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(Message started by: Svenn on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:01pm)

Title: When is enough,enough??????UPDATES
Post by Svenn on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:01pm

First i have the heartproblems
Then cluster

Last day we got a call from brotherinlaw ,He told us that mominlaw "Bente`s mom"is hospitolised with lung cancer

Just wondering when this shit is going to stop!!

Please send Bente and her mom some vibes and prayers
:'( :'( :'(

Svenn

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Redd715 on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:04pm

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Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Kevin_M on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:08pm

A never ending supply for you and Bente, Svenn.

Best hopes for Bente's mother.

Kevin M

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by alleyoop on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:17pm

http://forums.catholic.com/images/smilies/prayer/praying.gif

....alley

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by minnie on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:46pm

Svenn and Bente I will be praying for your mom (in-law)
I hope this is treatable.may you and your family have the strength to deal with everything going on in your life.
Minnie

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by sandie99 on Dec 4^th, 2004, 12:52pm

Lots of prayers and vibes are on their way to Bente!

I'm so sorry that there are so many dark things taken place in your life, Svenn. But they do say that we're never given a burden we cannot carry. Still, I'll say a prayer for you, too. :)

PFdays,
sandie99

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by nani on Dec 4^th, 2004, 1:36pm

Prayers, [smiley=hug.gif], and vibes to you, Bente and her mom. Think positive, Svenn...it can work miracles...

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by LeLimey on Dec 4^th, 2004, 2:06pm

I agree with Nani, the power of positive thought is phenomenal. Praying things improve for you soon
Take care of all of you Svenn
Helen

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Donna_D. on Dec 4^th, 2004, 2:26pm

Svenn and Bente,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I wish your mother-in-law the best and hope God gives you all strength through this tough time.

My love to you all,

DD

http://tinypic.com/u9648

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by taraann on Dec 4^th, 2004, 4:28pm

Oh so sorry to hear about Bente's mom. Lung cancer is sometimes treatable. Sam's uncle was diagnosed almost 2 yrs ago and his quality of life has changed very little since then. There is even a possibility of successful surgery. So hang on to your hope and faith. Vibes and hugs to you, your wife, and your family.

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Gator on Dec 4^th, 2004, 5:37pm

When you get an answer to that question, share it with the rest of us.

Prayers and vibes going up, bro.

Mike

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Dec 5^th, 2004, 2:35am

Vibes going up, of course!!
Mast

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jonny on Dec 5^th, 2004, 2:40am

Ditto that, Mast chick!!

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Charlie on Dec 5^th, 2004, 3:25am

Rats:

All my thoughts and vibes to you and Bente. As I've posted before:

"How about one fuckin' thing at a time?"

Let us know how you and yours are doing Svenn.

Charlie

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by AnnaB on Dec 5^th, 2004, 3:41am

:'( So very sorry to hear about Bente's mom. The pain is a tough thing to understand. No one can 'touch' the way you, Bente and your family feel right now.
You are in my thoughts. Anna (P.S. Everything is temporary, nothing lasts forever except love)

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Magman on Dec 5^th, 2004, 8:42am

Svenn and Bente,

You have all Kathy and I can muster in the way of vibes and prayers.

Peace,
-dan

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Bec on Dec 5^th, 2004, 11:13am

On there way

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by john_d on Dec 5^th, 2004, 12:13pm

on 12/04/04 at 12:01:59, Svenn wrote:

Hope the shitstorm ends soon. The flowers are still there, take a break to smell em once and a while. Big vibes to you svenn.

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Tetris-addict on Dec 5^th, 2004, 6:03pm

Have you read Revelations???

Please, don't think I am being too much

but it does say,

"Men's hearts will fail them..."
"... people will wander around begging to die..."
"... they will hid in mountains and beg for the rocks to
hide them form the face of God...."

Only he grants us breath each moment a gift.
He gave us enough water, enough oxygen,
enough heart beats....

How can we ask for more?

It's like we are children in the candy store
with a pocket full of jaw breakers, begging Daddy
to spend more money on lolly pops.

He is kind and loving, and knows dinner is on it's way.
When he says "no," he has a good reason to.
When he says "yes" you'd better believe He will do it.

Not one word leaves his lips and comes back void.

Run to him, fall into his tender arms of mercy and love.
Let him lift you up into his throne room...
rise above the movie of this world, and seek the
truth.... you will find what you seek.

God bless and keep you.
Hugs!
TJ

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by cschick on Dec 5^th, 2004, 6:30pm

I will be praying for you and your family in this time of heartache! May God be with you and yours.

Hugs-
Karen

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by EBaby on Dec 6^th, 2004, 7:01am

Svenn you and I are at that age where people we love and care for health is not always good. I know how you feel and understand the Enough is Enough!

Sometimes I want to scream and say Enough do you hear me. I know the Good Lord knows when I have had enough. He seems to give me my breaks. Some times we just have to look real hard to see the breaks.

Your family is in my prayers and thoughts!

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by the_old_man on Dec 6^th, 2004, 8:46am

Svenn...
Like you I have heart problems and CH. I can't take any meds because of it. It's been said that you can have money and good looks, but without your health you have nothing. Unfortunately for me, I don't have the money or the good looks either. That makes me a poor, butt ugly CHer. Hang in there. Things come in threes, and you've got your three right now. All the positive vibes I can muster are going out to you and your family.

The Old Man

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 6^th, 2004, 9:28am

Love, Hugs, & Vibes to you, Bente, and Bente's mother, my friend. Let us know when you find out something new, okay? [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Svenn on Dec 6^th, 2004, 9:49am

tomorrow or wednesday Frank

Svenn

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 6^th, 2004, 10:08am

I'll keep my fingers crossed and the prayers and vibes going out, Svenn. :)

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by thomas on Dec 6^th, 2004, 10:22am

:'( [smiley=heart.gif]

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by becky8 on Dec 6^th, 2004, 10:29am

Hang in there, Sucks when so many things at once, I know but were all here for you as you can see!!! Lots of love and prayers coming at ya!!!!
becky8

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Cathi04 on Dec 6^th, 2004, 10:42am

Svenn, we are called the Sandwich generation...........somewhre, caught, between our parents and our children. While our kids are still working to find their wings, our parents/ wings are being clipped, and we find ourselves torn to care for both as life moves on.
Sadly, you are so right. There is a lot on your plates right now. I hope Bente's mom can fight this, and that your heart stays strong, and the beast lays low, so you can help Bente cope.
Please give Bente a big hug from me. I will be sending my vibes.....from Nowhere, OR!

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Svenn on Dec 7^th, 2004, 3:51pm

Hi there

Just wants to tell you that Bente`s mom is starting chemo-treatment tomorrow.No chanse for surgery the doc said :'( :'( :'(

Like to say a HUGE thnx for all the vibes and all my fine clustervillefamily have sent us

Cant thank you enough for that

Svenn&Bente

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Melissa on Dec 7^th, 2004, 3:55pm

Svenn, I don't know what to say. A ton of people are getting cancer, and I wish I knew what it is that is triggering it... I hope that Bente's mom will beat it, she must stay strong and fight. I know that is what I'll do if, or when, I get it.

many prayers sent across the pond.

hugs,
mel

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 7^th, 2004, 3:56pm

on 12/07/04 at 15:55:28, Melissa wrote:

Ditto. Prayers, love, and wishes for strength, peace, and forebearance to you all, my friend.

-Frank

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Svenn on Dec 7^th, 2004, 5:57pm

WHY DO ALL THIS SHIT STARTS JUST BEFORE CHRISTMASTIME? :'( :'( :'(

Sorry for this mood of mine right now friends

Svenn

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by broomhilda on Dec 7^th, 2004, 6:04pm

:'(Awwwwww Svenn [smiley=hug.gif]

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, I am so sorry.... :'(

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Svenn on Dec 8^th, 2004, 8:03am

Dont know what to say folks,can almost feel the prayers and wibes all the way over here.Dont know what i would have done without my Clusterville family

It really does makes you feel a lot better!!

THANKS A LOT from me and Bente in this sad time

Svenn

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Svenn on Dec 8^th, 2004, 3:57pm

latest news is that Bente`s mom has 2 mnths left on this earth.The lungcancer is nonoperable but she has started the chemo today.

WOW;WHAT A CHRISTMASPRESENT we got. :'( :'( :'( :'(

Svenn

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jonny on Dec 8^th, 2004, 4:14pm

Sorry Svenn :'(

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by Jeepgun on Dec 8^th, 2004, 4:16pm

A ton of hugs and vibes to you, Bente, and Bente's mother. Doctors are not God, and she may have considerably more time left than two months, especially if the cancer responds to the chemo. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers... [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by nani on Dec 8^th, 2004, 4:17pm

:'( Oh, that's terrible Svenn. The important part is to try and remember to make the next two months the most wonderful, loving and happy time for all 3 of you. Sometimes I wonder if knowing when you are going to go makes the end easier. You have the time you need to deal with unfinished "business". Hugs and prayers to all of you. I'm so sorry. [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????
Post by thomas on Dec 8^th, 2004, 5:08pm

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Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????UPDATES
Post by LeLimey on Dec 8^th, 2004, 7:04pm

Frank is right Svenn, fight it with all you have and enjoy every day you have too. [smiley=hug.gif]
I'm praying for you and thinking all the positive thoughts I can
love
Helen

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????UPDATES
Post by Edna on Dec 9^th, 2004, 3:15pm

OH MY!!

Svenn, my heart aches along with yours and Bente's. It's so scary to miss being here at "home".....never knowing what we'll find when we return.

I miss you pal, and it's been too long since we swapped words.

Please, PLEASE, PLEASE............listen to the same words that YOU gave ME not that long ago....

FOLLOW YOUR HEART, IT WILL NOT STEER YOU WRONG

If not for you, I don't know what I'd of done through all those months......and then again.......if not for all the support from you and advice you gave........I wouldn't have had TEN (10) of the BEST months with my mother in law before she passed.

Keep the faith and NEVER give up hope. Only the good Lord above knows the time and the hour. All we can do is be prepared.

As I always told my mother in law before she passed........the "ONLY" thing I can fathom good from cancer is that it gives us a warning of time.......and how we spend that time once we know makes ALL the difference in the world.

You are all in my thoughts, in my heart, and in my prayers.

Hug Bente really, really tight for me......and tell her to hug you back. I'm there with you friend. I love you both.

:'( EDNA

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????UPDATES
Post by Bethany1 on Dec 9^th, 2004, 4:11pm

Svenn--

I am so sorry. Prayers and Vibes to you and your family.
[smiley=hug.gif]

-B

Title: Re: When is enough,enough??????UPDATES
Post by Gator on Dec 9^th, 2004, 5:29pm

Svenn, my brother, I am so sorry to hear this. Continued prayers and vibes for health and comfort in this time of strife.

Gator