9:27pm
:'( :'( :'( [smiley=hug.gif] :'( :'( :'(
So sorry for your loss.....You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...Kim

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Post by Edna on Sep 30th, 2005, 8:42am
My deepest sympathies at such a huge lost.

thank you for leaning on us here in your time of deep need.

May God keep you and your entire family close to him in your time of need.


hugs and prayers,
EDNA



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