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(Message started by: Opus on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:44pm)

Title: Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*tally pg3
Post by Opus on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:44pm
A few of my CH friends and I were interested in the fact that we all seem to have a high sex drive. I was wondering if that was a normal CH trait or is it just a normal people trait. I also was wondering how many people's drive increased at the time they got CH. Before CH I was fine with once a week. Now I feel like everyday might not be enough. Of course I am only guessing as I am on the bi-annual plan.

So I am asking CH sufferers only,

1. Do you think you have a higher than normal sex
drive.

2. Did you notice an increase in your drive after CH
came to your life.

Since it seems that a lot of us have no outlet, you can base it on how often you want it versus how often you get it.

Many have asked what is normal,

Good question, studies vary a lot but to me they point to twice a week to once every two weeks as average for most. Whether that is how often they would like it is not clear. Men typically want sex more often than woman. I was surprised at high the libidos of the CH woman I know.  


Opus/Paul


***tally on page 3 ***

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by vig on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:48pm
yes no

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Melissa on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:50pm
1. yes
2. hell no

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:51pm
Speak for yourself Paul ;;D, I think CH is the best contraceptive known to mankind!

Wendy

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Mr. Happy on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:54pm

on 11/09/04 at 22:44:23, Opus wrote:
A few of my CH friends and I were interested in the fact that we all seem to have a high sex drive.

You wouldn't all happen to be men, living in Canada, with winter approaching, and you haven't been laid in the past 258 days, would it?

Shit,
RJ

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Opus on Nov 9th, 2004, 10:58pm

on 11/09/04 at 22:54:42, Mr. Happy wrote:
You wouldn't all happen to be men, living in Canada, with winter approaching, and you haven't been laid in the past 258 days, would it?


Actually, I have very few Male friends, live in the USA, and it doesn't usually go longer than 175 days.

Opus/Paul


Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Mr. Happy on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:01pm

on 11/09/04 at 22:51:52, pubgirl wrote:
I think CH is the best contraceptive known to mankind!

Well dang, Wendy....let me make sure and scratch you off the Dance card next cycle. Talk about a "Not tonight I have a Headache" syndrome.........Sounds like you can cough up a "No Way, Not on Your Life" retort on demand.

Oh, you English and your humor,
RJ

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by thomas on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:07pm
yes no

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Magick on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:17pm
Hight sex drive? Too high I've been told.
Cluster have not had any effect. But the meds have...
In other words the thought process is still in place (and the dreams have been rather erotic as I recall) but Physically no.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Rock_Lobster on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:22pm
yes no 9 inches

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Redd715 on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:42pm

on 11/09/04 at 22:44:23, Opus wrote:
1. Do you think you have a higher than normal sex
drive.

Yes but I feel thats because I'm 39 and heading right into my "peak" so to speak.  

2. Did you notice an increase in your drive after CH
came to your life.

I notice a decreace in how often I get it since the boyfriend bailed this spring when this mutated and hit full boar.  Besides It's not about just sex but everything that goes with it. I want the whole package, lock stock and barrel.  Day in day out the good, the bad and obviously :-/ the ugly


Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:51pm
What's a "normal" sex drive by the way Paul? Once a day? Once a week? Once a month? Once in a lifetime?

My main problem is that I'm nocturnal and my husband isn't so we tend to do shifts on the bed. The only answer is to either hook up with a vampire or another clusterhead. Angel will do for the vampire, but most of the other clusterheads I've met are plug ugly (Fu excepted of course) and I wouldn't touch them with yours Paul!

OOppps! How many people have I upset now ;;D

Wendy

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Gator on Nov 9th, 2004, 11:56pm
1.  No

2.  Are you kidding?  Through the pain, the meds, the insomnia and the depression the heads are rarely on speaking terms.


Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by nani on Nov 10th, 2004, 12:06am
1. Yes - I have been told that I have the highest drive for a woman some people have ever known.
2. Not sure- started at 16 (CH) I started the "other" at 14 ;)


Quote:
Cluster have not had any effect. But the meds have...
If you don't mind my asking, John...which ones and what effect?

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by cootie on Nov 10th, 2004, 12:15am
Speaking for Brad.........he hears NO alot !  8) He dreulls at the drop of a hat Pam

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Racer1_NC on Nov 10th, 2004, 12:41am
yes
no

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by nani on Nov 10th, 2004, 12:59am

Quote:
What's a "normal" sex drive by the way Paul?
 I'm guessing that normal is relative to your situation. A 17 year old boys "normal" could be upwards of twice a day. A 45 yo woman married for 20 years "normal" could be twice a month. If your significant other complains that they never get it or get it too much would be a good gauge. If you're single - I guess it would depend on how often you feel the need to go out and look for it or how often you feel the need to -um- take matters into your own hands.  ;;D

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Magick on Nov 10th, 2004, 1:38am
To nani: Depakote,Nothing too bad...just ...not the same
Desipramine,  totoaly messed up the works
Prednisone, DUH!
Verap, "what wrong with you dammit!"

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by DaveHar on Nov 10th, 2004, 1:46am
yes...got to get it at least 3 to 4 times a day and I'm 35 and just hitting my prime.
Now if I can just get all the kids out I MIGHT see that happen once or twice a month.
no...don't even think about it

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by K-9 on Nov 10th, 2004, 1:50am
1. Yes

2. Possibly, active since 15 yo and CH since 20.  I'm 31 now and it's as high as it's ever been so I'd conclude that it probably has increased.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by 12gagueblast on Nov 10th, 2004, 2:03am
I have likend my sex drive to that of an entire class of 15 year old boys, at an all boy's school.  It is kinda a pain in the............ well you know.   The short answer is YES to the first question.

To the second question, don't think it makes much difference.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Filbert on Nov 10th, 2004, 5:09am
;;D  
on 11/09/04 at 23:51:48, pubgirl wrote:
What's a "normal" sex drive by the way Paul? Once a day? Once a week? Once a month? Once in a lifetime?

My main problem is that I'm nocturnal and my husband isn't so we tend to do shifts on the bed. The only answer is to either hook up with a vampire or another clusterhead. Angel will do for the vampire, but most of the other clusterheads I've met are plug ugly (Fu excepted of course) and I wouldn't touch them with yours Paul!

OOppps! How many people have I upset now ;;D

Wendy


Thanks Wendy -I've now booked an appointment with my plastic surgeon :'( ;;D

        Plug Ug Filb.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by E-Double on Nov 10th, 2004, 7:16am
1. Absolutely.......Funny I've had that same conversation.
2. Not sure.........Started in college
(lived in my fraternity  house an was quite popular so I was quite active) Since "growing up" I've wanted to be Extremely active yet have not found someone to keep up.......then I found Love and I'll settle for less "Bumpin'" for the total package as red put it.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by RandyB on Nov 10th, 2004, 8:13am
yes

not sure

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by taraann on Nov 10th, 2004, 8:18am
Sex?  What's sex?

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 10th, 2004, 8:47am

Quote:
1. Do you think you have a higher than normal sex drive.

Yep. It's called hypersexuality. I slept with two hottie psychologists before the term "satyriasis" was mentioned. :) Happily for all of us deviants, "nymphomania" and "satyriasis" are no longer listed as specific disorders in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

Seriously though, hypersexuality can be a symptom of many psychological disorders, like bipolar disorder (that would be where mine comes in) and Kluver-Bucy syndrome.


Quote:
2. Did you notice an increase in your drive after CH came to your life.

Nope. I am always horny. And, er, you all have seen pictures of my wife... Again: I'm always horny. ;;D


Quote:
...but most of the other clusterheads I've met are plug ugly...

Gee, thanks. I'll make sure to bring my paper bag with me if I'm ever fortunate enough to meet you... ;)


Quote:
A 17 year old boys "normal" could be upwards of twice a day.

So, at least I'm normal for a 17 year old! Yeah for me!!

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jeepgun on Nov 10th, 2004, 8:59am
I've always had a high libido. I haven't noticed any difference since developing CH. Then again, I'm 35 and my hormones still think I'm 25. LOL

Ugly? Hrmmm... I don't recall meeting any ugly people in Nashville, but I guess after being told that most clusterheads are ugly, the only question remaining is, "Paper or plastic?"

[smiley=bag.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Rock_Lobster on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:04am
Is anyone else seeing a trend?

CH men are kinda normal.

CH women are cock mongers.  
[smiley=slowlaugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Rock_Lobster on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:05am

on 11/10/04 at 08:59:31, Jeepgun wrote:
"Paper or plastic?"


[smiley=slowlaugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by LeLimey on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:06am
Well in line with all the "ugly" comments all I can say is that obviously women think better than they see whilst men....  [smiley=laugh.gif]
Mind you Rock.. I've just seen that picture of you on another thread... :o
oh and yes and no!

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jimmy_B on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:09am

on 11/09/04 at 23:51:48, pubgirl wrote:
clusterheads I've met are plug ugly (Fu excepted of course) and I wouldn't touch them with yours Paul!

OOppps! How many people have I upset now ;;D

Wendy


Remind me ..never to meet Wendy
;;D


Quote:
A 17 year old boys "normal" could be upwards of twice a day.


I wish I ran around with your Friends, when I was 17. Lucky if it was twice a month. ;;D

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Donna_D. on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:23am
We have had this conversation before....

How the hell you think we got in so much trouble over in HSG ;)?


I have and have always had what has been referred to as an insatiable sex drive.  Three times a day and four times on Saturday would make me a very happy happy camper!

So I guess my answer to number one is


YES!  YES!!  OH GOD YES!!


and as far as question number two...onset of CH made no difference....Like Hirv, I have always been horny ;;D


DD

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Opus on Nov 10th, 2004, 9:58am

on 11/09/04 at 23:51:48, pubgirl wrote:
What's a "normal" sex drive by the way Paul? Once a day? Once a week? Once a month? Once in a lifetime?
Still waiting for your answer Wendy

Good question, studies vary a lot but to me they point to twice a week to once every two weeks as average for most. Whether that is how often they would like it is not clear. Men typically want sex more often than woman. I was surprised at high the libidos of the CH woman I know.


So far the totals for question #1 are

Yes-20       86%
 No-3


The second question seems to be useless as many started CH at an early age.



on 11/10/04 at 08:18:05, taraann wrote:
Sex?  What's sex?


Sex is something that I want in any fashion I can get but can only have with anouther person ever 6 months without committing adultery. I would love to be able to take something and make this problem of mine go away.

Opus/Paul



Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by PittsburghJoe on Nov 10th, 2004, 10:04am
1. Yes

2. What was the question? I was still re-reading Rock's "9 inches" thing...

Oddly enough, though, it usually isn't my own "little solider" I'm concerned with when the time comes to do the deed. Call me a pleaser...

(I know, I know... TMI)

Joe

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by don on Nov 10th, 2004, 10:15am

Quote:
higher than normal sex
drive.


Whats normal ?


Quote:
Did you notice an increase in your drive after CH
came to your life.


I was 19 and already into overdrive.


Quote:
Since it seems that a lot of us have no outlet


There is an outlet just down the street from my office. Good stuff cheap.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 2:49pm
Filbert

I promise I wasn't referring to you, I meant Hamster, MOB, Dolly and Mike really!

Ooops, have I upset some more people ;;D

Wendy

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Margi on Nov 10th, 2004, 2:59pm
LMAO Wendy - so how does foot taste, anyway?  You're getting as bad as BobP.

Toss in a grenade and then run like hell.

Keep up the good work, W the B or should that be W the M(outh)?

;)

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 10th, 2004, 2:59pm

on 11/10/04 at 14:49:37, pubgirl wrote:
Ooops, have I upset some more people ;;D

Well, happily I was not on the singled-out-for-being-fugly list, but neither was I exempted.

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:00pm
1.  Maybe a little higher than the average female, not much.

2.  I started having CH at the age of about 16.  Started the other at 18.  No real baseline to compare.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jeepgun on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:01pm
I'm not ugly, however, if you'd prefer, I can GET ugly!  [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:05pm
Who told you you weren't ugly Jeep ;;D

and Hirvimaki, you're too pretty to be ugly


(now I AM running like hell Margi!)

W

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jeepgun on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:07pm

on 11/10/04 at 15:05:34, pubgirl wrote:
Who told you you weren't ugly Jeep ;;D


I guess I've been lied to. Off to drink some drain-cleaner, I guess...

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by vig on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:10pm
little children run at the sight of me...  [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:13pm
Vig just told me that you aren't all ugly, but you are all lardarses ;;D


Donning a flak jacket and helmet now ;;D

W

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by PittsburghJoe on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:22pm
Oddly enough, the French word for ugly is "laid."

I try to get "ugly" as often as possible!

Joe

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Charlie on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:23pm
Shit. I was 23 at the time. Hard to tell. Back then, every day. Damn anti-seizure drugs seem to work either way.


Quote:
Since it seems that a lot of us have no outlet, you can base it on how often you want it versus how often you get it.
At my age, an outlet is about all I have here since the Electrolux crapped out..

If I can remember that far back, I'd say no more, no less.

Charie http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/smooch.gif

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:26pm

on 11/10/04 at 15:05:34, pubgirl wrote:
Hirvimaki, you're too pretty to be ugly

Too true. It's a curse being a "pretty boy", but I have learned to cope... :)

"Well, I guess it started during my first year of the second grade, when I was eating lunch and caught my reflection in a spoon, and I thought to myself, 'Hey, you're ridiculously good looking!' And I thought maybe I could do that for a career."

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:28pm
issus

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jimi on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:42pm
   Well I AM ugly!  (in a cute sorta way)
   At least that was what my momma said................

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by PittsburghJoe on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:45pm
Suddenly I get a mental picture of Hirvimaki in the gas station scene in "Zoolander."

::)

Joe

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:49pm
[smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif] Joe !
my mental image is more of someone looking in a pool  ::)

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Ree on Nov 10th, 2004, 3:58pm

on 11/09/04 at 23:56:58, Gator wrote:
1.  No

2.  Are you kidding?  Through the pain, the meds, the insomnia and the depression the heads are rarely on speaking terms.
thanks for your honesty... CH has killed our sex life..........all the meds etc.......... what's sex...........?  I have noticed that those that have a problem don't regularly post it but I have seen reference to the opposite side to this before in the supporters corner...  ree

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 10th, 2004, 4:03pm

on 11/10/04 at 15:45:56, PittsburghJoe wrote:
Suddenly I get a mental picture of Hirvimaki in the gas station scene in "Zoolander."

"Rufus, Brint, and Meekus were like brothers to me. And when I say brother, I don't mean, like, an actual brother, but I mean it like the way black people use it. Which is more meaningful I think. If there is anything that this horrible tragedy can teach us, it's that a male model's life is a precious, precious commodity. Just because we have chiseled abs and stunning features, it doesn't mean that we too can't not die in a freak gasoline fight accident."

LMAO!

One of my favorite movies...

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 10th, 2004, 4:10pm
Funny that, precious is a word we often use over here about models.....

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Opus on Nov 12th, 2004, 7:56am
Thanks everyone,

So far 88% say they have a higher than normal drive.

and 78% say they were born that way.


For the most posts without answering the question the winner is:

Pubgirl AKA Wendy with 8


My next project is to search out which meds are taken but those who said no becouse of meds and get only those from my doctor. That way I can kill two problems with one pill.



Opus/Paul

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by john_d on Nov 12th, 2004, 8:53am

on 11/10/04 at 15:26:10, Hirvimaki wrote:
Too true. It's a curse being a "pretty boy", but I have learned to cope... :)


oh really? hmmmmm   ::)

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Svenn on Nov 12th, 2004, 9:46am

on 11/09/04 at 22:44:23, Opus wrote:
A few of my CH friends and I were interested in the fact that we all seem to have a high sex drive. I was wondering if that was a normal CH trait or is it just a normal people trait. I also was wondering how many people's drive increased at the time they got CH. Before CH I was fine with once a week. Now I feel like everyday might not be enough. Of course I am only guessing as I am on the bi-annual plan.

So I am asking CH sufferers only,

1. Do you think you have a higher than normal sex
drive.

2. Did you notice an increase in your drive after CH
came to your life.

Since it seems that a lot of us have no outlet, you can base it on how often you want it versus how often you get it.

Opus/Paul


***tally on page 3 ***




Before answering this i has to know the following



1,

The definition on "normal sex-drive"

2,

Refering to my 1.?

;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D


Svenn

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 12th, 2004, 10:15am

on 11/12/04 at 08:53:18, john_d wrote:
oh really? hmmmmm   ::)

Did ya see the pics of my wife in the "Expose Yourself (Again)" thread?!? The rewards of being a "pretty boy" far out-weigh the drawbacks! ;;D

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Opus on Nov 12th, 2004, 10:16am
Svenn.

From page 2

Good question, studies vary a lot but to me they point to twice a week to once every two weeks as average for most. Whether that is how often they would like it is not clear. Men typically want sex more often than woman. I was surprised at high the libidos of the CH woman I know.  
 
I am also putting it on the first post

Opus/Paul

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Donna_D. on Nov 12th, 2004, 10:20am

on 11/12/04 at 10:16:19, Opus wrote:
I was surprised at high the libidos of the CH woman I know.  
 

Opus/Paul


Guess that blows that whole "I have a headache" excuse right out of the water.....


;)


DD

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Redd715 on Nov 12th, 2004, 10:33am
I think we have to qualify this Opus darlin....

Some of us are not simply looking for quantity over quality...

I'd take Quality twice a week over the everyday-might as well turn myself into a blow up doll for all I matter here_ quantity.

But hey when you're batting Zero...suppose you can't really b*itch huh? [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Opus on Nov 12th, 2004, 11:06am
Redd,
   I do feel that way too, just wish the rest of me did. Of course that is all water under the bridge.

Opus/Paul

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by fubar on Nov 12th, 2004, 11:56am
1.  Yes.  Always have had higher than normal sex drive.  Lived with a real nymphomaniac for three years, so that pretty much cured me of the 'gotta have it 5 times a day' problem.  Some think it would be cool to have a nymph for a partner, but I can tell you it does get old eventually.  Then I got married, and as it turned out she was an alcoholic.  I think *that*, more than anything, pretty much destroyed my sex drive.  Now that I am divorced and single... happy days.  It seems that all the parts function as well as ever and I'm having a wonderful time.

2:  No.  CH hits me hard when I orgasm, so if I'm in cycle, sex is lot's of fun followed by lot's of pain.  The upside here is I've figured out how to have sex for a long long time without coming, which pretty much makes me a God.   ;;D

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Woobie on Nov 12th, 2004, 2:48pm

on 11/12/04 at 11:56:14, fubar wrote:
 The upside here is I've figured out how to have sex for a long long time without coming, which pretty much makes me a God.   ;;D




How YOU doin? [smiley=crackup.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Tiannia on Nov 12th, 2004, 3:22pm

on 11/12/04 at 11:06:28, Opus wrote:
Redd,
   I do feel that way too, just wish the rest of me did. Of course that is all water under the bridge.

Opus/Paul


Or a stain on the sheet....  Sorry I know that leads to many a bad visual....

With me being sick and 16 mo straight run of CH on top of it, my husband is feeling extremely unloved atm.  

But I have to say for the most part we (I) am extremely active.  Got the nights planed out, at least while the kids are still young enough that we can send to bed early so that we have some time to play prior to the Beast knocking me up side the head.  Once the kids are a bit older, figure they will know where babies come from and that since we have two we obviously know how to do it, even if we dont want any more additions to the family.  ;)

-Tia

HE HE HE HE Woobs  [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by john_d on Nov 12th, 2004, 4:13pm

on 11/12/04 at 10:15:27, Hirvimaki wrote:
Did ya see the pics of my wife in the "Expose Yourself (Again)" thread?!? The rewards of being a "pretty boy" far out-weigh the drawbacks! ;;D

Hirvimaki-Isi


yes, she is very pretty!    'nuff said about that.  Love your posts Hirvi.  

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by pubgirl on Nov 12th, 2004, 8:20pm
Opus/Paul

9 posts now and I still ain't answered the question! ;;D

Truth is, I can't actually remember what sex is, I have a vague distant tinkling in my memory that it was something I did an awful lot when I was a student ;;D

Wendy


Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Opus on Nov 12th, 2004, 9:34pm

on 11/12/04 at 20:20:32, pubgirl wrote:
Truth is, I can't actually remember what sex is, I have a vague distant tinkling in my memory that it was something I did an awful lot when I was a student ;;D


Then you answer is no Wendy,
I can't seem to forget, no matter how hard I try,
Brain just can't seem to compute that it is no longer part of my life.

Opus/Paul

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Jeepgun on Nov 15th, 2004, 11:11am

on 11/10/04 at 15:49:57, pubgirl wrote:
[smiley=laugh.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif] Joe !
my mental image is more of someone looking in a pool  ::)



Well, after all of your mean and snarky little comments, saying that CHers are ugly, and accusing people of being narcissistic, post up your photos so we can all see what a raving beauty you are. You've already proved that you are ugly from the inside out.

Most of the cluster headache sufferers I've met, are beautiful from the inside out, and I can't say I've met any who are physically ugly.

Cheers,
-Frank

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by pubgirl on Nov 15th, 2004, 11:37am

on 11/15/04 at 11:11:44, Jeepgun wrote:
Well, after all of your mean and snarky little comments, saying that CHers are ugly, and accusing people of being narcissistic, post up your photos so we can all see what a raving beauty you are. You've already proved that you are ugly from the inside out.

Most of the cluster headache sufferers I've met, are beautiful from the inside out, and I can't say I've met any who are physically ugly.

Cheers,
-Frank


Sorry if you took offence Jeep, as I was only joking.
I think you may be misunderstanding my warped Brit sense of humour. I tend to say and write things deadpan when I'm being facetious, I wasn't really suggesting everyone here was an ugly lardarse. And frankly it doesn't matter a bit if they are! (and I have said that I am fat and ugly myself by the way)
Physical appearance is pretty irrelevant in the world of CH.

On the other matter, this may be a cultural thing again but over here we are more likely to run ourselves down rather than promote our own attributes or ourselves. We see a tendency in America for self-promotion, which can be a good thing and we should probably learn from it, but we tend to take the piss out of people who do it here. I would have thought narcissism is a job requirement for a model,they wouldn't be much good if they didn't believe themselves to be beautiful, but it is still narcissism. Not necessarily a bad thing, just a fact.

Anyway, if Hirv or anyone else is offended, I apologise and I will remember to use more smilies in future

Wendy the Brit

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by survivor13 on Nov 15th, 2004, 11:50am
my sex drive seems to be normal, but God help you if u have an attack during. see my expierence on funnies and jokes. :) [smiley=furious.gif]

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Jeepgun on Nov 15th, 2004, 11:54am
It's cool, Wendy. It may be a cultural thing, but most likely, it's the fact that this is a "cold" medium, and it's difficult to get a sense of when someone is being serious, or writing tongue-in-cheek. (Besides, I haven't had nearly enough coffee, and I tend to be grouchy before I've had a couple o' pots of java.) LOL  [smiley=hug.gif] Anyway...I'm sorry.

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by fullhead on Nov 15th, 2004, 11:59am
[quote author=pubgirl link=board=general;num=1100058263;start=50#69 date=11/15/04 at 11:37:53]

Sorry if you took offence Jeep, as I was only joking.

Can't we all just get along?!!

We see a tendency in America for self-promotion, which can be a good thing and we should probably learn from it,

1. YES, but that's probably cuz i'm from TX & everythings bigger inTX

2. Naw - bustin broncs is hard enough!

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Charlie on Nov 15th, 2004, 4:02pm
In my day, Wendy, it was called "British understatement," and it's very tongue in cheek. They probably thought that because that their little Empire consisted of more than 1/4th and sometimes close to 1/3rd of the civilized world, that self-promotion was tacky.   ::)

Charlie

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Donna_D. on Nov 15th, 2004, 4:19pm

on 11/15/04 at 11:59:49, fullhead wrote:
We see a tendency in America for self-promotion, which can be a good thing and we should probably learn from it,

1. YES, but that's probably cuz i'm from TX & everythings bigger inTX

2. Naw - bustin broncs is hard enough!



Damn Skippy everything is bigger and better in Texas!

You wouldn't happen to be wearing Wrangler Jeans while you bust that bronc would ya?  ;)


DD

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 15th, 2004, 4:50pm

on 11/15/04 at 11:37:53, pubgirl wrote:
Anyway, if Hirv or anyone else is offended, I apologise and I will remember to use more smilies in future

No offense taken. Offense did not even occur to me. In fact, it would take some rather creative uses of poultry, a rather large block of Jell-O and a few Javanese midgets to even come close to offending me...and then only if it was subtitled.

If there is anything bigger than my ego in here, I want it taken outside and shot.

Hirvimaki-Isi (Self-promoter extraordinaire!)

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by LeLimey on Nov 15th, 2004, 4:54pm
Woo Hoo Hirv's back! I was wondering where you got to today! ( I assumed it was down to the shops to pick up new PHOTO'S!!!)
Nice to see you , especially when you make me laugh!

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by pubgirl on Nov 15th, 2004, 5:01pm
Now that WOULD make an interesting thread Hirvimaki

Who has the biggest ego on here and why? I think you might have a few challengers for the World Title

W the B

Ooops forgot the smilies

;;D

There you go

P.S. Charlie, we used to rule the world, your country just thinks it does :-X



Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted
Post by john_d on Nov 15th, 2004, 5:16pm

on 11/15/04 at 16:50:46, Hirvimaki wrote:
Hirvimaki-Isi (Self-promoter extraordinaire!)


lol Hirvi  ;;D

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Hirvimaki on Nov 15th, 2004, 5:53pm

on 11/15/04 at 16:54:24, LeLimey wrote:
Woo Hoo Hirv's back!

Awe... It's wonderful to be missed! :)

The truth is I am being slowly crushed under several converging deadlines... Another week and no worries!

My ego is actually not that big; I'm just conceited.

Hirvimaki-Isi

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Charlie on Nov 15th, 2004, 8:28pm

Quote:
P.S. Charlie, we used to rule the world, your country just thinks it does
The history of Iraq is something to behold, Wendy. Worth a look  ::)

No longer "Cairo to Capetown." When I was in school all the red colored countries in my geography books were either part of the Empire or former colonies or protectorates. That's the way it was done. God, I'm old.

Charlie

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Donna_D. on Nov 16th, 2004, 2:36pm

on 11/15/04 at 17:01:26, pubgirl wrote:
Who has the biggest ego on here and why? I think you might have a few challengers for the World Title

W the B



I think that would be one helluva judging decision...wonder who all would be in the running...


DD

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by pubgirl on Nov 16th, 2004, 2:53pm
DD
I think that may be one where, like Hirvimaki, people nominate themselves ::) because no-one would dare nominate anyone else in case they upset them.

Having said that, I nominate Don because he sucks

and myself, 'cos my ego is overinflated in a few areas (I think I know a lot :-[) but appearance isn't one of those areas.

W

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by nani on Nov 16th, 2004, 2:59pm

Quote:
I nominate Don because he sucks
 
I think we've covered this before...we all know what don really does. (I'm too much of a lady to say it ::))
On the ego thing though- I nominate me. They call me Queenie and the laundry/dishwasher nazi at my house. I call myself "she who must be obeyed."  :)

Title: Re:  Poll, Clusterhead sex drive info wanted*
Post by Melissa on Nov 16th, 2004, 4:12pm
Sex drive??  HELL YES!!!  Especially since I've gotten off the damn Xanax!!  [smiley=cool2.gif]  Thank GOD I'm episodic!

My libido is definately a runnin again (as if you didn't notice)! WooooHooooo!! [smiley=bloos.gif] [smiley=winkkiss.gif]


;;D



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