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(Message started by: Jackie on Oct 25^th, 2002, 5:33pm)

Title: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Jackie on Oct 25^th, 2002, 5:33pm

I know you all are concerned about Elaine and her family. I also know that she appreciates all your thoughts and prayers.

E. is on her way to Tennessee to be with her daughter. The services for the baby will be tomorrow.

This is very hard on her. We can only imagine how hard.
Elaine is a strong woman. She has had to be to make it this far. E. is also a very spiritual woman and that will help her through the difficult days ahead. My friend, Elaine, is a survivor and she will survive this too. Her heart is broken but she will endure.

Please keep her and her family in your thoughts and prayers.

Jackie

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by jonny on Oct 25^th, 2002, 5:42pm

One does not have to walk a boardwalk at sunset with this woman like I did to know that she will get through this.

E, you have all my numbers, call me when you get back.....im always here for you!!!

........................jonny

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 25^th, 2002, 5:55pm

Always Jackie!
Thanks so much for being such a great friend.
Mast

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Margi on Oct 25^th, 2002, 8:11pm

Way to go, Jackie - that was really nice of you to do this for Elaine...

And, you're absolutely right, Jonny - if anyone amongst us could get through something like this, it will be our Elaine.

She's stronger than that damn Energizer Rabbit!! I've seen those new commercials, the ones that are computerized, and that rabbit just morphs out of things he powers... like in Terminator, same technology. Elaine's like that. She'll sit quiet for awhile and then, suddenly, out of nowhere - there she is, bangin her drum with a big smile on her face, making everything all right again.

They're a strong family, the Hollomans. They'll get through this. I talked to her this morning on the phone, and she's gonna be ok. Helluva weekend to get through, but she'll shine like we all know she can.

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 25^th, 2002, 10:09pm

Yes jackie, she will survive, as only Elaine can. I wish she could pass along some of her wisdom of how to do this onto others.

Elaine, you are loved and cared about so very much. Hang onto that when it gets real bad, O.K.? Linda

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Jimi on Oct 25^th, 2002, 10:55pm

It seems it never ends sometime. I will be praying for you and your family, Elaine. To the rest of you, hi guys.

Title: Re: Thnk you All!!!
Post by Elaine on Oct 26^th, 2002, 9:14pm

I am home and I am OK!!!! It was a hard thing for me. Flowers were beautiful..Thanks to all who send Flowers.

It was the first time I had seen Megan at peace, she was no long struggling. She was smiling I had never seen her smile. She looked just like a Angel. Megan is good hands now.

I guess Linda the way I can handle this and all my other pit falls is I try so hard to only remember the good things. I try real hard to learn from the bad. I have learned that onces yesterday is gone its gone, there is not one thing that can be done to change yesterday, but we can sure change today and tomorrow.

I cried all week end and could not find a lot to smile about. Tonight I am smiling because I know she is in no more pain.

Magan was taken from our arms but not from our hearts!!!

Thank you all for your support , your emails, post and Flowers. You guys are special I love ya'll!!!

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by BobG on Oct 26^th, 2002, 9:23pm

Thanks for letting us know you're OK.

Megan is an Angel now. She is at the right hand of God waiting for your family to join her in the distant future.

And she will be the most beautiful Angel in heaven.

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by kim on Oct 26^th, 2002, 9:54pm

You are home safe and sound and found that smile...... :)

Get some rest. Life will reinvent itself over and over Elaine. It is up to us all to decide to hold on by our thumbs!

Well wishes.
Kim

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by ave on Oct 27^th, 2002, 2:40pm

Jackie, thanks for keeping us informed.

Elaine, what I said in the e-mail.

Thinking of you.

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by NotH20 on Oct 28^th, 2002, 9:14am

Jackie - You're such a good friend! :)

Elaine - I'll say it again - give us a call - we'd love to have dinner with you. Maybe you could use a few hours of "goofy time" with us to take your mind off things....

You are in our hearts,
Mia & Barb

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by nancyc on Oct 28^th, 2002, 12:05pm

Elaine, i just got home and saw your post...my prayers are with you and your family...God bless you , sis...smiles, nancyc

Title: Re: To Elaine's friends......
Post by Donna on Oct 28^th, 2002, 12:48pm

When I grow up, I want to be just like Elaine. (Sure, she's about 20 years younger than me..some people just never grow up)

Elaine was put on this earth for a very special reason..maybe it was to show us that faith can hold you up..that you don't blame God for your sorrows and suffering because He is not the cause of it.

Thanks for reminding us, Elaine.

We all love you so much.