Clusterheadaches.com Message Board (http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi)
New Message Board Archives >> 2003 Posts >> need prayers
(Message started by: PINKY BABY on Jun 16th, 2003, 11:12pm)

Title: need prayers
Post by PINKY BABY on Jun 16th, 2003, 11:12pm
my mother is probably my biggest leaning post.  she has prayed with me to make the beast back down when he is knocking on my door.  this time she needs my prayer.  she has had 3 abdominal surgery since may 6th.  it looks like she will  have to hve another.  she is at the end of her rope spiritually, emotionally, and physically.  she is blaming herself for my last cycle being a killer.  i have to pack her adominal wound 3 times a day, and she cries sometimes it hurts so bad.
the story of the surgery.
she had cancer when i was a teenager.  she fought the uteran cancer with radiation, and cobalt implant.  well it damaged her body teribbly.  her vaginal cannal sealed shut, and she has since had it rebuilt.  the radiation burned her bowel and bladder, to the point that it lost its elasticity.  there was no way to rebuild her bladder, so they had to remove it.  she had several ab. surgeries from hernieas, and they had to apply mesh to cover the weak spot left from  radiation damage.  now the mesh is keeping her insicion from healing.  they are going to have to go back in and clean out the mesh AGAIN.  she has been off of work since the first of may, and she has no income.  she just remarrie to a wonderful man on newyears eve of 2002.  it is stressing them, but he is tough, and he is by her side no matter what.  they both need your prayers.  please.
pinky

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Edna on Jun 16th, 2003, 11:39pm
Pinky sorry to hear about your mom......consider the prayers you ask for done and wishing her the best in her recovery.

Hang in there you too, wishing you the best so that you can deal with it too.

EDNA

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by BlackDog on Jun 16th, 2003, 11:48pm
You are in my prayers, all three.
PFDAN's soon.
Darren

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jun 17th, 2003, 12:41am
BIG HUGE VIBES going up to your family Pinky,
Take care,
Mast

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by suzy617 on Jun 17th, 2003, 4:07am
Pinky, thoughts and prayers going out to your Mom.

Suzy

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by cbolony on Jun 17th, 2003, 5:38am
Pinky sorry to hear about your Mom prayes and vibes going to you Mom

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by brain_cramps on Jun 17th, 2003, 5:48am
PINKY

I'm so sorry to hear about what your mother is going through.  My father is going through an almost identical situation (cancer, damage from radiation).  I know it isn't easy.  Its tearing me apart inside just like it was when I was seeing the effect on our family a year ago during dad's first 'go-around'.

I can only say I hope everything works out for your mom.

It is things like this that put everything else into perspective.

Thoughts and prayers going your direction,
grant

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by klp on Jun 17th, 2003, 5:49am
my thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Ree on Jun 17th, 2003, 11:20am
Hey Kip!!! nice to see you... you are a legend around here...

Pinky I wanted to send you a more personal prayer from our prayer service here but you chose to hide your email... I will pray for your loved one... and for you too... God Bless   Ree

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Live4Fun on Jun 17th, 2003, 11:23am
Pinky,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. Stay strong!

PFDANs (to you and your Mom)

Bryan

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Karla on Jun 17th, 2003, 7:19pm
I will be praying for you and your mother.  Nobody should have to go through all that.

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by katethecelt on Jun 17th, 2003, 10:32pm
Pinky,

Prayers have been sent.  I'll keep sending them to all of you.  Your mother is lucky to have such a caring daughter.  Please let us know how things go & feel free to vent.  

Hugs, Kate

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by PINKY BABY on Jun 17th, 2003, 11:27pm
great  news from the doctor today.  my mom seen him in his office, and he clipped out some of the mesh.  my mother said it hurt beyond imagination, but it spared her another surgery for now.  thank you too all for your prayers.  i seen my mother smile for the first time today in a very long time.  again, THANKS TO ALL
pinky

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by Callico_Kid on Jun 17th, 2003, 11:38pm
My wife and I just prayed for all three of you, and will continue.  Please keep us posted.  Glad she doesn't have to have another surgery.

jc

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by scotg. on Jun 18th, 2003, 8:46am
Got my prayer comin your way... Good luck..


Scot G..

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by aprilbee on Jun 18th, 2003, 8:55am
You and your family are in my prayers.  

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by ZAIRA on Jun 18th, 2003, 2:40pm

So sorry Pinky :'(... good vibes from Italy  :'(... try to be strong...

Zaira  :'(

Title: Re: need prayers
Post by BruceD on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:01pm
Oh PinkyBaby. I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I will pray for healing and for you both to be pain free.

Take care
BruceD



Clusterheadaches.com Message Board » Powered by YaBB 1 Gold - SP 1.3.1!
YaBB © 2000-2003. All Rights Reserved.