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(Message started by: blossom on Jun 15^th, 2005, 10:51pm)

Title: This f'ing sucks!
Post by blossom on Jun 15^th, 2005, 10:51pm

I am not going to make it to Dallas after all and I am going to rant so prepare....

Child support check bounced (2nd time) which in turn caused my checks that I wrote for bills to bounce. I have to move because I just can not afford this place anymore. I am going to have to use the money I was going to use for Dallas to get us moved. Being a single mom really sucks but you know what? I wouldn't go back to the life I had before for anything in this world. I guess there is always next year... look what happened to me this year - who knows what will happen between now and then. I had just mailed my registration check on Sunday, too! This bites the big one. >:(

I want a ton a pictures to look at from the convention...

Karen

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Candycane on Jun 15^th, 2005, 10:56pm

You are a brave smart women, you're my idol

And you're right there's always next year [smiley=bow.gif] ;)

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Langa on Jun 15^th, 2005, 11:12pm

That's really messed up Karen! :(
Hopefully things will work out and you can still make it. Never know...

Langa

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by nani on Jun 15^th, 2005, 11:35pm

>:( That really does suck!! Will someone please arrange for me to have 5 minutes alone with Chris so I can.... >:(

In NM, writing a hot check for over $100 is a felony. Perhaps a call to your local District Attorney's office is in order? And once you know, perhaps a call to that sorry assed mofo threatening prosecution? Talk to your lawyer or the state about having the child support garnished by the state and paid to you in a state check. This way, they can go after his ass if he doesn't pay up. I'm thinking of you, sweetie...hugs, nani

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by sandie99 on Jun 16^th, 2005, 2:51am

Karen,

I'm so sorry... [smiley=hug.gif]

I hope things work out for you... :)
I'll keep my thumbs up!

Best wishes,
Sanna/sandie99

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by LeLimey on Jun 16^th, 2005, 4:04am

Well that arsehole did have a wedding to pay for - be fair!! NOT!
Get his sorry little butt thrown in jail right now if you can. That is wrong, wrong, wrong. Apart from the convention thing which is bad enough you need to be able to live and he is stopping you doing that. Call your solicitor/ legal whojimmywhatsit first thing and get them onto it.
He has to be stopped form doing this again. Once is bad, twice is taking the piss. No 3rd goes for him.

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by alchemy on Jun 16^th, 2005, 4:15am

go to the courthouse explain the bounced check situation, they and the stae will garnish his wages. the checkwill come from the state. they do not take a cut. they will also get the money from the already bounced checks, retroactive. hope this helps jim

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by maffumatt on Jun 16^th, 2005, 6:44am

Contact your ex, tell him your next call is to the DA. You will get your money. Tell him to add $60 bucks for service charges .

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Bethany1 on Jun 16^th, 2005, 8:16am

Karen, that really SUCKS!!! My friend was going through the same thing, and then she went to the state, now she gets her $$$. It may be a little late, but they do garnish his wages and she gets it eventually. I do hope things work out for you. I'm getting real sick and tired of all my friends having these deadbeat friggen dads that don't pay. Its pretty common. I do hope things get better, and yes you should get retro. Frig him.

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Frank_W on Jun 16^th, 2005, 8:32am

You've got some good advice from Nani and others in this thread, Karen.

Just let me be the first to say, GODD*MNMOTHERF*CKINGSONOFAB*TCH!!!!

That feels better. Don't give up on going, just yet!

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by ghost62 on Jun 16^th, 2005, 8:48am

Hang him.
Remember if he don't care about you and kids then dont worry about how he feels. and to quote frank " GODD*MNMOTHERF*CKINGSONOFAB*TCH!!!! "

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by vig on Jun 16^th, 2005, 9:06am

time to call the lawyer...
this shouldn't happen twice...

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Carl_D on Jun 17^th, 2005, 12:37am

:'(

Sounds like your ex should meet Jonny's boot!!!

Take care of first things first. There is always next convention or meet and greet and as time goes on each one grows bigger with even more interesting and even uglier clusterheads to boot (myself being no George Clooney. ) ;;D

Peace & vibes,
Carl D

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks! *UPDATED*
Post by blossom on Jun 20^th, 2005, 7:24pm

Ok, so I got things straight BUT now I have to wait for the child support to come through the state which means he has to pay it to them before they can send me the money. Good times. So - I may make it.... still don't know but I have had someone offer to pick my happy butt up & drive me down there!!! How freakin' cool are clusterheads? I do have to say its still not looking good. I would love to be there but at this point I can't commit. Thanks for all the great advice! I am takin' care of business but I'm still drowning over here!

Karen

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by cazman on Jun 20^th, 2005, 7:51pm

time to send in the bad man to fix that dude up.

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Leesa on Jun 20^th, 2005, 8:17pm

Karen, now this does BITE the BIG one. Sorry hun. You have my number so use it girly!! HINT HINT!!! Keep us posted gal.
Leesa

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by blossom on Jun 20^th, 2005, 11:41pm

Leesa-

You still have the unlimited long distance? I would love to talk to you! Let me know girl!

Karen

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by rickyshot on Jun 21^st, 2005, 9:45am

OK this brings back memories big time. I raised my kids alone from their deadbeat drug addicted father who goes in and out of work depending if he is on the wagon or not. I went to the child support recovery in GA and when he works a cut goes straight to me. He will be paying from his SS checks. That is how much he owes. He recently made a comment how the kids were grown and why is he still paying. Bite me big time. I told him he owes till the day he dies. Just for the shit my kids went through alone is enough. Homeless and in a shelter when they were young. Never mind what I went through lost my home and everything. I can take it. But their faces and moving to a strange country and having their world taken away from them for that I will never forget, so he can basically kiss my big wide asss [smiley=moonwiggle.gif] I really went through some shit in life and through faith in God came back although I feel my kids are affected. We all are.

Title: Re: This f'ing sucks!
Post by Redneck on Jun 21^st, 2005, 10:09pm

Hope it works out. Then kick his no good fukin' ass, put Jonnys boot there, then send the remains to me >:(

Hugs saved for you, in Dallas or where ever :)