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(Message started by: Lizzie2 on Jul 12^th, 2005, 7:22pm)

Title: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 12^th, 2005, 7:22pm

PM me your # when you see this - I need to call you about what we discussed earlier.

Thanks!
Lizzie

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Jonny on Jul 12^th, 2005, 7:57pm

on 07/12/05 at 19:22:19, Lizzie2 wrote:

PM me your # when you see this - I need to call you about what we discussed earlier.

Thanks!
Lizzie

Is this a public PM....Kid? ;;D

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:06pm

LOL yes - Just sent you a PM...

Kid sister is in need of big brother assistance or at least big brother advice! haha

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Topical on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:22pm

Something tells me her boyfriend and sex are involved. ;;D

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Kevin_M on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:23pm

This was his # in '72. It may have changed though.

http://www.mugshots.com/IMAGES/P__georgec.jpg

Milwaukee didn't like his seven words you can't say.

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:27pm

on 07/12/05 at 20:22:10, Topical wrote:

Something tells me her boyfriend and sex are involved. ;;D

Whaaaaaat? Who are you? And how do you know this??

LMAO

::)

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Topical on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:33pm

hehe, heres what Jimi will say:
"All guys do that. He won't leave you."

*sigh* some things never change! :D

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 12^th, 2005, 8:35pm

LOL no it's more complex than that unfortunately!

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by sandie99 on Jul 13^th, 2005, 3:46am

[smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 13^th, 2005, 4:54am

on 07/13/05 at 03:46:10, sandie99 wrote:

[smiley=laugh.gif]

Not so much...

He hung up on me yesterday when I suggested maybe we need a break from each other...

Then last night he sent me a very vile and nasty IM, and proceded to say, "forget the break, it's over."

:'(

Well....gotta get ready for work now....

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Topical on Jul 13^th, 2005, 5:14am

Sorry to hear that... :-[

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by don on Jul 13^th, 2005, 7:56am

Quote:

Then last night he sent me a very vile and nasty IM, and proceded to say, "forget the break, it's over."

He IMed you?

Wave bye bye to the sackless whimp.

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Peppermint on Jul 13^th, 2005, 9:43am

on 07/13/05 at 04:54:41, Lizzie2 wrote:

Not so much...

He hung up on me yesterday when I suggested maybe we need a break from each other.

He was obviously upset about it, he probably thought you were going to break up with him....

on 07/13/05 at 04:54:41, Lizzie2 wrote:

Then last night he sent me a very vile and nasty IM, and proceded to say, "forget the break, it's over."

:'(

So he broke up with you first. But an IM??
[smiley=baby.gif]

Chin up girl! Things will work themselves out and for the better.

Love ya,
Patty

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by ghost62 on Jul 13^th, 2005, 10:28am

Sounds to me he may have gotten knocked up [smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]
Dont let the limp donk sackless bastage back.

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Gator on Jul 13^th, 2005, 10:32am

on 07/13/05 at 04:54:41, Lizzie2 wrote:

He hung up on me yesterday when I suggested maybe we need a break from each other...

In my mind and probably that of a lot of (if not most) men (and probably a lot of women if this would have come from a man): "We need to take a break from each other" = "You aren't satisfying some need that I have and I want to look for someone who does, but have you to fall back on if I don't find anyone better."

on 07/13/05 at 04:54:41, Lizzie2 wrote:

Then last night he sent me a very vile and nasty IM, and proceded to say, "forget the break, it's over."

This is why affairs of the heart are best handled in person. Not much difference between "I want a break" by telephone and "It's over" via IM. That's the main problem with this electronic age. It's so easy to hurt someone when you don't have to face them when you do it. The vile and nasty bit shows that he was probably truly hurt by your suggestion and striking back to hurt you in return. Unfortunately, it also shows him to be the kind of person who will lash out, sulk or split rather than try to find out why or discuss the matter when there is a problem. Not a good quality for a long term/permanent relationship. Best that you find this out sooner than later.

Sorry that you are having to go through this on top of everything else. I hope one day you find a muture adult person that will support you rather than drag you down.

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 13^th, 2005, 8:53pm

Thanks all...

Gator - There is much more to the story than this...

I am not going to share it all on the public MB, but let's just say this has been brewing for about 3 weeks or so now.

My suggestion to take a break was because I could not do a single thing right for him. He was unhappy when we were together because he kept thinking of how little time we have. Then he was unhappy or mad when we were apart because we weren't together. He got mad over some other stuff that I'm not even going to bring up here. This started a few days before I went to the AHS conference. And then during the conference, he called me in the middle of the night one night to ream me out.

I would never have said anything about a break if he had just seen things from my side for once. I tend to analyze things from every angle possible. However, when I get told that studying for "some test" (meaning my board exam for my RN license on the 25th) should not prevent me from spending one hour with him (meaning sex).....let's just say it doesn't sit well with me. There's nothing left I could do. He doesn't respect my opinion about things, and he isn't happy unless I do things his way - which left him constantly pushing me to try to get me to change.

Yeah, I'm losing my mind right now trying to find a new place to live and trying to study for boards. I got up at 4:45am today and worked from 7-7...didn't even leave the hospital until 7:40, and literally got home about 20 minutes ago. I got sick while at work this morning because I went up to the final dose on one of my meds. So with all of this going on - I can't be constantly defending what I do and also constantly failing to meet his expectations - of which I would never ever be able to meet.

:-/

Don't know what else to say about it really. It makes me sad, and it just makes me feel like I had the wrong idea all along....

Carrie

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jul 13^th, 2005, 8:56pm

Sounds like maybe you got a bit of a raw deal with this one Carrie, but as I used to tell my daughters when they were your age "Ya gotta kiss a few frogs in order to find the prince"

You will survive - after everything else you've been through, you will certainly get through this one and come out the other side even stronger.

Hang in there kiddo!

Carol

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Kirk on Jul 13^th, 2005, 9:00pm

What about the Python, 6 circus midgets a bottle of Olive Oil and rubbing a Burrito up and down a Donkey's legs thing? He isn't upset about something that minor is he?

TTFN

Title: Re: To Jimi
Post by Gator on Jul 14^th, 2005, 3:11am

on 07/13/05 at 20:53:19, Lizzie2 wrote:

Gator - There is much more to the story than this...

There usually is. You got too much going on to babysit someone's ego. Sounds like you are rid of someone who would drag you down in his selfishness and insecurity. You deserve better.

I hope things calm down for you for a while at least until you can get your boards out of the way and get into a routine.

Good Luck.