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(Message started by: Karla on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 5:44pm)

Title: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Karla on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 5:44pm

I got a call from a friend telling me what town he was in. I mentioned that to another friend and she said the only people he knows out there is x and y. So I called and low and behold I got to talk to my son. He said he hopes to be home in a couple of weeks. Apparently there is a lot of activity going on in town this weekend etc and he didn't want the blame for it. He wanted to be out of town with a wittness. He didn't think the courts would believe us his parents so he looked and found other witnesses. At least he is alive and welll so far. Thank you all so much for your prayers. Please keep prayeing that he stays safe until he comes home I have no idea what he has gotten himself into. I love you all so much. Thanks for your encouregment, love and support.

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by john_d on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 5:57pm

that's rough karla! it sounds like he has alot to learn, praying that he learns it as safely as possible

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by kimh on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 6:06pm

hey karla,

keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. You hang tite moms. Stay strong. :)

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Opus on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 6:21pm

Karla,
Sounds like he is staying out of the wrong place at the wrong time. It also sounds as if he is being setup by someone. Even though what he did was wrong, his intentions were right. I hope that you will be able to tell him that he can come to you with any problem no matter how big, and there will be no anger, only help. Most kids think, boy am I going to get it if my parents find out. With kids like this we have to teach them that home is safe and only love , advice and help will come. Now if they don't listen then that's another story. If this sounds like I am judging you, that wasn't the intent, I am only learning how to deal with my daughter as she is heading in the same direction.

Prayers and peace going out to you.
Opus/Paul

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by LeLimey on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 7:22pm

I'm glad you have been able to put your mind at rest :)

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Charlie on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 9:53pm

Glad you have had some contact. Good news.

I hope you have more information on him than you've told us. He's a kid but he needs to know that he's being too hard on his horrible parents 8)

Kids ::)

Charlie

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Karla on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 10:43pm

Unfortunately Charlie I don't know any more than what I said. I wish I did. I think he is trying to protect us by not saying anything so we don't worry. I also get a feeling it is something gang related going down that he didn't want to be a part of. Weather it was something with him involved he was trying to avoid or something against him It just didn't sound good either way. Thing was all he had to do was say he needed to get out of town and we could have taken him to his grandparents house for the month or whatever and he would have been protected without house jumping and not telling us where he is at. I thought he knew he could trust us with anything. :'(

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Tiannia on Oct 23^rd, 2004, 10:55pm

It might seem backwards, but he really might be smarter then it seems. It apears that he is using his head if he is smart enough to A be aay from whatever is happening (if it is bad enough that he is woried about what the courts ill think) and B he knew that he needed a witness to prove his aliby. I know it is hard hun, but it might be that you have gotten though to him some. I dont look forward to when my 2 are teenagers. I love them so much and want to keep them safe. Be strong and let him know that he can come to you and talk about anything. You need to try and keep that connection / door open.

Be strong.
-Tia

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by nancyc on Oct 24^th, 2004, 1:48pm

I will be praying for you and your family, sis....Children can break your heart ...I know about this...I also know I caused my parents alot of sleepless nites for which I am sorry for now. May God bless you , Ted and your son....smiles,nancyc

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Bec on Oct 24^th, 2004, 6:07pm

(((((( Karla ))))))

I am gald that you heard from him and that you know he is ok. I understand how hard it is, hopefully it will get better once what ever is going on is over and he can come back home.

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Edna on Oct 25^th, 2004, 6:37am

Karla,

Wishing you the best in dealing with your situation. You're in my thoughts, and sending mega vibes along to you.

EDNA

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Carl_D on Oct 25^th, 2004, 11:00am

Will be keeping you both in my prayers today.

Peace,
Carl D

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by taraann on Oct 25^th, 2004, 1:21pm

Glad atleast you heard from him and he is safe. Keep faith you all with get through this tough time. You all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by ArCane on Oct 25^th, 2004, 1:24pm

Hang in there Karla. Prayers going up to you and your son.

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Gator on Oct 25^th, 2004, 1:43pm

I am happy you finally heard from him. Keeping the prayers going that the problems get resolved soon and he return home to you.

Gator

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by sandie99 on Oct 26^th, 2004, 5:14am

Karla,

Prayers are on the way for both you and your son! :)

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by Karla on Oct 26^th, 2004, 10:24pm

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
My son broke into the house today and took all his stuff while we were gone. All his clothes, games, dvd's, music, alarm clock, etc. Now he is completly gone and I have no word or reason as to why. What we did to offend him so badly I have no idea. He won't even talk to his brothers either. I feal like my son just died. :'( :'( He has made it clear that he does not want to see us or talk to us.

Title: Re: UPDATE on Missing Son
Post by BlueMeanie on Oct 26^th, 2004, 11:43pm

So sorry to hear what you're going through Karla. :'(

You have to convince YOURSELF that it is not YOUR fault. It's the only way you are going to learn to live with the situation.

I know it still hurts, but remember he is an adult now and you've taught him right from wrong. He must now use what you have taught him, along with Gods guidance to do the right things.

Don't give up though, he is still young and has time to take the path in the right direction.

Take care and I will pray for you and your family tonight.