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(Message started by: UN_SOLVED on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:36am)
Title: The love triangle
Post by UN_SOLVED on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:36am
So, this girl calls me. I don't know how she got my #. She sounds really sweet. I've never met her before. She e-mails me some pics. She looks nice  ;) . She's got a great job in the computer industry and flys all over the place. She lives close to here. She wants to meet me and 'get to know me better'. She says she's really interested.

Here's the catch...

I just found out, she just recently had been seeing one of my brothers. Seems that some of their friends have told her that she was 'with the wrong one'. They are not together now and my brother has another girlfriend.

Is there anything wrong with me going to meet her ?
Think my BIG bro will 'kick me arse ?  [smiley=bash.gif]

WWYOUD ???

Unsolved
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by juvy on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:40am
depends on how serious the relationship was.  Think you should ask the big bro if he minds.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by BillyJ. on Aug 5th, 2004, 2:46am
When in doubt,ASK!! A pice of ass aint worth losing a friend over. Just my  [smiley=twocents.gif]
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by BobG on Aug 5th, 2004, 4:03am
Tell her Thanks, I'm flattered. But No Thanks"

Your brother may say fine, go ahead a date her but he probably won't really mean it.

Female friends come and go but your brother is family and you just don't do that to family.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by UN_SOLVED on Aug 5th, 2004, 4:20am

on 08/05/04 at 04:03:10, BobG wrote:
Your brother may say fine, go ahead a date her but he probably won't really mean it.

Female friends come and go but your brother is family and you just don't do that to family.


Yeah ... i gotta agree w/ that.

Unsolved
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jimmy_B on Aug 5th, 2004, 6:06am

on 08/05/04 at 04:20:44, UN_SOLVED wrote:
Yeah ... i gotta agree w/ that.

Unsolved



Then you'll always wonder....was this the one.  Your brother's not seeing her anymore...a few close friends thought that she is right for ya. If it works out...you'll have a great meet story at Family get togethers.

If your brother doesn't have issue with it. What's the problem.? Brother's can survive a whole lot worse.
Title: Go for itRe: The love triangle
Post by kissmyglass on Aug 5th, 2004, 6:27am
Go for it!
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by E-Double on Aug 5th, 2004, 7:55am

on 08/05/04 at 06:06:57, Jimmy_B wrote:
Then you'll always wonder....was this the one.  Your brother's not seeing her anymore...a few close friends thought that she is right for ya. If it works out...you'll have a great meet story at Family get togethers.

If your brother doesn't have issue with it. What's the problem.? Brother's can survive a whole lot worse.


On the flip side...
You may not want comparisons running through your head.
I've had a close friend go through that and despite several years things still get kinda "weird"
Depends how secure you all are.
Good luck tough guy!
E
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:02am
Being utterly incorrigible, and having been accused of being amoral....  [smiley=sgrin.gif] But anyway, yeah, I'd ask my brother if he minds, but maybe after I was already going out with the girl.  ;;D

-Bad Boy
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by DaveHar on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:07am
Just my two cents, not that it means anything

Sounds like your being played for the fool and the joke will end up on you.
Sorry but things like this are just to easy. You will either be the fool of a joke or the fool who messed up a good relationship with blood over a piece of tail.

Like I said just my two cents

Dave
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by thomas on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:27am
Your brother has another girlfriend, what this girl does and what you do is none of his business.  Just me thinking logically again.  ;;D
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Rock_Lobster on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:28am

on 08/05/04 at 01:36:55, UN_SOLVED wrote:
Think my BIG bro will 'kick me arse ?  


Depends on how their relationship ended.

If she ditched your brother, he would likely take offense.
If your brother disposed of her, then he would most likely tell you to 'hit it'.

Gotta agree with Dave though... something is rotten in Denmark.  It is exceedingly rare for a total stranger to 'want to get to know you better'.  A little bit of caution would not hurt.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by BobG on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:56am
It doesn't matter who dumped whom.

If the brother dumped her then he must not like her and would resent her being around even if it was on rare occasions.

If she dumped the brother then he would't like her and would resent her being around even if it was on rare occasions.

Un_solved...No one else has, so, I'll be the one to ask the question(s)
1. She has a really great set of ta-ta's? right? or
2. She has really great bank account?

Note: If she has #2 then #1 doesn't matter. She can buy a set of #1.

Still, I'll stick with my original answer. Don't date her.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by r_headache on Aug 5th, 2004, 9:12am
I normally don't post but this one is interesting....I agree with the above posts, way too easy.  Need to find her motive and your bros side of what's wrong with her.  If all seems good then HIT IT! ;;D

But still be cautious :-/
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 9:52am
I agree with Jeep and Thomas, what you do is none of your brother's business, since this does not concern someone he is currently dating.  But then, I am wicked, self-indulgent and a very, very mischievous and naughty person.

And I always will be.

Hirvimaki
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 10:01am

on 08/05/04 at 09:52:38, Hirvimaki wrote:
But then, I am wicked, self-indulgent and a very, very mischievous and naughty person.

And I always will be.

Hirvimaki


What a coincidence!  [smiley=laugh.gif] ;;D
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 10:03am
[smiley=guyflash.gif]

Yep!
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by farmboy on Aug 5th, 2004, 11:49am
Hey my dad dated my mothers sister. That is how he meet my mother. they have been married 47 years now.


go for it.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by psycofemale0403 on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:11pm
MY OPINION: Keeping it in the family is not worth the headache.  Trust me.  Lots of snickers, and giggles behind your back.  This would also be ammo for a  giant argument waiting to explode in the future.  But, I guess it depends on the relationship you have with your brother too.  Not everyone has a brother that they actually consider a brother.  I say listen to your heart.  And good luck!

~ Lisa  :-/
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jayne on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:22pm
I think this woman is up to no good.
I think she is seeking revenge on your brother and you are the usefull tool.
Stay away from that like the plague.
It's my gut feeling and I am a woman after all and I can smell it.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Charlie on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:22pm
Carefully. Seems you have to look into it.

This thing bears a vague resemblance to the Susan Bullock movie "While You Were Sleeping." A very vague resemblance with a guaraneteed happy ending...just like real life of course.... ::)

Charlie
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by mynm156 on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:22pm
I would check it out with your Brother first.  It cant hurt to meet her once and feel things out with her as well.  It is your life and who knows things might just workout.

GOOD VIBES

MYNM156
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by psycofemale0403 on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:31pm
Sandra Bullok.  Sorry, that bugged me for some reason!
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Charlie on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:34pm
Me too but I didn't know why.

Thanks...Alzheimers here.

Charlie...I think.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:43pm
LOL!  

FYI: SUSAN Bullock, soprano.

http://www.harrisonparrott.com/artistsphotos/susan_bullock.jpg

SANDRA Bullock, actress.

http://www.mamut.com/homepages/Croatia/3/12/dessardo/sandra%20bullock.jpg

:) Now that would be quite the love triangle!
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 12:49pm
Both of them, please. RIGHT NOW!!  :o
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:07pm
I've said it before, I'll say it again: Syndyasmia is a wonderful thing...  [smiley=laugh.gif]

Hirvimaki
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:36pm
Definition of syndyasmia, please.
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:55pm
A marriage in which a third party can be brought in for fun... Troilism.

The brainy-man's version of ménage à trois. :o

Hirvimaki
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 2:30pm
I'm so naive...  :o [smiley=confused.gif]
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:15pm
I fear this thread has denegrated into one of paraphilia. (Yes, it is no longer a "perversion" or "deviation" kiddos. We gotta be PC, ya know!) At least we have avoided the more sordid and exotic paraphilias; no one has brought up plushophilia or dendrophilia. But I digress.

It's no secret we're close
As sweaty velcro
Like latex, fur and feathers
Stuck together
Now
In their '62 'vette
Sharing one cigarette
In a black light trance then
Go go dance
Then
Go go trance
Then
They keep me warm on cold nights
We must be quite a sight
In our meat triangle
All tangled
Wow
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She looks like you
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She's my girl too
Her and me an her and she and me
An uncrowded couple are we three
Hey we don't care what people say
When walking hand in hand down Kings Highway
Two for one today
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She looks like you
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She's my girl too
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She's my girl

There is nothing wrong with naïveté as long as you are willing to be corrupted, er educated...

Hirvimaki
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Jeepgun on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:16pm
Type O Negative, off of the "October Rust" album!!  [smiley=headbanger.gif]
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:20pm
And a wonderful album it is!

Hirvimaki
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Peppermint on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:21pm

on 08/05/04 at 12:22:10, Jayne wrote:
I think this woman is up to no good.
I think she is seeking revenge on your brother and you are the usefull tool.
Stay away from that like the plague.
It's my gut feeling and I am a woman after all and I can smell it.


Now isn't that funny... that's exactly what I thought when I read this thing about her calling you out of the blue.   WOMEN KNOW WOMEN.  I thought this was mostly a guy thread so I didn't say anything.... but hey, that's just my opinion.  

And what's the business about being with "the wrong one"?  [smiley=biggrin.gif] Beee caaareeefulllll...

p.s. Hirv... HEH, HEH, HEH.   8)
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Ree on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:30pm

on 08/05/04 at 02:46:15, BillyJ. wrote:
When in doubt,ASK!! A pice of ass aint worth losing a friend over. Just my  [smiley=twocents.gif]

he said brother billy j.... i think you should talk to him he probably wont care...........ree
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Hirvimaki on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:34pm
Awe...Pepper... You're gonna make me blush with that knowing look... I might have to respond with comments about Victoria's Secret!

Hirv [smiley=sgrin.gif]
Title: Re: The love triangle
Post by Peppermint on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:39pm

on 08/05/04 at 15:34:46, Hirvimaki wrote:
Awe...Pepper... You're gonna make me blush with that knowing look... I might have to respond with comments about Victoria's Secret!

Hirv [smiley=sgrin.gif]


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