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Title: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by cschick on Jan 23rd, 2005, 5:54am I'm freaking out here people. He went out at 7 last night and is not home. There are only 2 scenarios here - dead or arrested. I am calling the hospitals now. God you guys I am freaking out. |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Donna_D. on Jan 23rd, 2005, 6:03am Karen, don't panic. I have been there many many times before. Think clearly. Where was he going...call there first. Then if you need..call the local jail. There is probably an explanation for all this...but panic and worry only hurts you and doesnt change the situation. DD |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by cschick on Jan 23rd, 2005, 6:16am I am going to kill him. Plain and simple. He is at his best friend's house. He left at 7 last night and was going out for "a little bit" - I was doing homework and played a couple of games with Colin, Colin went to bed and I started doing Algebra homework. I worked on that until 1130 - took a shower and went to bed. I had worked from 7am-noon yesterday. I was tired. I fell asleep and wake up at 430 and no Chris. I panic and call the ER's in town, the cops and then it dawns on me to call his best friend. He answers the phone and I say "Where is Chris?", he goes "Oh we had a lot to drink last night, he is here." I say "What? He couldn't call me?" He goes "You want me to have him call?" I say "NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and hang up on the stupid son of a b*itch! What the fuck? He is on a very high dose of anti-depressants right now and is not supposed to be drinking anyway. AND hello! Depression and alcohol aren't really a great combo anyway. Well, he's not going to have to worry about the alcohol killing him anyway, I am going to kick his sorry a**! I am so pissed off right now I could scream! OMG. He better just stay away today. I swear my heart was in my throat. What the hell was I supposed to think? Holy Mary Mother of God, I think I'm going to have a freakin' heart attack. He is going to get it when he gets home. If he knows what is good for him he won't come home. For 2 cents I would take every bit of clothing and whip it out the window into the front yard right now. I have to chill - I'm going to have a cigarette. |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Donna_D. on Jan 23rd, 2005, 7:01am Just cut big holes in his underwear... ..it will make you feel MUCH better! DD |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Peppermint on Jan 23rd, 2005, 7:05am on 01/23/05 at 07:01:55, Donna_D. wrote:
oo ooh I know, then wet 'em and stick 'em in the freezer. ;;D |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jan 23rd, 2005, 8:43am Here's a better one for you - wash them in pure Javex - don't rinse them - just dry 'em and put 'em away! Guaranteed to make him walk a little funny ;;D Ya don't wanna to anything that could get you a jail term, you just wanna get his attention! ;) |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by BarbaraD on Jan 23rd, 2005, 8:50am Or you could STARCH his underware (all of them) and then act as innocent as can be. That really chaps them... ;) And when he comes home, ACT like NOTHING is wrong. He'll want to "justify" his actions. Just be sweet and that will put him on a guilt trip and a half. DO NOT let him explain! Just say, "It doesn't matter, I got a good night's sleep and feel much better today." But DO NOT fight with him - that just egs them on. I found out after YEARS of arguing and yelling that the silent treatment works wonders. They get mad and you can go in the bathroom and have a really good laugh at his expense. It really bugs them worse if you don't fight back. Trust me -- I'm old! Good luck kid, Hugs BD |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Pegase on Jan 23rd, 2005, 9:07am no sex for some time... He'll learn :-X |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by john_d on Jan 23rd, 2005, 9:45am so glad to be single |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by E-Double on Jan 23rd, 2005, 9:52am on 01/23/05 at 09:07:15, Pegase wrote:
How long you been married dude??? lol Seriously though....sorry for your fears and anger and I hope that it's not something that is habitual.......meaning Root of something else.... Enough Online Psych. from me sorry.... Feel for both you guys.... Hugs E |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Jonny on Jan 23rd, 2005, 10:02am on 01/23/05 at 06:16:49, cschick wrote:
Hmmmmmmmm ;;D |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by LeLimey on Jan 23rd, 2005, 11:23am I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that husbands are more trouble than they are worth! Mine.. well, I'll think about what to say before I say it. You're not alone in the "he can just drop dead" club this morning Karen! |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by taraann on Jan 23rd, 2005, 1:12pm OOOOOOHHHH Men suck! lol I hear salt in the undies make for some heavy itchies! ;) |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Sylvan on Jan 23rd, 2005, 1:38pm Karen: I had a night like that about 5 years ago. And i remember thinking this same thing: on 01/23/05 at 06:16:49, cschick wrote:
Well - he didn't! Never saw the SOB again - and in retrospect - he did me a favor. Life has gotten progressively better without him. Be glad he didn't do a stupid thing that he really can never come home from. Sorry that you had such a stressful night. Make sure he atones for it properly! Anne |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Ree on Jan 23rd, 2005, 1:42pm Been there lady... My x husband (Scott and Seans) dad had a hearty 2nd life that I didnt know about... He liked to drink and hang out with the boys after work and there were times when he would pass out or whatever... Well I was pretty gullable so don't believe everything you hear. If he couldnt call you good chance he was in a predicament where he couldnt call you... Demand~~~ and not just you other women and men too here that have hubbys and wives with night lives away from home... DEMAND that you get a call so you can sleep assured that He/she is safe. I can't tell you how many times I would sit on the steps and wait for him to come home alllllllllllll night and then wake up with a baby the next day.......... one time he got dropped off by a woman in a sports car when the sun came up.....PULLED UP about 3 houses down.........oh ya I'm sure they were just talking.............BOY WAS I A DOPE... DON'T BE A DOPE ~~~GROUND THAT MAN~~~ LOVE REE (who Dave says is a big shit now but was a little wimp then, hey the guy had a gun what can I say) |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by cootie on Jan 23rd, 2005, 4:33pm At least he wasn't on the roads drunk....but yeah he coulda called. But then if he knew ya'd be mad he prolly wanted to have fun and continue fun (and be irrisponsible thinkin that way) and not call and get shit. Sort of a two way street there. People do what 'they wanna do' in my book and fightin over it doesn't stop them still wantin to do it. Best to come to some sorta happy medium over it.....and of course know what he is really up to. Inocent fun can be good for a person.....but not callin wasn't cool. Hope it all worked out.....anymore I rather act like I don't care then start shit and show my weakness's. But then it depends on the situation of course. No shit Pam |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by high_commander on Jan 23rd, 2005, 5:40pm I spent the first 3 years of my married life just like that. We had a major scene just like you described, only he had to leave the next day for 2 weeks work out of town....I moved. Took the whole apartment and moved everything 6 blocks down the road. When he called to try and apologise, I didn't say a word. Well, when he got "home"....hehehe, still makes me laugh...he could look into the patio doors and see nothing ! No furniture, no tv...nothing. He had to call my mom (I was at work) to find out where we now lived. He calls now. Quit drinking too. The bleach in the underwear sounds interesting though...may have to keep that one tucked away for future reference. Danielle |
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Title: Re: it's 458 am -where is my husband? Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jan 23rd, 2005, 5:58pm The mother of one of my friends actually did that to her husband once. It apparently creates a very large problem for the poor darlings! ;;D |
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