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(Message started by: becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:41am)

Title: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:41am

I feel alittle sad today, I am excited for my daugther but I don't know why, maybe no sleep. Got hit again last night! I just got to snap out it and stop being stupid!!

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by nani on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:54am

:'( [smiley=hug.gif] :-*

There ya go Wendy...now you should feel all better!!! Ask my kids...a nani hug and kiss goes a looong way.
Love ya, sweetie!

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:55am

[smiley=hug.gif] It's not stupid. Don't compound it by beating yourself up for a legitimate emotion. I hope the beast leaves you alone so you can get adequate rest and some relief. Hang in there, my friend. [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:56am

Nani,
You're the BEST!!! they broke the mold when they made you!!! :)

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by TomM on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:58am

Yeah, what Frank said. Stop beating yourself up. Geez, I seem to remebmer someone telling me the other night to stop being so hard on myself. Take your own advice, Muffin!
How many HA's did you ahve last night?

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by Melissa on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:58am

Well, if it makes ya feel any better, I am extremely depressed today. I don't feel like it's Christmas at all. :( I have 2 kids that are whiny, I have a freakin house to clean, Santa to see and I just don't want to do ANYTHING that has to do with Christmas. Last night I cried, and I don't know if it has to do with me missing all my dead family or what, but it is bringing me down. Hopefully after today, things will get better, cause if they don't, I might just sit here at home, alone in my room, and say fuck it.

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:58am

Thanks Jeepgun,
You're a good friend, I'll come out it, I'm not real bad, just alittle gloomy. I'm sure its cause I am sleepy! ;)

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by eddie on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 11:59am

i will send you a song to cheer you up [smiley=hug.gif]eddie

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:01pm

Oh, Mel hon I hope you feel better fast! We need something silly to get us out of the dumps!! And its funny cause YOU ARE one of the best at that!!! Here's my arms around you [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] Feel better!!

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:02pm

a song would be good! Thats Eddie!!1 :) :)

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by broomhilda on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:05pm

:'( [smiley=hug.gif]

Holidays are tough times, sometimes we have to look really hard for the brighter spots, thinking of you both...

Mel check your pm's

Hugs and smiles on over

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by nani on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:12pm

a nani :-* and [smiley=hug.gif] to you, too, mel. Kids are always whiny around this time. It's the anticipation I think. I finally yelled at mine yesterday and said ..."Now that you don't believe in Santa you'd think you'd be sucking up to the person who gets all your presents!!!"
It didn't work... :-/

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:16pm

Nani, [smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]Yea, RIGHT!!!!

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by TomM on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:17pm

I have no idea what you parents go through with/for your kids @ Christmas but I do know about the blues and stress of it all.
My hat is off [smiley=bow.gif] [smiley=thumb.gif] to all the parents for all you do.
TomM

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by lionsound on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:17pm

It's not stupid. wendy. It's okay to be sad.

Mel and Wendy, I am imagining you both very happy and filled with the love of your families surrounding you on Christmas and every day.

Just like this family is doing here.
[smiley=hug.gif]

-lionsound

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by becky8 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:20pm

I love my Family here,EVEN JONNY AND DON(who sucks by the way)

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by eddie on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:23pm

hope you feel better Mel, i do know about being down
and the lost of family, i lost both mom and dad 2001
sis 1998, i keep them in my heart all the time. i miss
them so bad. wish you all the best Mell :'(
eddie

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by nani on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:26pm

eddie... :-* [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by eddie on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:30pm

thanks nani, but im thankful i had parents that were
loving,caring but didnt give me everything i wanted.
there is so many good memories
eddie

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by Bethany1 on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 12:33pm

Mel, Wendy---Im sorry you guys feel so glum. I guess I can understand a bit. I don't have children, but wedding video was ruined and my car was stolen this month, so Im in the same boat as you guys. Feelin like crapola. Then I think of that stupid cliche... it could be a lot worse. And it really could. I sympathize w/you guys and really hope you can find some cheer. Maybe us girls can get together sometime and take our frustrations out w/a couple of martini's. hugs and vibes to the both of you. [smiley=hug.gif]

Beth

Title: Re: I feel alittle sad today?
Post by stevek on Dec 23^rd, 2004, 5:25pm

Becky8 - When a CH cycle is rolling I have a real hard time keeping a positive attitude. The holiday time magnifies feels, good or bad. Holiday expectations can be a real burden.

Mel – We lost a close relative in Oct who usually spent Christmas with us. Christmas always makes me think of relatives and of close friends who have past away. Damn I miss my Mom – She lived for holidays.

I spent the last month reading three books – one by a journalist who spent time Chechnya, another by a journalist who spent time in Kosovo, and an autobiography by someone in Sudan. People ask me why I reading these books about tragic events. The main reason is I hate being ignorant about the world. But learning about the world reinforces how blessed I am. I wake up every morning thrilled to be alive and happy about where I live. Job and work problems seem minor when seen on a global scale. By no means am I trying to dismiss anyone’s personal feelings, because you can’t control feelings. Maybe I’m just getting old, but I’m truly happy for each day I am not in pain. Today as I was walking on the beach at lunch time I was excited about seeing the Channel Island, the sun, the ocean – damn I sound like a fruitcake from California, I guess that is what I am.

Anyway I wish you all best, Steve