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(Message started by: Not4Hire on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:29am)

Title: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Not4Hire on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:29am

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Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Kevin_M on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:54am

Thoughtful.

Way to go.

8)

Kevin M

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by becky8 on Dec 15^th, 2004, 9:33am

MEN!!! There you go, nude photos again!!! [smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by nani on Dec 15^th, 2004, 9:55am

You know you can always come here for support. That's what this place is all about... PF wishes to you.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by cootie on Dec 15^th, 2004, 10:58am

I'd never trust ya again.................do me wrong once.....do me wrong twice Pam

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by SFChris on Dec 15^th, 2004, 1:22pm

Steve- you shit disturber - how the hell are you? It appears that there are many of us old-timers who still check in daily, yet never post. Why is that? And why do people who have no understanding of this board - it's history - and it's characters, define it for us? I say we plan a mutiny! Either that, or just wish all a happy holiday season, and go back to our lurker status and watch the children play...

Love Chris

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Margi on Dec 15^th, 2004, 1:28pm

Chris....you ROCK! You da man!

Couldn't have said it better myself, m'dear :-*

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by SFChris on Dec 15^th, 2004, 1:45pm

Margi - You KNOW that I love you! Happy holidays to you and yours.

BTW - good wishes to Fubar, 9nerFan, Roxy, Jonny, Karla, Elaine, Ree, O-Ring Kid (where is she?), Elizabeth, Mel, Catlind, Ree, Charlie, Cootie, SailPappy, DJ (of course), and anyone else I forgot...And, Don you still suck.

Xo,

Chris

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Margi on Dec 15^th, 2004, 1:53pm

uh, John_D - feel better now, do you? ::) Just so you know? Just because the author is "Not" doesn't mean that it was Steve who posted that.

aw, Chris - let's just go back over there to the Lurker's Lounge. I figure Bill_L's kept our seats for us.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 15^th, 2004, 1:55pm

So the overall concensus is, if one isn't a member of the "Old Guard," then they have no right to participate here, and should just STFU? And if one is a relative newbie here, then it's okay for one of the "Old Guard" to launch a personal attack, and the person being attacked has no right to speak up or defend themselves? And the fact that other CH sufferers are finding CH.com is something negative or threatening to this clique of old-timers?

[smiley=huh.gif]

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by fubar on Dec 15^th, 2004, 2:41pm

I've been watching this little skirmish for a while now, and can I please (in fubar style) add my 2 cents?

You would think that people HERE, of all places, would have a little thicker skin. It's not about lurkers or old timers or newbies or anything like that. And it's not about feeling 'safe' or any feel-good bullshit either. This is clusterville and sometimes a clusterhead can be cranky or (gasp) offensive. Sometimes they post a LOT and sometimes they don't. People get their panties all twisted up trying to extract an apology or whatever... it's just not necessary. Clusterheads will always be like this. JUST BE YOURSELF. If someone gets upset, then let them be upset. We aren't trying to have a campfire singalong, we're here sharing our lives with the only people in the world who MIGHT understand us. That doesn't mean everyone will understand everybody. Hell, I only started understanding kim a year ago, and that scares the hell out of me.

Frank, you are a valued asset to this board. You could chill a bit on this one... jeez, Chris was just being a tiny bit nostalgic, not trying to create a divide between old-timers and newer people. There shouldn't be any problem with that. If anything, it sounded to me like he was being sympathetic to your problem, saying that eventually a lot of people end up as lurkers because of skirmishes like this one. Let it go. Start posting poetry again and let it go. Have a little note by your computer to remind you you are NOT talking to normal people. Maybe that will soften the blow when someone gets cranky?

The Fu has spoken. Embrace the tao of fu.

-Fu

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 15^th, 2004, 2:51pm

You're right, Fubar. *sigh* I'm sorry.. I've been in pain myself lately, and on edge about some various things... Thanks for the reality check.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Margi on Dec 15^th, 2004, 2:53pm

very well said, Fubar - advice we should all heed.

Duly noted.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by vig on Dec 15^th, 2004, 3:07pm

Behold the power of Fu!

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by brain_cramps on Dec 15^th, 2004, 3:12pm

Fu

You da man! 8)

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by TomM on Dec 15^th, 2004, 3:24pm

on 12/15/04 at 14:41:34, fubar wrote:

Have a little note by your computer to remind you you are NOT talking to normal people. -Fu

It's TWUE. It's TWUE!

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Jonny on Dec 15^th, 2004, 3:25pm

on 12/15/04 at 14:41:34, fubar wrote:

Have a little note by your computer to remind you you are NOT talking to normal people.

Thanks for sticking up for me, Shawn .....LOL ;;D

Oh and, Merry Christmas to you too, SFChris :)

Now man your damn oars and get this fuckin boat back up to speed. (Give Becky8 the broken oar ;;D)

..................................jonny

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by firebrix on Dec 15^th, 2004, 4:32pm

I think Steve's (Not4Hire) post simply meant we should put posts where they're meant to go. No problem really and since he's done so much here for so many years, we should accept his humour - it may be a little crazy, but aren't we all?
If we weren't, we wouldn't be here!
Steve is responsible for the oxygen links remember - lotta work went in to that. He's worked for OUCH, and has done so much for CHers all around the world.
Call me what you like, but NOT thin-skinned!!
As we say down here - "Harden up man!" (NO sexual reference intended altho' I'm sure you'll take it!)
Let's be more tolerant next year huh?
Peace and Love to y'all
firebrix and Mopar

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by john_d on Dec 15^th, 2004, 4:56pm

I removed some posts from this thread. They were OT and unintentionally harmful.

And I am actually tired of being involved in this.

Thanks for the clarity Fubar. Come back and post when you feel like it Steve, I'll just chuckle next time. Keep posten Jeep.

I have a ass-kicken deadline right now at work, plus my cycle waking me at nights, I am bleary eyed and fucken exhausted, see ya soon.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by don on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:39pm

Quote:

STFU

You left out the little "d" at the end there.

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by nancyc on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:47pm

Well, well, SF Chris! How the heck are you doing? You need to stop lurking and come back! You are missed! Plus, I still dream of SF.....will return one day. smiles,nancyc

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by marlin on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:51pm

goomba-ya, goomba-ya...

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Sean_C on Dec 15^th, 2004, 7:52pm

Shawno where have you been bro, been missin ya around here. If your lurkin have an awesome holiday :)

PFDAN to you

Sean.............

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by cootie on Dec 15^th, 2004, 8:25pm

I say......people need to let people be people and be themselves......that's what a REAL family is all about. There's alota shit I don't like.....but......I show my respect to let it slide. I sure the hell ain't perfect myself Pam

Hey Chris....happy holidays to ya !! And hey to you too FU........such a 'lovely' crowd......aren't we ???

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by SFChris on Dec 15^th, 2004, 8:27pm

Shawn (Fubar) - you are far more articulate than I will ever be...hope you're doing well.

Hey there NancyC! It's been too long. Happy holidays.

Best wishes,

Chris

(BTW - Grandma_Sweet_Boy is a real sweetie)

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by don on Dec 15^th, 2004, 8:36pm

San Francisco?

Isn't that where they have the ricerone hall of fame ?

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by SFChris on Dec 15^th, 2004, 9:31pm

LOL- we actually may have a rice-a-roni hall of fame. It wouldn't surprise me a bit...we have anything and everything else, legal or otherwise. 8)

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by nancyc on Dec 15^th, 2004, 10:49pm

HEy there Fubar...Shawn...it has been awhile since I have seen you here too....Great to see you back! You guys need to stick around, we need ya'll here... ;;Dnancyc

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Tim_Z on Dec 15^th, 2004, 11:21pm

I think Fubar summed things up pretty well.

Life is too short.

Tim

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by Charlie on Dec 16^th, 2004, 12:29am

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This place needs something. Can't miss with this 8)

Charlie

Title: Re: .....I surrender.....NT
Post by K-9 on Dec 16^th, 2004, 2:00am

So, Charlie, you're saying we should all get stoned? [smiley=laugh.gif]