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(Message started by: don on Jun 16th, 2003, 12:32pm)

Title: I have decided that.........................
Post by don on Jun 16th, 2003, 12:32pm
I will no longer respond to any poster who has his/her entire profile blank or hidden.

I dont speak with ghosts, circus midgets, or trolls.


Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Brian_Y on Jun 16th, 2003, 12:57pm
Validation!!!!


Well put...

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Live4Fun on Jun 16th, 2003, 1:06pm
My stuff's not hidden... but I am a troll as well as a circus freak... will you still talk to me???  ;D ;D ;D

P.S. I see dead people...

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Frank on Jun 16th, 2003, 1:43pm
My email address is hidden on this board and on every other board that I visit for a reason... messageboards, guestbooks, and personal webpages are a major source of email addresses for Spammers. I average less than two Spam emails per month and I'd like to keep it that way.

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Brian_Y on Jun 16th, 2003, 2:01pm
Frank,

Are you trying to legitamize your actions with logic and insight?  How dare you....

Commie....

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by suzy617 on Jun 16th, 2003, 2:03pm
Thats not true Don. I saw you yelling at them circus midgets in that van when you were just about to go over the cliff. Dont ya remember? ;D

suzy

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by don on Jun 16th, 2003, 3:43pm
Frank

No email is ok. I can understand that.

You did post your gender though. Or was that preferance?  ;D

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Kasey4 on Jun 16th, 2003, 6:00pm
Oops!!  I haven't gotten around to doing that yet.  I will I promise!!

Till then - I am from SE Michigan; 38 years old (will be 39 next month).  I am happily married and have 4 beautiful children 2 boys and 2 girls, ages 10, 8, 6 and 5 months.  I have had CH for 25 years and I am only grateful that I started cycling 2 months ago rather than when I was still pregnant because that would have sucked with a capital S  (I know because I cycled part of my first pregnancy.  They said I could only take regular tylenol   ::)  Thanks for nothing!!)

There - I think that's more than you'd find out in my profile and more than I know about the rest of you :) :)

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Opus on Jun 16th, 2003, 6:07pm
Frank,
 I have my e-mail here and never get spammed. Just don't put it in your web page without Java protection and if you put it in a post use some variation of username"at"servername"dot"com/net ect

Don,
  Many people seem afraid that we are going to find out where they live by their age and sex and bludgeon them to death. This thread should ease their fears.
Opus/Paul

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 16th, 2003, 6:18pm

on 06/16/03 at 18:07:33, Opus wrote:
Don,
  Many people seem afraid that we are going to find out where they live by there age and sex and bludgeon them to death.


LMAO....Paul ;D

..............................jonny

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Charlie on Jun 16th, 2003, 6:30pm
You mean we're supposed to tell the truth here?  Egad.

In that case, I'm polishing my bludgeon.

Uh....I do that a lot lately :o

Charlie 8)

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Roxy on Jun 16th, 2003, 7:25pm

on 06/16/03 at 14:01:19, Brian_Y wrote:
Frank,

Are you trying to legitamize your actions with logic and insight?  How dare you....


Now we know Frank is left brained.

LMAO Charlie!!

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Marc on Jun 16th, 2003, 8:03pm
Don,

I would suspect that some people tentatively post here at first, then get more comfortable exposing themselves over time (just look at Jonny  ;D )

If they are looking for help - I'm going to offer it if I can. Most of my conversations with Clusterheads occurs via email and phone.  Every email I send has my home, work, and cell phone number on it.

IF someone chooses to remain totally “invisible” in emails to me - THEN I politely back off.

Marc Kurth
(805) 771-8523

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Ree on Jun 16th, 2003, 8:12pm
I wont post to guests either.............nope dont blame you... ree

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Edna on Jun 16th, 2003, 11:59pm
DANG.......charlie, you mean you lied?????  You're not handsome, sexy and 25 yrs. old???

man.....I'm disappointed. You can have him now Linda.


think I don't post my email here, only give it after I've met and know someone.  

If you want it you gotta ask!!!   LOL    ;)

pf wishes all,
EDNA

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jminmilwaukee on Jun 17th, 2003, 7:27am
Wow. Are you all serious?

I will politely say it again. This board has become more of a "club" complete with high school peer group antics.

Really now, if someone needs help and wants to remain anon, what is the big deal? How does this affect you?

Granted it is your choice but geez. Last social gathering I attended there were no name tags, nobody had personal info silk screened on their shirts and I actually me some very good people.

Can't we just all get along or do I need to be pledged into the sorority first?  :-/

To each his own I guess, and no offence indtended but perhaps the "exclusive" group should break off into their own little world and open a members only golf course.  ;D

Jmin

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by nancyann on Jun 17th, 2003, 8:03am
I have to say that I am not on line enough and that I miss out on a lot of good conversation.

Thank you!  I get a lot of good chuckles after the fact!!

Title: I'm me. Who are You?
Post by Mr.Happy on Jun 17th, 2003, 8:39am

on 01/13/03 at 07:48:13, Mr.Happy wrote:
I'm 100% with you on the Email thing. Should be a required field on here. Don't want your primary Email listed? No worries.....get a Hotmail or Yahoo address. Just make sure and check the danged thing. Hidden Emails, unlisted phone numbers, screened calls, drapes closed 24/7...Sheesh! Go move into a cave and pile a bunch of rocks up in the entrance.........


That was from last Jan., when a similiar vein was followed. Seems to me, the whole idea of this place is to make it EASIER to get ahold of one another, not harder. It's kind of nice to know whether you're replying to a man, woman or barnyard fowl, as well if that said entity is within my _decade_ age bracket, and whether they live around the corner, or on another continent. Just my druthers....not that it matters.

(By the bye.......ALL member names/emails are listed and harvestable from the Where We Live pages. Big deal. So what. Who cares.......)

One mans common courtesy is another mans Completely Paranoid Invasion of their Personal Privacy,
RJ

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jminmilwaukee on Jun 17th, 2003, 9:57am
One mans common courtesy is another mans Completely Paranoid Invasion of their Personal Privacy,
RJ


I agree 100%. We should only communicate and assist courtious people. Shy and Paraoid persons are not worthy of our compassion.

The nerve of some people, seeking solice and support without full discloser! :o

What is this world comming to?

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by ZAIRA on Jun 18th, 2003, 2:35pm

on 06/16/03 at 12:32:02, don wrote:
I will no longer respond to any poster who has his/her entire profile blank or hidden.
I dont speak with ghosts, circus midgets, or trolls.


Don, I think like you  ;D but... so many men, so many minds!

There are person who could fear the prejudices of “silly” people; an example: in my profile there is written that I’m Italian, but a person here can’t bear for this reason  :o (and others reasons)!!

It could be very sad for someone to receive such messages!  :'(

Maybe this is one of the reasons of anonymity!

Ciao, Zaira ( from   I t a l y  ;D  ;D )


Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Frank on Jun 18th, 2003, 3:02pm
DJ allows Italian people to post here? ;) Next thing you know, he will start allowing Canadians and Americans in here. This place is worse than I thought.

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by cathy on Jun 18th, 2003, 3:55pm


I have my email address here and I don't get spam... :'(

I think it's just nice when a new poster posts or just logs on to send a welcome message etc...etc...so yes it does miff me when there is no email address, age or even what sex they are.... :-/

don't you just love high school peer group antics....is that the same as secondary school peer group pranks... ::)

Cathy

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by scotg. on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:06pm
Well I hope I am excepted, hold on let me check MY profile... WEW! Yep I'm in... And how come nobody has emailed me???? ;D

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:15pm

on 06/18/03 at 16:06:12, scotg. wrote:
Well I hope I am excepted, hold on let me check MY profile... WEW! Yep I'm in... And how come nobody has emailed me???? ;D


Didnt you get the memo?

I as King say until you have 40 posts under your belt your not considered family which means NO email for you!!, now start posting, Mister!!! ;D

..............................jonny :D

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by scotg. on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:18pm
I'm tryin MAN I'm Tryin  :-[

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by BlackDog on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:21pm
Ohhhh. Look at me. It's 43.
Now its 44!  ;)
Guess I'm on the list now?
Darren - profile; checked.

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Ree on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:26pm
mr jimfrommilwaukee... sorry if I misspelled your name... Sir... We used to have a more informal board.  A board that I might add we all loved very much.  Then some people started signing  other names to insulting posts, and threatening other people and being major league scarey... I myself think that having to have a legitimate(sp?) email is not asking alot.  I for one had been terribly insulted, threatened and was frightened by a man, that has since supposedly died.  How would you feel if tomorrow you signed on to find that someone used your name and insulted people here and actually told someone to take a gun to their head and kill themselves.  Well that is one of the things that the imposter did... we put up with it for a long time then DJ bailed us out by again starting another board and what a fine board it is... I put my self out here for everyone to see no secrets here... I laugh cry and down right hurt for people that I dont even know.  I expect the same from others that want to "belong" to the Message Board.  Here in America we can choose who we will and will not associate with and if Don chooses not to associate because someone choses not to let us know even the remotest detail about themselves in order to help THEM  well then... so be it... I feel the same way and legitamately so... Ree
Zaira I cannot believe anyone would insult you.  You my friend are a beautiful angel... (a beautiful Italian angel that is) PFCozyD&N...love ree

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Charlie on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:29pm
We're glad you're here though and we're waiting until you say something really stupid before filling your inbox with vitriol.

Still, goofballs like Jonny got email right away  :D

Sweet old Charlie

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 18th, 2003, 4:36pm

on 06/18/03 at 16:26:39, Ree wrote:
  I for one had been terribly insulted, threatened and was frightened by a man, that has since supposedly died.  


Ree,

Im not dead....LMMFAO!!!! ;D

BTW: I got self help tapes for the hostas, I keep the tape recorder out there all night and I think it is really helping....LOL ;D

Love to you and Dave, Ree

..................................Goofball :D

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Frank on Jun 18th, 2003, 9:09pm
I NEVER ask whether the person I reply to is heterosexual, gay, bi-sexual, lesbian, black, white, trans-gendered, freeloader on Welfare, Chinese, skin-head, catholic, christian, jewish, aethist, child-molestor*, blond, green-eyed, paroled, drunk-driver school attendee, wife beater, alcoholic, corporate CFO tax cheat, disclosed his/her real or fake email address, age, birthday, real or fake sex, etc...

All that crap isn't relevant to me. If you're really a clusterhead... that is what is important here.

(Edit: except child molestors, rapists, and murderers deserve a lifetime of chronic CH's).

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by don on Jun 18th, 2003, 9:18pm

Quote:
Next thing you know, he will start allowing Canadians and Americans in here


I like you more and more Frank. Pickin a fight with whole countries. Thats Fuckin style!    8)

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jminmilwaukee on Jun 19th, 2003, 3:51am
Ree,

Thank you for the formal response and logical reason behind the email thing. I understand how the board used to be, I have been coming and going since the mid to late 90's (can't remember exactly what year but 96 or 98 seems about right).

I will update my email and insert my spammable address. This is one option for those afraid of spam, keep seperate mail accounts for personal, buisness and spammable. You can open up many accounts on Netscape for instance.

I originally was a little miffed about the whole thing but after reading your reply I can see some true goodness and value to not being so "shy". As for you old timers out there, you may remember my by my real name from years ago, Jeff Centers. Unfortunatly I originally posted under my real name and now when I do a Webferret search using Jeff Centers, it brings up a link directly to a post I made while smack dab in the middle of a cycle!?!?

I still get sh@t about that one (have asked DJ 3 times now to remove my name from that post).

Anyone who knows DJ personally, please ask him to remove that.

Again, I hope I did not come across as bull headed here. After all, clicks groups or loners, we are all here for the same reasons.

Peace,
Jmin

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by ZAIRA on Jun 19th, 2003, 7:37am

on 06/18/03 at 16:26:39, Ree wrote:
Zaira I cannot believe anyone would insult you.  You my friend are a beautiful angel... (a beautiful Italian angel that is) PFCozyD&N...love ree



:'(... Ree... believe it because it is like that...

Love you, Zaira :-/ :-*

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by andy on Jun 19th, 2003, 9:29am
I usually dont reply to empty profiles either. Hidden e-mail is ok, but when you dont know what country they are in or gender or age. Why hide that???            .............andy

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Frank on Jun 19th, 2003, 9:48am

on 06/19/03 at 09:29:48, andy wrote:
I usually dont reply to empty profiles either. Hidden e-mail is ok, but when you dont know what country they are in or gender or age. Why hide that???            .............andy


Maybe they aren't hiding anything? Could just be a newbie who hasn't noticed the "Profile" button at the top. Or someone who didn't think entering a profile to be a priority.

How many here know for certain that my real name is Frank, I am a male, 46, and live on the left coast? Could be some made-up bullshit to hide my true identity.

- George W. Bush

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by brain_cramps on Jun 19th, 2003, 9:59am
George:

You really had us going dair for a while, but da cats outta da bag now.  Dat dair secret is safe wit us.

Jean Chretien        :-X

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Ree on Jun 19th, 2003, 10:18am
Jmin...nahhhhhhh you didnt come across bullheaded... and jonny I was talking about the dead guy from Hawaii... you remember...I cant recall you every threatening me (only with therapy and Dave agrees with you)???? anyole how........ post to who ever you want to peeps and be careful out there... Our virus cop Svenn says there are worms and snakes and snails of every sort just a trying to infultrate our little cyber world... love ya Ree who is praying for Sunshine............http://www.harrythecat.com/graphics/w/sun14.gif

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jun 19th, 2003, 5:22pm
Don, if you think I am gonna show you everything I got on a first date ...................... well, just think again !!!!!!!!!!!

Smooch !!!!!!!!

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 19th, 2003, 5:36pm

on 06/19/03 at 10:18:10, Ree wrote:
... and jonny I was talking about the dead guy from Hawaii... you remember...I cant recall you every threatening me (only with therapy and Dave agrees with you)????  ]


Ree sweetie,

It was a joke, I know who you was talking about....I think I even put him in his place when he screwed with you.

Cant wait to meet youse guys again ;D

.................................jonny (its party time!!!!!)

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by Elaine on Jun 19th, 2003, 5:54pm
Internet safty is important! I don't give out infor about myself any more like I use to. I learned the hard way not to. I have had my share of trouble because of it.

But......you can make emails a hot mail account yahoo account and you can at least tell people your first name. People can do that without having any problems. A little hate mail never hurt anyone, thats why we have a delete button. I use it a lot :-)!! You don't even have to use your address or your real email address nor your real name to open a email with yahoo.

I do answer people I don't know if they email me for help. I do think people who post here if they are on the up and up should post their emails. I don't shun them if they don't but it always leaves a a lot of questions in my mind about if they are for real. I have that question about some that post their email! I am going to eat now!

STFU Don!

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 19th, 2003, 6:03pm

on 06/19/03 at 17:54:33, Elaine wrote:
STFU Don!


ROTFFLMMFYBO!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D

ROCK ON, E!!!! :D

......................................jonny

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by don on Jun 19th, 2003, 7:06pm

Quote:
STFU Don!


Thank you E ! It's been so long since anyone told me that I was ready to delete my profile and never respond to myself again.

Title: Re: I have decided that.........................
Post by jonny on Jun 19th, 2003, 7:08pm

on 06/19/03 at 19:06:24, don wrote:
Thank you E ! It's been so long since anyone told me that I was ready to delete my profile and never respond to myself again.


Now im actually on the floor LMMFYBO!!!!

Way to funny, Don...;D ;D ;D ;D

...............................jonny



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