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Title: so it'll be over soon.... Post by blossom on Mar 1st, 2005, 9:32pm about 3 months and I am a free woman with my maiden name back!! WHOO-HOO!! I am so ready you guys. This has been a long dark road but I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I have finally realized that I have to do what is going to make ME happy not what is going to make anyone else happy. I am not changing who I am for anyone ever again. It's take it or leave it, if you take it you better treat me right, if you leave it, oh well, your loss not mine. I started counseling today. I think I have my head on straight for the first time in about 2 years. I am focused on my son and me and that is it. I deserve so much out of this life and damn it, I'm going to have it. ;;D Thanks for reading the rant! Blossom/cschick/Karen |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Donna_D. on Mar 1st, 2005, 9:40pm Karen, In 18 days it will be one year since I left my ex... You are going to have good days AND bad days. Just never lose sight of these thing: YOU are worth it. No matter what "it" is...that is up to you Cry when you want, Laugh when you want, be Mad when you want, be Glad when you want....just DON'T do the negative stuff in front of the kid and be careful what you say...Little pitchers have big ears. He is going through a lot, too. Counseling for the both of you is a good idea. Remember to do nice things for yourself. It makes ya feel good! And NEVER forget you have a lot of friends here, and they are always here to help. You have my number. Use it. DD |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Redneck on Mar 1st, 2005, 10:07pm on 03/01/05 at 21:32:49, blossom wrote:
You go lady :) [smiley=thumbsup.gif] |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Mar 1st, 2005, 10:07pm Donna just said it all so well, Karen. She's given you some really good advice. You will have bad days but when that happens ask yourself if you're better of with or without him. Hang in kiddo - it does get better, I promise. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Gator on Mar 1st, 2005, 11:03pm BOOYAH! That's the attitude to have. Onward and upward and don't look back. DD is right about the negativity. Don't ever say anything bad about your ex where the kids can hear, even if your ex talks bad about you. Kids hear these things even when you think they aren't listening and form later opinions about both of their parents from them. You know you can always come here when you need to vent or just need another adult to talk to. |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Charlie on Mar 1st, 2005, 11:49pm http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/toast.gif Nice going, way to look at it. Charlie http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/Hat tip.gif |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Alien Space Babe on Mar 1st, 2005, 11:53pm |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by PrettyH8Machine on Mar 2nd, 2005, 12:26am Go for it girl! Get out there and tear it up! CD |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by sandie99 on Mar 2nd, 2005, 1:19am on 03/01/05 at 21:32:49, blossom wrote:
Amen to that! :) on 03/01/05 at 21:32:49, blossom wrote:
You've deserved it. Enjoy every moment! All the best for you & your son.... :) Wishes, Sandie |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Frank_W on Mar 2nd, 2005, 8:42am Outstanding, Karen!! Way to go. :) |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by nani on Mar 2nd, 2005, 9:14am Allright...you GO girl.... It's yours and Colins turn. Call me if you need me. When's the party? ;;D |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Langa on Mar 2nd, 2005, 9:25am Party? Strippers? I know I’m getting an invite… :D Karen, I’m proud of you girl…awesome attitude. And, you’re right…It’s his loss…time for you to take care of you and your son. Love, Maria |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by LeLimey on Mar 2nd, 2005, 5:26pm Can't add anything to the advice DD gave except to add I'm here for you too.. you have alot of friends... remember that when you need to put a smile back on your face hon! Oh and keep a copy of your marriage certificate.. when we all meet up we'll tie that to a firework and blast it into space.. very therapeutic!! LOL (HUG) Keep the attitude.. it suits you! |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by Jonny on Mar 2nd, 2005, 5:33pm on 03/02/05 at 17:26:28, LeLimey wrote:
A friend of mine took hers to the gun range and blew the shit out of it with a .38, something she had wanted to do to him ;;D |
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Title: Re: so it'll be over soon.... Post by jokrs2 on Mar 2nd, 2005, 6:13pm Kudo's to you. The first time my first wife saw the beast she said it was "too much for her to handle". Gee, I wonder what it was like for me :-X!!! Don't know if you are interested in another union, but I found an angel second time around who understood the term for better, worse, sickness, health. richer, poorer. 21 years this year and she just jokes with me about when she gets the better, richer and healthier, and is really glad I found you guys. Best wishes for you and your child. Joe |
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