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Title: need some vibes guys Post by athos on Mar 5th, 2005, 10:34am Sorry i have bgeen absent for awhile... I am back I have been staying with my grandparents in Ut while I find a house here... They are in their 80's. Grandma had a stroke several years ago and is like a 6 year old... Grandpa just had major back surgery last november and has been struggeling to take care of both of them. He had a stroke last night, I am doing my best to take care of Grandma, but she is upset and worried.... I am in an odd situation.. He is more of a father to me than my bio-father - sperm doner ever was... I lived with them for many years as their child. My superman has been delt a mighty blow. thanks.... PS... I should be moving into my own place again soon... I think we have one finalized and thigns should get back to normal. |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Magman on Mar 5th, 2005, 10:47am Hey Bro...vibes to you and your Superman. Hang tuff like i know you can. Pull from the inner strength and you will make it thru this tuff time. Peace, -dan |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by pattik on Mar 5th, 2005, 10:47am Athos, You're in a tough situation. I'm watching my 87 year old mother slowly deteriorate, and I think, as a caretaker, the best you can do is your best. Take some comfort from that. Your superman is still a major part of your life even if it's his turn to be needy. Maybe it's just your turn to be the superman. Keep your chin up. [smiley=hug.gif] pattik (Pat) |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Gator on Mar 5th, 2005, 10:55am on 03/05/05 at 10:47:37, pattik wrote:
Very well said, Pat. Got the vibes rolling. Gatoraid on the way, so to speak. Hang tough, bro. |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by broomhilda on Mar 5th, 2005, 11:45am Packaged and sent from Canada to you and your family... Andrea |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Redd715 on Mar 5th, 2005, 11:51am Yes Ken I have the same issues as I am DPOA for my Mother who had no mind left to speak of, and I watch her deteriorate in mind and body. Tables turn and the child becomes the parent. It's the way of life. Be strong my friend. It's your turn to be the rock now. Luv ya! |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Cathi04 on Mar 5th, 2005, 12:44pm Ken, I know it is hard on you, but you're likely sooo appreciated. What a wonderful thing to be able to give back to these people who gave you so much. Unfortunateely, we are the sandwich generation...caught between caring for our children, and taking care of our elders as we watch them move closer to the end of the line. I, too, am dealing with this. My Mom needs a lot of care, and she will not be getting better...we are losing her. Just make those memories, Ken, enjoy your time with them........oh, and enjoy this new job.... You have my vibes and well-wishes, always..... Cathi |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Alien Space Babe on Mar 5th, 2005, 3:00pm big ass vibes going to you and your family.... |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Jonny on Mar 5th, 2005, 3:36pm Hang in there Ken!!! |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Redneck on Mar 5th, 2005, 4:49pm Yup, it's tuff, but hang in there, with you all the time in spirit. Wishing you the best. Jim |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Charlie on Mar 5th, 2005, 4:55pm All my best and some vibes as well. Charlie |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by LeLimey on Mar 5th, 2005, 5:46pm [smiley=hug.gif] Its tough, you can do it. Just hang in there. We're all here if and when you need us love Helen |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by nani on Mar 5th, 2005, 6:03pm It's your turn Superman, Jr....you're gonna do just fine. Prayers and vibes to all of you, Ken. love, nani (the club sandwich) |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Karla on Mar 5th, 2005, 10:07pm I will be praying for your family and you to get through this by Gods will. |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Belle on Mar 6th, 2005, 12:41am Went through sonme similar experiences myself with the grandparents, so I feel for ya. Sending more vibes to you..... Belle ::) |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by sandie99 on Mar 6th, 2005, 5:12am ((((((((((VIBES)))))))))) I hope that things turn out for the best. [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Mastifflvr28 on Mar 6th, 2005, 12:14pm Vibes and prayers going up Ken Mast |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by jimbo on Mar 6th, 2005, 2:13pm With people like you in this world, the world is a better place. Vibes on the way. Seeya, Jimbo |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Luke63 on Mar 6th, 2005, 4:08pm Vibes here Ken......Luke |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by unsolved1 on Mar 6th, 2005, 4:44pm Vibes headed your way Unsolved |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by athos on Mar 6th, 2005, 7:36pm Thanks guys... Just brought him home... he is trying to pretend that he is alright, but it is not... We seem to take autonomy for granted, well at least I do. Now that it time that he loses some of his it is really hard for me to see... But i know it will help him. |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Mar 6th, 2005, 7:52pm Hang in there - seems there's lots of us that have been in your place. Maybe there's some comfort to be taken from that - you have a sharing place here. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by BobG on Mar 7th, 2005, 3:56pm Thoughts and prayers being sent to you all. |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by ZAIRA on Mar 7th, 2005, 4:07pm [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by PrettyH8Machine on Mar 7th, 2005, 9:53pm Sorry to hear all this Ken. Sending out vibes and prayers for you and your family. Carl |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Sean_C on Mar 7th, 2005, 10:52pm Vibes comin over Ken. Sean................... |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by Cerberus on Mar 7th, 2005, 11:35pm Incoming Vibes EnRoute.....Commander. Ah, yes Utah, where you can walk to the store, 1 mile away and back without getting heat-stroke or die of exposure. where the ambient temperature, is more than slightly less than that of the Sun. No Space suit required to reach the mailbox on the curb. Grass actually grows there too...methinks ;) Peace ... Ramon |
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Title: Re: need some vibes guys Post by athos on Mar 8th, 2005, 1:00am on 03/07/05 at 23:35:06, Cerberus wrote:
Yes I have already rolled in the grass... it was nice :) |
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