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Title: Re: I apologize Post by cootie on Mar 23rd, 2004, 11:32pm Welcome to the family..........life is a series of tests.......Flunked a few myself Pam |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Lizzie2 on Mar 23rd, 2004, 11:36pm Freddy, I know you're hurtin, but just try to see it in an objective manner. Although the wording may have seemed cruel, people here don't want to see you get into trouble or get hurt. That's why all the posts. I think they were all out of caring. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 23rd, 2004, 11:42pm Freddy we are all here to help each other. Support comes in all shapes and sizes. And some of it is hard and mean but it is a big heart behind it that wants to help you. To help all of us. Nothing is said to make anyone feel foolish, and some are said in pain, as you yourself have done. That is all part of being in a family. Here we are all thrown together form all walks of life. But we have a common thread and that is the Pain of CH either our own or someone we love. Always try and look at thing from the outsiders prospective. I know that that is hard to do. Hell I was ready to walk away form this board a week ago, because I felt attacked. But I took a short break and a deep breathe and realized that everything people said, they said because they care. We are here to help you in any way that we can. Take the support you want and walk away from the stuff that does not help you. But in the end we are here to fight the beast and not each other. Stay strong. PF Wishes, I hope that your cycle will be ending soon. I ask that that happens for everyone every night. -Tia Sorry my HA is coming on and I have to wait and see how bad it is going to get before I decide to wait it out or abort it. I only have 2 NS left until the 1st of the month. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by t_h_b on Mar 23rd, 2004, 11:59pm Hey Freddy, I forgot to tell you that one of the necessary attributes of being a ClusterHead is having thick skin. Otherwise we'd all be in jail for killing people who offer us tylenol for an attack or stupid neurologists or insurance company employees. If you can live through a 9-10 CH then you can live through almost anything. We have the ability laugh at things that would cause most people to cry. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by BlueMeanie on Mar 24th, 2004, 12:11am Freddy, I don't think there is anyone here that has NOT been bashed about something on this site. Even what seems to be bad, believe it or not, is good most times around here. Everyone has there own way of helping out. Stick around and get used to your new family. PF vibes heading your way. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Charlie on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:02am I missed this thing Freddy but you're not alone. I've gotten my nose bloodied too. Oh..STFU from Jonny isn't as bad as it seems. It's shorthand, not pleasant but it keeps things moving. Stick around. We need all the help we can get. Charlie |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by wsnyder on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:13am There is a line I read here on the boards last week that has helped me a lot. It is simplistic, for sure, but it has helped me when I have received the bashings, the offers of Tylenol, things to bite, etc. The words are: "Nothing can hurt me as much as my head." Bill |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kissmyglass on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:00pm "I'm 5 weeks into my cycle & Miserable & Jonny told me to shut the fuck up".... Well Boo-Fuckin- Hoo. Go down to your local hospitals burn unit, or talk to some chronics, or click on the Children with Clusters link...Maybe you'll find out you don't have it so bad Kev |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Superpain on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:38pm All of you!!! STFU!!! There, you feel better now? Go console each other... :P |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:39pm Freddy, Don't know what happened specifically, but think I catch the drift. Sorry you got blasted, seems like everyone does from time to time. Nice response to Kev. Fling back that that is flung. Echo is S'ing TFU now. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:40pm on 03/24/04 at 14:38:06, Superpain wrote:
no one to console me so I plan to just go grope myself. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:43pm on 03/24/04 at 14:40:37, echo wrote:
he he he... [smiley=laugh.gif] |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by ckelly181 on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:52pm Hey Freddy, I've been flamed too - a few times. I know it can wreck your day, but in the long run, it's just an internet board, with the same kind of social structure as almost all internet boards. People who don't ordinarily get snarly in your face, will take it out when they can do so in print. There are a lot of whackos that visit this place, and until you kind of "establish" yourself, you are a little open for a singe or 2, or 3, yadda yadda. There are a lot of really nice people here, and they do want to support people. I hope you don't take off - really! You can't always avoid the flames. It's unfortunate, but not life-threatening. That's why God created dogs and leashes. Take a nice long walk and look at the sky. (Oh, that's right - you have a cat...well, give the kitty some belly-rubbings.) Chris |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by john123 on Mar 24th, 2004, 2:54pm Good for you Freddy! He had that coming bigtime. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:04pm on 03/23/04 at 19:51:42, kissmyglass wrote:
Now thats support!!!!! Its to bad you all cant read how this started because Freddy deleted all his posts having to do with this, But, If you go to the "re: My neuro visit" thread you can see how selfish our friend Freddy is. No one puts their self above the safety of this family. ...........................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Luke63 on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:04pm So I guess Freddy...in one way or another..we're all gonna get it one day. I guess my day didn't come yet...but I hope everyone helps to pick me up just like they helped pick you up. Luke |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:08pm on 03/24/04 at 15:04:35, jonny wrote:
As usual - the bald guy is in the dark. 8) Thanks for pointing out the thread jonny. Kev -- fling away~! |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by john123 on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:11pm Johnny, interesting quote you found there, I guess he did NOT have it coming bigtime, sorry Kev |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:17pm on 03/24/04 at 15:11:36, john123 wrote:
You should be -- you damn troublemaker. ;;D ;;D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:35pm doh! ;) |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by john123 on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:38pm two things I keep telling myself, 1) don't try to switch lane's at the grocery store to a faster lan 2) don't get involved in other people's arguments one day i will learn :-/ |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:42pm on 03/24/04 at 15:38:34, john123 wrote:
John, All's cool dude.....Echo was just playin, you can tell by the double smiley's...Dont mind him...he's just pissed cause he's bald.....LMMFAO ;;D ..........................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:51pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Are you sure you want to go round and round with me son? ......................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 3:57pm on 03/24/04 at 15:42:42, jonny wrote:
I am? When the hell did that happen? Always the last to know |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:00pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Oh Shit!! Here it comes. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Melissa on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:04pm echo, I'll cover your eyes if you cover mine... |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:06pm Anytime Melissa. :D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Jayne on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:08pm ok guys, follow me this way to the safe bunker, and what ever you do......don't look back. *and the thunder rolls* |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by JDH on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:09pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Oh shit, hide the women and children! [smiley=JAW_DROP.gif] Jim |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:12pm on 03/24/04 at 15:51:23, jonny wrote:
This should be highly entertaining. [smiley=sgrin.gif] |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:12pm Jayne, Is it dark in the bunker? I hope so. That way I have a reason for groping my way around you and Melissa. ;;D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Superpain on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:14pm Isn't it interesting how threads transgress? |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Luke63 on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:15pm echo..I don't know you...but are you trying to be cheap and tawdry? |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Melissa on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:16pm echo, if while you're groping around, you happen to feel a long piece of cold hard steel, run the other way really really fast ;;D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:16pm on 03/24/04 at 16:14:12, Superpain wrote:
I try to keep this group herded together but they keep wandering off. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Jayne on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:18pm Echo...you are a dirty old codger!!! Now get in that bunker before Jonny gets here and shut yer mouth we haven't got all day.!!!!! All this silliness is holding up the line of desperate clusterheads trying to flee the wrath of Big J! |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:21pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
[smiley=referee.gif] FLAG!!! |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:22pm on 03/24/04 at 16:16:12, Melissa wrote:
It's a deal. Thanks for the warning. Luke: I'll get back to you on that. I don't want to be cheap and spontanious. That combination been known to get reservations for a 2nd level bunk on a cruise line freighter. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:25pm Did sumbuddy cawl fer thunder? (p)hew - not a problem at all. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:32pm Damn I'm not going to get any more work done today. Does my husbands hard hat work as well as the bomb shelter. I wanna watch. I Need some excitment in my life. ;;D -Tia |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Luke63 on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:39pm You can't even get a comedy show this good on Broadway or the Vegas strip....c'mon in everyone....have some popcorn..."BEER HERE"....maybe a soda...relax and enjoy the show....cuz it's definitely gone downhil from what it started at! |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by echo on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:41pm on 03/24/04 at 16:39:54, Luke63 wrote:
I'll buy the first round. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Cathi04 on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:46pm Echo.....who's your date??? |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:47pm kay. I'll spill the next 8) Whoa.........................! i think we're all off toothpik Anyhow. Your welcome. :) |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Melissa on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:50pm I didn't bring any money, I had no idea I'd end up in a bunker..[smiley=bigcry.gif] Where is the love dammit?? Where??? WHERE IS THE LOVE?? |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Mr.Happy on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:56pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Atta boy, Freddy. Go get `im. I wouldn't take it sitting down if I were you, either. After a couple of boring weeks here, THIS should be fun. Can _I_ bring a date? RJ |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 4:59pm Quote:
[smiley=crackup.gif] [smiley=hurl.gif] [smiley=crackup.gif] [smiley=hurl.gif] [smiley=nono.gif] [smiley=hurl.gif] [smiley=crackup.gif] [smiley=hurl.gif] [smiley=crackup.gif] |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:02pm "Can I bring a date"........... ONLY IF YA KIN GIT ONE ;) I'm sorry. Who was sorry? I forgot. Apologies from the aplocoleptic apology mishmahoohoo. PS: Later I'll probably be MORE sorry :D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:03pm on 03/24/04 at 16:59:56, Tiannia wrote:
my sentiments exactly... |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Peppermint on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:04pm on 03/24/04 at 17:02:31, kim wrote:
Just make sure you bring the wine & cheese. [smiley=bulb.gif] |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Jayne on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:06pm *opening the door of the bunker and sticking my head out* "Do you think Jonny is coming? Are we safe my Cluster brothers and sisters? Will the world continue to turn?" *standing at the bunker door looking left to right at a high speed* |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:07pm I don't think Jonny will give him the satisfaction...he's a much classier guy! ;) |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Luke63 on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:09pm Listen...I want some of those BARFIN Smilies...where can I get some... [smiley=huh.gif] |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Giovanni on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:11pm don't have to worry about jonny, he had a Yam V operation. ;;D |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:20pm peekin yer head outa the whole..............BOMBS AWAY ;;D Jonny ain't got no Y in his bag no mo; everybuddy's sorry and whatnot. I don't know what the whirl is comin to ;) Put on yer armor, we are at it again............the stuff of life i'd say. :) Stinko |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kissmyglass on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:56pm I think we've wasted enough of Dj's bandwith on this ass hole He doesn't want support or to learn anything he just wants to whine like a little bitch Kev |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 5:59pm since you know dj's wishes so well, i think it is you who are the stinking hole. Cook your own food. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:06pm on 03/24/04 at 17:59:07, kim wrote:
When you wash those damn feet we can talk. http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b3d602b3127cce8d76370a2cb80000001610 Now cook my food bitch!!! ;;D ......................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by thomas on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:23pm on 03/24/04 at 18:18:05, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Me too, my head hurts real fuckin' bad. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:24pm jonny........i think the world of you and it took a time us to come together = your yam bag aND MY black feet......lol. a smile from me to you Mr. Big.... you were among the first to bring out in us what we most NEED. I say to you that it took some time, but i FINALLY looked underneath the wrapping...........and i can only wish the same for those voices from our own future*** Well wishes*** |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:24pm on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
You mean like this, freddy? You may want to re-think things. ......................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:56pm on 03/24/04 at 18:18:05, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Freddy - Jonny has helped so many of us, myself included when I was in a depressionous stupor because of these damnable Headaches. Having them daily turn my fucking life up side down and tear my family apart at the steams does that to a person. But because jonny does not allow for people to sit on a pitty pot he has on more then one occasion kicked me into seeing that my life is not CH, my life is when I am not having those HA. The people that I have met here, I consider closer to me then my flesh and blood family. I would do anything that I could to help and support them. And that includes telling them to STFU when they are doing somein, even unintentionally, that could hurt this family. I have little sympathy for a man who can not realise that he is in a self destructive cycle and can not look at what people are telling him and showing him. Buck up dude. To live with CH you have to be strong. If you can not do that then CH will detroy you and those around you. If I closed in on myself waiting for these to stop or running to the Imitrex each time I got hit, I would never be able to leave my house, enjoy my children and have a semblance of a life. I refuse to give the beast that much power. Thank you jonny for everything you have done for me. For the courage to know that if these HA continue for 30 years that I can still fight and beat him. Someday I will get a chance to see you face to face. Hopefully you can handle getting a hug form a woman almost as tall as you. [smiley=hug.gif] -Tia |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by forgetfulnot on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:08pm Hmmmmmm, would e-mail be an option for the rest of this? ....................... just asking. ::) Lee |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:09pm on 03/24/04 at 19:08:21, forgetfulnot wrote:
Nah dude...pick a fucking thread.....LOL ......................jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by kissmyglass on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:10pm on 03/24/04 at 14:33:36, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
No Jonny, He means like this....LOL |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Mr.Happy on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:14pm on 03/24/04 at 18:18:05, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Damn, Freddy, yer catching on quick.......even if the Fat Girls Piss off yer Pope...........pity non-reciprocal. As In: This ain't a damned Pity-Fest. It's a reality wake-up call, with the opportunity for meds or meds free protocols. At the very least, it's not boring, even on a slow day. Pick and choose yer battles. Leaving is for whimps. (Shit....I've caught a bad case of "Kim-Speak." More rum......) Pulsing like a candied yam, RJ |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:14pm There ya go Kev ;;D ...............jonny |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by t_h_b on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:21pm on 03/24/04 at 19:14:02, Mr.Happy wrote:
I keep trying not to visualize that. Jonny, you've got PM mail. |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Ree on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:35pm so this is what I am missing... does this freddy guy always delete his posts can someone quote his whole post next time so I can read it???????? sheesh I miss everything.............love to you guys........miss you all please pray for the troops............ ree |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:38pm on 03/24/04 at 23:35:30, Ree wrote:
Will try to if I can catch them on 03/24/04 at 23:35:30, Ree wrote:
Always do hun. How are your sons? -Tia |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Mr.Happy on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:46pm on 03/24/04 at 23:35:30, Ree wrote:
Lent ain't over. You should have picked Wotan. Burn in hell, RJ |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Ree on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:47pm I heard from Scott ... Ti he is way up North and flying missions every day. He says their camp gets attacked alot but its just something they deal with. (He could have left that out) He says not to worry. Ok DUH??? He loves his job and was top in his class. A very seasoned pilot. Sean is in LeJeune deciding whether to deploy sooner to be in country with his bro...or with his guys in Jan 2005... This mom would like one son at a time deployed~~~ thankyou very much for asking about them... I'm laying low...meditating, contemplating and disintergrating.................. just sedate me... thank God I have Breezy she makes me smile............. 10 years old and such a bubble of fun....love ree PS HI HAPPY and no Lent ain't over but I had to check in I have been really good lately... I even went to confession.................. (seriously) and the priest told me it isnt a sin to be angryyyyyyyyyyyyyy so watch out... actually he said its a sin to act on it so you're all pretty safe...............love ree kisses XXOO hugs |
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Title: Re: I apologize Post by Tiannia on Mar 25th, 2004, 12:03am on 03/24/04 at 23:47:18, Ree wrote:
My husband is ex special forces and was over there the first time. And one of my best friends in the world got out of the navy right before all of this start. So everyone over there is very much in my mind and heart. They will be safe. I understand the stress though. I hate to think about what Shaun used to do and he does nto so it any more. Take as many deep breathes as you can handle we are here for you even if it is just a friendly shoulder to lean on. PF Wishes to you and all the Vibes I can spare are yours, it take a lot of strength to do what you are doing. Your boys learned from a good source. Blessed be, Tia |
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