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Title: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Donna_D. on Dec 31st, 2004, 2:55pm I have had 8 hours sleep in the last six days, I can't eat because I am so stressed out that I have ulcers in my mouth, my ex has been calling me every day at 3:30-4:30 am just to harass me (no I can't turn the ringer off or unplug the phone and he calls from different numbers each time so I can't block it), I cannot seem to stop crying today. Everything feels out of control and hopeless, and I don't know what to do to make it stop. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by eddie on Dec 31st, 2004, 2:58pm i sure hope it gets better for ya donna :'( |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Jonny on Dec 31st, 2004, 3:02pm Ive never heard of a phone you cant unplug |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Langa on Dec 31st, 2004, 3:08pm Maybe you can change your phone number? I know it's a drag, but at least your ex won't be able to harrass you by phone. I'm really sorry you're hurting Donna. I pray things get better for you soon. [smiley=hug.gif] Langa |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by john_d on Dec 31st, 2004, 3:13pm don't those mouth ulcers just make everything so much worse, they suck! vibes Donna, find a way to cut him off from contacting you, who needs that crap? ps milk of magnesia to coat and protect the mouth ulcers does wonders :) |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by broomhilda on Dec 31st, 2004, 3:34pm (((((((Donna))))))))))))) :'( Please try to take care of yourself, change your phone number, its time.... thinking of you and if you need to talk call me k? I am around... Biggest hugs and good thoughts your way... |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Redd715 on Dec 31st, 2004, 3:53pm Sis... you know how to reach me...... |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by nani on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:22pm Unplug the phone...sip some smoothies (like banana, chocolate and milk) and hang in there, sweetie. Cry if you need to, it rids our bodies of toxins that build up...it's good for you. Don't let all the bullshit drag you down though, it's just not worth it. Play a game with the little ones, get silly, laugh too. Hey...why don't all 3 of you put butter in your hair tonight. Make it beauty night! [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Sean_C on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:27pm I'll say it..................kick him in the balls D, followed by a hard left upper cut to the chin, followed by a straight right hand to his face babe ;;D I hate punks >:( Wish I lived closer Sean...................... |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by nani on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:29pm Dontcha just love it when our brothers wanna come out swinging at anyone who bugs us?? I do. :-* |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Charlie on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:34pm I'm with Jonny. You should find a ringer cutoff somewhere too. Of course, maybe you need it connected but Nani's right. A good plan I hope you can get a little shuteye and a little enjoyment out of the day. Your ex needs to play in traffic. Charlie http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/caveblob.jpg |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by becky8 on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:35pm If I were there I would give you the biggest hug!!! And if I were there I would pick the phone when he called and He'd be sorry he fucked with you [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] right now!!! Hang on, it will get better. I promise you and remember what goes around comes around!!! |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Carl_D on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:42pm Big hugs and vibes going out to you Donna. Unplug that phone and unwind a bit, if you can. Peace, Carl D |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by nani on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:44pm Quote:
And of course...I love it when our sisters get all riled up, too. :-* |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Rock_Lobster on Dec 31st, 2004, 4:44pm Becky makes it easy for we the lazy to cut & paste deeply caring replies. If I were there I would give you the biggest Be well DD. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by don on Dec 31st, 2004, 5:30pm Make a couple of calls yourself. One to the phone company and another to the police. Then you go to the couthouse and tyake out a restraining order. If he calls he gets locked up. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by ClusterChuck on Dec 31st, 2004, 5:36pm Doesn't the existing restraining order cover the phone? Get the police on his ass, and let him go back in the slammer as Bubba's wife. A great new year for his scuzzy ass! Hope your phone is turned on now, as I am calling you. Chuck |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Peppermint on Dec 31st, 2004, 6:01pm Donna... leave your cell phone on, shut off your home phone at night. Don't wait to alert the police about this either, because it can be really easy to just keep putting it off, especially if you're feeling stressed and down. Hasn't he already broken that order numerous times?? Think about you and your children first. If someone else tries calling you at home and can't get you, well tough nuts. Just make sure that you have given your cell# to the people you want to be able to stay in contact with. Also... Hang in there girl....... remember no one, and I mean NONE, that makes you feel bad or bad about yourself deserves a tear or a drop of energy wasted on them. Those bad seeds feed on your vulnerability... you know what I'm saying. Wish I could punch a sucker in the friggin pigeon nuts..... You know you can get me on the horn anytime. Breathe. Remember the people that love you. Forget the ones that don't. ;) Patty |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by kimh on Dec 31st, 2004, 6:04pm Donna, I don't really understand what you want from this post. I wish i could end your pain, but sadly no one but YOU can. Call the phone company and then call the police and then stand up in front of a mirror and scream to it's reflection that YOU WILL NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO HARM YOU OR YOUR CHILDREN. PERIOD. You'll be shocked at how easy it can be to end it. It's a state of mind. You mite not be there now. Unfortunately, you have babies who are waiting for you to GET there. They can't make the calls and they are helpless. It's up to you. DO it NOW. Later you can sit down and have a cold drink and a big sandwich while the mirror on the wall gives ya a wink. Well wishes*** |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Redneck on Dec 31st, 2004, 6:04pm [smiley=hug.gif] Take care of yourself dear. Thinking of you. Oh, btw here is the shit head a new years present! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/Jimbo803/Misc%20stuff/44magjhp.gif |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Cerberus on Dec 31st, 2004, 6:39pm Uh I believe Texas is a "fair warning" state.....er right? ;;D Targeting! Ramon |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by M.R. on Dec 31st, 2004, 7:15pm Is fair warning the same as in range?.... Good luck from "ah hell..that's close enough for the 30'06' |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Tim_Z on Dec 31st, 2004, 7:21pm Not cool, call the cops. You don't need this Donna. (((((Donna))))) Tim |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by Donna_D. on Dec 31st, 2004, 11:38pm I swear, this family is the greatest. I have been down and out since Christmas and getting worse every day. Today, I am at the end of my rope and I post and it is like the Cavalry came charging in...my phone has not stopped ringing all day. I don't know how I would make it some days without all of you. For the record. I do have a two year protective order against my ex. When he calls, EVERY time he calls I report it to the police...even at 3:30 in the morning. The DA's office has enough violations of the protective order to consider stalking charges, which carries a mandatory two years in prison. he is truly insane. The calls I have been recieving for the last week consist of him laughing hysterically and telling me "I will pay for all the wrong I ever did to him". I cannot unplug my phone right now as my Dad is not doing well at all and my mobile phone does not always work in the apartment. I have been "warned" that if I change my number that my ex will show up here. In addition, my mother and boss immediately contact the police if they cannot contact me (for obvious reasons). I am taking all the right steps....but that does not make it any easier. I am changing my number anyways after I send notice to my business clients (my home phone doubles as my work phone and I cannot afford to lose money right now) and get my new business cards and I am hoping the son-of-a-bitch doesn't try and make good on his promises.. . Thank you all for the phone calls and messages...I cannot express to you how much it means to me. Thank you. DD PS. Still waiting on one particular phone call...hope it comes soon. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams... Post by AlienSpaceBabe on Dec 31st, 2004, 11:44pm :-[H U G !!! |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Opus on Dec 31st, 2004, 11:50pm (((((Donna))))) Did you get my email? Opus/Paul |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by LeLimey on Jan 1st, 2005, 5:29pm Oh Donna, I know just how it feels to fear the phone ringing and I hate that lousy b@stard for making you fell like that... but there is something that you can do which will give you a good giggle at least! :) Get a whistle and blow it down the phone as hard as you possibly can as soon as the fucker starts to talk. Don't do as I did though... I blew it down the phone as soon as I answered it (too excoted I guess!) and it wasn't bloody well him! Hope it gets better for you soon [smiley=hug.gif] Helen |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Sean_C on Jan 1st, 2005, 10:33pm Angela take it somewhere else please, nobody else needs to here it here. Its your issue, keep it there. Sean................... |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Redd715 on Jan 1st, 2005, 10:42pm Quote:
Angela...seems the last I recalled, when people got divorced...they were no longer married.... |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Redd715 on Jan 1st, 2005, 10:52pm Quote:
What are the most common types of mouth ulcers? There are many different types of mouth ulcers. The two most common types are 1) ulcers caused by minor injuries and 2) aphthous ulcers. 1. Ulcers caused by minor injuries: If a person has a sharp edge on a tooth (for example, because the tooth is chipped), or poorly fitting dentures, the mucosal lining of the mouth may be injured and this may result in an ulcer. These ulcers usually heal rapidly if the source of the injury is removed (for example, if poorly fitting dentures are removed or replaced). 2. Aphthous ulcers: Most people probably get aphthous mouth ulcers at some time in their life. Usually the first attack occurs in adolescence or young adulthood. These ulcers are usually small (less than 5 mm in diameter) and painful. There may be just one or two at a time, or there may be very numerous ulcers in the mouth. People with this condition usually feel fairly well apart from the pain in their mouth. The ulcers usually heal in 1 to 2 weeks but they tend to recur at intervals over the course of many years. In some cases recurrences can be so frequent that mouth ulcers may be constantly present for prolonged periods. Occasionally, aphthous ulcers can be much larger (more than a centimetre in diameter), and then they can take months to heal. These large ulcers are called 'major aphthous ulcers'. People may feel pain or tingling in the mouth for a day or two before aphthous ulcers break out. It's best to start treatment at this time if possible. The exact cause of aphthous ulcers is unknown but it is thought that they may result from the body's own immune system attacking the mucosal lining of the mouth. They may occur after minor injury to the inside of the mouth. Aphthous ulcers are more likely to occur at times of stress. They may occasionally occur after eating certain foods. They may be more common when certain hormones circulate; they tend to be more common round about the time of a menstrual period but less common during pregnancy. Sometimes aphthous ulcers can be caused by deficiency in vitamin B12, folic acid or iron. In rare instances, aphthous ulcers may be caused by coeliac disease (coeliac disease is a condition caused by an inability to tolerate gluten in the diet). A blood test can be used to test for coeliac disease. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by purpleydog on Jan 1st, 2005, 10:58pm on 01/01/05 at 22:42:54, Redd715 wrote:
That is also what I thought. What a waste of energy to pursue something that doesn't even concern you, Angela. Take your baggage elsewhere. We have enough of our own to deal with. Like I said before. You won't get any support here for this kind of vindictive crap. Take it away from here. And as Redd said before... go shit in someone else's nest. Like your own. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by nani on Jan 1st, 2005, 11:10pm Angela...have you heard of PMs or the phone? If you are trying to get us to judge or hate our brother and sister...it's just not going to happen. As far as I'm concerned, you are only making yourself look bad. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Opus on Jan 1st, 2005, 11:22pm on 01/01/05 at 22:29:19, Angela_C wrote:
Since most of the world has the Herpies virus that causes cold sores this comment is moot. on 01/01/05 at 22:29:19, Angela_C wrote:
If Mark is still married then so are you... so then what about Bobby? |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Ueli on Jan 1st, 2005, 11:31pm Angela, your poison pen posts are in vain. If we have to take sides, of course we take the side of the clusterhead. :) |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by Redd715 on Jan 1st, 2005, 11:31pm on 01/01/05 at 23:22:50, Opus wrote:
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Maybe Bobby was the relationship councelor? Or just a divorcee's sex therapist... :-/ |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by nani on Jan 1st, 2005, 11:37pm I would like to take a moment to remind us all not to indulge in the slam and shame game. It is not productive to anyone. My prayers are going out to the children, what a terrible position they are in. For their sake, Angela, I urge you to forgive and move on. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by purpleydog on Jan 2nd, 2005, 12:12am on 01/01/05 at 22:51:49, Angela_C wrote:
You don't have to explain, Angela. It's none of our business, therefore, we don't care. If you choose to post your personal business on this board, that is totally up to you. If you choose to act in an accusive manner to any of our members, it will get you nothing but troll status. We don't take kindly to trolls here. In fact, I know of two troll poking sticks that are sharpened and ready to be used. Just try us. |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by TerryS on Jan 2nd, 2005, 4:17pm I agree with Don and almost every post here Donna: One to the phone company and another to the police. Then you go to the couthouse and tyake out a restraining order. If he calls he gets locked up. Wish I could do more for ya, but I will say a prayer for to do the right thing. Love ya and HUGS, TerryS :'( |
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Title: Re: I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated Post by LeLimey on Jan 2nd, 2005, 5:11pm Donna [smiley=hug.gif] 'nuff said |
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