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(Message started by: Cathi04 on May 21st, 2004, 1:29pm)

Title: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Cathi04 on May 21st, 2004, 1:29pm
Zazi, Conv is in 2 months, and I am concerned about you.
You are so loved here! Always kind, your beauty a distraction to all of the men, you artwork, so fluid and eloquent ! We need you here!!

Please, Zazi, you MUST take care of yourself!!  You must eat healthy, you must rest when you can, and you must take good care of YOU!!

Please, tell us how we can help you. PLEASE take care of yourself!! We are far away from you, but we are here to help.
Use everything you have inside you to fight!!!
Stay hard, and know we will give you strength...EAT, Zazi, and be strong...
Cathi

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by And on May 21st, 2004, 1:34pm

Hey Zazi.... don't make us angry!! I have seen your dad.... what is happened? Do you understand that You also need to eat??

We are afraid for you right now, because you are not taking care of yourself............  :'(

You are so beautiful.  Not fat.  Trust me..... You are not even close to that.  

I am always here for you Zazi.  You know, anytime!!

With Love, Andrea


:'(





Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Donna_D. on May 21st, 2004, 1:34pm
You took the words right out of my mouth, Cathi!

Zazi, you have to start getting stronger so you can come to convention and have fun helping me give Chuck and Svenn all kinds of grief!!

I am always here for you, remember that!!


Talk to you soon!


DD

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Tiannia on May 21st, 2004, 1:54pm
Please, my sister. We have talked about this so many times.  You know what happens if you dont eat.  No one is asking you to gorge yourself and make yourself sick, but your body needs you to eat.  

I think everyone here will disagree that you are more beautiful both on the inside and outside then ANY top model there is.  

Being healthy is in mind, body, and spirit.  You have to feed each of these things or parts of you die a little each day.  You spirit is so very bright, but you can not let your body fail you.  We need you. I need you. You have been a blessing in my life and have shown me and helped me so much that I can not express in words.  

Please, my friend, call me talk to me, let me know that you are ok.  That you will listen to the people around you who love you so much. Please take care of yourself, because I am determined to find a way that we will meet someday...  and I want that to be in this life, not just the next.

Ti Amo,
Tia

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Massimo on May 21st, 2004, 2:03pm

Please let me know that you are ok!! I must call your husband! That is very bad, very bad, sweetie. You need to eat to keep your spirit up.  Please eat something ................................. Zazi, who put that  bad thought in your head?

PLS try and remember to eat!!! I need you and I need you to stay in this life!!!!!

Your friend, Massi




Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Melissa on May 21st, 2004, 2:15pm
When I used to get depressed on how I looked, I used to not eat anything.  All I did was get very thin and ill.  Now that I took a responsible way to being healthy (low carb) I do not need to starve myself anymore, I can eat as much as I want till I'm full.  Zazi, if you are feeling down about yourself, please don't harm yourself by not eating.  There are better ways to go about feeling more confident and healthy.  PM or email me if you want to talk sweets...

love,
:-*mel

edited to add: P.S.  Like Tia has told me before, you can have the perfect body and face, but if you're nasty and ugly on the inside, no man is going to touch you with a 10 foot pole. ;;D

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by john123 on May 21st, 2004, 2:55pm
nice womanly wisdom in this thread...hope all is well with Zazi. :)

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Jeepgun on May 21st, 2004, 3:22pm
Yo, Zazi!! Just droppin' a line to let you know that I care about you and look forward to meeting you at the convention. Please don't harm yourself.  :-*

-Frank

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Woobie on May 21st, 2004, 4:01pm
Zazi.......... :'(   :'(   :'(   :'(

You're making me very sad!!!!!

  Please please PLEASE take care of yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Dont worry Zaira - NO ONE is judging you - we all care.. that's all.   Hugz to you!


stay hard!
tina :-*

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Leesa on May 21st, 2004, 4:06pm
You have to EAT young lady!! You have to take care of YOU!! Or you wont be able to happy dance when you meet all of us in Nashville dear. HINT HINT!!! BE STRONG!!
With lots of LOVE, Leesa

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Gator on May 21st, 2004, 4:37pm
Zazi, I have seen the pics of you posted here from time to time.  At the risk of getting in trouble with your husband and the ladies around here, I have to say, you are one good looking woman.  As my 17 year old son  would say, "You're hot."  You are NOT fat by anyone's standards.  I wish you could see yourself through our eyes.  I also wish I could get to the convention and meet such a lovely and talented person as yourself.  My son will be home on leave from the Army during that time and then shipping out to God knows where in the middle east.

If you are fat, then they might as well hook a gondola up to me and fly me around over football games.

Take care of yourself and stay healthy.  

Mike

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Tiannia on May 21st, 2004, 4:39pm
http://www.ouchitalia.it/ztemp/zaira2.jpg

OK guys back me up cause I think she needs to hear it.  Tell this beautiful woman here if she is fat or not, or even a little plumb as she puts it???

Come on guys sound off.......................

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Cerberus on May 21st, 2004, 5:22pm
I don't know how many times I have had to say this in the last week....She is absolutely NOT fat...not even by squishy American standards...

If you do not take better care of yourself Z...you will find me force feeding you an entire cow at convention....and NO you don't get to leave the table until your plate is clean. >:(

Dang it...!!!
Ramon

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by brain_cramps on May 21st, 2004, 5:33pm
FAT?     sheeeesh Z!    that is  NOWHERE NEAR BEING FAT!      [smiley=crackup.gif]




THIS is fat!!!!!

http://tinyurl.com/24lzm

YIKES!!!     MY EYES!!!!    :o


grant  

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by And on May 21st, 2004, 5:34pm

Yes Zazi, you're fat!!!!!!!! >:(

Are you happy know??!!!


http://tinyurl.com/2xal2

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by ZAIRA on May 21st, 2004, 5:50pm

Cathy and all, you’re such a fool to worry like you do! ;;D

That noboby think that I’m anorexic.... I’m so far away....

That nobody think that I have to heal before the Convention... I’m not ill...

That nobody think that I’m not eating... I eat (and I vomit ;;D)...

That nobody is worried about me... there are worst things for which to be worried…

Dad, Svenn and Chuck... don’t tell me what I have to do... I'm not stupid, I'm not a child...

And sorry, nobody of you forgets to eat because the pain of life are stronger??

This doesn’t mean not take care of oneself...

If I’m still alive, if I’m angry, if I fight the beast... and if my weight is 63 kilos and I’m 1.70 tall.... this means I’m eating and that I’m not slim, ok??

Don’t worry! Everything is just fine!!

Thanks, I love you all....... Zaira






Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Cerberus on May 21st, 2004, 5:58pm

Quote:
nobody of you forgets to eat because the pain of life are stronger



Hey Woobie!.....do I ever forget to eat?

Ramon

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Massimo on May 21st, 2004, 6:05pm

on 05/21/04 at 17:50:08, ZAIRA wrote:
That nobody think that I’m not eating... I eat (and I vomit ;;D)...
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Don't joke, I have just spoken with your dad :'(


And you say that you're doing your best to overcome! Don't joke Zazi. Wa are really worried.....
How bad would you hurt those that love you so very much?....you would hurt us very much Zazi, very much!!  









Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by HypnomanicFreddy on May 21st, 2004, 6:27pm
Hi Zazi,

Yes, it's Scott, and I think I am going to stay. I will TRY to avoid conflict or political posts. I will TRY not to babble and post twice about the movie PI (hey thats three times now!). People I am REALLY trying to beat my demons, which is hypnomania. Hypnomania just alienates people and I am going to work hard at not doing that (through all routes, meds, friends, my "doctor", and new ways of thinking). I know you are good people here. Tough, thick-skinned people, but good people.

Yes, I need to toughen my hide even more.....

Zazi!!! Jeez everyone was so worried about you!!!!

You are obviously cared about by LOTS of people. That alone hopefully makes you feel better.

I think you are fine. Which I am glad to hear. As I know, Zazi, you are told by many guys that you are beautiful (which from the photos we have all seen....you are!) But what counts more is that you are soooo friendly, talented, and intelligent. I am so glad to have met you personally (albeit e-mails). You have an active mind (like mine). You are a tremendously gifted artist!  I also REALLY respect your English speaking ability.

You can always email me!

And sorry again for "quoting your personal e-mail that you wrote to me last night" in this thread. You know I didn't mean harm. I will never do that again!!! You know....  

Well.......hopefully Zazi you are and will always feel great. I love your conversations!!! And I hope that I and others here also will get better.  I am going to beat my demons. Other people have to realize that as "retarded" it is, getting picked on instead some of you could just PM me and say "DUDE!!!! STFU!!! Insteed it is seen in the public forum. As I said 4 times (oy), I am not a bad person. I wish I could share my music with you.

I'll stay if it's alright with all of you.  However, I hope to change my screenname to NormalFreddy. LOL.

Feel well Zazi and have a great weekend!

-Scott


Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by john123 on May 21st, 2004, 6:32pm
I spent a couple of years in Sicily in the early nineties and I traveled all over Italy during that time, beautiful country, beautiful women, wonderful people, it is nice to hear the Italians here.  And seeing Ziara's pictures remind me of there and I miss it.


Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by helpless23 on May 21st, 2004, 6:43pm
Zazi,

You are PERFECT! You are gorgeous! And you are "Bella".  

Check your IM's.
I'm here if you need anything.

PLEASE take care of yourself ok?

We love you! We ALL love you.
And you need to dance an extra dance with Leesa for me when you go to convention and you NEED to pick on Chuck and Svenn for me...A LOT!  ;-)

Much Love,
Toni

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Giovanni on May 21st, 2004, 7:12pm
Hey,

Zazi=Mona Lisa

;;D

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by 9erfan on May 21st, 2004, 7:19pm
Zazi,

Stay strong.  We all care about you.

Virginia

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by kissmyglass on May 21st, 2004, 8:23pm
Zazaroo,

I Like fat chicks so eat baby eat!!  ;;D

Stay hard Z.. :-* :-*

Kev

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by eyes_afire on May 21st, 2004, 9:17pm

Quote:
OK guys back me up cause I think she needs to hear it.  Tell this beautiful woman here if she is fat or not, or even a little plumb as she puts it???

Come on guys sound off.......................


Not fat, no way, not even a little plumb.  
God, she's perfect.  Beautiful.

--- Steve

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Callico_Kid on May 21st, 2004, 11:30pm
Zazi,
We probably worry about you because of the distance and because we love you, but I also worry about my son and he is a lot closer than you.  We worry because we care about someone who has come to mean so much to us, someone who has gone through so many battles in the last couple of years, but has kept such a great attitude and has cared for other people.  

I know the temptation one can undergo about ones physical appearance, and the way the fear of being overweight can plague you.  I remember Karen Carpenter, a pop singer in the late 60's and 70's.  ONE reviewer called her plump in one of her early reviews and she became anorexic and eventually died as a result of it.  I don;'t know if you are anorexic or not, but it brings us fear.

We love you, and trust me, you are one beautiful woman who is not fat.

Jerry

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by BlueMeanie on May 22nd, 2004, 2:09am
Hello Zazi,

I'm not here to argue wtih you about weather or not you're eating. If you say you are I believe you. You do not seem the type that would lie to all of us here.

Since we are a family with a common bond of Cluster Headaches, I will tell you like you are my sister (and I have 4 of them). You need to go straight to a doctor if you are getting sick when you eat. You say you're the correct weight for your height, then let a doctor decide what is best for you and your health.

I know we say most doctors don't know squat about Clusters, but you gotta remember Clusters are very rare. The problem you're having now is more understood; and you should be susceptable to medical advise. I only tell you this because I care for you.

ps. I think you look as great as you are.

See ya in Nashville

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Mr.Happy on May 22nd, 2004, 2:35am

on 05/21/04 at 14:03:17, Massimo wrote:
I must call your husband!

Whoa! She's Married?  I sure hope this is a translation error thingie.
Such hopes for Nashville.....

Alas,
RJ

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Valentino on May 22nd, 2004, 2:56am
Hi to you all,

thanks for your support and a special thanks to Cathy and Chuck and Svenn and DonnaD and Toni. I really appreciated your help in this.

Zazi is my daughter and, of course, very important to me. I know that she inspires a lot of you, and me also ;;D, and with good reasons.   She is a very good strong person and there is fire inside your heart.

Just you know, my daughter is not alone, she has a family, she has un husband (sorry Mr. Happy ;) ), she has a doctor, we are vigilant, attentive, and protective. And we all care about her, because she is out of control. I would never be able to live with myself if she still thinks that she is fat. NO ZAZI!!! You have to listen to us!!

And she makes me very sad, because she doesn't want our help.

Thank you, I love you for the way you love her!

Valentino





Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Charlie on May 22nd, 2004, 3:19am
You have some kind of eating problem? I had no idea.  

Pay attention to your family, friends and doctors. There really isn't much we can do long distance.

1.70 meters isn't short either. You look damn good to me too.

Don't pay much attention to the ridiculous blather about everybody being overweight. They have been saying the exact same thing for 50 years. I am old enough to know that it was a bigger deal in the 1950s than today. I was there. We were all supposed to die young. It was bullshit. We live longer than ever.

Be glad you look as you do. We are.

Charlie


Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Tim_w on May 22nd, 2004, 8:58am
All I can say is Hubba Hubba one hot mama!! :o
Hang in there and stay hard
TimW Happy Pappy
PS praying you are getting some much needed Pain Free Time!

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by vig on May 22nd, 2004, 9:06am
Zazi,
You're beautiful inside and out.
paul

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Ree on May 23rd, 2004, 7:04pm
you are BEAUTIFUL...  I saw it the first time I saw your picture.  Be well.............. We love you Ree

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by echo on May 25th, 2004, 10:22am
Z -- my [smiley=twocents.gif].

Z = Eye candy. :-*

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Big Dan on May 25th, 2004, 10:51am

Quote:
OK guys back me up cause I think she needs to hear it.  Tell this beautiful woman here if she is fat or not, or even a little plumb as she puts it???


... she-ut... that's one fine lookin' peice of Italy right there.... naw-mean?

And pardon me, but I be the resident biggun' of the board... aircraft be damned... capito?

;;D


-Big Dan

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by thomas on May 25th, 2004, 11:27am
Zaira, you are beautifu, inside and out.

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by athos on May 25th, 2004, 12:20pm
Please let this post die tooo

Title: Re: Zazi....WE  NEED TO TALK!!
Post by Luciano on May 26th, 2004, 9:19am
Don't vomit Zazi, you don't need to! (no one needs it even if is a real fat!)

If you're fat.... I'm the President of United States of America! :o ;;D

I know you're intelligent and you won't do such stupid things! ;)

You're beautiful inside and sexy outside! :P



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