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(Message started by: RevDeFord on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:36pm)
Title: Tragedy in our Family.
Post by RevDeFord on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:36pm
My wife's mother passed away this morning.  She did not wake up.

This was totally unexpected. We have always thought that Amie's dad would go first because he has a diminished mental capacity and has had heart and back surgeries. Wilma was as strong as a horse. She had a stomach flu last week that Caleb gave her, and then I got it this weekend. Apparently there were other heart issues that I was unaware of and she wouldn't get it checked out because she didn't want to lose her incentive bonus at work. She lost the incentive last week because of the stomach flu, so she was going to call and make an appointment this week.

Complete shock. She was in her 50s was not even that old. Now Caleb and Nathaniel has no grandma. My mother passed a way the year before Caleb was born. Caleb was soooooo close to her. They were best buds. Now Caleb is in preschool, so he will be taken care of during the day while we work, but Nathaniel just turned 4 months old. We don't know what we are going to do for him yet.
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Post by thomas on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:39pm
:'(  Sorry to hear that.  Hope you recieve the strength you need to deal with this.  :'(
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Post by Hirvimaki on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:42pm
My deepest sympathyies to you and your family.

You are in our prayers.

Hirvimaki
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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:44pm
There are no words that help to make sense of this.  Please accept my condolences to you and your family.
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Post by broomhilda on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:45pm
:'( So tragic, my deepest condolences to you and your whole family, hugs to those grandchildren........ :'(
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Post by totka on Oct 11th, 2004, 3:53pm
My heartfelt sympathyies to you and your family.  


on 10/11/04 at 15:36:23, RevDeFord wrote:
She did not wake up.


We name it "nice death" in Hungary.
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Post by Svenn on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:00pm
Please accept my condolences to you and your family.
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Post by Jonny on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:04pm
Real sorry to hear this, Rev
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Post by Ree on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:17pm
What a shock... Deal with your grief before you decide what to do for daycare for your children... God bless you all love ree
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Post by EmpressJMB on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:27pm
My deepest sympathies to you and your family Rev.  
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Post by BarbaraD on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:36pm
Deepest sympathy from us in Texas. OUr prayers are with you during this time.

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Post by ShariRae on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:43pm
I am so sorry Rev..Please know you & yours are in my thoughts & prayers
Huggs
Shari
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Post by Pegase on Oct 11th, 2004, 4:44pm
Deepest thoughts for you dude... :-/

Pegase
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Post by Carl_D on Oct 11th, 2004, 5:08pm
I'm sorry to hear of your loss Rev. Will keep your family in my prayers.

Peace,
Carl D
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Post by Tim_Z on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:12pm
Sorry to hear that Rev.

Tim
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Post by taraann on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:14pm
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.  I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by Charlie on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:15pm
Sorry to learn this Rev. It sounds like you were very close too.  

Rant away if you like.

Charlie
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Post by Donna_H on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:22pm
What a shock, Rev. and so young.  Sorry.

Hugs and Prayers,
Donna H
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Post by E-Double on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:32pm
My sincerest condolences
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Post by mawmaw on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:33pm
my heart goes out to you and your family. Hope that you all get through this tragic time surrounded bye all the love and support of you family here and at home.

Huggs
mawmaw
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Post by Jackie on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:41pm
Rev,
Deepest sympathies to your family.  You all are in our prayers.  Bless your hearts.

Jackie
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Post by Virginia on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:41pm
Rev,

I'm so sorry for your families' loss.

Virginia
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Post by jimbo on Oct 11th, 2004, 6:57pm
Rev,

Maybe her sudden passing was a blessing for her from God  for being such a wonderful person. (No suffering, No pain). Unfortunately sudden passings are hard on the Family. My Family has just been through this twice in the last two months, so I feel your pain and I am with you there in thoughts and prayers.

Peace,

Jim
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Post by nani on Oct 11th, 2004, 8:00pm
Prayers and [smiley=hug.gif] to you and your family.
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Post by Sean_C on Oct 11th, 2004, 8:14pm
Our deepest sympathy to your loved ones Rev

Sean...................
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Post by Leesa on Oct 11th, 2004, 8:32pm
Rev our heart felt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so very sorry.
Dave & Leesa & family  :'(
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Post by cschick on Oct 11th, 2004, 9:00pm
so sorry to hear of your loss - my family will pray for you and yours.  hold your wife and babies close and thank God for them every second of every day!  

Karen
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Post by Jeepgun on Oct 11th, 2004, 9:00pm
Love, peace, strength, and fortitude to you and yours, Rev. I'm so sorry for the loneliness and grief that your family is dealing with. Thank you for honoring us, your OTHER family, with your trust and allowing us to help bear your burden.

May you all be wrapped in a soft cloak of "peace that passeth all understanding."

Blessings and love to you all,
-Frank
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Post by Kevin_M on Oct 11th, 2004, 9:32pm
Sorry to hear Rev,

so young,


Kevin M
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Post by eyes_afire on Oct 11th, 2004, 9:37pm
I'm sorry Rev.  I'm sending my best wishes to you and your family.

--- Steve
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Post by alleyoop on Oct 11th, 2004, 10:27pm

on 10/11/04 at 18:15:25, Charlie wrote:
Sorry to learn this Rev. It sounds like you were very close too.  

Rant away if you like.

Charlie

http://forums.catholic.com/images/smilies/signs/amen.png

............................alley
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Post by Gator on Oct 11th, 2004, 11:23pm
Sorry to hear this, Rev.  I pray that God will comfort you and your family in your time of loss.



Mike
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Post by Edna on Oct 11th, 2004, 11:55pm
My deepest sympathy to you and your entire family Rev. Thank you for sharing with us. I hope we can help you during your time of grief.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. And, though hard, remember that soon, your memories of her will bring bright, warm smiles to your life again.

God bless,
EDNA
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Post by brain_cramps on Oct 12th, 2004, 12:01am
I'm so sorry to hear this, Rev.  You have my deepest sympathy.

Grant
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Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 12th, 2004, 12:01am
My deepest sympathies to you and your family,
My prayers and vibes are with you,
Mast
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Post by Marc on Oct 12th, 2004, 12:59am
Richard,

I'm so sorry to hear this - our prayers are with you.
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Post by echo on Oct 12th, 2004, 1:34am
Sorry to read about your wifes mother rev.
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Post by K-9 on Oct 12th, 2004, 2:38am
Sorry to hear of your family's loss.  You and family are in my thoughts and prayers.  
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Post by BobG on Oct 12th, 2004, 3:00am
Our sympathies and prayers to you and your family.

Please pull Caleb and Nathaniel close to you. They need you more than they can express.
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Post by sandie99 on Oct 12th, 2004, 7:49am
I am so sorry for your loss... :'(

I know what it feels like to lose someone so close and I wish that I could find better words, but I cannot. I just wish you strenth and all the best. There are rough times to come, but at least you have one new guradian angel on your side!

All the best,
sandie99
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Post by Mark C on Oct 12th, 2004, 8:11am
My condolences and prayers to you and your family Rev,
I am sorry for your loss.

:'(   :'(
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Post by Ruth on Oct 12th, 2004, 8:20am
May the good Lord give you strength and peace in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ruth
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Post by TomM on Oct 12th, 2004, 8:22am
My sympathies to you and your family.
TomM
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Post by ExplodingEyeBall on Oct 12th, 2004, 8:51am
It saddens me when children lose their grand parents.

Prayers going out to your family.

Pat
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Post by ZAIRA on Oct 12th, 2004, 3:23pm

I’m very sorry for your loss, Rev. Time will temper her loss, because you will undestand that she will live always inside your hearts. My deepest condolences to you and your whole family, Zaira    :'(


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