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(Message started by: LadyElaine on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:17pm)

Title: My Son In Law was killed in Iraq !
Post by LadyElaine on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:17pm
We just got the call from our Daughter!
:'(
She will now also lose her two step sons that she has raised, they will go live with their natural mother.
She is tore up. I don't know any details the men from the army were at her house when she called. We just know he is dead.
When will it all stop!!!

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Post by E-Double on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:27pm
My deepest condolences.

I'm so very sorry for the loss.


Many hugs.

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Post by nani on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:34pm
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Elaine, I am so, so sorry!! I don't even know what to say. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.  [smiley=hug.gif]  love to you, nani

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:35pm
Oh God Elaine, there are no words that will work.

Prayers for you and yours at this time.

Carol

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Post by don on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:39pm
My deepest condolences.

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Post by clarence on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:41pm
no words...
 

Love and prayers to you and your family.

Casey

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Post by broomhilda on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:41pm
:'(My deepest condolences...

So sorry, thinking of all of you at this time...

Hugs

Andrea

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Post by silentbob on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:43pm
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My heart goes out to you and yours.

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Post by Ruth on Apr 4th, 2005, 9:55pm
I am sorry for you and your Daughter.
Any way that the boys could stay with your daughter.
This all just so very sad, prayers for you and you family.

Ruth

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Post by cootie on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:09pm
:'(

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Post by Tim_Z on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:17pm
:(  Sorry Elaine, will say a prayer.

Tim

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Post by Kevin_M on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:24pm


My deepest sympathies



Kevin M

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Post by TxBasslady on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:28pm
E,

Thanks for calling....I know it's been rough for you the last few weeks.  

Sending lots of prayers to Tiffany.   Bless her heart.  
It's so sad.....3 children who's Daddy is gone.

Let me know, sweetie, when you make the trip to Tn.

You know I love you.....and I'll call you tomorrow.

Jean

Title: Re: My Son In Law was killed in Iraq !
Post by LadyElaine on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:47pm
He was Staff Sgt Stephen Kennedy Battery D 1st  278 RCT
He was shot and was carried to the hospital and died at the hospital.  
Tiffany will met tomorrow with someone to make arrangements.
Talking to Tifany broke my heart. I am feeling for his Mom and Dad and Tiffany and those children. The good thing about it all is Tiffany and Stephens ex are good friends. Maybe they will become room mate now.
Stephen he was also a good son in law, a good husband to my Daughter  and good Father and a good son. and a good friend to many. He will be missed !I won't know till tomorrow Jean when I will be going to TN. It all depends on the arrangements. Buddy took off a week for my Dads Funeral and me. He has to be in a computer class tomorrow.  
Tiffany said she would call me tomorrow, Tiffany is holding up well. She has a lot of friends with her tonight.
I think the whole town is at her house.
Thanks everyone.
Thanks for the shoulder Jean and Jackie and for the good wishes for my daughter from you all.



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Post by Karla on Apr 4th, 2005, 10:48pm
Elaine, my deepest sympathy!  I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  I will pray extra hard for you to find some peace and confort in this madness.

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Post by Jimi on Apr 4th, 2005, 11:18pm
  I am so sorry to hear about your son-in-law. Your family has sure been thru it this year. My condolences to you Elaine. :'(

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Post by lionsound on Apr 4th, 2005, 11:28pm
Elaine,

I am so sorry. I'll be keeping you and your daughter and those boys....everyone .....in my thoughts and in my heart.

-lionsound



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Post by PrettyH8Machine on Apr 4th, 2005, 11:31pm
I am so sorry to hear this Elaine. My heart breaks for you and your family and what you are going through at this time. Sending you vibes, prayers and my deepest condolences.

:'(
Carl

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Post by BarbaraG on Apr 4th, 2005, 11:38pm
Dear Friend,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Love ya Lady.  BarbaraG

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Post by nancyc on Apr 4th, 2005, 11:58pm
My prayers are with you and your family, sis....God bless, nancyc

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Post by Ree on Apr 5th, 2005, 12:18am
I am so sorry Elaine... all this time and I didnt even know you had a son in law in the service...... Gods love to you honey you sure have had your share of sadness lately.  Prayers to his family and God bless to all.  Love Ree

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Post by Mr. Happy on Apr 5th, 2005, 12:35am
For a scrawny little thing with only one good lung.........you sure do have broad shoulders, and a lot on `em, Lainey. Hang tuff.

Condolances.
Randy

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Post by The_CH-Angels on Apr 5th, 2005, 1:03am
Lord, shine your light on Elaine and her family.  Give them the strength to endure this pain.  Comfort them in their sadness and welcome their loved ones into your devine kingdom... We ask this in your name... Amen



You have just been visited by a Ch-angel......

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Post by Svenn on Apr 5th, 2005, 2:08am
Elaine, I am so, so sorry!! I don't even know what to say

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Post by BikerBob on Apr 5th, 2005, 2:39am
God's grace be with you and your family now.

Bob

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Post by judkins on Apr 5th, 2005, 3:17am
Elaine my prayers are with you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are also with Tiffany.

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Post by LeLimey on Apr 5th, 2005, 3:50am
Oh Elaine,
I'm so sorry for your families loss.
Thinking of you all
Helen

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Post by BobG on Apr 5th, 2005, 5:15am
I am so very sad to hear this news. Our deepest sympathies and condolences go to you, Elaine, and to all your family.
May God watch over you, your daughter and those children.

:'(

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Post by BarbaraD on Apr 5th, 2005, 5:30am
My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family.

Hugs BD

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Post by Peppermint on Apr 5th, 2005, 7:06am
Elaine,

I am so very sorry to hear this news.  My deepest condolences to you and your family.  May the Lord have mercy, give you strength and courage to endure these most difficult times.  

If you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask, really.

Big hugs,
Patty

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Post by Gator on Apr 5th, 2005, 7:58am
My condolences to you and the whole family.

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Post by Langa on Apr 5th, 2005, 8:30am
I’m heartbroken for you Elaine….I’m so, so sorry about your son-in-law.  My heart goes out to you and your family, especially your daughter.  There are no words really.  My prayers are with you and yours.

Langa

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Post by Frank_W on Apr 5th, 2005, 8:33am
Elaine.... There are no words... I am so very sorry. My deepest condolences to you, Tiffany, and all of you...  :'(

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Post by Edna on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:19am
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OH Elaine,  

I am so very saddened by your news. This week is just filled with terrible sad news. I know your great big loving heart is so torn right now dear. I can't offer much else than support for you and your entire family and prayers that God be close to you all.

I don't know what else to say, but please feel the warmth of my tears filled with sadness for the suffering you all are enduring right now. Mega cyber hugs are already there with you.


God bless you in your time of need and keep you close at heart Elaine.

You're in my thoughts,
love,
EDNA              


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Post by Bethany1 on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:25am
Elaine, My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

:'(

Beth

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Post by Margi on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:32am
Elaine, Buddy, Tiffany and family - please accept our deepest sympathies.  We stand with you in your grief and are offering up prayers.   :'(

love,
Margi & Mike

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Post by Mark C on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:46am
:'(

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Post by ExplodingEyeBall on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:51am
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Post by Kim Y. on Apr 5th, 2005, 9:59am
Elaine and Tiffany
:'(My condolances.  My God watch over you and your family.......... :'(
Kim

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Post by pattik on Apr 5th, 2005, 10:00am
Elaine, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. Prayers and vibes coming your way to help you find strength and serenity through this. pk :'(

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Post by vig on Apr 5th, 2005, 10:11am
:'(

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Post by echo on Apr 5th, 2005, 10:18am
Sorry to read of your loss.  Prayers are with you, Tiffany and family.

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Post by SFChris on Apr 5th, 2005, 10:41am
So sorry for your loss...

Chris

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Post by sandie99 on Apr 5th, 2005, 12:06pm
I am so, so sorry.... :'(

All I can say is my deepest condolences. I am so sorry for your loss... [smiley=hug.gif]

I wish all the best for your daughter. I am sorry for her losses.

You're all in my prayers... [smiley=hug.gif]

Best wishes,
Sandie

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Post by miCHel on Apr 5th, 2005, 1:22pm
This is so unfair.  These things should never happen  :'(

My condolences Elaine.

miCHel

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Post by ghost62 on Apr 5th, 2005, 1:28pm
I'm pray'n hard for your loss. :'(

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Post by Lizzie2 on Apr 5th, 2005, 2:21pm
Elaine,

I'm so sorry for you, your daughter, and your entire family.  I'm making prayers of thanks for the work your son-in-law did for our country and also prayers for all of you to have the strength to carry on, which I know that you do...

Much love,
Lizzie

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Post by Jonny on Apr 5th, 2005, 3:34pm
:'( :'(

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Post by TomM on Apr 5th, 2005, 3:45pm
My deepest symapthies.
TomM

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Post by Ree on Apr 5th, 2005, 5:33pm
Can we get an address or do something for the family... I feel so helpless in all this when I hear about someone losing someone in the war... I have a friend in my support group still awaiting news about her son... love ree

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Post by mynm156 on Apr 5th, 2005, 5:51pm
I wish that there was something I could do or say that would help with the pain that your family is going through.  I am sorry for your loss.


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Post by BlueMeanie on Apr 5th, 2005, 6:44pm
Sorry to hear about the loss of your family member Elaine. Man this war sucks.  :(

Hugs.

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Post by LadyElaine on Apr 5th, 2005, 7:38pm
I got my daughters permission to put her address here.
Funeral arrangements have not been made. The Army said it would take around six days to get his body home.
Tiffany has a house full, his parents are there and his ex wife.  Buddy aand I will more than likely go when arrangements are made.  People have been taking them food all day.
Here is her address
122 Houston Ave
Oak Ridge Tn 37830
If you send any thing Please let her know it was from ch.com
I am sure that Tiffany would love for you all to send something to the Men and Women who are left fighting.
Stephen believed in what he was doing and he gave his life. I think he would like to know you all sent something to brighten a soldiers day in Iraq.
Words can not express the Thanks we feel for the prayers and the kind words.
Ree we  pray everyday for your sons. I hope the woman hears from her son and he is ok!
God Bless our Men and Women over there.




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Post by bigAl on Apr 5th, 2005, 8:08pm
ibidem

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Post by Redneck on Apr 5th, 2005, 8:34pm
So sorry Elaine, for you and all your family. Our thoughts and prayers for all of you.

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Post by Sean_C on Apr 5th, 2005, 8:58pm
Our deepest condolences to you and your family  :'(

Your all in our thoughts and prayers.

Sean....................

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Post by Cathi04 on Apr 5th, 2005, 11:34pm
Elaine.does it ever end for you?
I am sooo sorry to hear of your loss.
Sending you hugs and vibes and strength to get through yet another ordeal.

MY sincerest condolences........
Cathi

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Post by mawmaw on Apr 5th, 2005, 11:53pm
My deepest sympathy to your family. May Gods peace and love give you all comfort at this time

Mawmaw [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Charlie on Apr 6th, 2005, 1:03am
So sorry Elaine for the whole family.

Edna's right. It has been a sad week.  

Rats.   :'(

Charlie

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Post by ClusterChuck on Apr 6th, 2005, 3:05am
Lady E, what more can I say?  My heart bleeds for you.  It makes me realize how trivial my headaches really are.  I wish I could do something for you, my dear.  Just know I am thinking about you and your family.

Chuck

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Post by Missy_Donna on Apr 6th, 2005, 10:17am
Your family still has a tough road ahead with the little ones leaving too.  My God, please let this burden get a little lighter!  

Love and prayers to you all, Elaine.

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Post by jimbo on Apr 6th, 2005, 11:07am
:'( My prayers are with you.

Jim

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Post by ShariRae on Apr 6th, 2005, 11:41am
Oh Elaine :(
  Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love
Shari

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Post by totka2 on Apr 6th, 2005, 11:51am
My deepest condolences ...

Steve

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Post by LadyLuv on Apr 6th, 2005, 2:19pm
My Darling Friend Elaine:

I want tell you that I understand, I want tell you that I know,
I want tell you that you will survive, or how you will surely grow.

I want tell you this is just a test, that you're truly blessed,
That God has chosen you, apart from all the rest.

I want come at you with answers,  that can only come from you,
I want tell you how your grief will pass, but I will say that God will see you through.

I want stand in piours judgement of the bonds you must untie,
I want tell you how to grieve, I want tell you how to cry.

I accept you in your ups and downs, I'm here if you need to share,
I'll just continue Praying, let you cry and hope that you know My Friend, how much I care.

***Elaine, you and your entire family will remain in my***
      daily prayers...

Peace & Blessings
Love & Prayers
Lady Luv

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Post by high_commander on Apr 6th, 2005, 3:27pm
:'(

So sad for your loss..

Heartfelt prayers for you and for all those who loved your son-in law

Danielle

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Post by Tiannia on Apr 6th, 2005, 3:56pm
I am so very saddened to here this.  Know that you are all in my thoughts.  He is and will continue to be well loved, for he is not gone but will be with you always.

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Post by Mastifflvr28 on Apr 6th, 2005, 4:30pm
My deepest condolences to you and your family Elaine.  Please try and take care,
Mast

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Post by pubgirl on Apr 6th, 2005, 7:17pm
I'm really sorry Elaine. Let your daughter know there are people all over the world thinking of her, and you

Wendy

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Post by TonyG1 on Apr 6th, 2005, 10:25pm
:'(  My deepest sympathy !  I wish you and your family strength.  

Tony

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Post by RichardN on Apr 7th, 2005, 2:09am
 So, so sorry.    My heart goes out to you and daughter and family . . .  especially these next agonizing days.  

 Sending love,

    Richard

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Post by K-9 on Apr 7th, 2005, 2:51am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  Very sorry to hear this news.  Big K-9 hug for you!!!

Chuck



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