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Title: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Ruth on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:03am Well, Tomorrow, my husband and I will be spending TG visiting our son at the Hospital. Hows that for a weird place to spend your day. It will be ok, we have visited him there before. The only bad thing is that you can only bring prepared food in for the visit. No home made goodies. Maybe next year he will be out for the holidays. Could use some hugs and good vibes through these times. Ruth |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Jeepgun on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:08am [smiley=hug.gif] Hang in there, Ruth. Happy Thanksgiving to you all. Keep it alive in your hearts all the time, and may it warm you all. |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Ruth on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:09am Thank you. :) |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by vig on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:12am give thanks that he is safe now. |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by IHateSequelsNotH on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:15am It's not all that weird and to hell with the food. You will be with him, at that moment nothing else matters. peace love Andrew |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Bethany1 on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:17am ((((RUTH))))) [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by OneEyeBlind on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:21am You can give thanks that you can see him, knowing that he is safe, and to hell with the bird. Thanksgiving is all about loving and sharing, and you'll get to do that. Peace & love coming your way. Oh yea, and lots and lots of hugs (((((((Ruth)))))))) |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by becky8 on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:29am Well, you really something to be thankful for. Your son is safe and happy hopefully. You and your family will be in prayers and thoughts. Take care and hugs to you!! |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by nani on Nov 24th, 2004, 11:31am [[{Ruth]]} [smiley=hug.gif] I know it will be hard, hun. We once spent a Christmas day at the psych hospital with my daughter. Be thankful that he's safe, hopefully getting the help he needs. I found myself blaming myself a lot during those years and the doctors there reminded me that mental illness is no one's fault (except for genetic pre-disposition) and I wouldn't have been able to do much to help her by myself anyway. Love to you and your husband and son... when you're done- you and your hubby do something special for the two of you. [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Leesa on Nov 24th, 2004, 2:59pm Ruth, got the vibes going for yall hun. May the visit be sweet and may your son come home very SOON!!! PF wishes, Leesa |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Ruth on Nov 24th, 2004, 4:09pm Thanks to you all for hugs and vibes. Yes, he is safe there, pretty much so anyway, and he is getting the treatment he needs and like you said Nani, he is getting the help I can't give him. The only thing I blame myself for is that I didn't try to get him into a hospital before he hurt someone. I new something was wrong, but I had no idea he was as bad off as he turned out to be. I am thankful that he is where he can get help and is not in prison and he is doing well with the treatment. He will serve 15 years under the PSRB board so they will be keeping a close eye on him. I am very thankful for the fact the person he hurt is well and very thankful to be so close that I can visit with my son often. I am also very thankful for all of you for being good friends and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO YOU ALL Ruth |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Ree on Nov 24th, 2004, 4:12pm God Bless Ruth sweetie... and know that we go with you in spirit... My grandmother used to sarcastically say "Have some kids" in her french accent... I know what she means.........love ree |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Carl_D on Nov 24th, 2004, 4:47pm [smiley=hug.gif] Hope you have a good thanksgiving with your son. Peace, Carl D |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Jonny on Nov 24th, 2004, 4:51pm Love to you, Ruth! |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by LeLimey on Nov 24th, 2004, 5:01pm Ruth have a great day :) Take care Helen |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by broomhilda on Nov 24th, 2004, 5:05pm [smiley=hug.gif]Enjoy your day with your son Ruth, best of wishes... |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Nov 24th, 2004, 5:08pm Enjoy the time you can spend with him and don't beat yourself up about things that are in the past. You can't change it - look forward for you and your family. Hugs to you hon - I can only imagine how tough that must be. |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Charlie on Nov 24th, 2004, 5:10pm Jonny said it: Love to you Ruth. http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/hug.gif All my thoughts and hopes that hings will be better and better every time you see him. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by OneEyeBlind on Nov 24th, 2004, 5:22pm Ruth, don't beat yourself up. Hindsight is often 20/20. Some things ya just don't see coming. Clarity often comes after the event has already happened. Hugs to ya. Try and just enjoy the day. |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by Redneck on Nov 24th, 2004, 8:20pm Love you Ruth. (((((((hugs))))))) Turkey really sucks anyway (unless I fried it :) ) Thinking of you my friend. |
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Title: Re: Going to the Mental Hospital............. Post by cootie on Nov 25th, 2004, 12:57am Hope you have a pleasant day but am sure it will be strangely diffrent no doubt. Hope you all can make the best of it......hope all is well. What kind of dinner stuff can you take......fast food stuff ? I like fast food. Turkey taco Pam |
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