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Title: Encouragement needed... Post by Cerberus on Aug 24th, 2004, 10:23pm Ok y'all....the Woobster has been there and will continue to do so for allayas...however, She is experiencing some technical difficulties right now (depression...thats all she will tell me). I know not what it is specifically I have done personally to bring this on for her, but I am committed to helping her through this even if it means my own health must be jeopardized. So Whatever it is I need to do I will do it (although I am partially at a loss as to what that is right now) IN ANY EVENT....TOSS UP A FEW VIBES FOR THE WOOBSTER YO! Peace out! Ramon |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by broomhilda on Aug 24th, 2004, 10:28pm Hugs [smiley=hug.gif]vibes to Woobie, love ya honey, anything I can do just holler even just for a smile k?!!! I know both of you can overcome anything, you are in my heart... Andrea |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Carl_D on Aug 24th, 2004, 10:28pm Sending out vibes on propellers to get there faster. Hang in there Woobs & Ramon. Ya both got alot of shoulders to lean on here. Peace, Carl |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by vig on Aug 24th, 2004, 10:40pm Be strong girl, we're here if you need us. |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by cootie on Aug 24th, 2004, 10:46pm Man hope she gets thru the slump here soon.....I know how it goes.....seems something small can trigger it and at the time it seems VERY BIG !! The funniest strongest and coolest people are sometimes the weakest inside Pam |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Cathi04 on Aug 24th, 2004, 11:07pm Ramon...dear....here is my suggestion... 1-stand in front of her... 2-gaze into her eyes... 3-stretch your arms out wide.. like a T... 4-encourage her to fall forward... 5-squeeze tight..... 6-see what develops... 7-repeat as necessary WOOBIE<WOOBIE, WOOBIE!! Darlin, everybody gotta sing the blues sometime...sing em luv....let em all out, then fill your lungs with fresh air.......please say what it is you want to say. I have found, in my life, the only time I have truly hurt is by things that went unsaid...either there is no resolution, orr, the problem festers...neither of which will help... Short of that, Woobs... go kick some cans...or some shins.. You know where I am...come hop in the car, and we'll work on some world problems together! Cathi..who doesnt want you two hurting.. :-* |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Mastifflvr28 on Aug 25th, 2004, 1:27am big vibes goin up. Hey Cereb, do what Cathi says and get a little romantic...let her blow off some steam :) Take care, love you 2 Mast |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Charlie on Aug 25th, 2004, 3:32am http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/glomp.gif Let us know Woobs. We'll be here, vibes and all. Rant away, please. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Kevin_M on Aug 25th, 2004, 8:08am Sending some huge heart vibes out to you Woobs. :-* :-* :-* Kevin M |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by FZfan on Aug 25th, 2004, 8:09am Jesus, Ramon, I can so identify with what you feel right now. I know this has been said a lot lately but, WTF - is there something in the air? Hang in there man. It's possible that doing nothing can be the best thing you can do. |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Gena on Aug 25th, 2004, 8:28am you guys are 2 of the most important people in the world to me. Vibes to woobs and Vibes to you! |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by thomas on Aug 25th, 2004, 8:38am I'm always here for BOTH of you. Always can spare some "feel-good" vibes for you guys. |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Peppermint on Aug 25th, 2004, 8:50am Hey Tina Brown.... what's going on? You know you have my ear if you need it. At the very least I can talk some kaka and make you laugh..... come on T. Ramon, I tried calling yesterday but I got voicemail. Please give Woobs a hug from me, a big squeezy one. Once you're done with that....put on some Luther and show the LUV.... I'm not saying ya aint already, but a little Luther can go a long way. You can smack me upside the head if I'm way wrong K? ;) Love you guys, and MAJOR VIBAGE to Tina!!!!! Pepper |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Jeepgun on Aug 25th, 2004, 9:37am [smiley=hug.gif] I wish there were something I could say to help, Tina. Anyway, just know that you have so much support and love from so many people. Hang in there.... -Frank |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Woobie on Aug 25th, 2004, 10:32am I'm fine you guyz! Dont worry about me... there are others with worse problems. Love you guys! tina |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by crazy_mj on Aug 25th, 2004, 10:35am vibes, vibes, vibes, and more vibes!!!! ;;D |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by echo on Aug 25th, 2004, 10:39am [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] Take care Woobs,, Vibes on the way. :-* |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Little Deb on Aug 25th, 2004, 10:50am Hey Ramon....sorry to hear the Woobs in down...and you are too. I like what Cathi said too.....and maybe throw in a bubble bath, a candle, some new jammies, and a chocolate shake!! Vibes for both of you.......Love Little Deb [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by cootie on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:10am Woobs needs a vacation ! I know I do but always find them a bit stressful gettin ready loaded and leaveing....then gettin there and total change of lifestyle and run run run run run effect. Sumtimes I feel QUIET time at home is my best vacation mentally. But I still LOVE my vacations....and look forward to em ! Maybe jus some home time off work will help ya get your peace of mind back for whatever is botherin ya. Keep yer mojo goin Pam |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Gator on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:23am Don't know what to tell you Ramon. I've been there with my own wife. It is not necessarily anything you have or haven't done. The only thing I can say is just be there for her. Give her some room to and some time to think. I'm sure she will come to you in her time. In the mean time, you can use pm's to vent your frustrations. Woobie, same goes for you. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone detached from the situation. There are lots of people here you can yak with. You can use me as a sounding board if you want. You guys mean a lot to all of us. Lean on us in your time of trouble as we have leaned on you. Gator |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Linda_Howell on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:24am I disagree that you should "Do nothing" Follow Cathi's advice to the letter Ramon. Oh, and DO NOT TELL HER TO SNAP OUT OF IT, or I will personally smack you up the side of your head. Tina is so important to you, your family and to all of us here. She needs to hear that. Maybe even several times. Big huge hugs Tina. Linda |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Jimi on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:24am Ramon..............one word................Drugs Ms. Ruthie got that way a few years ago. Neither could understand it. Nothing different going on to make her sad. But she told me, it's not about snapping out of it, and there was nothing that I could do to make it better. She finally went to the doctor. He said," All women that age go crazy" (well not exactly that way) Anyway, he put her on some hormone meds and after about 4 weeks, I had my Ruthie back. She still takes them. Uncle Jimi |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by minnie on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:30am [smiley=hug.gif] [{WOOBIE]} [smiley=hug.gif] wish we could all go back to Nashville so we could give ya a hug and make you laugh in person.just know we're here if you need to vent you got our number. Ramon it's always hard to see someone you love go through a hard time and not really know what to do.Don't take it personnally just hug her and let her know your there to talk when she's ready.Being a supporter she already knows what it's like to want too help ease the pain but not be able to.I think the frustration the same wether the pain you see is physical or depression. just my [smiley=twocents.gif] love ya guys, minnie |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Peppermint on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:35am on 08/25/04 at 10:32:02, Woobie wrote:
No señor. [smiley=worried.gif] |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Leesa on Aug 25th, 2004, 3:07pm [[[[[[Woobie]]]]]]]]]} We love you if you need ANYTHING you have my number call me hun. BTW we cant fix it if we dont know whats broken babe. HINT HINT so let us know if we can help. VIBES & love, Leesa PS: Thank god for Prozac is all Im gonna add to this one. Been on it for 2 yrs now and Im ME again!! ;;D |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by ExplodingEyeBall on Aug 25th, 2004, 3:25pm on 08/25/04 at 15:07:33, Leesa wrote:
Leesa... Could you give me some clues on how to get someone to give Prozac a try or at least go and talk to a professional about depression/paranoia? She won't even admit right now that there is a problem but I know better. Life is wonderful when she is doing OK but a living hell when she gets in 'One of those moods'. Her paranoia is so bad that I can't even let her know that I read this message board and am actually on a friendly basis with females. If she found out, I am sure that it would cause a huge fight because she would convince herself that I'm havaing an affair with everybody here. I can't explain inhuman words how bad it gets sometimes. Sorry I hijacked but I'd really like to talk to someone who has done what I wish my wife would do. Pat |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by athos on Aug 25th, 2004, 3:39pm right there for ya.. the both of ya.... you know where i live and you have my number.... |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Tiannia on Aug 25th, 2004, 3:55pm Ramon - Give her a big hug and let her know that you are there and that it will be ok. I know that there are times that I will just suddenly get buried deep in a hole and I will sit on the bed in the middle of the night, just crying myself out while my husband holds me. Dont know why I Need to do it, but I do. Woobs... Take off the Gold Bra... Walk away slowly and dont look back.... Oh and those braclets too, they need to come off. (Keep the trith laso, hell we all need those for the kids and hubby every now and then. ;)) In all seriousness, hun. You do not always have to be strong for everyone else. You are alowed to let someone support you. You dont have to explain. You dont have to appologize. You are allowed to "Feel". Because if you dont let youself feel the bad and not let it out and show it... then you wont feel the good either. And with Ramon and the kids.... There is a WHOLE lot of good to be felt. PM or call me... I know you have my number. -Tia |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by Edna on Aug 25th, 2004, 11:45pm Woobs, here's mega vibes being sent your way. Let me know if there's anything I can do. Use those of us that you need since we ALL use you in our time of need. You're a great supporter now draw on us what you need and let us help. And as for you Ramon, what the hell??? Puleez don't tell me you ain't talkin to Tina in that smooth calm voice of yours huh?? I mean really, you know I told you how I could just listen to you talk on and on with that nice calming voice of yours!! :) Hang in the both of you. Love you both, and miss you lots. tight ass hugs, EDNA |
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Title: Re: Encouragement needed... Post by BlueMeanie on Aug 26th, 2004, 3:03am :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) CHEER UP WOOBIE !!!!! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) |
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