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(Message started by: Brassbear on Feb 3rd, 2003, 5:18pm)

Title: Why we've been away...
Post by Brassbear on Feb 3rd, 2003, 5:18pm
Lot's of things happen in the course of a life, but the last few weeks have been kind of bad.

Mary had to leave her job. He ex-boss developed some serious psycho-social problems. He got paranoid and thougt everybody work for him was trying to make him go out of business. He is in the process of going through a divorce. She is the same size as Mary, same color of hair and eyes and he was taking the divorce out on her. She has a new job that she likes and they like her.

Two weeks ago Mary had an abdominal and pelvic ultrasound done. They found a mass on the uterus. They think it is a fibrotic cyst, but they are afraid it's cancer. Her PAP smear was negative. Tomorrow she goes for blood work, Wednesday she has a CT scan and Friday she goes to a surgeon. Her doctor wants all this done ASAP.

All of this has made my CH take a back seat. The O2 doesn't work all the time and even when it does it will still leave me with a shadow. I've even tried uping the liter flow and staying on for a total of 15 minutes. Thankfully the imitrex works, it just takes time.

I finally got that "ASAP" neuro appointment the doctor wanted me to have two weeks ago. I go Feb 27th. The good news is that I think I'm getting near the end of this cycle. The beast doesn't hit me at appointed times, just randomly, fewer symptoms and not as high a Kip level. Still, every time I think it's gone I get hit again.

On top of that the medical staff that I work with doesn't really belive that I'm even having the CHs and it is making work there very rough. I went to apply for a different job today.

Mary and I would greatly appreciate whatever energy, prayers, whatever you believe in sent in our direction. We've missed talking with you, but we've been a bit busy.

Thanks guys. You are the coolest cats on the planet.

Michael

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by brain_cramps on Feb 3rd, 2003, 5:24pm
Sorry to hear about the other battles in your life right now.  Hang in there... Things WILL get better.

PFDAN,
Grant

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by domm on Feb 3rd, 2003, 5:35pm
Damn Bear - when it rains, it pours. Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.
Hang tough
domm

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by jonny on Feb 3rd, 2003, 6:16pm
Thinking of you and Mary, Bro.

..........................jonny

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Roxy on Feb 3rd, 2003, 6:22pm
Hope everything gets better soon.....thinking of you.

Tracey

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by suzy617 on Feb 3rd, 2003, 6:25pm
Hi Michael,

Here's hoping its just a fibroid they find. Also that you find yourself a great job and that your on your way to being PF real soon.

My thoughts are with you and Mary.

suzy

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by don on Feb 3rd, 2003, 6:44pm
You hang tough brassbear. A brassbear must have brassballs right?

A Ch sufferer putting the pain in the back seat for his partner. Now thats fucking backbone character. Nothing I admire more!

I'll be sending you and Mary some positive vibes bro.

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Slammy on Feb 3rd, 2003, 6:54pm
Thoughts with you and Mary!

Hang tuff, bro!   :D



Slammy  8)

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by cootie on Feb 3rd, 2003, 7:07pm
hopein for the best for you two.....sometimes things seem they are tha worst they can git and then things slowly begin ta pick up....I hope that for you !!! Pam

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by jonny on Feb 3rd, 2003, 7:10pm
HONK!!!!

......................jonny

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by suzy617 on Feb 3rd, 2003, 7:17pm
honk!


its just a little one! ;D

suzy

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Feb 3rd, 2003, 9:59pm
Vibes going out to you and Mary, Michael.
Take care,
Mast

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Peppermint on Feb 3rd, 2003, 10:12pm
Vibes and prayers going up and out to you... I hope things get better soon.
Hang in there !!!

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by cootie on Feb 3rd, 2003, 10:46pm
honk....honk....honk..........cracked me up when I read the HONK'S......everone needs a laugh once ina while.......Pam  ;D

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by firebrix on Feb 3rd, 2003, 11:08pm
Our thoughts are with you and Mary, Brassbear.
firebrix and Mopar

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Charlie on Feb 4th, 2003, 12:08am
Ya never get a break.......maybe you will now that you know we're here for ya.  Vent away.

Charlie

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by NotH20 on Feb 4th, 2003, 10:06am
Brass - sending out good vibes for you and your family......keep the faith.

Mia (no honk, but maybe some day....)

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by cathy on Feb 4th, 2003, 10:13am


Brassbear and Mary sorry your having a rough ride...good vibes and thoughts coming your way...hang in there.. :)

Cathy

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by echo on Feb 4th, 2003, 10:22am
Sorry to read you and Mary are going down a rough path.  Hang tough.  I will keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Margi on Feb 4th, 2003, 10:23am
Michael and Mary, our thoughts and prayers are with you through your bumpy ride.  Mary will be fine and sail through this as we all know she can.  Sounds like you're a wonderful team, the two of you, and we hope you know that we're all here for you both if you need a soft place to land.
Keep us posted, ok?
Hugs,

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by ShariRae on Feb 4th, 2003, 10:35pm
You are both in my thoughts and prayers...
huggs
Shari

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by Ann on Feb 6th, 2003, 9:13am
I must be the "Glass is half full" type, cause I read that your cycle is almost over and that you're seeing the neuro soon.  To me that is good news.  As for Marie, remain optomistic.  I have a very close friend going through the same thing and she is only 33.  She's been through the whole test thing and it is definately fibroids.  The surgeon has put off surgery for now since she has stopped hemmoraging.  So hang tough, be strong and things will work out for the best!  I'm sending you guys all the postive vibes I've got!

hugs
Ann

Title: Re: Why we've been away...
Post by nancyc on Feb 6th, 2003, 1:09pm
Prayers going up for you both...smiles,nancyc



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