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Title: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:22am
What made my day...

The other day while I was sitting out in the sun  8) , having a beer http://uselessgraphics.com/boozer.gif , watching a hockey game on TV http://uselessgraphics.com/puck2.gif (without freezing my a$$ off http://flamepillar.com/smileice.gif ), the thought that hit me was "Isn't life great?"   This is with possible unemployment and probable bankruptcy around the corner.  (No, this wasn't added in to whine!!!)   Point being, it didn't take much to make my day (probably the same with most of you).

Instead of usually hearing a lot of negative $hit, its always nice to hear the positive.

Another thing that comes to mind right now is the absence of fighting on the board in the last little while.

Anyone else?    Anything happen, big or small, to make your day?

grant  8)



Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by cathy on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:29am

Grant...

You are absolutely right, life is great and I think all the other shit that is thrown at you slides into insignificance when you realise that the gift of life itself is so precious, having recently gone through wes's heart attack with him and to still have him here with me puts everything into perspective.....also today I came home to my dinner on the table, cooked by my 15 year old son....no doubt I'll find out what he wants later...lol :)

Cathy

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by JDH on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:34am
Good post Grant,
Although nothing out of the ordinary happened, it was a good day. I got the grass cut, walked the dogs, did some bbq ing, and like you, watched some hockey. Could've been much worse I guess.
Seems like the older I get, the easier I am to please.
And yes, the infighting has not been missed so......
STAY AWAY MichaelC!  :D
Hope you all have a great pf weekend!
Jim

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by nancyann on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:50am
My husband rode into work with me today (took the hour and a half ride) just to make sure that I did not have any problems with this seizure stroke symptom stuff i'm having.  We just got back from lunch.

It was quite nice.

I'm taking off early to pick up my 2 1/2 year old daughter and tomorrow going to pick up my step son from his moms.  Nothing could be better in such maddness than knowing that everyone is safe in their beds at night and that all of the love under one roof gets you through!!  To all that are suffering I say this

Look at someone you love and heave a sigh to know that you are there to love them. :)
:)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Brian_Y on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:52am
I was playing golf yesterday afternoon and me and one of my boys were sitting in the cart waiting for another person to take their shot.  My friend looked at me while puffing on his cigar and said:

"Where would you rather be right now"?

"Nowhere" I said.

I played terribly yesterday, but that stayed with me all day.

Perspective is everything.

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:55am

on 04/25/03 at 11:52:37, Brian_Y wrote:
"Where would you rather be right now"?

"Nowhere" I said.

I played terribly yesterday, but that stayed with me all day.

See?   That's what I mean, all of you!

It doesn't take much!

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by cathy on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:56am

on 04/25/03 at 11:52:37, Brian_Y wrote:
"Where would you rather be right now"?

"Nowhere" I said.


Im surprised you could be bothered to answer him... ;D  :-*

Cathy

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Bonniegirl on Apr 25th, 2003, 11:57am
Now THAT'S what I call a hockey game!!!!5th OT, I couldn't believe it! :o :o :o :o And they all thought it was over in the 3rd!( I won 5 bucks over that one!) ;D Yes, you are correct. It's the little things that really make me happy. (And a couple of big things can do the trick,too! ;))   PFDAN's for us all!!! :-*-Bonniegirl

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by JDH on Apr 25th, 2003, 12:06pm

on 04/25/03 at 11:57:52, Bonniegirl wrote:
Now THAT'S what I call a hockey game!!!!5th OT, I couldn't believe it! :o :o :o :o And they all thought it was over in the 3rd!
-Bonniegirl


That was quite a game. I couldn't make it past the 4th O.T...had to work today but I thought they might still be playing when I got up this morning the way it was going.
Actually the Ducks won it in the 3rd O.T. so justice prevailed in the end.

Jim

GO DUCKIES!  

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by cootie on Apr 25th, 2003, 12:08pm
The sun is out.....it is warm enuff ta have tha back slidein door open with screen 'n let the fresh air in......cats are laying in the sun in the other room.......put all the pups together ( 8 of em ) and propped there dog door open so now they can go outside for the first time.....sum are leaveing today and this weekend. Fun to watch them play and explore the outside run for the first time....there havein a blast !! I don't have to go anywhere today either and it's Friday !!! Simple pleasures in life are real........Summer in the boonies Pam

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by suzy617 on Apr 25th, 2003, 12:26pm
Life is hectic but running smoothly for me. I'm just glad today is friday. Heading out after work for my usual friday night of coorslite and hanging with friends. Cant wait to kick back and relax.
Yes its true, the older you get, the easier to please.  ;)

Have a great weekend all,
Suzy

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by CathiP on Apr 25th, 2003, 12:44pm
I'm finishing up in the ofc., then, with sun shining, we're taiking off for the coast!! Sunshine, gas in the car and nothing in particular to do.....I have a friend who says it best.....LIFE IS GOOOOOD!
Thanks for reminding us all, Grant!
Suzy, enjoy your happy hour!
JDH- BBQ huh? Cool!
Brian, Bonniegirl, Coots-Yup! I think happiness is inside us!
Nancyann-Good man you've got there!
and CAAATHHHY!- Glad you've got your Wes home-ya big trubblemaker!
To all- CARPE WEEKEND!
8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)
Cathi

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by lirrgirl14 on Apr 25th, 2003, 1:01pm
well my day was made today, when the mortagage company called and said we could go into closeing on tues 29th. yea new house here i come!!!!

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by TomM on Apr 25th, 2003, 1:30pm
Reading this thread made my day!!  :-*

Work is busy but good. The alternative to busy is bad, IMHO.  :)

Don't think I'll get any fishing done this weekend but I have plans for yardwork, housework, networking my home PC's and, best of all, car shopping for da spousal unit. Time to trade in the Miata for something a little bigger and faster. Baby needs a new set of wheels...convertible style!  ;D

Have a wonderful weekend, everyone.

TomM 8) (my futures so bright I gotta wear shades)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 25th, 2003, 1:31pm
Oh, and another thing...    Having someone quote a real-live brain-fart  :-X , and then they're nice enough to take down the post!!!    :-[

whew!!!    

thx  Tracey  ;)  :-*

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by don on Apr 25th, 2003, 1:48pm
Lets put it this way. Willie Nelson called and asked if he could put the last 6 months of my life into lyrics. Would make a top hit country song. Has all the ingrediants.

Know what i say?   FUCK IT !


Piss on yesterday, piss on tommorow. As long as I still have a pulse today I got a fighting chance !


Quote:
This is with possible unemployment and probable bankruptcy around the corner.  (No, this wasn't added in to whine!!!)  



Quit ya whinin !   ;D

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 25th, 2003, 2:31pm

on 04/25/03 at 11:22:35, brain_cramps wrote:
This is with possible unemployment and probable bankruptcy around the corner.  (No, this wasn't added in to whine!!!)



on 04/25/03 at 13:48:28, don wrote:
Quit ya whinin !   ;D


Had to find some way to throw that in  ;)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Woobie on Apr 25th, 2003, 2:56pm
YEAH!

We're buying our first house, and will be moving Tuesday (this is Friday) ..

This is like - well - we just thought we would NEVER be able to  buy a house, and it's scarey, and awesome, and scarey, and I just cant wait to sit on my new deck and drink a beer in the sun.. ya know??  things can't go fast enough and yet, they're going too fast, and  i HATE moving, but I'm glad we're moving.. and I have to paint paint paint, and move and pack and clean and paint, and moving sucks.. but wont have to do it again.. thank god.!

And ... LOL... all the stress has kept the beast away from Ramon for the time being.. WOO HOO.. he's supposed to be in another cycle right now.. so HA HA and Kiss OFF to the BEAST!@   HA HA HA.

anyhow.. yes, Grant, it's sometimes.. just the small things that make life wonderful.  I cant wait to be settled in so I can enjoy small stuff!  cuz this one's pretty big.. for us anyway.  WOO HOO

BTW.. would you guys SLOW DOWN??  with all the schtuff i'm doing, i can't keep up on the board.  I know I missed a lot, and wont be able to get caught up if you guys dont SLOW DOWN!!!... lol

I love you guys!!

Uppidy Bitch..  (thanks Jonny!!)
Tina :-*

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by JDH on Apr 25th, 2003, 3:08pm
Congrats to you Tina & Ramon on the new house!!!
I know what a pain it is to move BUT once you're in you have from now on to get everything how you want it.
Those beers on the deck are gonna taste pretty good once you get settled in.
Keep that stress level up Ramon, it'll keep the beast at bay.
Jim

ps
looking forward to seeing you guys soon  ;)


Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Drk^Angel on Apr 25th, 2003, 4:43pm
Awwwwww... I just wanted to let y'all know that this thread gave me the warm and fuzzies... But then I went to the bathroom, and I'm felling much better now.

PFDAN....................................... Drk^Angel

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by cathy on Apr 25th, 2003, 4:46pm

on 04/25/03 at 16:43:01, Drk^Angel wrote:
I'm felling much better now.

PFDAN....................................... Drk^Angel


Hey Drk you never said you was a lumberjack, do you wear one of them checked shirts...well do ya.. ???  ;D

Cathy

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Drk^Angel on Apr 25th, 2003, 4:53pm
Naw... Don't liked checked shirts... Don't need no shirts with checks on 'em... My luck, they'd bounce anyways...

PFDAN....................................... Drk^Angel

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Not4Hire on Apr 25th, 2003, 5:04pm

Quote:
I'm a lumberjack and I'm OK
I sleep all night and I work all day
    He's a lumberjack and he's OK
    He sleeps all night and he works all day

I cut down trees, I eat my lunch, I go to the lavat'ry
On Wednesdays I go shopping
And have buttered scones for tea
    He cuts down trees...
    He's a lumberjack...

I cut down trees, I skip and jump
I love to press wild flow'rs
I put on women's clothing
And hang around in bars
    He cuts down trees...
    He's a lumberjack...

I cut down trees, I wear high heels
Suspendies and a bra
I wish I'd been a girlie
Just like my dear papa
    He cuts down trees...
    He's a lumberjack...
http://www.stone-dead.asn.au/tv-series/lyrics/lumberjack-song.html

;D

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Woobie on Apr 26th, 2003, 8:54am

on 04/25/03 at 11:22:35, brain_cramps wrote:
What made my day...

Another thing that comes to mind right now is the absence of fighting on the board in the last little while.

grant  8)


OOOPPPS!!

Guess you spoke too Soon.. Grant..   :'(

but the thought was nice.. eh?  

nice thread, btw.  

Tina :-*

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by jonny on Apr 26th, 2003, 10:06am

on 04/25/03 at 14:56:12, Woobie wrote:
We're buying our first house, and will be moving Tuesday (this is Friday) ..


Congrat's on the new house Tina and Ramon. if ever in the Chicago area I know where I can crash for a few days ;D

.......................jonny

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Woobie on Apr 26th, 2003, 6:19pm
You're always welcome.  

When I decorate the quest bedroom.. ... well..
SHEEEEEIIT..   HOW do you want the guest room decorated???  

LOL

Tina   :-*

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by jonny on Apr 26th, 2003, 6:24pm

on 04/26/03 at 18:19:55, Woobie wrote:
  HOW do you want the guest room decorated???  


A bed and ice bucket and im good ;D

...............................jonny

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Woobie on Apr 26th, 2003, 6:34pm
Oh GOOD.. that's easy!  

LOL


Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Callico_Kid on Apr 27th, 2003, 2:49am
Great tread!  So often we overlook the little things that really make life worth while.  Just got done planting thirteen rose bushes.  I haven't had any roses since I moved back up north, thought they were to much hassle with the shorter growing season and the extracare needed, but decided it was time to quit letting the little problem keep me from the enjoyment they can bring.  The change in perspective makes the big difference.  

Congrats to Tina and Ramon on your new house.  Congrats also to Lirrgirl on your new home.  I hope they will be happy for you all.

Grant, we will pray for your job and financial situation.  I know what that is like, and it isn't fun.  Keep your head up.

jc

Title: Have a day
Post by rumplestiltskin on Apr 27th, 2003, 8:03am
"sometimes ya get shown the light in the strangest of places if ya look at it right"....Grateful Dead

I got one of those "yer exactly where yer spossed to be" moments of clarity and acceptance as I interupted my weekend with a harried rush back to work to do something important that I had forgotten which could  adversly effect a lot of people.

The usual "get the hell outta my way" attitude was replaced with one of gratitude. My "faith in a plan that I am not in charge of" tools kicked in. Instead of being caught up in thoughts of guilt for my fogetfulness and disatisfaction with"plans gone wrong"...I was able to take a step back from concentrating on the tiny threads and got a glimpse of the larger tapestry.

Sweet perspective!

I thought of some the folks here who, due to their pain and circumstance, are stuck in a mire of dispair. Heads hung down. Me wanting to bring them comfort. Like how tryin to open a rose before it's bloom time only destroys it, I knew tellin them to "lighten up" might fall on deaf ears.....each in their own time.

Extremely important thread you started here.

2 Clusterheads with the same pain. One stares down a barrel...the other endures with serenity. How are they different?......... Perspective.

Love the one yer with.
Walk in the sunshine.
den




Title: Re: Have a day
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 28th, 2003, 9:15am

on 04/27/03 at 08:03:38, rumplestiltskin wrote:
Extremely important thread you started here.


Thanks, den.



on 04/27/03 at 08:03:38, rumplestiltskin wrote:
2 Clusterheads with the same pain. One stares down a barrel...the other endures with serenity. How are they different?......... Perspective.

kinda puts things into perspective.

grant   8)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by vig on Apr 28th, 2003, 11:02am
There's a serenity and tranquility that comes after the attacks that is way better than what the mortals (non-mutants) experience.

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 29th, 2003, 12:11pm
Today I'm getting to go for lunch with another clusterhead, Arby.   Until now, the only one I've ever met is Margi's Mike.

Should be a blast!!!

grant     8)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by CJohnson on Apr 29th, 2003, 1:47pm
  Friday, golfing with my brother, 150 yard par 3 8th, 7 iron, hole in one. Pure luck. Made my day. Heck, made my year.
-Curtis

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 29th, 2003, 4:17pm

on 04/29/03 at 12:11:38, brain_cramps wrote:
Today I'm getting to go for lunch with another clusterhead, Arby.

Just got back from lunch (almost 3 hours, seemed like 3 minutes  :o ).

Any of you clusterheads that haven't met another one, it is definitely worth it.  I went about 20 yrs before meeting one.   (not a lot around here that I know of)

THANKS ROSS.    IT MADE MY DAY!!!

grant       :D


Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 29th, 2003, 4:20pm

on 04/29/03 at 13:47:59, CJohnson wrote:
hole in one.

That should keep you golfing for another 20 yrs, Curtis    ;)

grant    8)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by arby on Apr 29th, 2003, 10:51pm
Thanks for the kind words Grant.  You made mine too!!

Like Grant said - seemed like three minutes.  First time somebody sat across a table from me and UNDERSTOOD.  I also won't mention that you were drinking Kokanee while I drank coffee!  OOOPS that just slipped out.  Next time I'll be knocking back the Kokanees too!  That's the positive thinking we were talking about.

Oh, by the way, for those who haven't met Grant yet - he's almost, well normal?

Thanks again Grant and anybody who gets a chance to meet another clusterhead -  DO IT ;D ;D

Ross

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on Apr 30th, 2003, 8:36am

on 04/29/03 at 22:51:32, arby wrote:
Oh, by the way, for those who haven't met Grant yet - he's almost, well normal?

ALMOST?  >:(
Not quite sure how to take that one!  ???
(I didn't think any of us were normal  ;))

grant  8)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by arby on Apr 30th, 2003, 10:06pm
Yeah  ya did know how to take it - with that SOH we talked about.  Anyway, I did qualify it with an "almost".;D ;D

Thanks again Grant it was the highlight of my day  :) :)
Ross

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by CJohnson on May 1st, 2003, 1:46pm

on 04/29/03 at 16:20:22, brain_cramps wrote:
That should keep you golfing for another 20 yrs, Curtis    ;)

grant    8)


Actually, I've only been golfing for 2 years, and I have already had my finest moment. Its all downhill from here.
By the way, if Giguere isn't the MVP of this playoffs, I don't know who is.
-Curtis

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on May 1st, 2003, 2:26pm

on 05/01/03 at 13:46:48, CJohnson wrote:
Actually, I've only been golfing for 2 years, and I have already had my finest moment. Its all downhill from here.

A hole-in-one after only golfing for 2 years?  Now I'm really pissed!   >:(   Basically, I gave up after about 10  years.   Now I only golf once every 5 years, need it or not!   ;) (can't really afford it anymore either)


on 05/01/03 at 13:46:48, CJohnson wrote:
By the way, if Giguere isn't the MVP of this playoffs, I don't know who is.

6-1 in his first 7 playoff starts!  :o   1 more win for the Ducks (whatta name  ::) ) and Dallas will be out on the course too.  ;D

grant    8)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by JDH on May 1st, 2003, 3:04pm

on 05/01/03 at 13:46:48, CJohnson wrote:
By the way, if Giguere isn't the MVP of this playoffs, I don't know who is.
-Curtis


MVP? Hell I'd nominate him for the hockey hall of fame!
He's already beaten the dreaded "Big Red Machine" single handedly and now he's about to close the door on Dallas. What a playoff he's had so far.
He's making Ken Dryden look average.

Jim

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by juvy on May 2nd, 2003, 3:52am
hmmm what makes my day.  freshly cooked brownies but as i am all out of brownie mixing stuff, i'm off to the carnival.

Carnivals always cheer me up.


Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on May 6th, 2003, 4:15am
Shit!!!    I thought there would have been a few more people that had a good day  :o

Any body spent 8+ hrs on Greyhound in a blizzard in May?   :o  >:(

grant     ::)

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by Anthem on May 6th, 2003, 5:15am

Quote:
"I was talking to my dog the other day. He said, 'Ya know, life is pretty simple. If it feels good, do it. If it feels bad, stop it. Why do you humans get it so screwed up?'"  Richard Bandler    


Volition is a bitch ain't it? We can actually CHOOSE what we want to focus our attention on. We've all had plenty of practice feeling like shit, but how many of you practice feeling good?

Good thread Grant!

Clark

Title: Re: What made my day...
Post by brain_cramps on May 6th, 2003, 6:59pm

on 05/01/03 at 14:26:51, brain_cramps wrote:
1 more win for the Ducks (whatta name  ::) ) and Dallas will be out on the course too.  ;D

grant    8)





made my day (even with the SNOW and the Greyhound ride  >:()

grant    8)

P.S.  Now if only my Canucks can win...



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