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Title: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Cerberus on Apr 16th, 2005, 12:58am My daughter (Sami 14) has been missing since at least 11:00 AM yesterday...Police have been notified...I can't really say more since there is too much to tell and not enough time or patience to tell it all... That is all... My daughter doesn't love me enough to let me into her life. Ramon :'( :-/ |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Langa on Apr 16th, 2005, 1:14am I'm so sorry Ramon... :( I'm praying for her safety and quick return home... Don't doubt your daughter's love, this is just a very difficult age for kids.. Hang in there and keep us posted.. [smiley=hug.gif]. Langa |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Lizzie2 on Apr 16th, 2005, 2:27am Ramon, She does love you...very much. Please don't ever forget that. I was 14 not all that long ago. I would have made some very wacked out choices had it not been for some very close people in my life. She may be mixed up, confused, depressed, scared, and maybe she feels like she can't turn to you right now. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or can't trust you. Sometimes teens have to find their way. I am praying for all of you, more than you know. Let me know if there's anything I can do for you guys. Love, Lizzie |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Gator on Apr 16th, 2005, 2:42am I hope she gets found quickly and that situations can be resolved peacefully. Vibes for patience and strength headed your way, bro. Lord knows with a teenage girl you need them. |
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Title: ..Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by judkins on Apr 16th, 2005, 3:43am Ramon....I'm sure Sami will soon be home well and safe. It is so hard being a teenager...they feel grown up ...yet they are still our children. I found it hard to speak to my parents at that age...I loved them..but how could I talk to them..I had no idea of how much pain I put them through..just by not talking. When she comes back through that door..put your arms round her and tell her you love her..talking can wait awhile. Hang in there Ramon. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Svenn on Apr 16th, 2005, 4:36am on 04/16/05 at 01:14:06, Langa wrote:
I`m copying this one since i feel it says it all. Praying for all of you Ramon&Tina Svenn |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Redd715 on Apr 16th, 2005, 7:11am Ramon and Woobie my heart goes out to you both. Keep the faith please. Teenagers have so much more to deal with than we ever did at that age, as has been said before, she may feel depressed, scared, and the whole host of things Lizzie said. Do keep us posted as much as you can. Lots of love and giant vibes she comes home soon. Redd |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Karla on Apr 16th, 2005, 8:36am I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for your daughter to come home saftely. I know what it is like I went through this a short while back with my teenage son Joshua dissapearing for a couple of months. The endless worry and not knowing eats at you. If you need someone to call or talk to I will PM you my number. Does she have a cell phone?Can you trace where calls are comming from? If she left her cell lphone at home go her phone directory and call all the people in it and just causualy ask if your daughter is there. That is how I nabed my son and found out where he was staying. At least I knew he was alive and ok. Just an idea. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by lionsound on Apr 16th, 2005, 8:54am :'( [smiley=hug.gif] Ramon, I'll be keeping all of you in my thoughts. I hope she comes home soon. May you all be safe and well, lionsound |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Apr 16th, 2005, 8:57am Praying for her safe return. Never doubt her love for you - she's just lost her way for a time. She does love you, make no mistake about it. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by nani on Apr 16th, 2005, 9:42am :'( [smiley=hug.gif] I'm also praying for her safe and quick return. My oldest daughter had a really rough time during her teen years, and I know how hard it can be on the parents. Hang in there, these rough patches will pass. My prayers are going out for all of you. ~nani |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by maffumatt on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:01am We are thinking of you and your family. Be strong and keep looking. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Kim Y. on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:05am Ramon, I will be praying that your daugter comes home to you very soon and safely.. [smiley=hug.gif] Kim |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by BobG on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:28am Big prayers being sent for the safe return of your daughter. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by broomhilda on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:43am Ramon and Tina, know I am thinking of you right now and praying for her safe return... These are challenging times not only for her but for you both as she exerts her independance and pushes you out, its not that she does not love you, know that in your heart... Big hugs and prayers on over, thinking of all of you [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Alien Space Babe on Apr 16th, 2005, 12:28pm LOVE and HUGS and Everything Else going out to you and Woobs |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by jokrs2 on Apr 16th, 2005, 12:36pm Prayers to you and woobs, and God protect Sami. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by minnie on Apr 16th, 2005, 2:53pm [Ramon and Woobie ] [smiley=hug.gif] I will be praying for your daughters safe return home. When she comes home I hope she's ready to both listen and talk.May you both have the strength you need for this difficult time. praying and sending vibes, Minnie |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by LeLimey on Apr 16th, 2005, 4:04pm Praying for her and you all. I'm so sorry, being a parent is a real double edged sword isn't it? Kids give us the greatest pleasures and also the greatest heartbreaks in life. [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Kris_in_SJ on Apr 16th, 2005, 7:33pm My biggest hugs and many prayers are coming your way in hopes your daughter comes home safe and sound. Kris |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Ree on Apr 16th, 2005, 7:51pm Hello Woobie and Ramon...let us know as soon as you know something......praying for sanity......life with young daughters isnt always fun.....love ree |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Mastifflvr28 on Apr 16th, 2005, 8:04pm Vibes and prayers going up to your family Cerebus and Woobs. Take care, Mast |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Mark C on Apr 16th, 2005, 8:08pm |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! (Updated) Post by Cerberus on Apr 16th, 2005, 9:56pm At approximately 1 pm today, Woobs called me at work and said that they knew where Sami was and she was going there to get her... Needless to say I vacated my position at work ( with my superior's blessing. ) and went straight home to await their arrival. Albeit I STILL have no real idea what made her do what she did, ( I know what I was told...but the story is so outlandishly fantastic, that it befowls me) Alas, she is home now, and hopefully a little wiser and a LOT more appreciative of her home. Thank you all for your support and wisdom, I would have gone insane if I had not had you all to share my pain with...CH aside even. a HUGE sigh of relief.... Ramon |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Redd715 on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:00pm Gald to hear she is safe and sound. I do hope the family recovers from this shake up very soon. Deep Breath my Brother! She is safe and that is the important thing. Much love! REdd |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by cootie on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:16pm Hope ya get things iron'd out.......best way to find out what yer missing is to miss what ya had Pam |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Charlie on Apr 16th, 2005, 10:43pm Sorry to learn this. Here's hoping she's just being a kid. They have no idea how parents worry. Maybe she's just doing the embarrassed at my parents thing. We all had done that in one way or another. I'm thinking of you. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Svenn on Apr 17th, 2005, 3:51am Tina and Ramon Im so happy that Sami is safe and sound and home again. Hope everything will be alright with you all.JUst remember back when you was at that age . 14 and the hormons in your body is starting going crazy. Dangerous thing those hormons Svenn |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Frank_W on Apr 18th, 2005, 8:58am Outstanding, Ramon. What a relief... Good luck to all three of you... |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by ZAIRA on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:06am Thank you Lord. Prayers do work. I'm gald to read she is safe. HUGE vibes and LOTS of prayers for Samy you and Tina. Zaira |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Leesa on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:02pm Ramon and Tina, so glad Sami is home. *wiping sweat from brow* Ill keep the prayers going for yall. Love, Leesa |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Woobie on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:16pm Teenage girls SUCK. She's gonna be the death of me. But CH.com prayers and vibes worked again. They rarely fail! thanks guys. now Anyone want a self proclaimed "hottie"? She's 14 and she knows EVERYTHING. arggggggggggggggg [smiley=mad.gif] [smiley=hammer.gif] |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by purpleydog on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:22pm I was at least 17 before I knew it all... ;) I'm glad she's back Tina, safe and sound. :) |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Jimi on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:34pm Yep she beat me too. I had already turned 15 before I knew it all. Unfortuntely I have forgotten most of it. She is at the age where your opinion doesn't mean a whole lot right not. Fortunetely, if they survive, that will change in a couple of years. Glad she is back. Hang in there. |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Cerberus on Apr 18th, 2005, 10:40pm Ya somehow I'm thinkin I can withstand that kind of stuff about....oh....ONCE! If (knock on wood) something like this should happen again?!!?.....I will simply implode leaving nothing behind but a small pile of ash. Quote:
I don't think I wanna know about that either.... :-X Ramon |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Peppermint on Apr 18th, 2005, 11:43pm on 04/18/05 at 22:16:52, Woobie wrote:
Tina & Crash. .. Been lurking, but I want you to know I was sending prayers your way and I am glad Sami's home and safe. You guys have the patience of saints. Then again... I don't have any better suggestions. Life is a puzzle, I know you'll work it out. Much love, Pep |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Tiannia on Apr 19th, 2005, 12:07am Ramon, 14 is a tough age and there are many mixed up things that go through a kids head. Dont doubt that she loves you even if she is angry and hurt. You all are in my thoughts. Tiannia |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by kimh on Apr 19th, 2005, 8:26am Happy to hear the little darlin is home safe. 14, ehh. I got one of them too ;) FASTEN YER SEAT BELT AND HANG IN THERE!!!! Well wishes**** |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Cathi04 on Apr 19th, 2005, 10:12am Woobie and Ramon.......this must have been horrid for you both! I am glad Sami is back at home, and I am sorry I wasnt around to wring hands with you. As for now, maybe, with a dose of reality in her, she will be more inclined to lsiten to mom and dad about the challenges in life alone. I hope she learns from this..and I know, ya wanna kill her, but all ya can do is hug and kiss her........ JUST remember...my 2 are grown-and THEY survived!!!!!!! Happy for happy endings, Cathi |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by nani on Apr 19th, 2005, 10:24am on 04/19/05 at 10:12:38, Cathi04 wrote:
I've got some grown ones, too, Cathi...what's more significant IMHO... we survived! :) |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by rickyshot on Apr 19th, 2005, 12:24pm Been there with all 3 of my kids. Having problems with the 17 year old as we speak. This is one hell of a generation, they have to contend with things we never could even think of and all that with normal teenage angst, hormones. Most of them come around in their 20's. Hell my oldest even asks for advice he is 23 and hugs and kisses me again. Who is this stranger????We can only pray that when they are out there , they don't get themselves into trouble they can't get out of or survive. The things my kids tell me now makes my hair stand on end. PS that is why we grow old and die, we had children........... :o |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill![smiley=hug. Post by LadyLuv on Apr 19th, 2005, 5:37pm [smiley=huh.gif]Ramon and Woobie... I have been Praying very hard for you guys today... I am so glad that Sami is home and safe.. God can and God will heal the pain that presents itself in your home at this time... She loves you Ramon, she loves you very much ... you daughter, like all teen agers just don't agree with us most of the time, and some time they choose the wrong way to express that disagreement.. [smiley=hug.gif] Peace & Blessing Lady Luv |
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Title: Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! Post by Tiannia on Apr 20th, 2005, 11:47am on 04/18/05 at 22:16:52, Woobie wrote:
Glad she is home. My daughter only turned 8 on Monday and she already acts like she thinks she knows more then Mom and Dad put together. She gets made cause I wont let her dress like Britney Spears. Told her that if she did nothave respect for herself then there is no way that anyone else would respect her. We all do the best we can. Parenthood does no come with a "Parents for Dummies Book." Try your best and know that even if they dont "listen" they do "hear" what you said. The other option is getting one of those fencless dog fences and make a necklace for her. Thay way you know where she is. ;;D -Tia |
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