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(Message started by: ZAIRA on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:01pm)

Title: My friend died today...
Post by ZAIRA on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:01pm

When you lose a close friend it’s like to lose a part of yourself.
Why do bad things happen always to good people?
This question is deep and without any answer... :'(
It would be good if good people would be recompensed for their good life and not give them pain and sufference... the innocent people are punished and their tyrants are free... moral, in the good people the pain is double and wins!

I have another angel in my side... 30 yrs. old... It’s really a young age to die...

Thank you, Zaira

http://www.lavetraia.com/ZAIRA/IOESABRI.JPG

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Post by 9erfan on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:04pm

Zaira,

I'm SO sorry to hear this.

My thoughts & prayers are with you today.

Virginia

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Post by thomas on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:11pm

:'( [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:17pm

I am SO very sorry Zazi.

[smiley=bigcry.gif]

Luinda

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Post by echo on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:22pm

Sorry to read of the loss of your friend.

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Post by Margi on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:28pm

So sorry to hear of your loss, Zaira. Our hearts and prayers are with you now.
:'(

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Post by broomhilda on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:34pm

Zaria, I shed tears along with you :'(

I am so sorry, my thought and prayers are with you and her family.

Andrea

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Post by vig on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:44pm

I'm so sorry too.

She will live on in your heart and the hearts of the others she touched. I am sorry she found pain on this earth, and maybe she will find peace where she is now.

so sad.
-p

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Post by Tiannia on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:46pm

I am very sorry my friend. :'( You know that you are in my thoughts every day and that my heart is with you. Everytime you close your eyes she will be with you. She will keep you safe from the deamons that try and cause you harm.

You get a hold of me whenever you need me. I am always here for you.
Ti Amo, my sister.
-Tia

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Post by Gena on Apr 8^th, 2004, 5:58pm

[smiley=bigcry.gif]

My thoughts are with you and your friends family

Take care
Please

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Post by Carl_D on Apr 8^th, 2004, 7:11pm

Sorry about the loss. I know how devastating it can be.
Draw something as a memorial, for her. The art of beauty can be found in ashes.

Peace,
Carl D

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Post by Opus on Apr 8^th, 2004, 7:17pm

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

[smiley=hug.gif][smiley=hug.gif][smiley=hug.gif]

Opus/Paul

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Post by Lizzie2 on Apr 8^th, 2004, 7:28pm

So sorry to hear this, Zazi.

Losing someone is never easy, and losing someone young is even harder. :'(

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Luv, Lizzie

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Post by 5-string on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:13pm

I'm very sorry you lost your friend Zaira. Losing close friends is one of lifes most difficult things to go through indeed....just keep smiling. You have such a beautiful smile...hang in there,
...Mark..

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Post by Mark C on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:20pm

http://min.wayne.net.nz/guestbook/smileys/sad.swf

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Post by Karla on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:24pm

Zaira, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your dear friend. My best friend died 2 years ago and it still hurts very much today. I will be praying for you.

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Post by Leesa on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:24pm

Awwwww Z Im so very sorry to hear this dear. I dont know what eles to say but Im sorry. :'( :'( :'( :'( My heart goes out to you as well as the family for the loss.
Love, Leesa :'(

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Post by cootie on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:31pm

I 'KNOW' how it feels........sorry for the loss and loss of a great friend is always nothin but SAD !!!! Sorry vibes Pam

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Post by KingOfPain on Apr 8^th, 2004, 8:36pm

So sorry for your loss Zazi.

:(

My condolences to you, her family, & friends.

May the dove of peace.......

http://www.weddingwings.org/wedwinlogo3_blue.jpg

guide her on her way.

She looked like a very beautiful Young Lady.

KOP/Steve

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Post by Pegase on Apr 8^th, 2004, 9:09pm

So sad...[smiley=hug.gif]

All my thoughts are with u Zaira.

Pegase

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Post by Melissa on Apr 8^th, 2004, 9:21pm

Zazi, I know there really are no words to comfort you right now, but know that she is not in pain and is at peace now. She will always live on in your memory and your heart, which is what she would want. Email me if you want Zazi, whether it be to vent sadness or talk about the good times you had with her. I'm here for you.

love,
:-*mel

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Post by Jeepgun on Apr 8^th, 2004, 11:10pm

Zazi, I am so very sorry for the passing of your friend. *HUGGGGGGGGGS* May peace, strength, love, and sanctuary be yours during this time and the time to come. Love lasts forever, and with hearts that share love, there is no such place as "far away." *HUGGGGGGGS*

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Post by Magman on Apr 8^th, 2004, 11:37pm

Dear Zazi,

I have been searching my heart for the right words for you today. I must admit they esape me, for i'm sorry and sad simply do not seem to be adequate to say.

So please accept this poem I found as a way to heal and understand.

Quote:

DON'T CRY FOR ME
how many of you
can truely say
you're not afraid of death
in any way?

i have met such a person
who to my horror said
"don't cry for me
i'll soon be dead"

"i have time to tell my dearest
how i love them so,
an opportunity most people,
don't get before they go".

"it's not a happy ending
it's not a sad one too
it's the end of my beginning
it's what i have to do"

with a smile on her face
and with passion she said
"don't cry for me,
i'm already dead".

I listened to her words
and didn't cry a tear
for what she said was wisdom
wise beyond her year

with no fear in her voice
no tear in her eye
she carried on speaking,
pausing to sigh

"of course i'd love to be here
of course i want to stay
to watch you open presents
on every special day".

"but i can't live any longer
i have to end the pain
death is the only thought
that helps to keep me sane".

"my fate was chosen long ago
by forces big and strong
I ask you not to cry for me
for i know it wont be long".

with that my new friend finished
and said she had to go
but i did not shed a tear
although she'd never know

I took it all on board
everything she'd said
and I prayed to my lord
for i knew she'd soon be dead

I asked him to take care of her
I told him she was kind
he told me he'd look after her
which gave me peace of mind

so when this day arrives
i will not shed a tear
for i know she will be happy
and treated very dear.

This poem was written by OnlyMe a member of OMGEA

As always Zazi, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find peace and understanding through the tears you will shed for you loss.

Love
-dan

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Post by TxBasslady on Apr 9^th, 2004, 12:08am

Zazi,

She'll always be with you in spirit.

My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you, sweetie

Jean

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Post by rumplestiltskin on Apr 9^th, 2004, 12:19am

dispair pain apathy joy

I'm an emotional cripple...so what do I know.

I do suggest you keep looking. The stream is much deeper than it appears.

Wage peace
love
den

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Post by Edna on Apr 9^th, 2004, 12:33am

Zaira, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your friend. May God keep you close to him at such a time in your life. May you keep the love of your friend in your heart forever.

EDNA

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Post by tsayswhy on Apr 9^th, 2004, 1:36am

Zaira

I am so sorry :'( My prayers are with you

tari

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Post by Charlie on Apr 9^th, 2004, 4:46am

Awful news Z.

It makes no sense to me either.

Makes you unbelieving, sad and mad. Things get better after time. I always say that though. Wordsworth, I am not.

Charlie

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Post by suzy617 on Apr 9^th, 2004, 5:58am

Zazi so sorry for the loss of your friend. :'(

Stay hard little sister,
Suzy

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Post by Elaine on Apr 9^th, 2004, 7:40am

Zaira,
I am very sorry about your friend. Friends are so wonderful and to lose one that way I know hurts. Your friend is on another great adventure, she will also live in your heart forever. When you cry you will feel her holding you. When you laugh you will feel she with you too. I hope your memorys of her keep your heart warm.
If you need to talk I am just a email away.
Thinking of you!

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Post by deacon on Apr 9^th, 2004, 9:07am

So sorry about your lost. :'(

Deacon

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Post by Gator on Apr 9^th, 2004, 9:08am

:( Truly sorry for your loss. It sucks to lose family or friends at any age. Sometimes it seems so true that only the good die young. :(

Peace be with you,

Gator
Gonna live forever

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Post by Turts on Apr 9^th, 2004, 9:17am

Zaira,

sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and friends family.

Turts :'(

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Post by Luke63 on Apr 9^th, 2004, 9:35am

And she is in a place where this is no pain...no suffering...and she has found everything she needs finally.

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Post by aprilbee on Apr 9^th, 2004, 9:58am

hugs, prayers and love to you and your friends family...

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Post by ShariRae on Apr 9^th, 2004, 10:12am

I am so sorry Zaira..Thoughts and prayers going out to you and those who knew her and loved her...
Huggs
Shari

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Post by Samantha_Smith on Apr 9^th, 2004, 11:07am

I'm at a loss for words. So sorry.....

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Post by CLR on Apr 9^th, 2004, 12:37pm

Sorry about your loss Zaira, life sometimes deals a hard blow. May your Friend rest in peace.

Hugs,
Cindra

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Post by Jayne on Apr 9^th, 2004, 12:51pm

I am so sorry Zaria....I hate that you are hurting right now and will say a prayer for you and your friends family

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((ZAZI))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Post by ZAIRA on Apr 9^th, 2004, 5:19pm

Thank you very much to you all for the thoughts and prayers. :'( I have seen many horrors in her eyes, she had a difficult life and alone in this world... just a few friends. She will be in peace. I know there are others suffering worse :'( and I feel lucky and I count my blessings. It’s great knowing you’re there. Thank you...... I love you all, Zaira

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Post by Sean_C on Apr 9^th, 2004, 6:21pm

Zaira,

Your in our thoughts and prayers

Sean

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Post by Big Dan on Apr 9^th, 2004, 10:33pm

I'm so sorry, Z...

I wish there was something I could say to make her passing easier, but I don't have the words...

... God bless her soul...

:'(

-Big Dan

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Post by kamccran on Apr 9^th, 2004, 11:40pm

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss..

May your friend Rest in Peace.

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Post by kissmyglass on Apr 10^th, 2004, 10:02am

Sorry to hear Zazaroo :'( :'(

:-*
Kev

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Post by toader on Apr 10^th, 2004, 11:21am

Death is a messenger of Joy

Our prayers for you both - toader