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(Message started by: Miklos on Aug 19^th, 2003, 9:17pm)

Title: Life Sentence
Post by Miklos on Aug 19^th, 2003, 9:17pm

If, in 1965, I had been convicted of a major felony and sentenced to life in prison, I would be eligible for parole this year in most states. However, as I was convicted by an ecclesiastical court whose sentence included such odd concepts as 'love, honor, cherish, obey, ...for better and for worse and ...in sickness and in health,' there is no parole. It's a life sentence, pure and simple. Where did they get this stuff? Why didn't anybody explain the ramifications?

I tried an appeal for an annulment, but the ecclesiastical review board said I had taken advantage of the victim too many times for this to be a justifiable avenue of escape. Damn!

So, without further ado, Mike and Ginny would like to proudly announce their 38th anniversary on August 20th 2003, eighteen of them include my cluster headaches and eight of them include her rheumatoid arthritis. I think we are both extremely patient and excellent supporters for one another as well as magnificent sufferers. Physical misery is truly annoying. I think there are some fellow lifers out there on the CH board who can empathize.

If you would like to send Ginny an e-mail of commiseration, sympathy, condolence or congratulation, please send me a message or e-mail, and I will forward her address.

P.S. How in the hell did SHE get out of the 'obey' clause? I didn't.

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by cootie on Aug 19^th, 2003, 9:25pm

Congrats Miklos and Ginny of yer anniversary not yer pain. Pam that also has a pain contract that sucks along with Brad's

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Charlie on Aug 19^th, 2003, 11:08pm

All I can think of is nice, very nice going.

Clusterheads are a forgiving bunch.

Congratulations kids.

Charlie

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Woobie on Aug 20^th, 2003, 1:52am

OMG - Miklos - we have a lot in common. Ramon has clusters, and I have Rheumatoid Arthritis.. and migraines too ...

So, congrats.. cuz I know EXACTLY the way it goes.. you're in pain.. she's in pain.. you probably butt heads a lot, but love each other more than anything.. like Ramon and I.

Probably a whole cabinet devoted to meds... LOL.. and a whole lot of supporting going on all the time.. eh??

You both steal each others prednisone.. dontcha! LOL. and he dips into my elavil to get some sleep.... and i dip into his imitrex when i get a migraine. LOL.. we share.. that's what marraige is... right???

So, tell me the secret.. cuz we've only been married 8 years.. and we need to get thru the rest. LOL. It does get hard sometimes.. but marraige was never said to be easy...

people say the hardest is the first year.. but i heard a quote from a book the other day that is soooooooo true.

"the hardest year of marriage is the one you're in."...

congratulations!!

Tina

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Miss_Deleny on Aug 20^th, 2003, 7:30am

ConGratuLations! You're an inspiration to the rest of us ;)

~April~

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Lori on Aug 20^th, 2003, 7:35am

Congrats to both of you! It's so nice to hear stories like this. It shows what marriage is all about..committment. God Bless your marriage and I pray for continued strength thru the hard times.

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Deb_L on Aug 20^th, 2003, 8:06am

Happy Anniversary Miklos & Ginny
No more appeals ;) ;) ;)
Your serving a life sentance ;D ;D
ENJOY

Deb L

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Peppermint on Aug 20^th, 2003, 9:13am

Meek, how very clever of you!! I swear I'm not being sarcastic! ;D

Happy Anniversary to you Miklos and Ginny, 38 years is fantastic and a blessing! Congratulations and may you have many more years together.

Pep :)

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Roxy on Aug 20^th, 2003, 10:40am

Congrats Miklos and Ginny! I hope you have many more years together. 38 years together is quite an accomplishment.

Of course....I know she must be a saint to put up with you Mik...... ;)

Hugs,
Tracey

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by BruceD on Aug 20^th, 2003, 10:49am

A hearty congrats to you both. This coming from a fellow lifer, happily serving my "sentence". Here's wishing you guys many more. :D

Take care
BruceD

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by taraann on Aug 20^th, 2003, 11:25am

Happy Anniversary Miklos and Ginny! Are you doing anything special to celebrate?

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by judyw on Aug 20^th, 2003, 12:00pm

:)Wishing you and Ginny many more years on this Life Sentence...Hoping for pfdan to each of you...

judyw

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Karla on Aug 20^th, 2003, 12:41pm

Congradulations Miklos! 38 years is alot to be proud of. May you have many more wonderful years together.

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by maggie_may on Aug 20^th, 2003, 1:12pm

Happy anniversary, Miklos and Ginny! 38 years is wonderful!

Congratulations
maggie

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by firebrix on Aug 20^th, 2003, 3:04pm

Happy Anniversary Miklos and Ginny!
Long Live Love!
firebrix

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by cantstanditanymore on Aug 20^th, 2003, 3:09pm

:) CONGRADULATIONS! WHO DISERVES THE MEDAL?

;D

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by 9erfan on Aug 20^th, 2003, 3:14pm

WOW! Congratulations on this wonderful achievement! Here's to 38 more! :D

Virginia

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by STABBINGPAIN on Aug 20^th, 2003, 3:29pm

Congrads!

The best to you and her . I wish many years filled with joy and endless heart to heart . ;)

Karen/ STABBINGPAIN

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by brad267 on Aug 20^th, 2003, 5:51pm

As my father-in-law would say:

.... 38 wonderful years

She's had 37 and I've had 1. ;D

Congratulations!
-Brad

Title: Re: Life Sentence
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Aug 20^th, 2003, 9:31pm

Sorry I'm late,
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MIKLOS...that poor girl :)
Mast