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(Message started by: LeLimey on Dec 7^th, 2004, 6:50pm)

Title: An update on Sarah and Chloe
Post by LeLimey on Dec 7^th, 2004, 6:50pm

Firstly I would like to say thank you so very much for all the messages of support - I have really appreciated them [smiley=hug.gif] You lot are the best.
I went with Sarah and her mum yesterday to see caskets.. such awful things and they just shouldn't be so small. So wrong.
Sarah is bearing up fantastically. I think knowing her baby is out of pain and suffering is more of a relief to her than the pain of the fact of her loss. I have no doubt that will sink in over time but I'll be there waiting when it does.
The arsehole (sperm donor) is actually a real prize. He has been telling everyone how heartbroken he is and taking time off work for his grief, he hasn't once phoned Sarah or been to the undertakers to see his daughter - he hasn't seen her since Sept '03 so it would be too little too late now anyway.
I hate the fact he is using her as an excuse for a day off work and someone to buy him a pint down the pub and I would never have believed I could hate someone as much as I do him. I actually find it scary how murderous I feel towards him..
Friday is going to be rough so please do keep Sarah and her family in your thoughts until after then.
Thank you so much once again, having all of you here is such a help, its been a real comfort for me.

Title: Re: An update on Sarah and Chloe
Post by Ree on Dec 7^th, 2004, 7:19pm

I am so sorry for your pain... love to you Ree

Title: Re: An update on Sarah and Chloe
Post by cschick on Dec 7^th, 2004, 9:06pm

you know I am here.....thoughts and prayers sweetie!

Karen

Title: Re: An update on Sarah and Chloe
Post by nani on Dec 7^th, 2004, 9:38pm

[smiley=hug.gif] to you and Sarah, Helen. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Title: Re: An update on Sarah and Chloe
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 8^th, 2004, 8:04am

[smiley=hug.gif] to you and Sarah. Blessings, love, strength, and peace to you.... :'(