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(Message started by: brain_cramps on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:10pm)
Title: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related...
Post by brain_cramps on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:10pm
About 18 months ago, my dad (72) was diagnosed with colon cancer.

He spent almost 8 months in the hospital last year and went from 175lbs to 115lbs (damn hospital food  >:()

While going through radiation therapy, someone 'dropped the ball' and basically melted a hole through him.   Afterwards, he was told "You didn't HAVE to take radiation".  One of the Drs even went so far as to say "That should have never happened" but wouldn't take responsibility.   Result:  a colostomy and a lot of unanswered questions.

Since getting out of the hospital last fall, he seemingly made a full recovery and gained back almost all of the weight he lost.

A couple of months ago, he had an additional surgery to deal with complications due to the unexpected results of the radiation therapy.

Today (on their 49th Anniversary), they got the news that they found another tumor, close to the location of the original tumors.  He goes in again for more tests next week.

Last year was really rough on the whole family,  especially my mom who went back and forth to the hospital twice a day for months.  (She hadn't driven for 25 yrs - WOW, was that scary!  :o  ;))

It is news like this that makes EVERYTHING else seem INSIGNIFICANT.

I don't ask for much often, but any prayers for both my dad and mom would be greatly appreciated.

thx for listening,
grant       :(
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by oringkid on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:16pm
I don't pray Grant, but I will certainly send strength, hope and healing thoughts to your whole family.

Sherry
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Not4Hire on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:20pm
you (and yer Mom & Dad) got 'em grant.... hope it helps.... know any lawyers?.... hmmmm
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Post by jonny on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:33pm
I feel for ya bro cause I know, my Dad had a kidney out cause of cancer on a Tuesday and they discharged him on Friday. I had to carry a fraile 70 yr old crying in pain man into his house.

I got you, your Dad and Moms back!!!!!

.................................jonny
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by cootie on Jun 5th, 2003, 6:40pm
Wellist wishes to you and your family Brainy.....Brad's dad was over radiated and got pnemonia so bad and no immune system left 'it killed him' ! It jus plain SUCKS ! Healin good vibes goin out to ya and yours Pam
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Post by 2late on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:04pm
positive vibes on the way bro'     best of luck to you & your family.                                  ...............Jack
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by cbolony on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:06pm
brian prayers and vibes going to your mom and dad
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Post by dellp on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:11pm
You and your family have my prayers for a rapid and complete healing and Peace.

And you have my ear whenever you need it.

God Bless

Dell
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by kim on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:29pm
Grant, sending your family prayers, strength and faith.  Cancer is a viscious thief, and can bring the strongest of folks to their knees....

***kim
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by suzy617 on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:30pm
Grant, Thoughts and prayers going your way. I know how hard it is to deal with when a parent becomes ill. I am going through it now also and it sucks.
I wish you all well and hope your Dad recovers from this. Hang in there and be strong for your Mom.

Suzy
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jun 5th, 2003, 7:36pm
You know I am there.  Every night now, I say a general prayer for all my clusterbuds.  Each time I read a thread that someone needs needs special prayers, well, I bow my head and pray right away.  Prayers going up for you and your family right now.  
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by JDH on Jun 5th, 2003, 8:26pm
Grant,
So sorry to hear the news. We're here for you brother. Try and be strong and be there for your parents.
Thoughts and prayers going out to your family.

Jim
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Ann on Jun 5th, 2003, 8:32pm
Grant,

I'm sorry your parents and you are going through this.  I'll send you and your family positive vibes and hope they help get you all through this.

hugs
Ann
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jun 5th, 2003, 9:34pm
BIG ass vibes going up Grant.
Sorry to hear :(
Mast
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by BruceD on Jun 5th, 2003, 9:36pm
My prayers are heading out for you and your dad. Take care and if you need anything, just holler.

BruceD
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Post by Roxy on Jun 5th, 2003, 9:57pm
Grant, I'm so sorry about the bad news.  Let us know what the test results are......ok?

My thoughts and wishes are with you and your family.

T
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by ShariRae on Jun 5th, 2003, 10:02pm
already done grant..may you & yours find strength  & healing during this difficult time.
Shari
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Charlie on Jun 6th, 2003, 3:32am
I'm here too and as always, madder than hell that this kind of crap exists. Makes no sense to me but you are in my thoughts.

Charlie
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by cathy on Jun 6th, 2003, 3:44am


Grant...prayers and vibes to your parents and you.

Take care.

Cathy
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by juvy on Jun 6th, 2003, 4:08am
I'm sorry to hear this.  my thought and good wishes are with you and your family.

~Juvy
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Svenn on Jun 6th, 2003, 4:19am
prayers and vibes going to your mom and dad

Svenn
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Post by klp on Jun 6th, 2003, 5:30am
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. krista
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by maggie_may on Jun 6th, 2003, 6:59am
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

maggie
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by TomM on Jun 6th, 2003, 7:10am
Grant,
Sorry about the news. Know that I'm thinking of you and your family.
TomM
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by echo on Jun 6th, 2003, 7:18am
Sorry to read about what you and your family are going through.  Lost my dad to cancer 20 years ago.  The radiation is nasty stuff when administerd incorrectly.  They burned the H out of my dad also.  Went from 245 to 112 over a two year curagious battle.

Prayers and vibes are on the way.
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by aprilbee on Jun 6th, 2003, 7:40am
You and your family are in my prayers.  
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by jimbo on Jun 6th, 2003, 7:45am
Prayers on the way Grant for you and your family.

Peace,

Jimbo
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Joanie on Jun 6th, 2003, 8:00am
Grant,

Sorry to hear of your dad's illness.  Prayers going your way for you and your family during this difficult time.

Vent away, that's what we're here for......

Joanie
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by nancyann on Jun 6th, 2003, 8:24am
May all of our prayers be heard.
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by CJohnson on Jun 6th, 2003, 8:27am
Grant,
My father was diagnosed with colon cancer a couple of years ago. Even though the treatments and surgery were successful, we can't help but worry if something is going to come up again. Its a hard thing, and you are right, it puts things in perspective with a quickness.

Good luck to you and your family,

-Curtis
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Peppermint on Jun 6th, 2003, 9:12am
Grant I'm really sorry to hear what's going on with your family.  I can relate, my dad had radiation as he was dying, and it was not by any means helpful.

I know it may not seem like the right time, but get a lawyer, what you went throught is absolutely unacceptable.  

I'll be praying and sending vibes for you and yours.  

Take care,
Pepper
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Miklos on Jun 6th, 2003, 10:11am
God give you the blessings you need. I am sure that you will have the strength to do what must be done.
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Post by CathiP on Jun 6th, 2003, 10:12am
Grant-
It is hard to watch our parents suffer so much. I, too, watched my father deal with colon cancer...he lost. 6 months later, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer....I am happy to tell you, 18 yrs. later, she seems to have won....funny, how I'm always cautious when I say that.
Radiation is very effective in treating certain forms of contained tumors,the good AND the bad news is, it's as good as the technichian performing the treatment- the old "human error" issue.
I hope Dad can get through this, and I will look ofrward to your post next year, where you share with us a pic of your parents' golden anniversary.
Sending vibes for your family....
Cathi
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by brain_cramps on Jun 6th, 2003, 10:34am
Thanks everyone for the thoughts and prayers.

I'm hoping since he was tough/lucky enough to recover last year, he'll do the same again this time.

I'll try to keep everyone posted on his progress.

Thanks.  This means a lot to me, as I'm sure it will to mom and dad when they see it.

grant      :D
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by cerebus on Jun 6th, 2003, 7:46pm
en route to you and yours, many well wishes.
Ramon
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by andy on Jun 6th, 2003, 8:38pm
Grant, sorry about your dad, prayers and vibes being sent north for you and your family                ................andy
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by arby on Jun 7th, 2003, 1:45am
Grant,

These vibes and prayers come from close by - hope they work for you and your family.

Ross
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by Live4Fun on Jun 7th, 2003, 2:13pm
My prayers are going up for your Father and your family, Grant.  -- Bryan
Title: Re: Sorry to vent about something non-CH-related..
Post by katethecelt on Jun 8th, 2003, 6:50pm
Grant,

Warm, healing, thoughts & prayers are on the way to all of you.

Your parents are blessed to have you as a son.

Hugs, Kate  


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